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I'm glad this site exists Anonymous 125264[Reply]

Came across this site when searching for alternative image boards. I've been hating being a woman for years, not because I have gender dysphoria, just the constant exhaustion of dealing with men and the confines of society. thank you crystal.cafe, and hopefully this site will become more active.

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Anonymous 125270

>>125269
absolutely not. I love being a woman and I love girly things, I just hate the prejudice I get. I will never troon out and put poison in my body just to look like a moid with wide hips and a 5'9 stature.

Anonymous 125282

I love you nona and I'm glad you're here but please don't post any more of these ugly memes.

Anonymous 125285

>>125264
Us gurlz needa stick together! I was in your shoes once too. Glad you found us nona



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Vent Thread Anonymous 120288[Reply]

Previous thread >>117577
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Anonymous 125349

the scrote i have a crush one likes a basic girl and it gives me the biggest fucking ick. what the FUCK do you mean you are into bland dime a dozen basic bitches 10+ years younger than you?
kys you creepy short fucking skinnyfat incel i can't believe i ever thought anything different of you

Anonymous 125365

>>125349

do not like men for a relationship.

Men are like dogs.

They smell your hand and let you pet them.

Do not pet them before they approach first. They bite.

Anonymous 125366

I am tired of being autistic.

This nightmare never ends.


My humor is never the same, my lovers always find me apathetic even if I try. The less I try the more they try to fit with me.

It's as if men were born to obey.

At least my maus panzer and my cars do not make me sad.

Anonymous 125380

IM A FAILURE AT EVERYTHING
I TRIED AND TRIED but at the same time I don’t do any effort
I want things
I want to be somenthing
I envy people
Specially the ones who can read more that one minute of a book

Anonymous 125414

New thread >>>/feels/125413



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Alaska sounds nice ig Anonymous 125252[Reply]

>be me
>parents abused/ abandoned me
>grow up
>find a nice lady
>she becomes a mom figure
>call her mom
>discuss adult adoption
>make plans to move to the same city and be a family.
>get text saying she's moving to France to be with her gf.

Are you fucking kidding me? The two people who are supposed to love me no matter what fucking HATE me for being born or don't remember I fucking exist. I find someone who ACTUALLY wants me to be a part of their family and they decide to just fucking ditch me so they can get laid by someone in France?

Fucking really? I'm worth less than a god damn plane ticket.

I will sacrifice literally anything for love. I memorize every tiny detail of a person's likes and dislikes. I memorize their habits and patterns and I cleave parts off of myself to put them ahead of me constantly. I work for peoples love because clearly no one will give it to me without me having to mine for it. And I thought I found one fucking person who wouldn't do that. Who actually understood and saw me. I THOUGHT I had a mother for the first time in my useless fucking life but no. No family for me.
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Anonymous 125257

> I'm going to move to the middle of Alaska and just live by myself

mccandless maxing



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I wish someone would choose me for once in my life Anonymous 125251[Reply]

>be me
>parents abused/ abandoned me
>grow up
>find a nice lady
>she becomes a mom figure
>call her mom
>discuss adult adoption
>make plans to move to the same city and be a family.
>get text saying she's moving to France to be with her gf.

Are you fucking kidding me? The two people who are supposed to love me no matter what fucking HATE me for being born or don't remember I fucking exist. I find someone who ACTUALLY wants me to be a part of their family and they decide to just fucking ditch me so they can get laid by someone in France?

Fucking really? I'm worth less than a god damn plane ticket.

I will sacrifice literally anything for love. I memorize every tiny detail of a person's likes and dislikes. I memorize their habits and patterns and I cleave parts off of myself to put them ahead of me constantly. I work for peoples love because clearly no one will give it to me without me having to mine for it. And I thought I found one fucking person who wouldn't do that. Who actually understood and saw me. I THOUGHT I had a mother for the first time in my useless fucking life but no. No family for me.
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Anonymous 124510[Reply]

I want my parents fucking dead and I've been in no contact for a year

Anonymous 124700

>>124510
Ok well your parents are not the ones who raised you, the state did(through media), they were just the workhorses paying for your upbringing thinking they'll get a reward or at least a 'thank you' at the end. They got played and you're the prank.

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>>124700
>parents are not the ones who raised you
So they didn't do shit besides just bringing food home as they would without me (and god knows how much horrible shit to make my life unbearable) and they want to be praised? Cool. I'm glad your parents treated you like a God or however you conjured that innocent image of them.

Anonymous 125208

You should wish yourself dead. Autistic people have no place in this world. As a person with autism who mistreated her parents to hell and back, I can say God made a mistake making me.

Literally drink bleach first then drink vinegar.



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Dealing with getting doxxed Anonymous 124922[Reply]

hello nonas,
i hope you don’t mind me reaching out and i hope you guys are doing amazing, but i’m feeling really lost and overwhelmed right now a few months ago my pictures and personal information were doxxed and since then i can’t stop thinking about it every time i check the website they’re still talking about me commenting on my body and it makes me feel absolutely worthless i don’t have anyone i can talk to about this and the anxiety is constantly on my mind i’m terrified they’ll find a way to reach my family something i would never want to happen it’s been consuming me and i feel like i’m trapped in this cycle of sadness the fact that they post about me regularly makes it almost impossible to resist checking the site even though i don’t want to i keep blaming myself for trusting people online and sharing my pictures with them when i rejected them they started circulating my images and using them to hurt me i have their pictures too but i’m afraid posting them would only make things worse giving them more fuel i’ve been inactive for a while but i still check the site now and then each time i hold onto a little bit of hope that things might have changed but i’m always left disappointed because they still keep posting about me even after all this time what should i do i feel so confused and lost. i’m so scared this will follow me into the future especially as i try to build a career in a public role i can't stop thinking about how my past will always be there lurking waiting to catch up with me when i was 17 i made racist remarks and hurt people with my words even if i thought they were just jokes or satire i was wrong i was cruel and i was selfish hiding behind anonymity thinking it didn’t matter but it did and it does i can’t change what i did and i know that no amount of regret will take away the harm i caused i feel lost in this realization but i accept it i accept that this part of me this mistake is something i have to carry with me forever i wish i could take it all back i wish i could undo the pain i caused but i can’t all i can do now is be sorry and try to be better even though i know it might never be enough
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>>125180
That is strange they'd go on so long without you interacting at all… they sound like real freaks. It's not what you want to hear but without new material they're going to have to move on eventually. I understand the temptation to keep looking but the best thing you can do is put it out of your mind. Just because they refuse to get a life doesn't mean you should waste yours too.

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>>125181
yes nona i feel uncertain about what steps to take i have been trying to distance myself from all of this yet i cannot help but think that filing a report may not bring any real change since they could simply dissolve this group create another exclude me from it and still misuse my pictures nona what troubles me further is the thought that they might somehow discover my current address my college or even my parents workplace though i think this is unlikely and perhaps i am being overly paranoid.how are you doing nona? i apologize if i am troubling you.
here's a deer for you ^-^
nona how do i keep my mind off of it, it has been really very hard im sorry to make this all about myself but it's extremely mentally draining (i do have "somewhat" of an ongoing social life but i am the very point where i keep thinking about it even if i am out with other people)

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>>125182
When you're saying they could make another group and exclude you from it, makes me think maybe it's clear to them you still have access to this group? You should leave if they can see that. That might be prolonging the issue if they can see you still have access.

The best way to keep your mind off something is to get busy with other things, like calling friends or hanging out, watching a movie, listening to music, reading books, or doing something physical like crocheting painting running etc. Idk if many batting cages are around anymore but it's fun to go out and hit something as hard as you can. I understand if it still comes to mind when you're with people but don't stop making plans and doing activities. Just avoid being idle because that's when your mind starts filling up the blank space with things it can get nervous about.

It's ok to make it all about you nona it's your thread. I've stressed about stuff like this on the internet before and life has always moved on for me. I hope you feel better soon.

Anonymous 125186

>>125183
yes nona. they can see that i am in the group but i remain inactive. they cannot know for certain whether i have read the messages so they might only assume that i do. i feel a strong desire to leave the group chat but my anxiety convinces me to stay. it tells me that if i leave they might focus on me more or uncover something else about me?
i went out with friends to keep my mind off of it and ended up checking it again after i came back home. :\
i really need to compel myself physically not to check it again i genuinely should but i am unable to.
nona, could you share what happened with you and how did you get out of it?

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>>125186
You definitely should leave the group then. Make it a formal thing for yourself, it's time to start a new chapter and move on. Knowing you're able to see the messages can be playing a big role in why they keep going like this especially if people know you're anxious and the type of person who wouldn't be able to stop reading the updates.

For me someone unhinged got pics of me and posted them in many places insulting me. They also got my full name and where I work. They tried to threaten me at first but I blocked their accounts and left wherever it was happening. It's been years and nothing has happened irl. At the end of the day people move on, that stuff gets buried eventually and I don't care about what crazy people think. Let them waste their life with that, I have better things to do, and so do you nona



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Anonymous 125169[Reply]

anyone else genuinely painful to look at i stopped going to school at 12 because of total ostracization over my face getting harder not to blow my head off

Anonymous 125177

>>125169
I have a complex over my hair in public most days but…

Sounds brvtal, though, I'd hope as an adult randos would care less but the social developmental damage has been done, huh

Anonymous 125178

>>125169
how old are you now nona? do you go to work? i dropped out of hs due to the same thing. therapy and meds have helped a lot but it’s still a struggle.



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I hate myself Anonymous 124840[Reply]

What I'm about to say may sound retarded as hell. No, I'm not a tranny, but I don't like my boobs. I hate how they're just there to feed a baby, I hate how my entire body is just meant to breed, I hate how they ruin every outfit, etc. I feel uncomfortable with them, does that make sense? Like my body isn't my own. I wanna get them cut off, I wish I had a flat chest honestly. I have a B cup/average size, not too big or too small but I genuinely hate them. No, I'm not a tranny, I'm still a woman I just don't want tits. But I know if I said this anywhere else I'd get called trans. This is my first time posting here, usually I just look at posts but this is really the only place where I could get advice.
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Anonymous 125146

>>125145
Because your breasts are a constant source of unwanted attention, the reason people will be disingenuous just to get into your pants, a reminder many see you as an object rather than a person and someone to be pidgeonholed into a subservient role.

I mean, I don't hate my boobs and this is all put a bit dramatically but I understand where this may be coming from.

Anonymous 125152

>>125151
I mean, if you got a better idea why OP hates her breasts, speak away.

Anonymous 125157

>>125151
This kind of moid it's most likely to be a faggot

Anonymous 125164

>>125157
Don't lie. Attention is flattering if it's from a guy you are attracted to. Its only insulting if he gives you the ick.

Anonymous 125170

>>125146
>>125146
Huhhh I have huge boobs and I always ended up having intelligent conversations with nerdy men but I scare people off or piss people off who aren't nerds so I kind naturally have a psychological barrier to men likely to say misogynistic crap

Still yeah I have had horrible experiences with men but not because of my boobs

I'm sorry you got through that



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phone bad Anonymous 124395[Reply]

i can't really care for things that happened after ~2008. 2008 was when the internet started to suck, i think that old meme is spot-on. when the internet was just for weird nerds, it was a wonderful friendly hopeful human place. now it is this monster trying to enslave humanity.

when i see an old movie, that time before the smartphone seems so precious, so wholesome, so real; for the most part human interaction was still based on mutual consent at that point.

now when i see some show and they put these text-bubbles on the screen trying to visualize the instant messages from the protagonists i just close whatever i am watching in disgust.

i just use a phone for listening to music and watching occasional news video, i would never ever use one of these new internet based services, i just hate being digital cattle; i know many of you don't mind. once i find something else to listen to music that i like, i might not even use a phone anymore.

when i see some old documentary from 2000-2008 i want to go back to that time. not because i was young, it's not that. you only care about when you live unhealthily. when you are healthy you don't really age. i know many of don't live healthy, you wouldn't understand. aging for the most part is made up. no it's because i miss just peaceful casual non-exploitative non-surveiled genuine human interaction in privacy.
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Anonymous 124514

>>124468
>There is nothing inherently problematic about things like instant messaging or the internet.

yes there is. if you understood the nuanced differences between early respectful/consensual/peaceful internet communication systems and the current, biased, infiltrated, automated, security-addicted, debt-based, disrespectful patronizing consumer-systems and the war that is happening behind the scenes you would not mention such ignorance.

plus you base what human nature is on everything that happened after the begin of agriculture a few thousand years ago. there is a timespan in the hundreds of thousands of years where the anatomical modern human climbed down the tree and survived without settlements. to speak of human nature without accounting for this time where things were different again to me is quite ignorant. makes me wonder if you are in the business of ignorance because amateurs usually don't exhibit such professional level of ignorance.

Anonymous 124866

>>124514
>early respectful/consensual/peaceful internet communication systems and the current
Anon… the very fact that these two existed at all is proof of my point. I don't understand what you're disagreeing with me on.
Can you clarify your point on "human nature" or whatever? It's very unclear.
>>124512
The reason it was a "place" to people like you is because you were a tourist. If you want to gawk at things or "explore" there are plenty of alternatives even now.

Anonymous 124959

Text messaging is the lowest form of human communication next to violence. I hope that smart phones are stigmatized some day and people will use them in moderation.

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>>124959
>NOOO YOU CAN'T COMMUNICATE WITH PEOPLE USING WRITING NOOOOOOO
Guess I'll just get rid of all of this trash then

Anonymous 125055

>>125054
They have been burning potter and Dostoevsky for eons scrote it won't make any difference most people aren't going to follow you there en masse because most books are written by and large for the masses and printed and reprinted for generations



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dealing with change Anonymous 124964[Reply]

Changes in routine make me absolutely miserable, even when the change is good like getting a better job. I'll spend like two months depressed, crying, and then it goes away when I get used to it. The worst part is I feel I have to perform for people, idek how to explain it.

How do you deal with this shit I'm so done
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Anonymous 124985

>>124968
If you don't finish your degree can you make progress in your carreer at your current job?

Anonymous 124987

Nipp

Anonymous 125004

>>124983
>>124985
this degree will make me a pharmacist, the pay will be almost double than what I'd be making right now. I only have one semester with classes left, the other one is internship again (this internship I did now was extra). I'm just afraid I'll end up failing any subject and then I'll have to stay an extra year like in my last degree and spend more money in tuition.

Some of my classmates work and study, almost all of them are either part time studying or left subjects behind.

Thanks for the help btw

Anonymous 125025

>>125004
Well…

Pros and cons of working as intern
+ safety net
+ work experience
+ making money
+ people at work appreciate you and ask you to stay back (good coworkers is such a positive thing btw)
- already have experience
- maybe have to spend 2 more years balancing work and studies with 6 subjects
- they suck at teaching (can gain better experience at another place)
- this is extra

Pros and cons of studying fulltime:
+ can be mindful and focus on only one thing - better performance
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Anonymous 125026

>>125025
+ pay will be almost double
+ pharmacist degree will open new and more exciting opportunities



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