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Chasing an idealic aesthetic or accepting the comforting embrace of mediocrity Anonymous 332646[Reply]

Do you think it's better to be bombarded with unrealistic aesthetics or telling ourselves it's okay to be a failure?

I feel like both ways are just lying to tell an unhealthy person (EDs or obese) that they're doing well. Growing up with everyone wanting to be skinny felt suffocating but I also feel uneasy about losing that goal. If I don't have an ideal aesthetic to strive for, how do I improve myself? Telling myself I'm fine feels like accepting mediocrity without any directions on where to go next. When I see pinterest trying to purposefully put plus-sized women at the top of my feed I feel like I'm being patronized and being told it's okay to be chubby when I know real life isn't like that.
I went from average height and stocky in middle school to under 50kg slightly short. This is the dream body I wanted but now it feels like I just got indoctrinated into becoming dependant on this 'dream'. I do get stressed about how much I eat but I don't think I can live without this stress.
How do you nonas find meaning and goals in life without holding on to this? Do you focus on your hobbies instead? What if I don't like my hobbies enough to take it any further?

Anonymous ## Cleanup crew 332650

Moved to >>>/hb/22999.



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Gardening Anonymous 270170[Reply]

anyone wanna talk about gardening? share some tips? I live in an apartment, so I just have a container garden on the patio.
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Anonymous 325773

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>>325119
>>325020
So yuge now. By the way there was one more saple separated from the rest but it’s gone now for some reason
Etc etc

Anonymous 325775

>>325773
The plant goddess has returned. Praise be! Greens looking INCREDIBLE, Queen!

Anonymous 325986

>>325773
cute plants. i hope they grow to be big and strong!

Anonymous 331858

>>270170
>plant
>water
>sun

Anonymous 332640

>>270170
Is anybody else having an awful time with their veggies this summer? My peppers dropped all their flowers. I only got 2 puny peppers in the last two months its madness. Yes I water regularly and fertilize high phosphorus blend. Last year I had so many peppers i didn't know what to do with them all. (Is it possibly because i overwintered them?)

Or is it really because of El Nino? We got a lot of rain and its actually been a pretty tolerable summer. I'm in zone 9a. I just dont get it.



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Anonymous 317343[Reply]

Anyone find love confessions and 'romance' to be really cringe?

If someone cares, and loves you, it's something that's better seen and shown then said.
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Anonymous 332539

>>332533
No it’s the local TIF

Anonymous 332547

>>332528
>>332527
>>332526
Yeah explain the male loneliness epidemic then? Why males dump millions of dick pics on women who don't want them and avoid them like the plague? You guys are so angry dating for women is like getting it from a swamp, while dating for men is like getting it from a desert, but i mean its no surprise why that is, stop acting like you are

Anonymous 332548

>>332545
Oh you care
Thats why you can't stop posting here for attention

Anonymous 332565

>>332545
Accurate. There are only 3 genders: man, female, non-binary

Anonymous 332566

jesus fucking Christ why are there so many m*n infiltrating



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Cute pets Anonymous 332183[Reply]

Do you have a cute doge or kitty

if so postem pls
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Anonymous 332298

>>332295
He's quite the distinguished gentleman. I can't say I've ever seen a dog with a coat quite like that.

Anonymous 332429

I had a spider. Always thought they were interesting. My family hated it and I kept it for a week and my mom got paranoid and told me if it got out it could lay eggs or something stupid I thought that would have been cool if it actually did

Anonymous 332506

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>>332183
My BABY

Anonymous 332507

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She's singing you a song

Anonymous 332508




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Anonymous 315357[Reply]

how do I cope with the fact that my dad will never love me as much as he loves my older brother, simply because he is male? he has never acknowledged my professional archivements but celebrate anything my brother does, i thought i was over it but today my dad gave me a face of disgust when i told him i might be pregnant. I mean im probably not pregnant but the way he looked at me hurt me so deeply, it was pure disgust.
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Anonymous 315412

>>315357
I started writing a message to congratulate you on the pregnancy but now I have to erase everything 😭
I don't really know what to tell you, his reaction is weird on many levels. Doesn't he want grand kids ? I was about to tell you that some people love their children differently, but once again that was before reading your post until the end.
I really can't explain that reaction. Maybe he hates the father ? I'm just trying to think of any excuse beside "unsensitive psycho", this is concerning

In any case it's really important for you to surround yourself with supportive, non-toxic people. Look in your in-laws, friends or colleagues (not a big fan of the latter but hey)

Anonymous 315487

Your Dad is gay.

Anonymous 315511

>>315504
my dad is 100% biological but that doesn't prevent him from acting like he hates me

Anonymous 315522

>>315357
Cut off all relations to both and forget them

Anonymous 330165

have you ever tried asking him directly



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Science thread Anonymous 115805[Reply]

Since there's too much talk about moids in our boards, I decided that I should do my part and contribute something non-moid related. So I'm making this thread about science, maths are included as well of course. I personally think that the soft sciences are actually closer to the humanities than to the hard sciences, but in the spirit of avoiding a flame war, I'll try to avoid this point as much as I can from now on.

You can ask questions and discuss stuff about science here, I'll try to answer whatever I can and perhaps attempt to guide posters in the right direction if I'm not familiar with the topic. I'm a physicist by training but I have a basic understanding of general chemistry, geology and biology as well. I know the most about astrophysics and meteorology/climate stuff, I'm OK at mechanics, thermodynamics and quantum physics and not so great at electromagnetism, relativity and maths in general (as in, compared to a mathematician, for a physicist I'm average at maths). Sorry if that came off as a bit pedantic, I just wanted to let you know the kind of stuff I'm more likely to give good answers to.

So yeah, ask away!
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Anonymous 326019

The USA is a bankrupt warmongering police state, but nothing will change because Americans think everything is just fine.

Anonymous 326044

>>325210
>Phones are why nobody have kids anymore
I doubt it. I would say the cost of life, in particular housing cost are the major factor. It cost 3 time more hours of work for us to buy a home than it did for our parents.
The culture is a big thing as well. When every media tell you that it's cool and rebel to not have kids, obviously it play a role.

The quality of our social interactions is also a factor but screens are only one of the cause of that.

Anonymous 330270

https://youtu.be/094y1Z2wpJg?si=MpLH20Odys8gkGsa
I remember watching math related content like this when I was younger Idk why I stopped

Anonymous 331681

I wish we could debug the human brain. That would be so cool and scifi.

Anonymous 332029

Apparently we’re now making lab grown brains now and organic robots. Sick.



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Anonymous 315630[Reply]

What exactly is it stereotyped that women have a "bad boy phase"?

Anonymous 315637

people cling to those they find similar or align with their values

Anonymous 331863

Moids projecting their whore-madonna complex

Anonymous 332005

Moids automatically assume that attractive men are "bad boys"



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Anonymous 326870[Reply]

OH SAY YOU CAN SEE

Anonymous 326985

freedom of speech.…


Anonymous 327009

>>326985
Freedom of speech implies some freedom from consequences, namely from the government. Otherwise it isn’t free speech.

Anonymous 331982

>>326870
she cute



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What's the most recent word you learned? Anonymous 325734[Reply]

It's never a bad time to expand your vocabulary. Share with us new words as you learn them.
My most recent word is "freshet".
>A freshet is a snowmelt, an annual high water event on rivers resulting from snow and river ice melting.
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Anonymous 325741

>>325738
>Salient events are an attentional mechanism by which organisms learn and survive; those organisms can focus their limited perceptual and cognitive resources on the pertinent (that is, salient) subset of the sensory data available to them.
i saw someone describe schizos as having deep plunges of information that they can't pull their brains out of fast enough, almost like cliffs that their consciousness dives into & gets caught. whereas normal people have plunges that they don't get stuck inside of. i think it was shown to me in a kind of graph demonstration, and i don't know if it was even close to an accurate elucidation, but interesting nonetheless, and this made me think of that. overvaluing signals against their will. must be torture

Anonymous 325743

>>325734
I have an excel spreadsheet full of hundreds of words I read that I didn't know or that I think sound nice. Recent additions:

Rankle
Sodality
Élan
Diffidence
Tawdry

>>325735

I find it's easier to remember if you think about their etymology. E.g. undulate has "und—" as the root, which means wave iirc. It's related to words like inundate and, more obviously, undulant. Not related to ululate at all, but looks similar.

Anonymous 325768

Riverine and forestine, both adjectives for river and forest respectively incase it wasn't obvious

Anonymous 331959

Scrivener

Anonymous 331974

One thing worse than living in a police state is finding out that no one cares.



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Anonymous 318574[Reply]

What is college / university like in your country?
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Anonymous 318681

Overpriced and not worth it unless youre going into some specific field that needs it. I dropped out 3semesters in and started a business with my dad

Anonymous 318696

>>318681
Can I ask what type of business? Cause it's the same story with uni here as well.

Anonymous 318717

Expensive, but the loans aren't predatory. The learning and effort curve are pretty steep, so first year is a dawdle, second year is difficult, and you feel totally unprepared for third year. Thankfully it levels out for fourth and Masters.

Having student organisations is nice for some, but they're focused around interests as they relate to degrees, so I feel like they're not social for anyone outside that specific field. Plenty of STEM degrees just don't have any reason to have a club presence, so you get groups like comp-sci who are a collection of all sorts of nerds, but they tend to naturally exclude anyone who isn't highly tech-literate. Most after-class socialising being at the campus pub is nice and casual, but it makes day-drinking appear normal, and encourages people who might not drink to start.

There's way too much support for students struggling academically, but nothing for those who struggle socially; a huge barrier for entry to the really helpful stuff. Private chats where people post everything from rumours and tips about the course, all the way to answers and guidance on assignments, are locked behind being in the cool-kid's club. You can't get an invite unless you know the right people, and unless you're willing to put yourself out there, are able to make friends with the fun attractive people who cheat, become willing to day-drink and go to clubs etc. you'll never get in. The best you can do is be friendly with someone in the know who might share with you some important details every so often.

Anonymous 331862

It's quirky and fun and not that serious!

Anonymous 331973

I had professors saying things like "it's useless for women to get a degree, it will go to waste" out loud and having a dismissive attitude towards female students, and no, nobody cared
now I remember this every time I witness moids crying about being oppressed



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