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Lesbians are the most oppressed, idc Anonymous 126590[Reply]

>Discord will ban you if you don't like trannies
>Reddit will ban you of you don't like trannies
>/r9k/ supports prison gay men and attention seeking fakeecel ethots but will shit on you and exclude you for being a lesbian
>/lgbt/ will shit on you for not being a Goldstar
>radfems will shit on you for not finding fat hairy ugly bitches attractive or for liking anything that isn't holding hands and kissing bc anything else is "male gaze-y"
>right wing twitter shits on you for being homosexual
>left wing twitter shits on you for being transphobic, aka for being an actual homosexual
>Bluesky…. Why are you on Bluesky?
>I don't know any secret tags on Tumblr for lesbians, but the fact if there were any it would be annoying to have to walk on eggshells else-wise the tag gets raided for not liking trannies
>third world countries… You don't even have any rights.
>Most of the western world will arrest you if you publicly say you don't like trannies
>Even in America, trannies are allowed in female only spaces even if its prison or a domestic abuse shelter
>Growing up having to learn in school that you were treated as inferior in every way all throughout history up until very recently

Not to mention having to deal with the rhetoric against lesbians being so mind-numbingly dumb and illogical.
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Anonymous 126681

>>126590
I used to get frozen pizza only on birthdays..

Anonymous 126682

>>126675
the way i started nodding before i realized what you weirdos were on about. how is a woman loving another woman DEVIANCY? go ask the men in your life hard questions and leave wlw alone? go bother a fucking coquette age player? literally there are entire reddit communities of pedos and people who molested children to harass. you could get this energy out any other way and instead you’re being homophobic because a girl will hold another girls hand. you sound crazy. literally there are men in your life who have harmed women and have crazy internet footprints. where is this energy for them?

Anonymous 126683

>>126681
i will make you a frozen pizza daily my princess. i would make you REAL pizza.

Anonymous 127295

>>126590
This is so chronically online. Half of the things you mentioned don't even exist in the real world. You are spending so much time and energy being negative,, no wonder women don't like you lol. And then you use this fictive rejection to blame and generalize other groups. No way you just made me defend moids among others…

The way you're expressing yourself sounds like someone who's hurting, but not someone who's beyond hope. I can recognize how badly you want a relationship, a connection with another woman. I struggle with the same thing, with not being able to find women who are into other women. Perhaps also because I am femme4femme. But I don't think it's as impossible as you make it out to be.. because if you don't even try to reach out to women then what do you expect?

I hope your concert goes well, but also don't lose hope if something doesn't work out. You deserve a good relationship and I wish you the best in pursuing one.

Anonymous 133985

>>126590
I'm not a lesbian , but in some ways you're right.

I agree that lesbians in third world countries have no rights (women in these countries typically have no rights), but judging by how you write, I don't think this applies to you.

It also grinds my gears when trans """women""" call themselves lesbians or faggots, because they aren't. I don't browse the internet half as much as I used to and I have still heard trans """women""" say such things in public with their mouths. I live in Australia, and this year I heard about the "Tickle v Giggle" case, which involved a trans woman who sued a "girls-only" app owner (the troon won $20,000 AUD). Funnily enough, if the owner had just said "she was excluded for being ugly" it probably would have been ok and the app would still exist.

Where I disagree is where you say that lesbians are the most oppressed. I don't know if it's possible to quantify which group is the "most" oppressed, but if I had to pick one, I'd pick poor people. I'd say ugly people are the second most oppressed. I say this because there are no laws for discriminating against SES, nor are there laws for discriminating against how attractive someone is, at least here. Race, gender, sexual identity, and religion are protected, but your income and your face are fair game it seems. Even if people don't overtly discriminate against poor and ugly people, they definitely act more nicely towards rich and pretty people. Most people who talk about oppression never bring this up, maybe because we've been conditioned to think it's "bad" to acknowledge that some people are poor or ugly. Being ugly isn't bad though, it says nothing about who you are as a person. Same with being poor. idk, just ramblin'


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Are these icks valid, nonitas? Anonymous 133939[Reply]

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Anonymous 133961

everyone replying is retarded. this isn't actually OP's list, it's obviously screenshotted from instagram. I'm guessing it's a moid who saw this and got mad and wanted to post this to see that we'd agree so it'd affirm his beliefs that 'women le bad' . DNI

Anonymous 133963

>>133961
theres like 1 or 2 people who actually thought this is ops list lol

Anonymous 133970

>>133939
Icks are never valid
If they were they would be red Foags

Anonymous 133972

>>133970
I don't find red flags valid anymore
because they are communist. and I associate that with airheads and animal abusers.

Anonymous 133975

>>133939
All of this reads like mental illness and I hope it's a joke.


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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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>>133747
Oof ouch owwy my feelings. I've barely posted here in the last 3 months though.

Anonymous 133799

Been getting very into emergency preparedness again. I’m building up supplies and have a very useful bag to keep things in. Is it making me feel a little like a schizo? Yes, but I believe my concern is valid, and there’s a very big difference between anxiety and just mental awareness. Burying my head in the sand is no good, and being prepared can help me live life more comfortably with the knowledge that if things get bad, I am prepared for it. Any other s into emergency preparedness/prepping? I’ve thought about making a thread for it but I don’t think it would be a very good one. I highly encourage anyone reading this to stockpile, you don’t need a basement full of jars of musty food that you’ve had for years, just think about what your household would need if things got bad for at least 72 hours. When you go grocery shopping, pick out non-perishables. You can build it up over time. I think it’s a very useful thing to do

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Does anyone else remember the shitty deep fried and "abstract" meme era
I hated them at the time

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>>133906
That makes no sense, like the person doesn't know what irony is

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I had to go to a government services center yesterday. They were supposed to give me an updated passport, but they lost all of the documents I gave them, including the old passport. The woman explaining the situation to me was so apologetic and assured me it's like the only time this ever happened. Right. At least they did as much as possible on their end so I only had to submit some papers to get the restoring procedures going.


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Using meds without medication: fucking stupid? Anonymous 133818[Reply]

Hello s, im looking for some genuine advice.

Basically, i think i have something going wrong with my head, maybe ocd or something wrong but there is shit that doesnt work properly.

i dont have neither the cash nor the time to get into therapy and get diagnosed, but i fear that this shit is actively making my life way worse, for me and those around me.

So now for the thread topic, heard that many ppl that got better in life with the use of medicatons, i was thinking of prozac in particular.

Do you think it would be fucking stupid to try and get it in other ways, without prescriptions? What are the cons? Can it improve my life?

Ricky because him and trailer park boys are the only thing keeping me sane
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Anonymous 133889

>>133881
>i don't think that is wise.
But taking a random medication, despite having no idea what your "problem" is, or how that medication will ultimately affect your body, since you have no medical or psycho-therapeutic know-how whatsoever, is?
>doctors will either prescribe you a pill, prescribe you a surgery or some kind of therapy
You realize you don't actually have to do whatever it is the doctor recommends you to do if you disagree with him, right? The point is just to get a basic idea of what the problem actually is, from a person that has a professional understanding of the human body / mind / hormones / psyche. And even then you can still disagree with the doctors results, if you have reasons to do so, but it will almost certainly give you some degree of insight or at least perspective on what's wrong with you, some degree of information that you can use to evaluate the problem. Again, my point is that identifying what it is that is causing you anguish is the number one priority, once you know what the problem is, you can choose how to deal with it as you see fit (be it with medication, therapy, taking a different approach to life, etc).
>what if there isn't a problem? what if what appears as a psychological problem is completely reasonable behavior given the situation.
Then your therapist / doctor will tell you as much. And even if they try to ""sell you on being mentally ill"" because they are ""greedy and in cahoots with big pharma"" (I'm not american, so I don't know in how far these sorts of claims are based in reality or if they're just a popular superstition. I can say for certain that it's untrue for my european home country) you can just tell them no (but I've already explained this concept of getting a 2nd opinion and then still making your own decisions beforehand). But this is irrelevant to the OP regardless, because the OP already identified there being a problem with her life. As long as the OP feels there is a problem, there is a problem with how she feels. Technically she could "get rid of the problem" by ceasing to view it as such: she could just "stop caring". However, as she has described "making the lives of those around her way worse" due to what she perceives as a problem, stopping to treat it as a problem would entail an abandoPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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>>133841
>>133849
>>133850
>>133851
>>133889

s, i really dont know how to thank you all, every time i wrote something here you've all been extremely helpful and kind, even now!
I Will treasure all of your suggestions and try to get something good from my days that doesnt involve getting on the meds, i'll also try to get in contact with my uni for cheaper therapy.

Really don't know how to thank y'all, have a wonderful night! (Or day!)

Anonymous 133901

>>133889
I absolutely don't want to invalidate the others that still have me really nice suggestions, but thank you so much especially to you !! Will treasure everything you and all the others said

Anonymous 133938

random passer-by here, but i've suffered from anxiety/compulsion stuff, there's a supplement (N-acetyl cysteine) that really helped ease it. Also cured my gfs severe nailbiting habit. Cheap and good safety profile, only issue is it smells like sulfur.

Anonymous 133965

>>133938
that's interesting! Can you get it without prescription?


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i wish i died in pandemic Anonymous 133917[Reply]

I honestly can't handle life after a while being a neet.
Before that I was a normie that went to uni, made her chores and kind of behave with my family and society.
Nowadays
>I forgot easily making simple chores I've got ask for
>My mood is a disaster
>My coping mechanisms are a disaster
>Tried killing myself 3 times I think
>Self harm when I get angry
>I dropped uni, went again and im struggling with finals
>My family and I can't stand each other anymore.
>Only feel okay when I'm on the phone, drawing stupid shit or having sex with bf or jerk off
Im.not the person I used to be, I feel I can't be that person again and I wish I was dead.

Anonymous 133926

>>133917
op here
does anyone else feel like this?
if you so, how you manage these feelings?
i'd like to know.

Anonymous 133927

>>133926
Yes. I can't believe how old I am now. 2019 hs grad and I feel so behind in life. Many things that were meant to happen to me were delayed. I feel like people who are younger are more experienced and I realized its because I actually couldn't learn things I was meant to because I was stuck inside. I mean, I couldn't go out on my 21st birthday to drink ffs so I'm learning that stuff in my mid 20s and I feel like a jackass.

Anonymous 133956

Sounds like life will pick up for you again the moment you get a job or have less of that sort of idle time.
Uni sometimes feel like the wrong kind of busy, specially these days where you don't even know if that degree will account for something.


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keep wanting him while having a boyfriend Anonymous 133677[Reply]

I have a bf but I keep thinking about a past guy. We were good friends and both liked eachother. But eventually drifted apart. I frequently thought about him.

2 months into my current relationship we coincidentally had contact. it felt so good, we talked for a couple of days. there was always so much unspokenness between us so then i texted him: i want to be honest with you, i used to like you and it was good to talk to you again but i think its better to let go now and not talk to eachother anymore. I didn't mention my boyfriend.

we had a good last conversation and he said he respects my decision and he regrets not having asked me out, and that it'll be difficult for him to let go but he's glad we're on good terms.

but still (2 months later) we keep having these small interactions on social media. i can tell he is still paying attention to me and i am also to him. I check his profiles every fucking day. Sometimes even while I'm with my bf. He doesn't know i have a boyfriend now. I think that would hurt him and he'd feel deceived. It's my responsibility but i also keep seeking out interactions with him and make it clear i still think about him. I look forward to like texting him next year to ask how he's doing.

i just feel so shitty. i know i should probably remove him from socials to minimize this and move on. but I don't. I want to hold the door open. It feels so good thinking back to us and fantasizing about what could've been. Our chemistry was so insane and talking with him felt good in so many ways. He's also really funny and I feel like there's more I like about him than my boyfriend for example. And yet I love my boyfriend fully for who he is and i want to spend my life with him. part of it might also be that i feel like im a difficult person to love and my boyfriend is so supportive and i don't think i'll find that in other guys. I'm scared that if i were to pursue somethign with the guy it'd fall apart or something or it'd be like i deceived him because i have so many issues. then again i also had those thoughts with my current boyfriend- and despite my worries we turned out really well.

my bf is so patient with me and understanding and loves me so much. its not like he's treaating me wrong and i'm missing something in the relationship… i just suck

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Anonymous 133685

thank u all for the replies. I want to elaborate it's not that i'm idealizing the guy. we were friends for a while and I started to fall in love with everything i got to know about him. For me new people aren't 'enticing' at all because I want a connection before anything else. In my opinion friends to lovers is the way to go. That's why it's difficult with him because we already have a history and I know him. And truthfully his qualities resonate more with me than the ones my boyfriend has.

>>133681
your comment brought me back to reality. You're right it's crazy to think about breaking up for someone who isn't even clearly communicating with me. When we had the conversation he showed regret not being more direct with me and asking me out. But he still isn't doing that- maybe because I told him i didn't want anything more. Then again, I also said he could always text me if something was up. So he knows he could ask me. Instead he is making playlists with my name on spotify and telling me in the description to reach out to him. I won't interact w that anymore. If he actually were to communicate w me I'll say I'm in a relationship now.

thank u nonas <3

Anonymous 133750

>>133677
yeah you should break up if only because the longer this goes on the more it will hurt your current bf when you inevitably betray him

Anonymous 133759

>>133685
You will break up with your current boyfriend so you might as well do it now, think of it as charity so another girl who’s satisfied with just one good man can have him

Anonymous 133862

i feel the same abt a bf ive had for like 6 months, idk why. ive had the same experience, the guys nice respectful super chill, we recently had a nice chill conversation about life and stuff. idk why i want him aswell. i wish my bf would breakup with me but i also dont i want both at the same time

Anonymous 133925

hi i can see the future! here's what's in the cards for you:
>keep stringing bf along
>keep entertaining other guy
>interest in bf keeps decreasing
>he gives you the ick by now
>break up
>hook up with other guy
>he doesn't know you had a bf all along
>omgwtfdoido
>you lie
>he finds out
>breaks up with you
>now you have zero (0) bfs

that's rough, if only there was a way to avoid it…


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disowning my entire family because they are extreme trads. advice? Anonymous 133684[Reply]

My family, including extended family, is extremely trad. Beliefs vary a little bit but for the most part women shouldn't go to college or vote, premarital sex is evil, dating around is evil, and not having kids makes you a whore. They're like christian jihadists essentially.

"Women's rights" wise my parents were actually better than my extended family because they wanted me to be educated and to work, they just wouldn't pay for any college. (They paid for my brother, lol). But my parents fucked it up for themselves because they beat me really bad and started calling me a whore the moment I got my period. Real Carrie shit. I still have an eating disorder because I was mostly fed their leftovers and just never developed an appetite. Just real bizarre shit. My point is, I have no familial ties to any of these people. Like they're just nothing to me.

My main obstacle is getting a job that pays enough. I'm on medicaid and am getting psychiatric help but it might be a long road to normalcy. I had a full time job once and had a nervous break that stopped me from sleeping for five days. I'm really scared to go back to work after that but I've tried a few part time jobs and gig work since then and I found a few things that I could cope with I think.

My main fear is that they come looking for me and start a lot of drama. Does anyone else have experience with this? Are they allowed to just stalk you in the USA if you're related to them?
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Anonymous 133919

>>133916
I think I'm the not-sheltered one because I understand working a 9-5 is worse than cleaning a house. I'm not fucking going back to a factory.

Anonymous 133920

>>133919
I think housework is worse. I haven't had a job for 4 years and it makes me bored and frustrated at home. It's better to work. There are activities that clearly make money.

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>>133920
Luckily this entire thread was about how I'm going to work part-time while in a lavender marriage (potentially to a woman or gay man) so that I can be housed but not overworked in some fuckass bluecollar shithole that I'd rather kill myself than go back to.

READIIING RAINBOWWWW

Anonymous 133922

>>133921
Fuck gay and transgender

Anonymous 133923

ITT op defending her fantasy which she confuses for a plan in front of strangers for some reason


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Anonymous 130287[Reply]

I'm ugly. I'm overweight. I'm extremely socially anxious and autistic, which is why I haven't had a single friend in almost ten years. I lack hygiene, I'm incredibly insecure and feel the need to kill myself when I have to think of my pathetic existence. Nothing is fun to me because I cannot concentrate for the life of me. I have tried to change my life multiple times but I cannot stick with it. Instead, my body keeps being pulled in to bed and my fate is probably to rot here forever.
Only reason I haven't killed myself yet is because I'm still young, only 20, so I am hoping for a miracle… Advice would be very appreciated. If there is any at this point.
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>>130300
>My next therapist used 'talking therapy' which involved me getting things off my chest, then they would give their professional feedback on thought patterns or behaviours.
That does sound helpful, and even though I didn't go to therapy because of childhood trauma, I wish mine was like that too. I wish she would give her professional insights on my problems but instead, she just invalidates every single one of mine. I tell her I have issues with masking constantly since I was a child, and her response to these kinds of things is "No, you don't seem to have that problem"?? It's like going to the doctor because your knee hurts, and they just tell you "No, your knee doesn't hurt. I think you're just imagining the pain!" She also told me that I cannot be autistic because my of my good ability read and write, and because I can feel emotions (I thought she was kidding me but no). What she probably meant was that I cannot be autistic because I'm a woman lol.
>there are extroverted nice people who like the same things you do and will make the effort to connect - so please don't hide from them :)
Well that sounds encouraging, I have met extroverts before who were very kind to me, I guess they liked that I'm quiet because that gave them more space to talk hah. I think I will try to attend such meeting, and if it sucked, I won't have to see the people ever again.
>Keep posting here with updates:) I believe in you!
Thank you anon, I will update under this thread in a month or two from now, I'll try to do as much of your advice as I can!

Anonymous 130309

>>130301
I'm really sorry about that, but I am positive that we can make it out of it. As you have said, you were able to pull yourself out before a couple of times. Also I think it helps to hear of other nonas who went through the same and got better eventually. I think putting in a bunch of effort is worth a try, no matter how hard it will be.
>>130303
Hmm, I have heard of obese people being prescribed stimulants such as vyvanse for weightloss since it suppresses your hunger a lot… Maybe make him aware of that. You'd solve two problems at once.

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>>130301
How does your body feel physically? Do you have an illness? I know I said to the OP, but please also get a full blood panel (including serum iron + ferritin) if possible.

Anonymous 132071

>>130287
How it going OP?

Anonymous 133865

I have crazy but lowkey useful advice.

what i did was get an adhd diagnosis which is honestly really easy like anyone can lowk larp it. i mainly kept asking my therapist abt why its so hard to focus and stuff over and over and kept explaining my adhd symptoms so i could get adhd meds to lose weight, and i got it to a high dose so now i lowk feel happy on the adhd pill and stuff. so like it helps with weight cause u lose the urge to binge. stimulants help with it. us ND girls are more prone to binging cause we're trying to get dopamine. when you are skinnier u feel prettier 100%. thats the first step to it.


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im never going to happy or free Anonymous 133859[Reply]

im not happy with my life, i struggle to be an average student. i feel so dumb. ive been trying to lose the same amount of weight for two years now. i havent gotten anywhere in my life. Ive grown up with super strict parents they sheltered me so much thoughout my whole life i havent been able to make lasting friendships. all i really want is friends. girls in school dont like me. i wanted to experience romance like other girls but i never could. one day when i was 16 i was being really dumb and i downloaded a dating app and started talking to guys because i really wanted to be validated. i wanted to be wanted. i wanted romantic attention. i secretly dated a 19 year old man and kept it secret from my parents. my parents hate me now theyre like super extreme. so i lost all my freedom and now everyone thinks im some whore. im still secretly dating that guy idk if its wrong but i want attention i dont have ppl close to me and he is the only one close to me. i cant trust anyone. now because my parents and family hate me cause im too much for them i have 9 months to move out but i dont have money or a stable income. my mom takes my goverment allowance and idk how to get it back and if i do it myself it will cause more issues with my family cause theyre super weird about money and stuff so i might be at risk of homelessless or something else bad if i do it without them knowing. im trying to keep the peace but im super stressed about money and what im gonna do. i wanna give up and run away with my bf. my fam has alot of restrictions on two of my devices like my ipad and phone cause they gotta track my location cause they dont trust me so i cant even fcking take them off that im on baby traps on my fucking phone i hate it. it pisses me off im technically an adult i cant buy a new phone cause i cant get a job cause i literally have no social skills and no experience with people cause my parents never let me outside. and like im trapped and theyre suddenly gonna js let me go in the world as like "oh fuck u since u wanna do whatever u want so bad, here be completely on ur own that waht u wanted right? to be independant" i dont have the skills. i barely know how to speak properly with people. i dont know what im gonna do. i hate everyone. i was never able to make friends growing up in school or after, my parents never let me out when i fought for my freedom it caused so many issues that i have to keep quiet so i dont end up homeless. nobody can help me. i dont know whaPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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Leave abusive husband or Stay to protect baby? Anonymous 133766[Reply]

Fuck guys idk where to start. Yeah. He switched up when I got pregnant and isolated me hard. Financial abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, some quasi-physical abuse (corning me in a room and flexing his fists for one, punched walls, doesn't let me leave a room or the home while he bearates me.) He's lost his temper with baby before too, slapped, screamed insults, yells if she does something that annoys or bothers him.
I have c-PTSD (diagnosed after I went to a women's shelter, from this relationship and the previous one) and Asperger's, but I've done a lot of counseling and reading on communication and in the beginning of the relationship was quite good at it, but the moment he starts the word twisting, taking everything as an attack, blaming me for it, insulting my character, all the DARVO shit, I lose it and have meltdowns.
He was arrested, but his colleagues (he's a cop) protected him, and then he had been threatening me for months about this specific scenario and I fucked up massively by lying and hiding what he's done to get the charges dropped.
He lacks empathy entirely, and I'm not sure he feels any emotions other than anger, and he thinks it's justified to act out that anger however he pleases. He thinks hitting kids, shaming them, yelling at them - even newborns and toddlers (mine is 1.5yo) is important and how you get them to behave. I am more a "natural consequence" and empathetic "home is a place of understanding and valuing each other as individuals" parent.

I feel really fucking stuck.
He has many advantages in court because of his career, he's very manipulative and lies well, brags about it. He will take my baby from me if I leave, he's very vindictive. Even just an overnight stay a week I feel panicked, what if he smacks her or screams at her again, and she can't tell me because she can't talk?

So I am torn - I leave, to protect myself, potentially leaving my baby open to the same emotional abuse.
Or I stay and try to play nice/lay low until she is old enough or until work transfers him too far away to see her, so that I can be there to protect her.
If I'm there, he does essentially no parenting, unless he thinks I'm leaving him, and then all of a sudden he's the most fun and hands-on dad…

Idrk what I'm asking sorry, my mind's all fucked and I don't have any close friends, or family.
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Anonymous 133778

>>133770
Because in cases of abuse the abused is often not in the right mindset to prepare and compile evidence.
Meanwhile the abuser is collecting and documenting every time you even so much as slightly snap back at them.

Anonymous 133779

>>133775
I would never kill my baby. I love them dearly. If it were just my husband and I, I would have gone the murder-suicide route a while ago.

>>133778
Thank you for pointing that out. He, and some others, have recently revealed that he's been covertly starting a smear campaign against me, including embellishing and outright lying about things I've done or not done, making up a postpartum psychosis diagnosis, all while leaving out his and downplaying his own actions and accusing me of "collecting evidence" to "make him out to be an abuser and take everything from him." Quotes being his words

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>>133778
He has also stolen and destroyed notebooks in which I've recorded incidents, and broken into my phone to delete proofs.

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>>133778
yeah, that makes sense to me. I just assumed OP meant he'd receive the custody even if she did present her side of the story.
hopefully a lawyer helps you OP, best of luck

Anonymous 133845

you do not have close friends but you do have friends right? even acquaintances. please, i am begging you, talk about this to a woman you know, ANY woman you know. that is not related to him, to help you

Ask your parents for help

your extended family

anyone you have
anyone you can trust
your therapist(if you have one)


for him deleting stuff: use your own phone, change all passwords (if necessary) and always keep your phone on yourself. never ever let it get away. sleep with it in your pockets or panties. use cloud storage. try aes encryption if necessary


make a document. make a timeline of events. add proof if possible. photos. videos. urls. anything. ask a friend for help and if none use ai to reorder the document if necessary.


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