/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>133796
Yes, and it's more due to the cognitive drain than the actual tasks being difficult. A man generally only has to think about work during work, while women have to have a constant awareness and logging of item locations, tasks, and when they need to be done by.

No, I don't know any woman that doesn't have to work.

If she stays home is because she either works remotely or can't find anything consistent so has to pick up whatever short term work she can find.

>>133796
It used to be. Now she has to carry all that stuff AND the work brick.

>>133796
I went straight from cleaning houses for a living to being a stay-at-home mom and it'd take a gun to my head to go back. As long as I do 50% of the child-rearing and match the rate at which the house gets dirty with the rate at which I clean, I can take almost an entire week off at a time and I won't hear a complaint from anyone except other moms, killing themselves with stress, who seethe at me for taking shortcuts and not living up to their self-imposed standards.

Just don't have children and it's not that bad.

I still do more than my bf because his job is a non-job and he spends half the day gaming but I like staying at home. Laundry and cleaning takes up a tiny amount of the day. Same for cooking, even if it's something that needs to be cooked all day. We do the shopping together, we handle our own finances separately, and our own appointments separately.

I think what stresses me out the most is when he gets stressed. There's a term or phrase for it but he vents to me and then I end up carrying that weight for a while.

>>133801
I tried looking for work for about a year after graduating and my bf just doesn't care that I've stopped.

yes,but also if you don't live in Afghanistan or something you can just not have kids and marry a man. Makes it way easier.

>>133804
He must be working in IT like me..that's not a non-job, silly lady. We have tickets to resolve, or crucial bugs to fix. When there's no issues, you can sleep even during the day, but when issues arise, you can spend days troubleshooting software bugs. I've worked 16 hour days along with clients to get things sorted.

>>133808
The internet is serious business

>>133808
I respect his job and I do know that he's very busy when something does happen but most of the time he's not very busy.

And that's okay with me. We even play games together in between my chores at home.

im not a mom so idk but I voted yes because fuck moids