Open relationships don't end well, it isn't something you can brush off and eventually he'll realize having your GF fuck other guys isn't a hot porno, its plain depressing and lonely. Eventually he'll turn into a jealous and needy monster and your relationship will fall apart.
>>8022 just the fact that he brought it up is a red flag on its own, are you okay being used as real breathing fap and fetish material, anon? cause this is all this is.
Absolutely disgusting scrote pic >I've known that he watches weird porn for a while You should've dumped him since you knew about this >On the one hand I want to try whatever he likes and make him happy kek >being able to hookup with whoever I want on a regular basis does sound like a good deal It does sound like a good deal if you don't give a shit about your relationship, yes. If that's the case, I wouldn't judge you, because your boyfriend is an absolute retard anyway. >On the other hand I'm not naïve enough enough to think this wouldn't completely change our relationship completely and potentially alienate him if it doesn't go how he thinks it will. That's absolutely what will happen. >From an outside perspective is this something worth pursuing or should I shut him down now? It depends on whether you actually want a relationship and genuinely love your boyfriend, or just want to take advantage of a pornsick scrote to have threesomes with men you find attractive. In either case, your coombrained moid isn't even worth having as a boyfriend, so I suggest just bearking up now.
>>8022 Thank your boyfriend for his honesty in a matter that could potentially be embarrassing, but one that he ought not feel ashamed about. Make sure that he doesn't feel judged for opening up to you about it. Then tell him that you are personally not so adventurous; and therefore not interested in swinging, cuckolding, threesomes, polyamory, or any kind of open-relationship. Not now, nor in the future. Then start cheating on him secretly.
>>8022 i agree with everyone else itt, you should not participate or encourage this. that stuff neve turns out right, and is the product of a very unhealthy mindset. if i was you, i'd tell him that you aren't into this and the fact that he is makes you feel concerned for him. it might be a good idea to try to get him off of porn as well, since that's probably going to make him worse.
>>8022 You’re right, the relationship dynamic is going to change, someone is going to get emotionally hurt. It’s best to keep things like that as a fantasy.
asking your partner to engage in those kinks with you while in a horny state? he isn't thinking with his brain. all of that shit he told you about brushing it off? it's horny logic talking. he's viewing you as a tool to get off, not as his human partner.
try having this conversation after he's had his nut. see how much his opinions change, then…
>>8022 >is this something worth pursuing or should I shut him down now? shut him down now you will not go back to normal if you do this and tell your bf to stop watching pornography it is not good for him