/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>127903
i dont really care, what is there to 'discuss'?

>have no interest in being sexual with any of my partners
That's called having friends.

>>127904

Theres tons we could've discussed if you were more receptive to the idea. My standards were low but your response seems to lack imagination and a willingness to express yourself beyond indifference. It is what it is.


>>127910

Yanno, I thought so too but like….. friends dont hold hands or kiss or go on dates. Its…. something else. Like a limbo of intimacy without the need to go beyond the bedpost. Following this train of thought, there are some degenerates who believe you can still fuck and still be friends; while i dont believe that train of thought i also never thought id be open to trying polyamory. Its been interesting so far.

Schizo thread.

you just need genuine friendships.
Don't fall for degenerate dynamics

>>127912
Wow, how strange of you to assume all this! Sorry, I'm not gonna give you your validation. Nobody cares whether youre straight in a monogamous or queer in a polyamorous relationship. Get a life.

Furthermore, you provided 0 information about this relationship besides it being polyamorous, so it's not like theres much to ask about anyway.

>>127903
I mean if they have money maybe it's okay..
Really what you should have is a roster and not need to commit to them or just get friends. Your body is valuable, don't give it away for free.

i don’t understand what opinion are you looking for? like, you seem fine, you want us to congratulate you or judge your asexual connections? there’s nothing to discuss here. enjoy it ig

>>127913
>>127914
This

>>127918
Made this thread to gather opinions and maybe shoot the shit on what most would consider an alternative lifestyle since i noticed there was a lack of a poly thread. You don't need to give me validation, just don't be an asshole :|

>>127927
Basically the same as up top, minus the asshole part

>>127919
Realest comment in this thread so far. Half of them do and half of them don't. I'm trying to be logical but the heart is a fickle creature sometimes.

>>127991
I don't get your lifestyle but I do find people who take personal offense to random threads like this amusing

Not inherently bad. People associate poly with lots of different things but to some it means not entertaining additional relationships besides 2 people you're dating or not dating someone who's seeing a different number of partners than you are. However it seems to overlap with a particularly uncomfy kind of "queer" person who has very poor sense of boundaries and often couches it in manipulative therapy language, or faux rad ~sexual liberation~, whatever else. Manipulation occurs in all kinds of relationships of course but there's a specific character about polyamorous manipulators that makes me uniquely uncomfortable.

>>128001

Yanno, I can completely see where you're coming from with that.

I read less then half of The 48 laws of Power a lil before starting my poly relationship(s?) too…. while the book made me feel icky reading it, I think it also helped me navigate my recent relationships in a more machiavellian and domineering way… tho I cannot for the life of me tell you by heart half of the "rules" I read lol