Sudden Hypersexuality
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I've known my partner for 3 years and we've been dating for 1 year, so I know him pretty well. Our sex life has never been dull, but we usually only have sex 2 or maybe 3 times a week and will get handsy with each other every week. For the last 2 weeks, his sexual appetite has been changing and ramping up. It started with him being very seductive and asking to eat me out as we made dinner, then having sex the day after, which is a little odd but not that unusual. From there he ramped up to wanting sex every day and now having sex TWICE a day as he wakes up desperate for me each morning. He NEVER wants to have sex in the morning usually, and previously couldn't understand why people did, but now every morning he starts feeling me up like we're teenagers. Even more unusual is now we LIKES blowjobs, whereas previously he was never interested in them and actually requests them (not often, but 2 in the last couple of weeks is equal to the number I've given before this point). Most strange of all is that now we can cum in under 10 minutes and his refractory period is about that, too. Previously, all our sex was long and very slow, because it took him minimum 30 minutes to cum, which was a little frustrating because I only take about 15 minutes, and if I wanted to go again I had to wait an hour or so. Now he will just start kissing me, testing to see if I'm in the mood, then hoist me onto the nearest surface in the house and we can fuck like rabbits and cum together in under 10 minutes, then rush to bed, make out and go again.
I'm by no means against this sudden change, as I actually love having 2-3 orgasms a day and the rush of intimacy, but it has me worried, curious and a little sore. People have told me it means he's cheating on me, but unless he has a stealth mistress on 24/7 standby and speed dial, it doesn't seem possible with our lifestyle. Others have suggested he intends on leaving me or that he may have an illness. Can anyone offer any insights?