he texted me and i feel bad about it lol Anonymous 127817
a couple months ago i posted about the guy i like getting engaged to her long term gf and that i felt bad about it because in my perception he is(was?) a good guy.
but a couple days ago he texted me, we didn’t spoke to each other since he got with his gf btw, we kind of updated each other about our lives until the topic about partners showed up because he asked. i didn’t want to go there but he did.
i told him i’m single and that past certain age is difficult to meet people in an organic way, then he told me he didn’t find difficult to me to find someone because he used to like me lol
he then went about a lot of details about situations that we lived when we were younger, about how he always found me pretty and with a nice personality but he didn’t thought he was my type at all.
he remarked that all those feelings were in the past, but that he felt better letting me know because he had seen me improve in general and was proud about it.
idk why i feel bad about the whole situation, like i had taken part in a conversation that shouldn’t have happened because if i was his gf i would feel horrible if i find out the guy i’m engaged to reached out to his past crush of years ago just to tell her that. idk i just needed to put this somewhere
Anonymous 127825
get rid of tha ho and find you some mo
Anonymous 127836
Meh, if he didn't ask to meet or anything he's just letting that "storyline" of his life end. I think it's healthy
Anonymous 127846
Wtf is old feelings going to do for you nona??? This guy kinda seems like a pos cause how tf was him confessing to old feelings suppose to make you feel better? Two words- it doesn't. He's selfish and is probably keeping you in the backburner jic the engagement doesn't work out.
Either move on or file him as option 4 or 6 in your reverse harem.
Anonymous 127855
he was making his night before the wedding calls. he got cold feet and wants to monkey branch to you.
Anonymous 127856
>>127846exactly this i don’t know how anyone could think this was innocent or platonic. you should send his gf the screenshots and say you think he’s doing that cold feet right before you walk the aisle thing and for her to run. any man that does this is just going to end up cheating and leaving anyways. save her before she’s legally trapped or pregnant.
Anonymous 127879
okay so after days of processing the conversation i do see how he’s trying to keep me around in case it doesn’t work with his gf, which sucks, either way, im absolutely not telling his gf about it, im not getting shit in my hands, and ik that’s not very women supporting women on my behalf, but i don’t have the guts. i’m just gonna unfollow him and remove him from my followers
Anonymous 127887
>>127879Yea if he wants to close the door, close it!
