/feels/ - Advice & Venting

As a 28 F who recently had to become friendless after being backstabbed and bullied out of a friend group, I can tell you firsthand just how toxic female friend groups can be. Being in one feels like being stuck in a vacuum with others who are narcissistic, Cluster B, male centered, delusional, cry-bully fake inconsiderate pieces of shit where the only fulfillment they can ever really get out of each other is to make enemies and fake alliances within the group on a rotational weekly basis. One minute one girl in the group hates another girl and needs you as their "safe friend", the next day she and that girl are total soul mates and now you are their number one public enemy that they'll snicker at and constantly talk shit about behind your back. I used to consider myself a Proud TERF and Radfem, but now I can only consider myself gender critical at this point because I don't even want the feminist label, women's behavior has disgusted me so much I don't even want to be associated with a movement that uplifts other women anymore. I've even seen the most religiously radfem and TERF discord servers totally crumple to ashes over the most juvenile puerile woman to woman bickering that boils down to nothing more than schoolyard insults the likes of what teenage girls would think of. All of this to say women have a long way to go in terms of social improvement and we don't do anything to help ourselves being this completely fucking stupid and bitchy towards one another. How are we gonna ever expect moids to respect us when we can't even respect one another without some childish bullshit?

>>128772
Once a feminist - always a feminist, you can try to hide it, but people will find out and you will carry that stigma for the rest of your life.

25F and also currently have no friends, but it's mostly because I refuse to get close to people after toxic friendships, especially with women. My last female friend literally left me because I tried to kill myself after being sexually assaulted. She was always pretty weird about the assault to begin with, weird about the grooming of one of her other friends too. Generally speaking, women will side with moids, and this chick was even gay. I woke up to her not wanting to be my friend on the hospital bed. I shit you not. I was looking out the window kind of hopeful, looking at the sun and the feeling of hope faded in me so fucking fast like you wouldn't believe. Sometimes you really are better off alone. I am truly happier without friends like this.

>>128772
This is the reason why so many women who others deem a 'pick me' befriend men over women. I can say from my personal experience nearly every female friend i've had has treated me like i'm profoundly retarded, or like i had some kind of disease. Like i wasn't even human to these girls. Men aren't the greatest but at least they'll be honest with you if they think you're fat, ugly, retarded, etc.

My ex's best friend tried to hit on me, a classic female move

Every time I've had other women as friends they've been back stabbing me, probably because I'm a woman with aspergers (I got diagnosed when that was still a thing)… Anyways, I'd rather be lonely even if it sucks than have friends who talk shit about me behind my back and make me feel alone anyways

It takes one psychopath in a friend group to turn all the normies against you.

>>128841
fascinating, but how about trolls?

>>128842
Immoral and emotional

Lots of hypocrisy, people that care more about status symbol rather than their friends happiness.
Lets say your friend has some grievances with her bf, not toxic shit but just some annoyances, the so called "friend" will say dump him immediately.
She doesn't care about the long term happiness of her friend thou, she just wants her to dump the guy because guy.

>>128856
This shithole examplefies it nicely

>>128856
And to add on top of that, this female friend of yours all along is waiting on the sidelines and shouting , encouraging you to break up with your boyfriend to leave you all alone. Only for the friend to use it to her advantage to bring along her own boyfriend and rub their relationship in your face while you're at your lowest point. It's all about dark triad and her having the most power in your friendship dynamic.