/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>132744
>where did you meet him
4chan thread
>Do you think he’s attracted to you?
Maybe, not initially, possibly over time. Don't think I was his type.
>Or do you think he’s using you?
Idk 4chan moids are pretty desperate, probably just didn't want to be lonely.
> If you’re insecure, what made you feel like he actually liked you? Like what did he do?
Seemed interested in making the relationship work, was pretty patient.

>>132745
Aww that's adorable. CC girl and 4chan boy sitting in a tree. K-I-S-S-I-N-G!

>>132747
Don't ruin this charming moment for me

>>132746
Not so adorable, we met irl but it didn't work out, still miss them. Not e-dating either surprisingly, not very good at making friends online.

>>132764
I'm sure you'll find someone. There are billions of fish in the sea

>>132769
Maybe he didn't want her after seeing her appearance or something. You don't even have details

>>132768
It was my first relationship, and I actually had hangups with his relationship history.
He was a weird fucking womanizing, coomer simp, based cunnypilled lolifag kind larping as a sensitive misunderstood incel while keeping a roster of e-girls to maxminize irl efficiency or some shit. Aside from that, pretty decent Samaritan. Can't really stand staying in a relationship that only exists because it didn't work out with the pretty e-girls.
The relationship definitely could've worked out, but I don't think I can hold in my seething resentment long enough to not bash his head in somewhere down the line.
>>132772
Whats wrong with wanting a relationship with someone who is your best friend and you'll actually enjoy life together, other than the probability being highly unlikely to downright impossible to the point of celibacy.

>>132774
Marriage isn't about being beat friends. "enjoy the rest of your life with" oh… well clearly not though, hmm. Because it didn't work out. And it won't whe you keep looking for a BOY FRIEND instead of a husband. Boyfriend is a new term from the mid 1800s and it really shows the beginning of the decline of understanding relationships.

But it's already too late for you guys, you just don't get it and never will. So desperate for this new age form of marriage.

>>132775
Seems better to give up on moids altogether we're fundamentally incompatible and cannot get along much less relate to them.

>>132784
I don't understand why jannies permabanned me, but the ragebaiting shizo babble moid gets free rein.

>>132775
Pray tell what is the point of marriage other than to find someone you can enjoy life with? Is your goal to raise a bunch of crotch goblins in a loveless existence based on, at best, grown familiarity and lack of contempt?

>>132799
Any 'obligation' existed only because marriage used to be a contractual obligation between a groom(er) and the father of a bride, when a young woman or even, tragically, a girl would be sold in exchange for material goods or some other benefit, while having next to none input in the matter.

Nowadays it is not like that and 'obligation' exists only in extra rich families who wish to be like nobility so they will incest their way out anyway; or in shitholes, but even there this backwards way of doing things is disappearing because they aborted too many girls. Thinking it's 'supposed' to be like that is moid way of thought and therefore is nonsense.

>>132813
>a girl would be sold
You are confusing slave trade with marriage.
Traditionally the opposite was true, bride's father or bride herself would pay a dowry to groom as a condition for the marriage to happen.

>>132816
Just kill yourself at this point, no person can be this desperate and retarded I can't imagine how pathethic your life must be

>>132815
A dowry is a woman's inheritance that's supposed to be a safety net for her and her alone, but seeing as you right there define it as something that is "paid to a groom" is a proof that it quickly got devalued into something simply stolen by a groom(er) and his family, and also currently exists only in shitholes, thus proving my initial point even further. I can't confuse synonyms.

>>132828
Yes :) everyone on CC

>>132830
Now now don't be mean. We're all family here

I wanna see Turk forced to lick Russian girl pussy. Have sex, I wanna see it.

>>132833
Turk can be… rather eccentric but she means well.

I was working as a TA while doing my Masters and he was studying for his second undergrad in one of my labs. I don't think there was ever one thing he did to convince me he wasn't using me, but I think I realised it after he camped out for a week while I was managing a work placement out in the middle of no where, just so we could be together during my breaks and time off. He knew he'd only get to see me for a few hours a day and he wasn't getting any sex, but it was more important to him to just be with me. I never thought he was actually attracted me for the first 6 months or so of our relationship, because I'm pretty hideous, but I think it was just the comments he made about things I did and how they made him feel toward me. I'd had drunk guys try to fuck me, thinking I'd be grateful, but no one had ever actually been able to bring themselves to desire me, instead of a piece of my body.

>>132875
What a charming story. See? Not every guy is bad