/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Narcissistic is not a bad word. There is primary narcissism and pathological narcissism. Everyone SHOULD be narcissistic in a healthy way. Having no primary narcissism (boundaries basically) is a disaster.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_narcissism#Primary_narcissism

I can relate to what you've written. I think you could just be autistic, not narcisssitic.

>>129475
horrible day to have eyes

>>129475
Was he doing prolapse stuff because if so it's time to run. If you were into it I don't see why you broke up, especially if you were fine with him doing it before because of the money

>>129475
moid hand typed this post.

I hate that any time I go into a new job thinkiing I'll be able to look like picrel but then either the dress code sucks, or I end up being too tired to put in effort at all.
it's been a month and I'm still hopping from job to a job hoping to find a somewhat balanced one because it's either too exhausting, too boring, or the uniform sucks, I know that's a silly reason to turn down a job tho
But since most jobs pay about the same, why would I stay at one where you can't even look cute

I feel like such a bitter loser. I went to Ikea last weekend to pick up a skillet and got there when it was full of happy younger couples picking out kitchenware, holding hands and shit. I just felt depressed for the rest of the day.

>>129455

quitting cold turkey can be incredibly damaging and do more harm than good. don't quit cold turkey when it comes to SSRIs. tapering is important to prevent major withdrawals. please stop telling people to just "quit", this is terrible advice.

op, I'd just talk to your doctor (or get another opinion if that's an option for you). definitely do research into these medications and side effects.

>>129455
Throwing stuff like that in trash or flushing it down the drain poisons the environment, most water purification systems aren't designed to deal with such elements. It would be best to find an apothecary that accepts expired medications for utilization.

Those things are awful, i felt like my brain was disconnected. I didnt get anything out of sex and i didnt get high from weed, i got knocked out by them and slept for most of afternoon after taking. I had a terrible reaction when i took acid after being a month off ssri's and made me say things i did not mean to people i loved. Like my body was doing bad things that i couldnt control but only watch helplessly from the inside. Please get off of them and seek solutions either through lifestyle change, or see a psychiatrist to evaluate you and prescribe you something that actually treats your issues and doesnt just shut off your brain.

The naps were very pleasant though…

Do you really believe there are chemical solutions to emotional problems? Fear, anxiety and sadness are nor necessarily always undesirable or unhelpful states of mind, they are often representative of the necessary pain of psychological growth. And to deny that pain is to deny our own potential. Just as one must suffer physical pain to build stronger bone and muscle, one must suffer emotional pain to develop greater emotional resilience, a stronger sense of self, increased compassion, and a generally happier life.

I dont care what anyone says, ssris are based.
But if this is how your experience is like on them, you should contact your doctor. I wouldn't take them in this situation if I were you.

pros:

>taller and older than me
>has a steady income and can support me
>not bad looking, he's fat but losing weight
>has the cutest kitty (picrel)
>treats me like a princess
>I actually vibe with him very well
>not cishet

cons:
>will probably get tired of me eventually
>has a shit kink (but doesn't force me to indulge in it ofc)
>wants kids in the future, I don't
>makes comments after sex that… should not be said right after sex
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>>129454
Girl, just get a part time job in something. Get your bread up, not some guys dick. No judgment, just don't let a man be your whole world.

>>129466

thats the plan

>>129422
It's not, I should've put it on a neutral one. Yeah, I'm very happy he's not

Only been on a couple dates but he seems nice.

Pros
>Raised well, has manners, holds doors open,
>plays along with my improv and jokes around
>has well paying job
>likes same niche music as i do
>plays many same games
>is open minded and is interesting to talk with.
>is responsible
>works out
>lived outside of our country for couple years and has interesting stories

Cons
>not the best looking, but not ugly
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>>129436
You are the one bullying the guy for being ugly right now, retard.

>>129444
Go back, moid

>>129444
no where in that comment is anon bullying him. in fact no one in this thread is ridiculing him for his looks. you seem a sensitive.

if this was a male thread and the woman was ugly, there would be comments
>calling her a whore
>describing how she deserves to die
>threating to rape her
>ridiculing her race
>with shitty edits of her in humiliation porn
>ridiculing her partner as a cuck
>detailing how they cyberstalked her sm to harass her
this thread is tame so far.

>>129444
If faggots like you got treated like a woman for a few days 95% of you would end your lives

My personal tinfoil but I genuinely believe that his channel was an incel psy-op astroturfed by YouTube to get more sympathy for incels in the world. Even when he uploaded his stupid wedding video the official YouTube headquarters channel commented saying "Congratulations!
Oh and let's not forget he even managed to get another girlfriend, a blonde American girl named Luna, before he met the current 7/10 wife that he's with. He uploaded some videos of Luna before he deleted them all and I guess the current wife came into the picture.

Yeh, my type is rare where I live. I like tall high IQ autists with soft dark brown hair and cute jew noses specifically but there are no guys like this in my fucked up city. I will probably die alone sadly

my type is eastern european girls or asians but alot of the girls in my area are morbidly obese or lack a good personality
where i am my type is also quite rare, im too busy sleeping to talk to girls though

i don't have a type. finding a decent person is hard though

my type has mainly been fabricated by the amount of japanese media ive consumed my whole life, especially on my late teens. i have a liking for a type that nowadays only dresses up like that to either get girls or get internet famous. most of the moids who wants to replicate that style are hideous, but are somehow treated as a hot anime bishie despite their facial hair being visible…i think theres only one that i know of that manages to pull it off, but he comes off as an obnoxious faggot fuckboy. grim, i should stop fantasizing about this type of guy, cause he only ever existed during japan in the early 00s. and even at that time they were either whores or payed whores. not fair, too bad they look super cute…basically, my appearance type for guys is a tall skinny guy my age, who looks good with either hosuto or gyaruo hairstyles. i am a fan of mj from arashi, so a guy who resembles his looks from before he got old are very good to me as well…im also of course not just a yellow fevered otak, cause i like the skinny tall emo type too…something like shirota yu or those guys you would find in the earlier years of myspace. i mainly like asian or european men tho…however to find one like the ones ive described is pretty much impossible irl. for personality type, i would say i like a guy who would be the opposite of my personality type. like an outgoing guy, who is a extrovert. just being kind and caring is all he needs. a playful personality, just overall teasing is so hot…i have a liking for shy and more reserved guys too. i find a guy who is very emotional, quiet, and dependent just too cute. i like guys who wear glasses too. also school nurses and teachers…id say police men too but i would be afraid of him getting hurt. honestly it all just depends on what otome game im playing or bishie anime im watching to make me more into their tropes kek. my dream guy would be fitting for a yandere type, though irl that would translate badly obviously (yes i am autistic, no i am not underage) and be also a virgin. if he isnt a vigirn, then he is a whore and i obviously dont want that. too bad irl guys are all used up and walled. even their sperm is expired, probably. i want for my boyfriend to be my first in everything, so i will be his first for everything as well. i think both of us being inexperienced could make it even better…maybe thats why im into the childhood friend trope. in the end i know that this is all just a fad, no one is like that irl. also im not that Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>129374
my type has changed with age, but one thing that's remained consistent is how well we get along. I am not attracted to someone i don't get along with, no matter how attractive.

i've had crushes on/dated guys of all varieties; from neckbeards to musicians.

now that i think of it, i somewhat always go for bums .-.

It's my birthday soon and if you don't wish me one I'm blocking you.

Actually, I'm blocking you either way

stop using different numbers to contact me it’s been 2 years i hate you you ugly cunt

if i could go back, i'd put you in prison.

i know all of your accounts so stop thinking you can hide shit from me

Question- does your friend care about how you're feeling? Enough to ask how you're doing? Basic empathy stuff.

Also, if he's just ramming it in without using foreplay or even lube, he hates you and is only using you for your youth. Do yourself a favor and leave before he baby traps you

>>129432
Not OP, but… uh oh… I met him when I was 18 and he was 25…

I relate to this a lot. Where do I even go from here? I don't have the motivation to go out and get a job but I also don't know what else to do other than rot in bed and play games 24/7. Being a NEET is honestly pretty hard

>>128773
OP HERE… so my male friend finished bootcamp and i was able to call and play video games with him recently but hes barely the same person. He seemed uninterested to talk to me and empty? fml. I think im gonna lose him soon as well

>>129469
They broke his spirit. He got what he asked for.

>>129469
maybe he thinks youre not interested so the army is all he really got

>>129165
Part time job as a waitress or cleaner

Part time job as a toilet cleaner in offices and you're good to go, until money runs out of course

Would you rather be a tradwife?

>>129234
So because I dont want to be a slave that means I should just be homeless and die? That's sociopathic
>>129398
I am autistic so I can't stand schedules. That's the problem I have with working. I only want to work when have energy to do so. Autistic people are just not meant for this world. It sucks having a brain that's wired the opposite of surviving in normalfag society basically
>>129416
I mean, im ok with being a tradwife as long as I dont have to cook or clean everyday. That's too much work for me tbh

I knew a guy who worked with homeless people.

according to him, there were many homeless moids who owned cars who literally refused to get jobs because they enjoyed homelessness too much. as long as they had a car and some cash for the occasional hotel room, they were happy. I stress "moid" here because they didn't have to worry about getting raped in the streets lol.

these were regular men with no drug addictions or mental illness. they lived like John Candy in Planes, Trains and Automobiles and loved it.

This is understandable but for me it's less the work that sucks and more the not making enough to make ends meet. My goal is to get a degree and rent a small apartment (I don't need much else) but I always told myself that if I reached a point where I truly hated working I'd just become a hardcore crust punk and spend all my life listening to good music and hanging out with alcoholics. I'd probably save up enough to get a trailer/van and live the van life or something. Then I'd do the kind of work that's enjoyable yet not enough pay. With the rising gas prices that's not very realistic but it's probably less than renting an apartment.