>>318823You are telling her to waste an advantage.
The dating scene is very assymetrical; women almost never ask men out, and just wait around for the off chance that the guy they like will make the first move. That's not productive! If you want something to happen, you have to make it happen. You could go the halfway step and kind-of-sort-of do things that make it more likely, batting your eyes and shaking your hips or whatever, but why would you do this and waste time when you could just walk right up to them and say what you actually mean? Most guys will never be asked out by a woman, so any woman who does this is already a step ahead of any competition.