/feels/ - Advice & Venting

I post a lot in the vent thread and not a single post was about moids I think. at least not about bf issues tbh

well i asked sanic if i should break it off and he said yes so i’m going to

>>127851
Not specifically the vent thread just threads on the feels board in general

>>127813
So… this is the power of music…

>>127806
>n-n-no I don't still have feelings for my ex…
>but I want to fuck him specifically, not the millions of other dicks that would also fuck me
He's moved on.

>>127842
so you think i’m like really pretty and a million people would want me?

>>127842
missing the point about the hate aspect of it

>>127842
and he’s single as always

Same so generic boomer answer: Clubs?

>>127837
Clubs are usually full of people who have already formed their own little friend group so I’m automatically an outsider to them

are you asking for comments on your appearance? or are they just saying it out of the blue
>youre so uglyyy
could be covert bullying nobody normal would say this (who tells you this?)
>youre so prettyyy
could be just them being polite

people are never entirely truthful or objective so unfortunately basing your self esteem off of what other ppl think is dangerous

also I doubt it's purely cause of your looks

>>127816
i’m in the same boat nona. i really wish i could find other girls like me to talk to

>>127819
A femcel server I used to be on was a server called Femdom. Would you happen to know of it by any chance?

>>127821
*Femceldom
My mistake

>>127550
>>127557
Sorry for the late reply..but thank you so much, that's some pretty solid advice. I'm shitting myself but I know I have to do it

>>127606
I mean, I was thinking of the possibility. It's good to have some self awareness… So what is it that makes you think that?

>>127669
nta, but maladjusted people can interpret fairly normal actions in a very malicious light. not saying you do this, but there's kind of a chance you do misinterpret the situation due to inexperience etc. happens to normal people too.

assuming what you're saying is objectively true, the things your alleged BPD has done do seem very plausible - however the BPD are drawn towards people with weak boundaries to begin with, which still kinda points to your maladjustment. strong boundaries prevent conflicts like this from being born and growing further.

but honestly, it's not very relevant to the question at hand, it's just nice to keep in mind.

>>127673
>however the BPD are drawn towards people with weak boundaries to begin with, which still kinda points to your maladjustment
Well, you got me there. I'm definitely not well-adjusted, seeing as I use imageboards. And yeah, I do have pretty weak boundaries.
However,
>interpret fairly normal actions in a very malicious light
I'm usually a relaxed person who doesn't care too much or read into other people's actions but this bpd person is seriously crazy and I'm hypervigilant about them

>>127542
There's nothing I can't stand more than BPDemons. That's why I've stopped using lolcow, the place has started swarming with nothing more than BPD and NPD women

>>127480
>has a really sexy car
Is it a Renault Twingo?

>>127480
Forgot these pros:
- Drinks Matcha
- Wears funky plushies

>>127480
>anger issues as a child that were never resolved
>very bad reputation on campus
>our college had to move us into seperate houses
Clearly they are seeing something you are blinding yourself to. Please be safe nona.

>>127492
hell no never

>>126884
i don't have the cold heart needed to disable recently viewed photos in settings and just hope he doesn't notice

did he notice ?

>>124208
At least you have those fat reserves to help you get through the hard times.

Not my worst rock bottom but I haven't been this low in the past years

Lost my job in start of august because the new manager decided to replace some of the staff and been unemployed since. Didn't even make an effort to find another one, I kept telling myself I will, but I got too comfortable being neet again as I've been one during covid years and I missed it

I've almost eaten through all my savings, I have enough money left for 1-2 months. I know I should start looking for a job soon, and I'm planning to in january, but I find it hard to motivate myself. Having enough sleep feels too great, so does having the free time to cook food and do whatever I want on my pc all day

>>127784
Like a month ago I was very motivated to find one as i wanted to feel productive, but now I find myself slipping again. Knowing I'll have to eventually wake up sleep deprived and having to go somewhere early and spend 10 hours there just so I can afford food and pay my bills is kind of daunting.

Last online friend just blocked me and removed me on every platform out of nowhere and now I have no one. I often wonder if I am just so unlikeable or annoying that spending time with me is so miserable, but people seem to generally enjoy my company. The problem is just that I am the last option with every person I meet so they end up ignoring me for long periods of time while I'm sat at my computer feeling too anxious to send a message (until the loneliness becomes so unbearable that I bite the bullet and reach out).

I am dealing with a chronic illness that leaves me housebound and in turn I have developed severe agoraphobia. I haven't gone outside in years so it's hard for me to make real friends. Therapy didn't work and brute force doesn't work so I don't know what to do. I feel very stuck. I am so bored and lonely every single day with no one to talk to and nothing to do, while also dealing with probably the worst physical illness related episode in my life. I'm in pain in every physical way with no comfort or joy anywhere. It's so depressing and I constantly just blame myself because if everyone vanishes then I must be the problem somehow. I'm getting tired of asking myself what's wrong with me every night while trying to sleep. I always try my best to make every friendship work out and go above and beyond, even changing myself completely, for people and they still all disappear.

>>127786
It could also be their own issues making them isolate, but I feel you. I don't have the confidence to make online friends in the first place, so I'm lucky to have a stable anonymous community I can generally exist peacefully in

thought you had your shit together
but damn i was wrong
you ain’t nothing but a lost cause
and this ain’t nothing like it once was
i know you think you’re such an outlaw
BUT YOU GOT NO JOB!!

if i’m going down, then i’m going down GOOD
if i’m going down, then i’m going down CLEAN
if i’m going down then i’m going -
the prettiest broken girl you’ve ever seen

if i’m going down, then i’m going down GOOD
if i’m going down, then i’m going down CLEAN
if i’m going down, then i’m going -
the prettiest wretched whore you’ve ever

but while i breathe
i’ve got no evidence to prove my end

and so you’ll walk away?
NOPE.
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you’re not having fun
i think that you should ride
call me when you’re ready to be real

did i get lost along the way?
lose my mind for a new identity?
i quite enjoy ruining your day
and i just wanna cause a entropy

you tried so hard
to make a hero out of me
but there are some rules i don’t obey
and i just wanna cause a little chaos and
entropy

you tried so hard
to take the discord out of me
but guess what?
i wasn’t born that way
and i just wanna cause a little entropy

and when you shame me
it makes me want it more