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Need some help here kind ladies Anonymous 126788

I come from a very conservative, backwards ass country where women don't have many rights, and are expected to be highly subservient and covered up. Now I'm going to soon get married away to a girl which my parents have chosen. She will be coming to stay with me in Canada. She has always been pressured by her family and relatives to study all her life, not do any sports, stay covered and be a conservative housewife to a guy like me. Now I personally don't give a fuck about our shitty ass backwards islamic culture myself, and there's nobody here to enforce those rules here in the West, so I would really like her to open up, and be a confident normal woman, for her own good, maybe even get a job if she likes. To that end, I would really like to usher her into martial arts, I kinda want her to train muay thai kickboxing, because I've been doing that for a year now and feel pretty confident because of it, there's a lot of girls in our gym too, so I guess she'll feel safe, and our coach is a legit professional so no untoward incidents towards any females have happened in our gym.
How do I go about this?

Anonymous 126789

If she's so demure and obedient can't you just command her to do it

Anonymous 126790

>>126789
Yeah I suppose I could just tell her to, but I'm not sure if she's that obedient, have interacted very briefly with her. I would really like her to join me in martial arts and then take an interest in it and use it to stay fit and lean

Anonymous 126791

it's not about obedience but her learning skills she never had the opportunity to learn.

ever heard of girls radically changing in a new environment? that's cause they learn the behavior from other girls, or it could be people in general I guess.

some mental issues may mess with this process so keep that in mind. (she'll just need more support)



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