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femcel vent Anonymous 129429[Reply]

i hate my life. being below average as a girl is torture. im technically fakecel bc i actually found a man who i like who is an older dilf and he lets me live with him so i get to have sleep in his bed and have sex sometimes so that's nice but has anyone else noticed how when youre below average as a girl people aren't as kind or respectful of you? its like stacys who know how to do makeup and have good genetics have a halo effect and everyone is gentle towards them and stuff but the man i live with he's kinda rough during sex and doesnt seem to care about my feelings much sometimes and then i have 1 friend (my only friend) who is considerably cuter than me and everyone always treats her like her feelings matter and will allow her to cut corners and stuff just to avoid hurting her feelings

Anonymous 129432

Question- does your friend care about how you're feeling? Enough to ask how you're doing? Basic empathy stuff.

Also, if he's just ramming it in without using foreplay or even lube, he hates you and is only using you for your youth. Do yourself a favor and leave before he baby traps you


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Anonymous 128629[Reply]

How do people, especially women, have casual sex and one night stands?

I cant have sex without catching feelings. i think this is true for a lot of guys that dont have sex frequently. every time feels important and special.

Anonymous 128634

>>128629
Neither can I. Didn't take me long to figure out casual sex wasn't for me.
I think we are biologically programmed to bound with sexual partners with hormones being involved or something. Never cared to look up the details because I know what I feel.

Anonymous 129423

Casual sex was a psyop created by moids. Like just think about it for 5 seconds. ONS sex is so bad, how can they even know what you like.

Anonymous 129426

>>129423
You're right, the creator of Sex and the City was a jew named Darren Star.

Anonymous 129427

>>129426
satc is a show written by a gay moid. and it’s obvious


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Anonymous 129166[Reply]

I am so fucking angry that I have to work for the rest of my life. The concept of working is fucking cruel if you think about it long enough. We are slaving our lives away and for what? To not be homeless? The homeless have more freedom than us. I am neet currently but I will be forced into slavery soon since my money is running out. The last job I had, I only lasted a week at. It was genuinely traumatic. Working was 10x more traumatic than when I was molested and soon I'm going to have to fucking do it again for the next 50 years. My life is a nightmare I wish I was aborted. I just want to play vidya all day that's it. That's my only goal
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Anonymous 129398

Part time job as a toilet cleaner in offices and you're good to go, until money runs out of course

Anonymous 129416

Would you rather be a tradwife?

Anonymous 129418

>>129234
So because I dont want to be a slave that means I should just be homeless and die? That's sociopathic
>>129398
I am autistic so I can't stand schedules. That's the problem I have with working. I only want to work when have energy to do so. Autistic people are just not meant for this world. It sucks having a brain that's wired the opposite of surviving in normalfag society basically
>>129416
I mean, im ok with being a tradwife as long as I dont have to cook or clean everyday. That's too much work for me tbh

Anonymous 129420

I knew a guy who worked with homeless people.

according to him, there were many homeless moids who owned cars who literally refused to get jobs because they enjoyed homelessness too much. as long as they had a car and some cash for the occasional hotel room, they were happy. I stress "moid" here because they didn't have to worry about getting raped in the streets lol.

these were regular men with no drug addictions or mental illness. they lived like John Candy in Planes, Trains and Automobiles and loved it.

Anonymous 129424

This is understandable but for me it's less the work that sucks and more the not making enough to make ends meet. My goal is to get a degree and rent a small apartment (I don't need much else) but I always told myself that if I reached a point where I truly hated working I'd just become a hardcore crust punk and spend all my life listening to good music and hanging out with alcoholics. I'd probably save up enough to get a trailer/van and live the van life or something. Then I'd do the kind of work that's enjoyable yet not enough pay. With the rising gas prices that's not very realistic but it's probably less than renting an apartment.


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finally had sex with a girl, but i cried after Anonymous 129205[Reply]

i've only been with moids my whole life, but last night i had an opportunity to have sex with a woman and it was very lovely at first, but i realised during it i wasn't really enjoying it, so we stopped.

after i had left her house i just cried so hard.
i never particularly liked having sex with moids, but i thought that was a moid thing.

i think i struggle with having sex with anybody, it just makes me really uncomfortable despite the fact i really enjoy intimacy and the company of others.
i really like to flick my bean, so its not like i have no arousal.. i just dont like having sex with people.

have any other nonas experienced anything similar?
i feel like im in a weird situation because i can't expect a long-term relationship with anyone if the thought of having sex with them terrifies me.
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Anonymous 129280

>>129237
>do you think porn could be the issue?
It definitely is an issue, especially starting at an early age. And masturbation can re wire the brain to only like masturbation and not enjoy normal sex, masturbating to porn got many people into voyeur/cuckshit

>>129239
This

Anonymous 129287

>>129239
This.

Porn has nothing to do with it; maybe even helped in making you think casual sex is empty and overrated.

Go find real love, OP.

Anonymous 129399

Yesterday I tried Mexican food for the first time. I didn't like it. No big deal.

Anonymous 129406

>>129237
is it just me or is 9 a common age to watch porn for the first time? I probably saw it around 7-8

Anonymous 129415

>>129399
are u comparing trying food for the fist time to having sex for the first time


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Anonymous 129404[Reply]

hey so do I just stop texting this guy or

we just met 3 days ago, told him I have a boyfriend (because it came up in conversation) and we chatted a lot cause we have things in common.

I usually never interact with men on purpose but since I have a bf now and this guy looked alternative like me I thought i could make a friend

bleh
just don’t know how to approach this

Anonymous 129405

>>129404
why are you worried about hurting the feelings of some moid who’s acting like a whiny entitled retard. just stop messaging him and befriend a girl. men aren’t your friends


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Unsent Single-Sentence Messages Anonymous 129271[Reply]

This thread is for short, unsent thoughts (1–3 sentences max). Use this space to post standalone unsent emotional messages that don’t need to be a full letter.

Please do not use this thread for conversation, replies, or back-and-forth exchanges. Each post should stand on its own.

Anonymous 129369

It's my birthday soon and if you don't wish me one I'm blocking you.

Actually, I'm blocking you either way

Anonymous 129397

stop using different numbers to contact me it’s been 2 years i hate you you ugly cunt

Anonymous 129401

if i could go back, i'd put you in prison.


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i have a phobia of female role in sex which makes me dysphoric as fuck and sex repulsed Anonymous 126444[Reply]

anyone else??? i just find the role submissive and humuliating, i dont wanna post it on nsfw board bc i dont wanna see anons talk about wanting to do humiliating sex acts i have a phobia of
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Anonymous 128278

>>128100
Only if you dont assert the female gaze.

Anonymous 128279

>>128276
Exactly

Anonymous 128280

>>128277
Yes, but it is an act of evil he is entitled to inflict on women, therefore it is “good” (when he does it).

Anonymous 129203

>>126444
It is ALL in how you see it. I don't see myself being penetrated; I see myself absorbing and swallowing the man's power within me. I don't see a blowjob as subservient but as using my power over him to make him beg for more. And surely a guy who goes down on you is acknowledging your dominance and practically worshipping you

Anonymous 129400

Sex is YOU conqquering HIM - absorbing, engulfing, stealing his power


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Commie moids Anonymous 128878[Reply]

Is it a good idea to date a hardcore commie moid? [Sorry for bad English it's my second language]
>met him at a book fair with other friends
>he was in a booth encouraging people to read commie books and even gave digital copies to some
>I'm 23 he is 21
>he is studying medicine and im studying engineering
>we kinda flirted and I have a date with him on Sunday
Is it a red flag for a moid to be a commie? [Pun intended]
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Anonymous 128948

>>128939
It's ok to talk his ex. A bit weird though but tolerable, I guess. Just don't expect him to accept it if he discovers that. Would you be ok if he were stalking all of your profiles on Insta/FB/Whatsapp and talking to your exes, too?

Anonymous 129150

>>128878
They're notorious for betraying their friends and family to conform to the new rhetoric, I personally experienced that.

Anonymous 129157

>>129150
Can confirm, my sister has no loyalty towards her family that keeps supporting her throughout her life, just blindly defends people she has never met (at expense of those who are closer to her). As if to mechanically compensate for lacking natural human virtue, she clings to crude ideas of morality.

Anonymous 129190

>>129157
Update
>talked to his ex
>she was nice to me (gave me a cupcake)
>Didn't tell her I knew him just poked around her life she surprisingly didn't mind and they basically broke up cause he is always doing something, if he is not studying for college or at college he is either at his job or doing charity work (he also helps out at a church, I found that kinda cute) she told me he was great as a partner when he was with her the main issue being most of the time he wasn't with her. She also told me he wasn't very close to anybody she told me he is surrounded by friends and people who like him but he doesn't have best friends or even close to his family. I mean she told me they are on good terms but not close, she found that odd and I do too
>>129150
>>129157
I kinda see what you mean nonas, I don't think he betrays people, he just stays outside of everyone's life's and offers them help when they need it, I guess that's honorable/selfless¿?

We went on a another date today, he is sweet but I noticed what his ex meant, he listened to me and we had a great chat but after being 5 hours together, he never talked about himself, the only thing I learned about him was his favorite ice cream,I need to ask who he is to get to know him
Bottom line is
>I don't like that at all it makes me feel as if he doesn't trust me, plus I do know myself well enough to accept I like attention from my partner, I would be miserable if I felt as if I was just a way to fill his freetime a hobby not a partner… so yeah I'm ghosting him but props to him, at least he is the most selfless person I've ever met… I guess…

Anonymous 129388

no, political moids will always love their ideology moer than you.


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Would you ever hire an Etsy Witch? Anonymous 129364[Reply]

Honestly, their code of ethics is rancid, but I truly wonder if the Etsy witches when in communion, can manipulate the fabric of our reality and make quite the pretty dress for me to wear to cure me from my mind and bad luck with love.

Anonymous 129371

my witch fren made an altar for me this full moon. not sure if it worked (or is working) or not but it's nice.

Anonymous 129387

nona you should hire me


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Who else here has BPD? Anonymous 129339[Reply]

F20 and was diagnosed with BPD recently, even though I knew I had it for a couple of years.

I have gotten so much better with my symptoms but currently I'm dating a guy that I feel cares more about being right that my feelings whenever he does something that affects me. I don't feel like he also ever takes into consideration the fact that I have BPD and this is something he knew from the start.

I'm tired of having BPD and such overwhelming emotions to the point I can't function properly
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Anonymous 129365

>>129351
it really sucks too because borderlines are frequently raised and abused by narcissists. i know i was.

Anonymous 129366

>>129365 My mom wasn't a narcissist, nor was my dad, but they were both traumatized by their childhoods and themselves, with their own issue, but both refused or were clueless to therapy. It's not even just narc's, but people who have children, but refuse to fix themselves first and when their kids also have issues, they blame and torment the kids.

That's another form of untold abuse. People need to wear condoms. If they aren't mature enough for therapy, they aren't mature enough for children.

Anonymous 129372

>>129366

Agree entirely. Not sure how old you are, but one of the things that bother me is when we're called the weaker generation whenever mental health is mentioned, just for being self-aware and not being an asshole to people despite your upbringing.

If anything they are the weak ones for taking the easy path (People were assholes to me so I'll be an asshole to them) And not being neither smart or aware enough to even try and make a difference.

Anonymous 129373

>>129365

I'm pretty sure my dad is narc as well :/

Anonymous 129386

stopped believing in all of these
im just me


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