Moid rant Anonymous 131476
Why can't guys be consistent?
I haven't had a lot of relationships but the two I had ended on the same thing, guys act a certain way at first and once they have you they slowly stop doing the small gestures, the romance, the flirting, the effort, they stop being as compassionate and understanding. They slowly become meaner and ruder.
You will eventually find yourself having to discuss with them the fact that they aren't acting the same way, I don't believe there is a man out there that can keep consistent without being told to do so. Either that; or, they just tell you you're being dramatic and that they haven't changed.
What is the scientific or psychological reason for this besides selfishness? Who are they fooling and do they really think we are that stupid to think that "nothing has changed"?…
Anonymous 131477
>>131476The scientific reason is when they met you dopamine flooded their brain every time they were with you so it was easy to do nice things and be romantic. after a while the novelty wears off and there is less dopamine so it's like watching a movie you have already seen 500 times and you just want to be done with it.
a mature man knows that doing genuinely nice things and serving they ones they love will bring them joy, even if it doesn't seem like it will.
also porn has rotted men's brains so good luck finding a good one.
