/b/ - Random

I got to therapy and it's cool but expensive and I dont talk about nearly half the stuff I want to because all the other things take up all the time and there are other times when something i say just sounds weird but mostly one specific thing over shadows everything

>>318828
Right. My sentiments exactly. But psychiatrists don't deal with that, their business is drugging you with pills.

I dont trust psychiatrists/therapists at all. Unless someone has schizophrenia or something I feel therapy is largely unnecessary and self indulgent

>>318775
Socially inept autists have a much better chance with slow-paced text mediums than real-time conversation such as phone calls or chat. So yes, email.

>>318770
nah dont ask a guy out it's very weird and wont work out. you have to flirt and seduce him.

>>318823
You are telling her to waste an advantage.
The dating scene is very assymetrical; women almost never ask men out, and just wait around for the off chance that the guy they like will make the first move. That's not productive! If you want something to happen, you have to make it happen. You could go the halfway step and kind-of-sort-of do things that make it more likely, batting your eyes and shaking your hips or whatever, but why would you do this and waste time when you could just walk right up to them and say what you actually mean? Most guys will never be asked out by a woman, so any woman who does this is already a step ahead of any competition.

Guys are really dumb and scared of being creepy. You have to be crystal clear that you're into him directly, or he might think youre either being friendly, or teasing. Guys are really scared of being creepy and getting reported for sexual harassment so they won't go for it unless they know they have consent. It kinda sucks but after you get him to know, then you can play hard to get and have him pursue you and have fun that way. Good luck!!!

I've gone on anti anxiety meds and they didn't really help much in my experience but maybe I got too low of a dose. Unfortunately I was a teenager with parents in the room so I couldn't be fully honest with the therapist

It helped me personally, it softened the worst of my anxiety and depression and didn't really numb me as much as I keep hearing online. I'm off them now and learned to manage my problems, but sometimes I wish back on them when I'm having a particularly bad day, but still, I'm having more energy without them.

Antidepressants helped me but SSRIs messed with my head. I felt like less of a person, like i was cut off from my emotions. It took forever to get off and i was constantly sleepy.

I actually hate incels (rant)

Visited this site and between stuff like "The epstein victims weren't victims" (including the underage), the constant distinguishing of "chads" they put on a pedestal and "stacies" being the only women they'd tolerate[despite knowingly way out of their league], and the random callings of mass killing women … man. Even misandrists don't have that level of hate to men. wtf

All of them come from a mother as well, perhaps have sisters. Sickening. I can somewhere understand how they end up in a place like this because the radicalization of becoming red pilled is very real and bad actors like Andrew Tate prey on these young men's vulnerabilities. Obviously it is way easier to just make it women's fault- Instead of actually taking a look at themselves. And then they further radicalize eachother. I'm sick. They call themselves incels but behaving like this is 100% voluntary, they're the reason for their own despair. At this point just date men then.

I left the site after not even 10 minutes because some moid in the replies had posted an image of a beheaded woman on a post that didn't even warrant it.

>>318096
You'll definitely be able to fix it by lecturing men like a school principal btw

>>271468
>>271641
what pisses me off is that its so insanely easy to prevent balding, they literally just need to apply minoxidil foam at night (or 2x a day in severe cases) but they're too fucking lazy to do even that

>>318773
I used to have this horrible shitty wealthy ex who refused to get his hair treatment at 22 even though his balding was a huge insecurity and its such a small joy that every time i see him his hairline moves back. I'm honestly glad they're too lazy lol. It's hilarious.

>>261421
tf?

>>318747
I mean shit I think you are right. A lot of lolcows seems so free so I was inspired by it. I thought it would maybe be a good way for me to be more comfortable with my existence, by maybe socially flagellating myself (retarded)
>you would honestly have better luck as a literal whore.
I kekd at this. It would be funny to go this route but im catholic right now. I dont think im that mentally ill enough to start fucking for attention that shit seem empty

>>318747
t. has an undersocialised autistic cousin she never talks to

>>318749
? what do you mean?

If women spent more time on real life instead of make up and boys imagine what they could accomplish

>>318762
Like what?

>>318521
It might look a little weird from am outsider perspective if you're at the playground with your child and see some grown adult trying to trade off your childs rats lol

I want either a rat or a mouse as a pet, I've been so tempted to get one but I have four cats :/ rats are so precious I hope everyone in this thread gets a rat

>>318709
Guinea pig is the only common and accepted type of pet rodent. That being said if I lived in a house with large backyard and it was not illegal I would probably try to have pet capybara.

I am going to try my best to give you some copium. They require constant maintenance, expensive food and treats tailored specifically for them, and they don't live long. I don't regret having pet rats but I will not be getting more as it's heartbreaking given their short lives and how suddenly things tend to come on like illnesses. The males stink REALLY BAD unless you clean their cage every single day, god forbid you're sensitive to smells. The female rats nest heavily and constantly so whatever you put in their cage WILL BE DESTROYED in no time. It has been cheaper to have a dog unironically and just as fulfilling.

lul agree, doing the captains over and over again is actually starting to get tiring and it seems to expire too fast. I appreciate how on CC we can just post without having to jump through hoops

and all the fetish spam on some of the boards is getting on my nerves. But I've been lurking /mlp/ kinda since bronytards seem autistic and unchanging which is nice doe

>>318745
captchas*
excuse my dyslexia

>>318505
Stop invading spaces you paraXYite

It's still better than being a wage slave.

>>318523
If anything death is reason to not abuse others, you have an infinitesimal amount of time to exist, you may as well seek hedonism instead of sadism. The two aren't exactly mutually exclusive but still, plus having a kid is sadistic in a way

>>318544
naryt, you're just depressed. most people are happy to be alive prefer it over never having existed.

yes. the best decision I ever made was luring chad into unprotected sex, getting pregnant and becoming a mother. Once you give birth, it hits different than anything else I ever experienced as a woman.

>>318617
sucks to suck I guess

>>318576
every developed country is like that

Overpriced and not worth it unless youre going into some specific field that needs it. I dropped out 3semesters in and started a business with my dad

>>318681
Can I ask what type of business? Cause it's the same story with uni here as well.

Expensive, but the loans aren't predatory. The learning and effort curve are pretty steep, so first year is a dawdle, second year is difficult, and you feel totally unprepared for third year. Thankfully it levels out for fourth and Masters.

Having student organisations is nice for some, but they're focused around interests as they relate to degrees, so I feel like they're not social for anyone outside that specific field. Plenty of STEM degrees just don't have any reason to have a club presence, so you get groups like comp-sci who are a collection of all sorts of nerds, but they tend to naturally exclude anyone who isn't highly tech-literate. Most after-class socialising being at the campus pub is nice and casual, but it makes day-drinking appear normal, and encourages people who might not drink to start.

There's way too much support for students struggling academically, but nothing for those who struggle socially; a huge barrier for entry to the really helpful stuff. Private chats where people post everything from rumours and tips about the course, all the way to answers and guidance on assignments, are locked behind being in the cool-kid's club. You can't get an invite unless you know the right people, and unless you're willing to put yourself out there, are able to make friends with the fun attractive people who cheat, become willing to day-drink and go to clubs etc. you'll never get in. The best you can do is be friendly with someone in the know who might share with you some important details every so often.

>>314035
She probably got Botox and face lifts and stuff. Most famous women only get those as they age so when they get them young it actually ages them. Plastic surgery is bleak and horrifying

>>314148
I laughed when I first read this, I'm sorry

>>314035
Its the make up. She is actually prettier without it.
Anyway her music is shite.

I prefer Hayley Williams and Paramore.

Maybe because you use subpar celebrities who had work done as your examples?
Most other gen z women I met look their age or younger

>>314148
lol

it's always millennial women who look their age or older who say shit like this, pack it up grandma