So what's the point of having men (you aren't dating/related to) in your life? Anonymous 30977[Reply]
They make bad friends and are often only interested in getting into your pants. I used to have male friends, but they were incapable of controlling themselves and eventually made advances towards me. I have a lesbian friend and she would never make me uncomfortable like that or ruin our friendship. Not only that, but I have never felt such closeness to a male friend as I have a female friend. Can someone explain this to me?
138 posts and 7 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.Anonymous 33893
>>30977>I have a lesbian friend and she would never make me uncomfortable like that or ruin our friendship.To be this naive. They're not guys but they're basically guys.
Anonymous 33918
I think male friends are both more common than the "men only befriend women if they want to fuck them!" crowd likes to think and less common than the "I have PLENTY of guy friends" crowd likes to believe.
I think it's possible but under very specific circumstances.
The guy (and also the girl, but it's more the guys who think with their dick) has to be a kind of person who can handle a platonic relationship and both the guy and the girl need to, on one hand, like each other enough to be friends and on the other hand not consider each other as an option for a relationship more than that, a sort of Goldilocks zone.
I also think a good way to gauge a guy friend is to see how he is with your boyfriend (assuming you have one).
I have a good guy friend my boyfriend was really worried about (his last relationship ended after his ex cheated on him, so he's understandably little paranoid about that) and when they met they got along really well, I think a guy friend who's actually interested in a girl would most likely not like a boyfriend too much.
Anonymous 33919
>>33918I think there's one more possibility people don't consider. It's entirely possible to be attracted to someone while recognizing that a relationship with them would be a dumpster fire.
Anonymous 33943
>>33919Ehhh
It's not impossible per se, but it's walking on some thin ice.
Anonymous 34061
I prefer male friends over gal friends. Female friends can be treacherous, although I have 1 good female friend. And I have 1 guy friend. I straight up told him that I was not interested in anything romantic. But we hang because we share a lot in common.