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i think my ex is gonna take his life Anonymous 130574[Reply]

i am 20 he is 24 he wanted to break up with me yesterday and i agreed, he then switched up and wanted to get back together and has apologised. i have ignored because he has done this before and i am really worried because he tried to force himself into my house whilst i was sleeping but my mum came to the house and she told him politely to go away so he gave her gifts for me. i did not want to break up with him but he never listens to my boundaries and has done loads of things to break my trust like reaching out to his ex and although ive moved on from certain situations because i am forgiving i have overtime built up resentment against him which is why i agreed to him breaking up. he is extremely emotional and is manipulative/gaslights when he wants to get his own way but i checked his twitter today and he has posted self harm on my tattoo i made of him and all over his arm and he has told me if i broke up with him he woudl take his life and so i am really worried because i still love him but he is destroying me mentally and draining me, the reasonwhy i didnt want to see him is because last time he flipped out he came tomy house and took this £600 mirror we both paid for but it was partially a gift to me and i took it badly as i wanted that mirror for over a year i am so worried for his wellbeing because recently he has completely changed his mentality and i am scared i told him i am worried to see him because i am scared he is going to harm me because he told memany times he could kill me and i believe him because he shares the same mentality of someone that would kill a girl because the girl has broken up with him and i love him a lot so sorry if i am not typing normally i am just really worried for him and for me too and im scared hes going to take his life wether intentional or not because he has done heroinin the past to try and kill himself im so fucking worried man
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Anonymous 130696

>>130574
his life and deaths are absolutely your responsibility. if he threatens suicide, thats a genuine cry for help. he has hurt you before but he definitely will not hurt you again when he has the chance. save this guy.

Anonymous 130712

>>130696
What the fuck are you talking about. This faggot moid needs to get over himself and stop manipulating this poor girl. Did you not read the part where he threatened to kill her before? Handmaids like you should stay quiet.

>>130574
Any updates?

Anonymous 131596

>>130696

Not really, depressive men who kill themselves do it.

Men who tell women about it want something in exchange.

It's about time that if she does what he wants, unless she actually acts like a sane person and contacts a ward or his parents (if possible) to care for the problem. If she acts like if he deserves her time after being, what she described, then she would end up being manipulated if she does as you say. Obviously.

A handmaiden would take the matters as her responsability to care for the emotional needs of man who hurt her, as to feel a person.

A woman as a proper adult, will just contact the proper adults for this situation as a mentally ill man is not acting properly.

Anonymous 131742

>>130574
hey op i hope you are safe.

Anonymous 131852

Woooo!!!! Let him die! Let him die! Let him die!
Come back to us with an update in a few months. Of course, guys like this are histrionic attention whores, so I won't be expecting much of anything interesting to happen.


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Has anyone else given up completely on their life? Anonymous 131845[Reply]

I work a dead end job, no higher education, I'm not saving for retirement, no real plans for the future unless you count Pinterest boards for the future lul, I have health issues I refuse to address, etc. I don't know, I'm just tired of hearing about self improvement everywhere. I genuinely don't care and would be happy just decaying on my desk chair while scrolling on the webs all day. Anyone else like this?

Anonymous 131848

>>131845
On the contrary, the last 10 years of my life have been fraught with seemingly insurmountable difficulties and now that I have a second chance at life, I don't intend to waste it and it's filled my soul with boundless energy. Don't take your life for granted. Life is beautiful

Anonymous 131849

>>131845
Please address your health issues especially if you are on your parents insurance. Regardless I feel somewhat similar, except I’ve worked really hard for a bullshit degree and career path that won’t work out. Sort of followed my dreams to a fault. I know I would not be happy doing anything else but I fear I cannot be happy doing this either and should have kept rotting like during Covid.

Anonymous 131850

you have a job so it's not so bad, you can always get a higher education and find your passion, maybe in 5, 10, 15 years, half of the population under 25 is in your exact same place. i'm in the same boat but with no income lol. you should start motivating yourself by doing little things, like skincare, painting, easy stuff, i've found a lot of interests that way that made me a bit less miserable. i'd also love to just bedrot and doomscroll forever but then the guilt hits


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Anonymous 128419[Reply]

feels like I'm excluded from womanhood because I have a hormonal condition (pcos) and I'm a tomboy
>Be me
>25 year old female ,who powerlifts
>Have a decent amount of muscle and deep voice due to pcos as well as body hair from the age of 12
>Join a women's only art discord server
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend,I say no
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped and instantly banned
>Had enough because this happens to me everyday,even in the women's bathrooms. Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod ,and get promptly banned again as expected (that's fair enough)

Damn
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Anonymous 130605

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>Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod
Nigga why?

Anonymous 130609

>>128419
God I wish that were me (Revy). I'm weak and skinny

Anonymous 130610

>>130609
same

Anonymous 131438

>>128419
>sending nudes to strangers without consent

Anonymous 131836

>>128419
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped
>send my pussy and tits to the mod
>I posted this photo of this painting I made of my boyfriend who has big honkers
Yeah that happened
anon if any of this is true, I'd look into therapy because none of this is normal behaviour


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are women meaner or nicer when you look good? Anonymous 131767[Reply]

Since I've moved to a big city I've had this problem where I'll be minding my business in a grocery store and some crackhead middleaged woman will try and start a fight with me. It happens a few times a year. I never instigate, I always keep to myself and stay far away from people. They'll throw insults usually, but last week a woman tried hitting me with her cart.

I always look like a bum when I go grocery shopping. My friend suggested I dress up when I shop so that these women will feel inferior and leave me the fuck alone. Does that work? I thought they'd get jealous and the opposite would happen.

Idk. Let me know what you guys have experienced.
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Anonymous 131793

>>131778
Yes. /thread

Anonymous 131794

>>131793
No

Anonymous 131807

You probably seem harmless and kind, and that type of thug really likes to hit on women. If you dress better, they might think you have more money and want to ask you for more things; the best thing to do is walk around with a serious face, homeless people and drug addicts like to intimidate people who seem excessively kind.

Anonymous 131809

>>131808
No milf for canadians

Anonymous 131826

>>131772
Nod and walk away.


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there’s always another girl Anonymous 131762[Reply]

i don’t know why men can never just be satisfied with one girl. they always want something more from other girls in one way or another. one girl will never be enough for them. it doesn’t even matter how devoted and loving you are. in my experience that makes them want to do this sort of thing even more. without fail they always do this to me. this man has done this to me with multiple girls. my heart is broken. i am so devastated.

Anonymous 131763

>>131762
I'm sorry to hear someone has broken your heart. Unfortunately the kind of person who will be loyal and trustworthy in a relationship might not be as interesting or fun as the person who might cheat. It's really important to think about the kind of person you're dealing with when choosing a partner. You don't want to overanalyze every little thing they do but you should absolutely be paying attention if they say they're still close with their ex or if they're a person who has a tendency to do drastic spontaneous things. At the end of the day, love is ultimately a gamble and as any gambler will tell you, sometimes you're just going to lose. Keep your head up there are billions other fish in the sea.

Anonymous 131764

I hear a lot of ice cream helps and throw his clothes into the street

Anonymous 131765

i’m sorry nona :( men suck. take the advice sylvia could never follow through with herself.

Anonymous 131766

>>131763
I know what you are.

Anonymous 131792

Typical moid behavior.


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bf clothes smell like ferret Anonymous 131785[Reply]

i love my boyfriend desu
but clothes that hang up in his room smell like ammonia-y ferret droppings. not musky, like cat pee if it was even worse, and without actually coming in contact with the pee. he has to wash his clothes when he comes over. when i go over i have to keep my clothes shut in my zipped suitcase. my dumb ass just hasn't told him that i know the source of it
we're ldr and idk how to broach the topic that it is gonna be me or the ferrets if he wants me to move in with him. i have migraines and my ocd already makes me think i'm stinky
also it's bad for animal welfare i think
wtf i do
(i already am bitey when he doesnt do stuff to my standard in my home, he just says ok and does it tho)

Anonymous 131787

build a decontamination chamber in your house

Anonymous 131788

>>131787
do not worry
there will be no house if this is not dealt with somehow


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bf didn’t follow the three month rule Anonymous 127558[Reply]

i was proposed to but there are a lot of red flags and i’m really having some doubts. for starters it was an impulse proposal and i wouldn’t have wanted my engagement photos where i was dressed the way i was. he let me leave the house looking like absolute shit and only posted the ugliest photo. the other photos i don’t have a double chin. other girls have best friends that take them to do nails and secretly get them ready. a female friend was there and knew and didn’t do anything to help me with my appearance beforehand. he bought the rings there. i don’t know if he thinks i’m fat but my ring is sized so poorly i can’t wear it and we’ve been turned down so far at the shops we’ve taken the rings to because they don’t work with cheap metal or rings they didn’t sell there. like it’s not a size too big it’s dangling off my finger and i have no idea why he thought my finger would be so huge it makes me want to cry. my friends are all furious for me. he doesn’t make that much money it’s true but he could have gotten me a real ring. and then i came home. and i found out his ex got proposed to the same day. the same. day. and she had been aware of it and had a spa day with her friends and a gorgeous engagement shoot and party with loved ones. and it’s not even her real engagement party. hes talking about whether or not i think she’ll send him the announcement “to rub it in”. they have mutual friends and i can’t help wonder if my engagement was a last minute response to her engagement so he could post ours first? she had a professional photographer and mailed out announcements before she posted online about it. my engagement photo shoot was also an impulse - we were on a walk with a friend and he snapped some pictures and we called it an engagement shoot. my ex had been talking about his exes prissy snobby etc engagement and i think our friend felt bad for me. since then, he’s disappeared inside himself. he’s on the computer all day. he wouldn’t even pay attention to me right after at my dads birthday party, just sat in a lawn chair in his stupid yellow shirt drinking beer after beer scrolling on his phone occasionally hiding his phone screen trying not to make eye contact with me. we had a talk about it and i said i wasn’t insecure and my friends have been supportive and game with me when he won’t. he got jealous and has been making an effort to join in now and NOW he has a problem with screen time and wants to go out. to places he used to go with his ex or placePost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Anonymous 127773

>>127769
after a certain point of having so little in my relationship to talk about i started making content about how we eat different foods from each other even though we both have ARFID because there was literally nothing else in our relationship to make content about, including both of us gaming but none of that ending up as usable content because of his personality. maybe i deserve an affair where it feels like there’s blood in my veins again. the sitting around watching a man unable to eat vegetables rotate through the same five junk food meals that make his cum taste like battery acid has me thinking maybe there is more to life than meal prepping for a 30 year old toddler and watching him fart and disassociate staring at a screen.

Anonymous 127942

>>127773
What the fuck do you mean an affair. Run away ASAP nona, nothing will fix him. It will only get worse, get out before it's too late.

Anonymous 130648

HERE LIES NONA
???? - 2026
she died as she lived; in a relationship with an awful man

Anonymous 131598

>>127773
Nona what the fuck what is making you stay with him

Make a book and monetize or something because I rarely see people actually experiencing this crazy stuff, you know? I actually think, that if you made a book you would sell it asap. Really fast, like Colleen Hoover but you are writing something real.

I actually desire you the best for your future writer career.

Anonymous 131779

when I read shit like this I can only wonder how the hell did you end up with a guy like this in the first place


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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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Anonymous 131211

yoga, read, cook, clean, workout, overwatch.

Anonymous 131268

a large chunk of my day is just wasting away, suffering from painkiller resistant chronic pain and fatigue and they still call me lazy

Anonymous 131277

>>131268
Have you tried not being in pain? /s

Anonymous 131558

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I’m living a good life as a NEET right now and I’m pretty productive in my daily life. But seeing other women actually having pretty impressive jobs makes me feel like I need to prove I’m just as good as them. I don’t want to be the less accomplished one in the room, you know? A career isn’t necessary for that but the fact that I sucked at my jobs makes me feel insecure.

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>>130256
After like a month I notice I probably do much better when I dedicate all my time to one project at a time. My mind is just naturally way too dedicated and tunnel vision. I am not sure if that's a good thing or a bad one. But I get some stuff done.


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i hate living Anonymous 131053[Reply]

>wake up
>get dressed
>go to work
>deal with male co workers harassing me for 7 hours
>go home
>shower
>wash clothes
>brush teeth
>sleep
again and again and again and again and again and again
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Anonymous 131074

>>131070
I mean I don’t really know what else you want me to say. I work in an office for a company and spend my day sorting through emails and replying to stuff.

Anonymous 131076

>>131075
Lol the CIA definitely has you on some list somewhere next to the Unabomber

Anonymous 131220

>>131057
Extremely male post but good if true

Anonymous 131346

>>131053
Nona your job sounds like it sucks ass. Have you considered getting a new one?

Anonymous 131746

>>131053
You gotta gross them out by acting like they do.
Lie about how many guys you fucked during the weekend or how you are a homewrecker.
They only get a rise out of taking advantage of perceived innocence and your socially passive/weaker position.


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I am writing a story Anonymous 131669[Reply]

I am writing a dark fantasy story. I was wondering how do I get people to give me feedback and how do I know if people actually like it? I want to actually be a writer. <3

Anonymous 131671

>>131670
>Maybe a discord for writers?
What if they steal her gems? I wouldn't risk it.

Anonymous 131672

>>131671
She should pick one of those people that never finish their works then


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