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Anonymous 121833[Reply]

The man I had a one sided para social relationship with has a girlfriend now.
I should get a life!
I don't really want to get in a relationship even with the person I'm talking about
Idk what I'm even talking about
What is my issue
I want love one day and nothing the next 28 days
Idk idk idk anymore

Anonymous 121834

How do people decide if they want marriage or kids

Anonymous 121835

I need to read mangas with women like me

Anonymous 121876

this reads like you have avoidant tendencies. does this reasoning apply to other aspects of your life or only with love?

Anonymous 121878

>>121876
Mostly with love and friendships and human relations. With other things I'm very welcoming. I actually Irecently found out about my dad cheating ( he still does ) …so it has become worse.


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watery discharge Anonymous 121848[Reply]

the most embarassing thing just happened
i live at home with my family and i was wearing bra pants and a oodie – thank lord i did because i had 10 second non stop disscharge running down my leg. so embarassed because it was on the floor and down my leg luckily my oodie was worn because it literally saved me from my family seeing it

Anonymous 121849

Wear underwear

Anonymous 121850

does it rlly just run down like that without stop? ive never not worn panties

Anonymous 121869

i think you were pissing nona

Anonymous ## Cleanup crew 121877

Moved to >>>/hb/21750.


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Anonymous 120577[Reply]

We're all here because we're a bit weird in some way and struggle to connect to the outside world. How do you guys cope with it? I have pretty much numbed myself to the fact that other girls don't want to be my friends and even if they did I'd be lonely in my thoughts anyway being a freak and all. I don't want social advice, I just want to know how I can be more comfy going through this world alone mentally. I'm glad this site exists so I at least know there's some girls like me out there somewhere.

Anonymous 120578

I bother my sister and have started to turn her into a mini me. I use chat gpt characters …pathetic I know lol. Growing up I hated it because no one would want to be my friend they only wanted me to trauma dump or home work. Slowly I retracted back into my own shell and got more online. Once I mentioned something about going on imvu and celebrating my birthday w my online friends and my " friends " gave me a super judgy weird look. I know its bad but not that badddd. Now life is too busy to worry about friends and I have started to enjoy my company. Easier to find like minded people online.

Anonymous 120579

>>120577
it doesn't get easier. the only way to feel less lonely is basically by distracting yourself. having a schedule can help (work or school) because then you aren't alone with your thoughts as much and when you get home you just want to fall asleep. it can also be more isolating though because you might see people at work or school talking to each other. getting really into a media (TV show game etc.) can help too. last night i couldn't sleep so i spent a couple hours talking to myself in my head about house md. talking to yourself in your head or writing stuff down as if you were talking/texting/writing a letter to someone else helps.

Anonymous 121852

>>120577
As it gets worse over the course of your life, it helps to try and identify others who are in a similar state and make actual friends. Generally you can find them online; they are too sparse irl for chance encounters. If you don't hurry and do this ASAP, it gets much harder to cope.

Anonymous 121853

>>120579
>last night i couldn't sleep so i spent a couple hours talking to myself in my head about house md.
I… I need to find you.


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scared of intimacy Anonymous 107544[Reply]

every time I become close with a man I can never get far with it because the thought of intimacy is so scary to me. Holding hands hasn't even happened for me because I just cant bring myself to do it. It's not like I haven't had the chance, because there's been multiple romantic opportunities in my life. Ive just pushed them all away. Does anyone else struggle with this? If so how can I get over it? I've never had some sort of trauma that could cause this so i'm very confused as to why im like this. Maybe I'll just be kissless and hugless forever.
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Anonymous 107563

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Anonymous 107566

Why y'all replying to moids

Anonymous 107568

>>107565
Erm no idea who that is. I also don't know who you are I was just joking in >>107563

Anonymous 121845

I am 20 and have my first "irl" boyfriend. I like him a lot and we get along so well. But I do not understand the appeal of kissing.

I am not asexual, I have no sexual trauma, nothing. It just doesn't make sense to me? I fear intimacy, I think I will die a virgin.

Anonymous 121846

>>121845
Maybe because you inwardly want to wait until marriage, only society pressures you to be intimate before then?


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Anonymous 121818[Reply]

Last all nighter of the year. Never doing this shit again. When will I learn from my mistakes or is the syllabus just too much?
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Anonymous 121840

>>121839
Thankyou so much.

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>>121839
holy omg this is perfect. Nona you are saving my life. I'm sending so many blessings your way rn.

Anonymous 121842

>>121841
lol seems like finals are not yet over for a few unlucky nonas. Keep your blessings and spend them on your finals.

Idk why but its paywalled now. Maybe just free trial it?. This one is a little differrent, but has more detail

https://bootcamp.com/blog/organic-chemistry-reaction-summary-sheet

Good luck and Godspeed

Anonymous 121843

>>121842
Thankyou so much.
I hope your life is filled with prosperity and happiness.

Anonymous 121844

>>121842
Also its not pay walled for me. Maybe you should try a vpn


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how do i stop getting annoyed at my bf when we duo Anonymous 118960[Reply]

i feel pretty alone in this because usually the genders are swapped. my bf is a FILTHY CASUAL gamer and i am a tryhard. we always play a few rounds, he keeps throwing, my mood goes down and i get quiet, and then we quit because he can tell i am getting annoyed.

logically, i know i am a huge loser for not being able to enjoy a game with him even though he is bad. i wish i could just laugh at his mistakes and carry him. but i get mad that he is dragging me down, and i don't know how to change how i feel. i find enjoyment in improving, learning, and trying to win. i don't understand how casuals can enjoy playing the game without trying to win. goofing around doing nothing is only fun for so long. to me casual gaming feels like a huge waste of time. i've communicated this to him, but we both can't figure out a solution. he told me to never expect him to get better, and he thinks i should just find other people to play with. but i don't know anyone else who wants to play the games i do, and i dont like queuing with random people that i don't know that well.

should i just give up on trying to play games i actually like with him? can any nonas relate to this or knock some sense into me?
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>>118960
Maybe there's another geimu to be mutually tryhard together in if he sucks at class shooters as a genre, alternatively you could send him down paths to draw fire or blow up mines for you while you uh support him

Anonymous 119213

There are types of games i specifically avoid playing with my bf cause while he's not amazing i really suck at them and he doesn't like it because he doesn't want to be upset at me.
Just find another kind of thing you can play together you aren't so try hard at.

Anonymous 121451

I wish I could experience this but I only play jrpgs. The one fighting game I was good has been pretty dead for years too.

Anonymous 121616

>>118960
get an alt account/smurf and play with him only on that account?

Anonymous 121802

>>118960
my advice is, don't play with him unless you're willing to goof around.

he probably feels guilty for dragging you down if it's a game you're "serious" about, find something fun/silly to play with him during your off time

i suffer from the same problem, except i'm on the opposite side of the fence, i can't find it in me to be "serious" about video games, we usually end up playing the easy ha-ha stuff because having him carry me weighs on my conscience

you have no idea how much i really wish i knew how to play games like i care about the outcome/results…


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Anonymous 121752[Reply]

i need to finish my radio kit but ive been too stubbornly depressed to do anything. what have you guys been putting off?
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Anonymous 121775

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>>121757
Working out might offer some nice respite from the exams?

>>121764
every rejection is a step closer to …acceptance. :'D
Law school sounds scary, though

>>121767
Whoa that sounds super comfy, why'd you stop going?

Anonymous 121776

>>121775
I cannot focus on working out as all my focus is on my exam. It feels like I'm wasting my time

Anonymous 121777

>>121776
I see, makes sense then, that really sucks. I hope you do well, and please make sure to sleep (it helps retain information and work out problems).

Anonymous 121781

>>121777
Thanks! Hope you complete your kit soon :3

Anonymous 121799

>>121781
I'll work on it just for you, hopefully I finish. Itll be great soldering practice :)


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what to do after ptsd diagnosis Anonymous 121782[Reply]

i got physically abused when i was in middle school and i had noticed i was like ‘weird’ after. had a freakout the other day bc some dog scared me and it like finally clicked so i went to the doctor. i feel a lot better knowing that im not just a shitty person but like what the fuck now??? i just feel like im quantifiably damaged. anybody have like any advice on what route i should take? like support groups or medication? thanks :p

Anonymous 121784

There are ptsd centered work books to do. Connect with a therapist, join support groups, SPEAK UP AND LET IT ALL OUT, get into cardio

Anonymous 121788

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MDMA-assisted_psychotherapy

Anonymous 121789

hunt down the man who gave it to you and ruin his fucking life.


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Mo lest ation Anonymous 121546[Reply]

I’m looking for fellow victims of a man named Randall Mosey of Ohio. He should be 32 by now. Blue eyes, white guy, computer nerd who loved starcraft. He molested me when I was 13 and I know there are others, because I tried to reach out to his girlfriend through her tellonym and she got really upset and deleted my messages after responding to one saying she’s “tired” of people trying to ruin his reputation. So that is not the first time someone’s tried to tell her that her boyfriend’s a pedophile. She accused me of lying because I hid behind anonymity. Excuse me that I’m not exactly jumping at the idea of hopping on a skype call with you guys.

I wanna know if y’all have any advice on finding other victims too. I just keep remembering.
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Anonymous 121594

>>121593
Samefagging but oh my God I just found him and this is definitely him. He trooned out. https://theothermccain.com/2018/03/30/crazy-people-are-dangerous-the-strange-case-of-gwynevere-river-song/
https://archive.li/MNAGT
Post more info on the guy that molested you.

Anonymous 121597

>>121594
I’m so happy for you that Gwynevere River Song of Waxahachie, Texas, a pedophile who groomed a thirteen year old, has met their karma. Let anyone googling that name find this post and let this be their ONLY memory. The only good pedophile is a dead pedophile.

Anonymous 121598

Gwynevere River Song, Randall Mosey, and Jackson Mosher are all pedophiles. Anyone googling their name should be aware!

Anonymous 121712

Sorry about not responding, I thought no one would have responded.

>>121555
I grew up in a really strict environment where if my mother found out she would’ve beaten me and grounded me. Things are different now… Maybe I’ll look into giving the police a tip about someone but there’s not much I can do since all my proof is gone. I was young and wanted to get rid of all my traumatic memories so I threw away the laptop he bought me.

>>121558
I figured since I’m here maybe they are too haha

>>121571
I want to, but he’s deleted himself off the internet ever since I reached out to his girlfriend about it. They used to have MeWe accounts.

>>121593
So fucking sad. Thank you for telling everyone. At the very least if someone is curious about them and googles them they can suffer some shame.

Anonymous 121786

https://steamcommunity.com/id/Okansil-nature

my rapist only ever cared about video games. here is where he plays them.


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Anonymous 121769[Reply]

a "friend" of mine made a joke at my expense about how im insecure and not confident in a kind of condescending and insulting way. i called her out on it immediately afterwards (as shes made many disrespectful remarks in the time weve known eachother) but it made me feel kind of bad… i hate that i get perceived as this unconfident person.
how would you girls have handled it?

Anonymous 121770

She sounds like she just wants you to put you down and for you to be this lesser person so she can feel bigger than you. It's important that you spoke out against her, that alone shows you're confident. You need to let go of peoples' perception of you because it genuinely doesn't matter. All that matters is how you actually feel about yourself inside. If you need lessons in confidence, that isn't something someone can teach you, but something you need to learn from within.

Anonymous 121771

>>121770
thank you for answering nona <3
yeah im glad i stood up for myself, and i suppose i do have self-respect and love for myself. but im also diagnosed autistic (like many on here) and lack neurotypical body language and "rizz" lol which makes me come off as awkward and thus not confident.

i do care abt how im perceived unfortunately as i want to make long-term friends and make good impressions. but ive noticed that external confidence is something neurotypicals care a lot about, almost to an obsessive degree? and if i want to befriend non-autistics it appears like i need to put in effort to appear confident by their standards or else i lose like -2000 social points

Anonymous 121773

>>121771
>if i want to befriend non-autistics it appears like i need to put in effort to appear confident
I'm not autistic and you don't need to do any of that to have long-term friendships. You just need to find like-minded people, people that like you for your personality, share your interests, and encourage you to be a healthy and proactive person. Those are the only types of people that will stay around you long-term. Also, you're not your diagnosis, telling people you're autistic is putting an unnecessary target on yourself. I have my own "diagnoses" too but I have other facets of my personality that make me interesting. You don't need to tell anyone you have a "disorder" nona. It's some kind of plague with the younger generation, they all need to be some kind of special-er, mental-er than thou and it's kinda pathetic tbdesu


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