/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Gonna start with this one:
>neither party is a stupid faggot with an unbridled need for validation or status points
This type of person sees relationships as an object to further others' opinion of them which is pathetic at best, harmful at worst
Moids have this very often, they are dependent on women for their social status, it's worse if he has some shitty friend group that he is dependent on

>>127870
her not being a selfish little fuck

the woman has to be protective of herself and looking out for her own best interests. all men want is sex. if they expect a child, they prove they are a provider or it’s the next in line. it is that simply. if you can’t court me and show you can care for me without ulterior motives and resentment at the beginning of the relationship, you are not someone who can be trusted when finances are combined and my child and i will die when i am too pregnant and too injured afterwards to care for myself alone. it’s literal survival. if he doesn’t court you, just keep telling the next ones what he was like and that’s not how it works for you. they’ll eventually start stepping up. if they think you will tolerate being treated as low quality that’s how they will view you.

>>127876
>and i will die when i am too pregnant
Everyone knows to get pregnant only a little bit, some take it too far, but it's something we as society must learn to deal with, if we are to keep this traditional pastime.

>>127870
Lately I'm convinced a relationship with a moid is nearly impossible. I say nearly because I don't want to go too extreme but honestly I think pretty much impossible.
So a healthy and good relationship with genuine love firstly starts between two women. Furthermore I can't say anything universal, as it always depends between people, but good communication is a MUST and I think similar views too. And obviously respect for eachother.

>>127870
romantic love isn’t real in general. especially not between a man and a woman. no man is capable of loving anyone but himself

>>127898
First of all, I'm only speaking about women since this is forum is meant for girls/women. And I can't really say much for moids but I'd assume a good relationship for them would start with moid+moid as well.
Again: I said 'starts'. If you weren't such a retard without reading comprehension skills you might've understood that. I'm not saying its an end all be all.