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are women meaner or nicer when you look good? Anonymous 131767

Since I've moved to a big city I've had this problem where I'll be minding my business in a grocery store and some crackhead middleaged woman will try and start a fight with me. It happens a few times a year. I never instigate, I always keep to myself and stay far away from people. They'll throw insults usually, but last week a woman tried hitting me with her cart.

I always look like a bum when I go grocery shopping. My friend suggested I dress up when I shop so that these women will feel inferior and leave me the fuck alone. Does that work? I thought they'd get jealous and the opposite would happen.

Idk. Let me know what you guys have experienced.

Anonymous 131768

Idk I always look like a schizo and usually only schizos don't avoid me

Anonymous 131770

>>131767
I'm not blaming you but have you considered you might be blocking the path through the isle causing frustration to these elderly women?

Anonymous 131771

sometimes being an autistic woman feels like such a blessing cause i could not even imagine entertaining a conversation like this

Anonymous 131772

>>131771
So how would you respond to the old woman calling you a bitch?

Anonymous 131773

>>131770
I'm not. I have spatial awareness and am courteous. I just live in a ghetto ass city. You have no idea how bad it gets.

Anonymous 131774

>>131773
I assure you I'm accutely aware of how uncomfortable things can get in the inner city. I suggest you simply pay these elderly women no mind and afford them as wide a berth as possible.

Anonymous 131775

>>131773
there's your answer then. cracked out city. why did your mind go to looks??

Anonymous 131776

tbf I think the discussion on how to not look like a vulnerable victim is a worthy one, especially in a ghetto
there was this one picture about which looks are the likeliest and least likely to get chikan'd in Japan, can't find it now

Anonymous 131777

>>131776
the only "valid" way to not look like a vulnerable victim is to be a male with stereotypically threatening aura, every other discussion on that is either a thinly veiled excuse to victim blame or will devolve into that sooner or later

Anonymous 131778


Anonymous 131780

>>131777
I don't care because I hate these dumb violent bitches and want to stunt on them

Anonymous 131781

>>131780
It's true. Once you show up to the market with your lip gloss poppin and the outfit slayinggg, the older women will immediately kneel and call you Queen. I've seen it 14 times

Anonymous 131782

>>131781
If you don't understand what OP means by wanting physically violent women to stay away from her you might be retarded

Anonymous 131783

>>131782
Oh would you relax? I find the premise a little funny is all. As if people who want to be mean are calculating how pretty you are before hurling obscenities

Anonymous 131784

Nothing in your examples suggests these women are comparing themselves to you. If anything, it sounds like you’re the one who is preoccupied with looks and social comparison and projecting that onto random strangers.

Anonymous 131789

>>131768
I'm trying to schizo max, any tips?

Anonymous 131791

>>131789
be unkempt, spaced out, behave and dress oddly, doing crack would generally help too i think

Anonymous 131793

>>131778
Yes. /thread

Anonymous 131794


Anonymous 131807

You probably seem harmless and kind, and that type of thug really likes to hit on women. If you dress better, they might think you have more money and want to ask you for more things; the best thing to do is walk around with a serious face, homeless people and drug addicts like to intimidate people who seem excessively kind.

Anonymous 131809

>>131808
No milf for canadians

Anonymous 131826

>>131772
Nod and walk away.



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