/feels/ - Advice & Venting

These people (like in the image) don't want solutions, they just want a sounding board to feel like they are the center of the universe and that everything except them are the problem why they are feeling low. My autistic ass thinks solutions but when I try to give it to them, they get angry. Sometimes I try to talk about myself in an attempt to demonstrate that everyone goes through their problems and they accuse of making everything about myself. I can never win.

Fuck moids. If he can't handle his own emotions, dump 'em

I love advocating for moids opening up about mental healths, because it shifts power dynamics and control back to me

Stuff like this makes me wonder the context of her reply. I would never talk to my boyfriend like this. It makes me wonder if he did something fucked up then tried shifting focus to his own feelings, like many emotional manipulators do.

>>129217
I find that most of the time when people complain about issues in their life, they want validation or a "rubber ducky" to bounce off ideas and to get things out of their head, aka venting.

So usually I just say "damn that sucks" or the like and listen to them.

>>129225
It might be the case, but it might just be what I stated before, and not thinking about her view or how she thinks. Kinda shitty to make a post online about this and not talk to her in a mature manner but that isn't really uncommon in most current relationships.

>>129224
Ding ding ding. More women need to figure this one out.

if they are my chums i will listen to a moid be sad chungus but if the moid whinges about how women won't shag him or he blames women for his problems I simply chortle and go on with my merry day
also it's rather gay how most if not all deep revelations and deep sadnesses expressed by y chromies is shit that i and my female peers have clocked when we were like 8

I've always had good experiences because I don't compartmentalise men and women as different much. I have had male friends my whole life so I know how to interact with them and what is hurtful. I will also say they are times they (men in general) shared other feelings beside sadness and I was like hell no.