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Anonymous 127778

Why am I feeling like I am never good enough?

I feel like I have to be more fun, more entertaining, more spontaneous, more unexpected and having new material or else he might stop talking to me and find someone else.

Anonymous 127779

>>127778
It is a moids obligation to entertain the girl he fancies, not the other way around

Anonymous 127780

>>12s7779
It should be mutual or things are asymmetrical and d00med

Anonymous 127781

You can be perfect and they'll still talk to other girls behind your back. To a moid variety of women and the novelty high from talking to a new woman is more important than bonding with a single woman

Anonymous 127782

>>127781
Disgusting moid behavior.

Anonymous 127787

>>127778
Just accept that there will always be better people than you and your life will become good. Are you good enough to get the life you can enjoy is the only question, who care if someone else get better things?

Anonymous 127834

>>127779
you are retarded.

Anonymous 127847

>I have to be more fun, more entertaining, more spontaneous, more unexpected and having new material or else he might stop talking to me and find someone else.
What next, are you going to be worried you are not big and tall enough? That your dick isn't big enough? This is how a man thinks. You have mentally trooned out.

Anonymous 127854

>>127847
wrong and rude for zero reason, women look for faults within themselves more often

anyway OP I saw this short by Dr K that reminded me of you, but I can't find it for some reason.
This type of feeling can emerge if you feel you pushed yourself to be as perfect as possible to get him, so now it always feels like an uphill battle where you have to keep that image. Is this familiar?

Anonymous 127861

>>127854
Not her but I think we are starting to see an inversion of gender roles. I expect to see feelings like hers to become more commonplace.

Anonymous 127862

>>127861
never been exactly gendered or rare to begin with

Anonymous 127863

>>127778
Oh hey, are you me from 2 years ago? Going to therapy really helped me to make a big mindset shift in that regard

Anonymous 127873

>>127861
This is a very real part of the female experience and has been forever. I think it’s really strange you’re pretending it isn’t

Anonymous 127878

>>127873
I was referring more to the part where she is wasting her time trying to entertain for uninterested moid's attention.



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