>>126758This has always been the case. Even young moids will date older just to get laid. But once they got money and able to attract girls his age or younger, he’ll try and wife them up.
>>126768Yes even grandmas on tinder will have more options then moids. It’s always the short term but marriage good luck.
But there’s a lot of cope without self reflection. Maybe it wasn’t love bombing. Maybe it’s emotional labour and caretaker burnout then emotionally they check out. He can date someone half his age or twice his age. But it only takes a couple years for a fallout to happen in most relationships. We’re very comfortable with the dating hook up culture where if it’s too stressful suddenly it’s easier to break up then learning to endure or change to adapt to each others needs. But overall you deserve what you pull. Your partner is a reflection of you in some way or form. Do you see each other as human? Are you inheritly selfish and lazy? Did you feel you gave too much with little in reciprocation. Nothing wrong with transactional relationships as it’s more fair vs seeming to be more of a taker in the relationship.
But overall moids that want to marry. They know they have to work harder to get the young girls attention. If he’s dating casually without marriage he won’t care about age nor will he care about making it work as he’ll move on. The young girl he marries he has a lot to lose.
