Anonymous 128011
My boyfriend is on a trip to visit his best friend. Idk if should be worried cause they're female (gender fluid. I don't care about what you think about stuff like that so please don't make all the replies about that one detail.) they have been friends for a long, LONG time. I don't even know how long really. He describes her as like a sister to him
The only reason I'm not really worried is because my boyfriend is damn near asexual. It took a lot of time before he would even be willing to kiss me. He has only dated one other person, and even then he didn't sleep with that person. Any sort of physical affection takes time for him because he's the nervous sort of guy. He's only dates in the hopes of marriage and stated before we even started talking that he doesn't even need sex to feel fulfilled in a relationship.
The only reason I worry is because any man can cheat, even the seemingly good ones. I just don't wanna be one of those girls that thinks their boyfriend is different just to get fucked over, but I truly think he is better than most. I'm just worried it could all be an act.
Anonymous 128014
wow honestly i'm slightly jealous because if i'd only date a moid if he were borderline asexual like this and I wasn't sure those even existed..
But on topic, I don't think you need to be worried. It sounds like he is just visiting a friend, and with what you told it sounds unlikely he would even be interested in engaging in activities that are considered "cheating"
I do have to say, if you're worried it's always well to communicate issues with him. Or don't be afraid to text or call him and ask what he's been up to.
How long have u been together? I just kinda wonder how long he could keep the 'act', it sounds unlikely. Because if he doesn't even want sex in a/your relationship, it's not really an act.. unless gay
Anonymous 128015
What if their gender fluids are leaking out all platonic like?
Anonymous 128016
>my boyfriend is damn near asexual
I'd check his phone, he might jsut be spending all his libido on porn and has no interest in real sex
Anonymous 128017
>>128015this is gold. really needed this laugh tonight. thanks nona!
Anonymous 128033
>>128011You can't account for everything in a relationship. The best course of action here is to assume good faith or go with him to meet her so you can decide for yourself if they seem romantically attached onesided or otherwise.
Anonymous 128037
My question is why even be with a moid who’s asexual? What even is the point?
