/feels/ - I feel like my boyfriend is trying to avoid seeing me

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I feel like my boyfriend is trying to avoid seeing me Anonymous 02/12/26 (Thu) 05:59:06 PM128839

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a about 3 months but we've only seen each other 2 times within 2 months.
I want to meet every weekend but my boyfriend says he can't meet as much because he needs to study and he says he wants to reward us both with meeting when we've done a good job studying.
The problem is that I work really hard studying but it seems like he doesn't even try and then he tells me that we'll meet when he's catched up on everything.
I haven't told him it hurts my feelings but it really does because I feel like he doesn't want to see me at all when he doesn't even do his school work.
It feels like he's trying to avoid seeing me and it really hurts.
How do I stop feeling hurt by this? Or do I just tell him I am and that I'd rather meet even if he hasn't done anything?

Anonymous 02/12/26 (Thu) 08:44:32 PM128843

Don't waste your time on someone that don't meet you with reciprocity.

Don't explain yourself, just walk.

Anonymous 02/12/26 (Thu) 08:55:04 PM128844

>>128843
I don't want to, but it feels like he doesn't even like me back, he's told me before that I like him more
Writing this all down makes me realize I've been acting kinda desperate and pathetic

Anonymous 02/12/26 (Thu) 09:17:38 PM128846

>>128844
It's ok to want love.

He is not very interested or he is an avoidant, either way it's better to just walk and find someone who meets you.

And I will tell you a little secret about attraction: Whatever quality you like in him is actually a projection of yourself; qualities you have that you project onto this external person.

Look for that in yourself and you will find it easier to walk.

Anonymous 02/13/26 (Fri) 07:30:06 AM128850

>>128846
Thank you, you're so sweet, I needed to hear that