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Is it bad to be skinny fat? Anonymous 127971

Boyfriend keeps calling me fat and disgusting even though I'm only 28 pounds overweight. Picrel accurately describes what my body currently looks like right now. I'm basically skinny fat but because he's a short skinny manlet he thinks he can talk any type of way to me and calls me fat and disgusting and it only makes me feel more depressed and want to eat even more. The truth is, before I started dating my current BF this year, I got broken up with this really hot skinny guy that I was seeing and he was like the guy of my dreams. I only settled for my current BF now because the previous guy broke my heart real bad. If I really gave a fuck I could be a skinny sexy bombshell Stacy if I wanted to. I've always been pretty and I already used to be underweight in my early 20's, but I simply stopped giving a fuck about my appearance because even when I was a skinny healthy Stacy I still attracted the most disgusting human sludge ugly male bastards known to existence. It was truly a black pill and made me realize that no matter how pretty and skinny I was, I still attract ugly bastards meanwhile other Stacies could attract actual Chads here simply because they're whiter than I am. It's because my hometown is shit and only ugly weirdos want to come to me with my darker skin color and appearance. I'm just glad that I'm not as far gone as my other friend who looks almost like me, she ended up becoming morbidly obese and trooning out on top of that. I keep telling my boyfriend (we're long distance) that eating my feelings is not as bad as how my other friends turned out but he still doesn't listen to me and only accuses me of being fat and disgusting and stealing away his chance of getting with actual "Stacy me". Well sucks for him because the more he talks shit to me like this the more I'm just gonna eat my feelings. Oh well.

Anonymous 127972

>Boyfriend keeps calling me fat and disgusting even though I'm only 28 pounds overweight.
tell him to stop

Anonymous 127973

>>127972
you don't think I've tried that already?

Anonymous 127974

why are you with a guy that calls you fat and sisgusting? Are you retarded or you just hate yourself that much?

Anonymous 127975

28 pounds overweight is a lot. But it sounds like you have way worse problems going on. If your boyfriend is making you feel like shit, leave him. Especially if it's long distance. If yoy're not going to lose weight, find someone who's happy with how you are. Or lose the weight and kerp your current boyfriend.

Anonymous 127977

>>127973
no, it's just that it's a good action to take before starting to dump him

Anonymous 127981

>>127974

Agreed she definitely needs to respect herself more and dump his sorry ass. Having beauty standards is one thing, but there's no excuse for being a tactless abusive prick.
OP you should also lose the weight and more importantly lose the eating habit because exercising is a better and much healthier coping mechanism to anything than eating which only makes every aspect of your life worse. As for the people in your town there's nothing you can do about that if you're not willing to move out, maybe you could filter out people more strictly, which will btf feel way easier after you lose the weight trust me.
And don't ever feel bad about your skin I myself prefer darker skin tones and plenty others do.


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