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I'm planning on blackmailing my ex Anonymous 127315

I started dating my TA in university right after I got my mental health in line. However, the more he used me to translate his stupid papers into English, and the less attention he gave me, I spiraled more and more. We broke up after the rumors of us being together started spreading. I ended up homeless and failing a year because I couldn't handle the breakup. Moreover, I was pregnant with his child at one point as well. A couple of days ago, I took him for sushi (his demand) for my birthday and that douchebag started flirting with another girl right after we were done. I attempted to kill myself the same night and he did nothing to stop me from doing so. The thing is,I can't concentrate on my studies because I associate my field of study with him now, and I'm so codependent on him. So I plan on giving him an ultimatum-either we get back together or I will jump off the 5th floor of our university building after I type out a mail to all the journals he published the works I translated for him in exposing how I had been used and uncredited, as well as after I write a suicide note exposing our toxic relationship and power disbalance, playing a victim, making 100 copies and placing them all over the uni before I kill myself. Will the plan work? If it doesn't, will my suicide at least cause him to get kicked out of the uni and to lose all possible job opportunities?

Anonymous 127316

nah send it out to everyone as emails dump the papers in your dorms and wait to do anything to yourself until they arrive. make them stop you and let them take you to the hospital. you need legal and provable financial and emotional damages. at that point the consequences will actually matter. he’ll have to pay for your hospitalization and if it happens on campus he will be suspended while they investigate and lose his whole degree and chance to get another one. don’t hurt yourself.

Anonymous 127317

>>127315
>We broke up after the rumors of us being together started spreading.
what retarded reason to break up is this?

Anonymous 127318

don’t try to get him back and ruin it for yourself. go for the kill.

Anonymous 127320

>>127316
Interesting idea. However, I don't know whether that kind of maneuver would work in the shithole of a country from where I come from.

Anonymous 127321

>>127317
He likes to keep me walking on the eggshells. I'm surprised that we even lasted that long (6 months) as he has so many arbitrary demands. The moment I start annoying him, he threatens me with smearing my reputation at uni

Anonymous 127322

>I attempted to kill myself the same night and he did nothing to stop me from doing so
what makes you think it's gonna work again then

Anonymous 127323

>>127322
it straight up won’t you’ll be solving his problem for him

Anonymous 127326

>>127323
Hopefully it will work by implicating him into my suicide and threatening his further education/career by doing so. Before, I was pretending I was completely okay with him and that my mental health had nothing to do with him being an asshat to me

Anonymous 127327

it doesnt sound like youve gotten your mental health in line

Anonymous 127328

>>127315
>attempted to kill myself the same night and he did nothing to stop me
How did you survive?

Anonymous 127329

>>127326
>threatening his further education/career by doing so
But what if it doesn't? I don't think your plan goes far enough, you need to actually testify against him.

Anonymous 127330

>>127315
Am I missing something or are you planning an overly complicated revenge plot to get back together with a guy who abandoned you after getting you knocked up and flirted with someone else in front of you? It'd probably be easier to find some other guy to date who won't do all this shit.

Anonymous 127334

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>>127315
I get that feeling of absolute hate.
I sometimes wish I had the skill and nerve to pull a Uramiya tier revenge scheme on someone, but the person I hate the most moved to who knows where before I found out what he did. He raped my best friend multiple times and I wish there was something I could do to ensure he won't do it to anyone else. My friend wants to leave it in the past but I'm still so mad on her behalf…
I'll respect her wishes but damn, this sucks.

Anonymous 127336

>>127320
If it won't work while you're alive, it'll work even less when you're dead.
Unless your plan involves framing him for murder, suicide just isn't a good way to get back at anyone. There are better ways to take revenge.
You want to get back at him, right? You despise that piece of shit? Then don't hurt yourself like that, live your best life and if you must, at least find a way to get back at him that elevates you above him. You can't do that if you're 6 feet under…
You deserve a good life without obsessing over some human waste of a moid and you can regain your pride without having to tear him down first.
But if you reaally want to tear him down (he 100% deserves it), don't do it in the heat of the moment and work out something that won't bite you in the ass later.
If you plan on exposing him, you could try to get some legal advice if you think it might help.
>>127316
Fpbp but yeah, it'll depend on the country.

Anonymous 127338

he is just going to say you took out the trash for him and they’ll look through your stuff and see you just wanted him back. you need to become more successful and then come back and cancel him for what he actually did to you. not lies.


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