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Is it bad to be skinny fat? Anonymous 127971
Boyfriend keeps calling me fat and disgusting even though I'm only 28 pounds overweight. Picrel accurately describes what my body currently looks like right now. I'm basically skinny fat but because he's a short skinny manlet he thinks he can talk any type of way to me and calls me fat and disgusting and it only makes me feel more depressed and want to eat even more. The truth is, before I started dating my current BF this year, I got broken up with this really hot skinny guy that I was seeing and he was like the guy of my dreams. I only settled for my current BF now because the previous guy broke my heart real bad. If I really gave a fuck I could be a skinny sexy bombshell Stacy if I wanted to. I've always been pretty and I already used to be underweight in my early 20's, but I simply stopped giving a fuck about my appearance because even when I was a skinny healthy Stacy I still attracted the most disgusting human sludge ugly male bastards known to existence. It was truly a black pill and made me realize that no matter how pretty and skinny I was, I still attract ugly bastards meanwhile other Stacies could attract actual Chads here simply because they're whiter than I am. It's because my hometown is shit and only ugly weirdos want to come to me with my darker skin color and appearance. I'm just glad that I'm not as far gone as my other friend who looks almost like me, she ended up becoming morbidly obese and trooning out on top of that. I keep telling my boyfriend (we're long distance) that eating my feelings is not as bad as how my other friends turned out but he still doesn't listen to me and only accuses me of being fat and disgusting and stealing away his chance of getting with actual "Stacy me". Well sucks for him because the more he talks shit to me like this the more I'm just gonna eat my feelings. Oh well.
Anonymous 127972
>Boyfriend keeps calling me fat and disgusting even though I'm only 28 pounds overweight.
tell him to stop
Anonymous 127973
>>127972you don't think I've tried that already?
Anonymous 127974
why are you with a guy that calls you fat and sisgusting? Are you retarded or you just hate yourself that much?
Anonymous 127975
28 pounds overweight is a lot. But it sounds like you have way worse problems going on. If your boyfriend is making you feel like shit, leave him. Especially if it's long distance. If yoy're not going to lose weight, find someone who's happy with how you are. Or lose the weight and kerp your current boyfriend.
Anonymous 127977
>>127973no, it's just that it's a good action to take before starting to dump him
Anonymous 127981
>>127974Agreed she definitely needs to respect herself more and dump his sorry ass. Having beauty standards is one thing, but there's no excuse for being a tactless abusive prick.
OP you should also lose the weight and more importantly lose the eating habit because exercising is a better and much healthier coping mechanism to anything than eating which only makes every aspect of your life worse. As for the people in your town there's nothing you can do about that if you're not willing to move out, maybe you could filter out people more strictly, which will btf feel way easier after you lose the weight trust me.
And don't ever feel bad about your skin I myself prefer darker skin tones and plenty others do.
Anonymous 127986
>>127981I just don't understand why you would be with someone who doesn't compliment you every day, let alone insults you.
Anonymous 127987
It's interesting seeing all these replies but you nonas keep glossing over the crucial point: even if I dropped all the weight and went full Stacy mode again, I'd still only be attracting human sludge monsters in my town because that's the only sort of men that want to approach me here. And moving isn't financially within my budget right now. I've given up on all of life
Anonymous 127989
>>127987the problem is, the longer you tolerate this bullshit the bigger toll it's gonna keep taking on you. it's a death by thousand cuts.
I'm sorry you feel trapped and no, I don't think there's something wrong with you inherently that would only attract evil moids like this.
he probably knows you're trapped and that's why he acts this way, my bf acted the same until I just straight up said I'm leaving lmao.
btw your moid is probably pathetic, childish and thinks he can do whatever he wants and you're just gonna take it. do you have parents or relatives willing to house you?
Anonymous 127994
>>127987You only have one life and you choose to spend it on tolerating human sludge monsters
Maybe get out of the "It's better to be with a troglodyte than to be alone" mindset
Anonymous 127997
>>127987You gotta get your bread up Nona. You should want better for yourself and your progeny
Anonymous 128002
>>127997Okay well how do you go about doing that? No one is telling me how, that's the problem. How is it my fault that only ugly bastards want to approach me and my darker skin while all my whiter friends are getting Chads while barely lifting a finger? I've tried everything, even tried presenting myself as more white and still worthless low value men are the only ones ever to approach me. So at this point I just stay a NEET and inside of my house away from people
Anonymous 128008
>>128002Try moving to a slavic country, you'll get plenty of white men. Warning, they're all disgusting faggots
Anonymous 128047
>>128002Ok you got me there but here's what I think you should do-
Learn to pick up a book and go into a stem field. Preferably IT Work cause you can just get certifications to get into the field but whatever sings to your soul. You seem like a young twenty something Nona so you should have no problem getting scholarships or grants that want poc women into the field. Learn how to do research. You might also have to consider going into college. You said it yourself, no Chad is going to save you. You have to be the one to save yourself… you and that beautiful brain of yours can go places. Places that don't have you relying on men to wash your ass for you. Ya just gotta believe in yourself
Anonymous 128048
>>128002>>128047Idk if it counts as a stem field but nursing is also a good job to get into. It does require you to have empathy for others and you gotta be on your feet for long periods of times so if both of those seem off-putting to you, don't even bother with that industry.
That's just my two cents though, any Nonas with high paying jobs online rn? Help me fine tune this shit….
And I stg none of you better say onlyfans
Anonymous 128170
>>127971>If I really gave a fuck I could be a skinny sexy bombshell Stacy if I wanted to.Then do it? Just count calories. went from 180 to 162 in 3 months with zero exercise, just counting calories.
Anonymous 128176
>>127987Youre probably just not as good looking as you think you are. Or just live in a really shitty neighborhood
Anonymous 128211
black-silhouette-w…
>>128176I am pretty good looking. I've even had other drop dead gorgeous Stacies either compliment the heck out of me, flirt with me, or even try to get in my pants, so that pretty much confirms it kek. So it's pretty much just the shitty neighborhood part
Anonymous 128212
Btw overall update to this thread from OP herself:
I've officially started a new weight loss journey for 2026 after being back stabbed by friend group so badly that they triggered childhood trauma. My anxiety has been through the roof and I have barely been eating anything, but I guess I see this as a plus as well because I'm finally shedding pounds again? I just lost 5 pounds over this past week, hope to be losing more soon
Anonymous 128225
>>127971Or you could just dump the shitstain and have some self respect for once op. Learn to be alone and actually enjoy your life. This is being a beggar. Begging shitstains for anything is shameful.
Anonymous 128226
>>128212You haven't actually lost 5 pounds in a week. Thats 3500 calories of deficit for each pound.
Instead, since you're dieting, your salt content, water retention and empty intestine are doing that. 4 of those pounds will bounce back immediately. Be ready for that "devastating" blow once you break your diet.
Anonymous 128227
>>128212Try water fasting. Guarenteed results.
Anonymous 128246
OP please don’t do some stupid shit like water fasting because some people told you to on an image board for a random moid. You might not notice the physical consequences for this now, but you’re going to blow up and get thinner if you keep doing this and you’re going to wind up with loose skin or worse. As you continue to deprive your body it will do all it can to regain weight the second you return to any kind of normalcy.
If you really want to lose weight for yourself get a hobby like Pilates, or cycling or something rather than developing an eating disorder and live-blogging it for us. Also as you lose weight you will realize nobody really gives a shit you’re “skinny fat” unless you’re in an appearance based career. 30 pounds overweight seriously isn’t a lot. Moids hate women and your ugly discord bf is going to find some other insecurity to hurt you with, especially because he knows it works. You seem to have some real image issues and I hope you get help for this in a healthy way. Genuinely ask yourself why you are so willing to change yourself to the point of depriving yourself of basic nutrients for male approval. If you want to get fit for yourself that’s great, and I suggest it, but it really doesn’t seem that way.
Anonymous 128247
>>128246not to mention, fasting can lead to iron deficiency
Anonymous 128250
>>128048Nursing definitely sounds like a good option. Not for me, but I volunteered at a hospital at some point and I liked it.
Find something that suits you.
>>128212Ugh. doesn't sound like a good method for me, I would recommend a healthy diet and regular exercise, otherwise you'd just be bullying your body.
Anonymous 128251
>>128247u cant water fast out of nowhere
the day before a water fast theres gotta be iron and potassium rich foods like bananas and spinach before u try it. think the first day of a water fast is easy, the second is hard, the third gets easier again but i myself havent gone beyond a fourth (ate on the fourth)
dont think water fasting is THE way but its A way just bit radical. trying alone cant hurt just dont be afraid to quit if its getting too much. but dont overwork urself during it tho!
Anonymous 128272
>>128251>water fastingthe way you y'all talk about starving yourselves is frying me idk what else to say lol.
Anonymous 128273
>>128251So what's the point of water fasting if the day before you're just gonna… eat enough for another day ahead?
Sounds silly tbh, like, fasting never madesense to me. I guess for some people, it feels like a sport or a hobby. But i you want to lose weight and not gain it back reducing daily calorie intake seems more viable
Anonymous 128274
>>128251>>128273Butalso… spinach as iron source is not very great, spinach has oxalates which hinders iron absorption plus a bunch of other vitamins/minerals, that's not counting in the fact that nonheme iron is poorly absorbed to begin with.
So you're better off eating a steak, with fruits like oranges to help absorption
