Does anyone have a fear of never finding love? Anonymous 128837
It's fine if I never find love or die alone. It's not a fear for me because life is life and I have my books, my cats, and my friends. But sometimes, maybe it's hormones or basic human fears, but I worry that never finding love will prove something about myself, like I am unworthy or a repellent of any sort of love. Around my period these feels worsen as is natural, but sometimes there is a hole in my belly from that fear and I can't let it go and I get anxious.
Anonymous 128891
>>128837Yeah, I also feel this way. The thought of living my whole life without ever experiencing it because it's kind of plastered all over the media, in books, movies, music, even irl people place such importance on it that if you miss out on it you might feel like there's something wrong with you or you're unworthy or something. But honestly I think most people live without ever finding actual love in general. Most relationships seem to be just out of convenience or hierarchies or shallow shit. Or maybe I'm just trying to rationalize it idk. I mean even if you try to be realistic about it it's still a scary feeling. But at the end of the day I feel like most people feel this way deep down. Its a very human feeling I think
Anonymous 128945
this summarizes my feelings perfectly
Anonymous 128954
Same, nona. I think I've resigned myself to the fact that I'll be alone, because I'm afraid of being broken again after several failed attempts, and I believe that genuine love is hard to find these days.
Anonymous 128955
It's pretty much certain at thi point real love isn't possible, only infatuation. Most men and a lot of women can't commit to one person for too long, are afraid of emotional availability and responsibility. People want a lifetime long honeymoon phase where you can also see other people and your partner won't be mad about it.
Anonymous 129196
No, because i love myself and got used to being my own best friend. Find love within yourself, spread kindness, and youll glow with joy that will attract good people. Also i cut off crappy people out of my life since i dont have time or energy for dumb kid drama
