/feels/ - Advice & Venting

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Anonymous 12/23/25 (Tue) 06:33:45 AM127882

Anyone else not enjoy "normal things" and try to look for more meaningful and heavy hitting things?

>No alcohol or drinking
>No drugs, no smoking, no vapes
>No masturbating or vibrators
>No night clubs
>No shopping addiction
>No social media and sharing stories that nobody cares about anyway
>No desire for a boyfriend that won't support or be there for you when you need it anyway
>No desire for friends that only want to complain to you

Having independence and peace is good, too.

Anonymous 12/23/25 (Tue) 02:40:58 PM127888

what have you won by rejecting these things? what new paths opened for you?

Anonymous 12/23/25 (Tue) 03:29:37 PM127889

>>127888
inner peace it sounds like

Anonymous 12/23/25 (Tue) 07:17:24 PM127890

>>127889
well sure mate but how is yous all spending your time

Anonymous 12/23/25 (Tue) 09:39:40 PM127892

>>127882
There is a term for that: anhedonia
It is often present in patents with depression and schizophrenia, but can also manifest by itself.

Anonymous 12/23/25 (Tue) 10:52:04 PM127894

>>127882
Lately i've been on a similar journey with a friend of mine. I'm not sure if it's the same, because i do experience a certain contentness with ie smoking a cigarette, but I'm not sure if it categorizes as pleasure. But for me it's because I overanalyze things and recognize how they don't truly give me pleasure/happiness, which is why i've stopped finding reasons to bring up any energy for them.

The only friend I do enjoy is the one that has similar views as me and we talk to each other and it always feels very enlightning. Furthermore I only engage in behaviors that actually stimulate the soul, reading meaningful books for example.

My ultimate goal is also independence and peace. I ideally would like to ghost everyone I know.