Anonymous 127505
Anyone else struggling with conversations?
>Everything feels transactional
>Job interview. When they just ask questions they're not even interested in because they're forcing themselves to make a conversation
>Hard to stay on a topic if you don't know anything about it or they don't know anything about it
>Making an effort for people who don't care anyway. You're basically just entertainment for them until they get bored and find someone new
>People only care about themselves and their own interests. If you talk about your life or your own interests, they tune out
>Supporting them but they don't support you
>They change the topic to whatever they're interested in and you have to talk about that otherwise the relationship stops
>They don't really make an effort or remember anything about you
>They moan and whine to you about how depressed and miserable they are to you. You try to support and be there for them, or try to be positive, but they don't want that. They don't even ask how your day is going. They're just so used to you being there for them that you're like their own personal toilet
>When they randomly start sexting
>When they use you as their own personal therapist or complain about ex-girlfriends because they're more interested in those girls than you
>If you try to share something about your own life, they might make it about themselves and put the focus on them, because they don't care or want to know about what you're saying. But you are expected to care bouw
>You try to be invested in their life and be there for them, but they never do it for you
>People ghost you when they get bored because they want novelty and excitement
>There's a lot of 'I want' and appealing to them and it comes across as demanding and selfish as if you are their slave
>They don't actually care about you, they just like what you do for them
>You start to see that people just use each other
