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if you just mean you self-insert in yaoi, personally I don’t get why anyone would read it and NOT self-insert. but apparently most people don’t, which is weird to me.

>>4053
i never thought of trannyism while looking at that sort of stuff but i self insert as the man fucking the shota

>>4446
I self insert as the man in straight shit kek

>>4053
i don't self insert in bl only in netorare where i'm the bull

>>4456
now that is fascinating. you self-insert as female in every other genre or do you just take an observer role? what other genres do you like?

>>4460
nah, i exclusively self insert when i'm trying to nut
with the exception being yuri where the ideal kind of coupling is a girl who resembles me in either personality or appearance and a girl who's my type
i like bl a lot but i only really take an observer role

>>4052
I've had this before and suspect most fujos have this. As do most ftms.

>>4579
I did an informal survey of fujos and most don’t self-insert. which is fucking weird to me but there you go. I don’t really understand the appeal of titillation without self-insertion, it feels very softcore to me which is not what I’m about.

for me it’s more like I can just mentally shapeshift into anything if I like the larger narrative scene I’m immersed in, rather than specifically getting off on being a prettyboy. the genderbending aspect is enjoyable but also kind of incidental, not really something I’d be interested in by itself.

I feel like I have some form of this brought on by the fact that I've read and enjoyed too much harem-shit and yaoi.

I have no intention of becoming a tranny or anything, but when I masturbate or fantazie it's almost always from a male persepective.

I'm not even Bi or lesbian, but usually if it's not me getting brutally raped, it's a loli getting raped that I'm inserting as while doing the thrusting motions of the guy raping.

Shit's confusing.

>>4957
do you have any sexual experience outside of fantasy? what do you think it would be like to be with a normal guy, or with a bf who wanted to cater to you as much as possible?

the thrusting motions thing reminds me of how I would always fantasize about playing with my victim’s nipples and making them go crazy from it, and IRL I would be playing with my own nipples and the two things would kind of mesh together.

This wasn't always the case but since I lost my virginity I've done AAP almost exclusively. I know how mind-numbingly mediocre PIV is so I can't get off if I relate in any way to a girl participating in straight sex. For that reason it can't be passionate or romantic sex either, that's only exciting in yuri and BL. And since the girl can't be a consideration my fantasies mostly involve the self-insert guy nutting prematurely, getting raped or raping someone. Feels very droll to put that into words but if it works, it works

>>4958
No irl experience whatsoever. I imagine I'd just be pretty submissive.

It's weird I tend to self-insert, like I am the one getting raped, but the motions I'm doing are the mans.

It's just very bizzare to me.

>>4053
>>4579
it's called autohomoerotic (AHE)

>>4957
same but with shota instead of loli

Yep. Liking anal and enjoying having the same strength as my partner is a big part of it. Since I don't like girls, I'm kind of fucked in that department.

I wish this was more commonly 'accepted' or talked about or whatever. There's no porn for this :(

I get off to the idea of 'reverse-sissification' or whatever it's called when a girl is made to act more masculine. Not in a gross moid-like way tho, more like the kind of men who appeal to women, like well-mannered upper class boys, the kind pooners always wanna be.

>>4447
I tend to do this. I don't think it's actual AAP, since I have low self-esteem and don't think I would be a good-looking guy; I don't look at porn of real people, but when it comes to heterosexual shipping with female characters I like, inserting as the male is the only way I can enjoy it. I think autoheteroerotic would be more accurate (as the opposite of autohomoerotic mentioned here >>7074).

>>11223
>more like the kind of men who appeal to women, like well-mannered upper class boys, the kind pooners always wanna be.

I think you would greatly enjoy the classic film "Metropolitan" (1990), it has some great male characters in this mold. It's also very funny.

>>4052
I want to be the seme

>>11516
this is why i want to peg my bf