Learning to enjoy intimacy with a man Anonymous 15511[Reply]
So… I finally landed myself a good guy. Holds doors, pays for everything. He taught me how to kiss and we sort of went from there.
I can tell he’s very good at sex stuff (we still haven’t gone all the way because I’m a virgin, he’s been very respectful of my wishes) and it felt really good when he touched me. I’ve never been so wet in my life. The only problem is I can’t come!! He tried for nearly two hours the other day and I could feel myself getting closer, but not over the edge. I felt safe with him and he kept saying how cute and pretty I was. But I just couldn’t. He said it’s his goal to make me come now, but I don’t know if I’ll be able to. He’s coming over again tomorrow and I am wondering if anybody has advice. I’d really like to enjoy our time together and not be disappointed.
I can usually get off by myself but I have to use something on a pretty high setting and it takes like ten minutes. I’m sure that’s the problem, but no matter how long of a break I take I can’t get off organically. Please don’t scold me for that, lol.
Anonymous 15514
1. Dont think too much about it, the more you stress over it, the more of a chore it will become instead of something good
2. Lay off from masturbaiton for a while, you might have unironically got a deathgrip
3. Not cumming is not the end of the world, its not even really the point of it, just simply enjoy your bf pleasuring you
And also tell him to stop saying stuff like that, its making you stressed out
Anonymous 15517
>>15514 Seconding this. If it takes you a while to finish while using a high setting, you’ve probably desensitized yourself somewhat. Take two weeks off entirely, then try using your fingers gently and work up from there. Gotta trust the process
