Anonymous 132317
help i don’t know if this is the wrong place to ask this or if this is gross and tmi but like i genuinely dont know if this normal
so everytime i masturbate by penetration i pee… is that fucking normal ive looked everywhere and it said that it’s just squirting but i don’t know if it’s actually that and i’m fucking scared that if i get boyfriend and we have sex i’ll fucking piss on him
Anonymous 132319
Yes—this can be normal.
During penetration or strong arousal, the muscles that control urination can relax, and pressure from the movement can stimulate the bladder. Some people also notice a little urine (or “leakage”) especially with deeper penetration, certain positions, a full bladder, or intense stimulation.
What helps:
Try peeing beforehand.
Use a position that gives you more control over depth/pressure (or stop and adjust if you feel it happening).
Place a towel on the area to reduce stress.
If you do pelvic floor exercises (Kegels), many people find they reduce leakage over time.
When to get checked:
Burning/pain, strong urgency, foul-smelling urine, blood, fever (possible infection).
Wetting that happens often even when you’re not aroused or pressure is minimal.
Trouble holding urine, or new leakage after a change (e.g., childbirth, surgery).
