>>8886"intellectually stimulating discussions"… I don't think you can have that with grown men either. That's why you have to grab them young (not like… 15yo young obviously, but young enough to be kinda naive, or with an age gap big enough so you can be seen as kind of an authority) and teach them to be normal humans unlike most men. If you set them on the good track, you will be able to have serious conversations with him in some years.
It looks like I'm talking about a zoo animal, but it feels like that, society makes men think the world revolves around them and don't think of women as humans, so unfortunately it's our work to make them get off their high horse and make them think rationally.
Yeah, I guess it can seem like it's grooming, but look at it this way: Men groom younger women because they just want that power unbalance to make them their house/sex slaves who will never say no. Meanwhile women "groom" younger men so our relationship can be equal, or at least not as misogynist. Are there women out there who do this and are actual pedophiles? Yes. But at least for me (and lots of other women), having to "tame" a man is the only way we can have a decent husband later. I'm sure there are good men my age or older, but it feels too risky.
Plus we seem to be looking for 10-15yo age gaps. Men go for women +30yo their junior.
(I said it before, but I will repeat just in case: I'm not the 33yo nona. This is my opinion, not my interpretation of what she is thinking)
