/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>121546
post real pictures of him. i’ll save them forever and always remember he is a rapist. all of them deserve to be exposed. i’d post it in gioyc in lolcow. maybe make the post less personal army but they will probably ban you but leave the post about him up anyways.

I'm sorry and I hope you find him. I was groomed at the same age by a man named Jackson Mosher and he ruined my friends life irl, she was younger than me.

>>121593
Samefagging but oh my God I just found him and this is definitely him. He trooned out. https://theothermccain.com/2018/03/30/crazy-people-are-dangerous-the-strange-case-of-gwynevere-river-song/
https://archive.li/MNAGT
Post more info on the guy that molested you.

>>121594
I’m so happy for you that Gwynevere River Song of Waxahachie, Texas, a pedophile who groomed a thirteen year old, has met their karma. Let anyone googling that name find this post and let this be their ONLY memory. The only good pedophile is a dead pedophile.

Gwynevere River Song, Randall Mosey, and Jackson Mosher are all pedophiles. Anyone googling their name should be aware!

>>121518
Most people are egocentric. That's not inherently a bad thing and it makes a lot of sense - "ego" is Latin for "I" and it would take extra cognitive load to think of things from others' perspectives by default.
What that means is that just as you are focused on yourself, people are too are too busy keeping their heads down and surviving to judge you. Just figure out what you want and do it without apology.

Start with light makeup like tinted lip balm and spf sunscreen/moisturizer and rouge, tinted brow gel. You could try douyin makeup also, it’s youthful looking so I am sure it would go well with your young at heart personality nona

People don’t really care, but as someone who was in your shoes I just gave up on makeup and focused on dressing “nicely” and skincare/haircare instead. Casual but still modest dresses in particular are great if you’re not doing anything active. Low effort to look nice in other people’s eyes and comfy. Just make sure to consider your body type when picking dresses out. Skincare is as simple as just using sunscreen in the morning and a moisturizer at night that you’ve found works. Hair care is just doing things like braiding long hair before sleeping, gently detangling during conditioning starting at the ends, and adjusting how often you shampoo (usually less often unless you have super straight and fine hair). It’s so low effort that it’s hard to feel bad about trying but the results work well. I get complimented on my hair and how I dress fairly often nowadays thanks to the little changes I made and don’t really feel bad about going without makeup anymore. My skin’s better off without it anyway.

If I had the audacity to dress up I would but I've seen a lot of girls in my position with aweful makeup and dress sense. If I cringe at it then I'm sure others would too and I'm not confident that I wouldn't make horrible choices.

Personally, I tried stepping it up just a little, I changed my jeans for Hakama style pants and then started wearing some thin patterned scaves. That made me feel a little more flowy and feminine in public without putting my gangly body on display.

I kept everything a muted palette to stay under the radar.

Maybe just make some baby steps in the direction you're hoping for.

>>121518
>I'm terrified that I'll be mocked for it
As another hyper-tomboy autist I can tell you that literally no one cares or thinks this. It would take someone with a personal vendetta against you to think this but if you don't have that kind of enemy then don't even worry about it. Granted, it may surprise others but I don't think they'll be saying all those awful things you mentioned, but really no one ever says anything.
I don't really wear anything girly but starting small does sound like a good idea. I think a long skirt would be the easiest to transition to from my experience.

But I understand where you're coming from (though in my case I just gave up entirely on girly stuff for a different reason), I struggled a lot during hs to make friends like every socially inept person does, and my family especially my mom started blaming it entirely on me being so tomboyish and the way I dressed when we didn't have to wear the uniform so it made me extremely insecure and self-conscious.
I then changed high schools and no it turns out the issue wasn't really the way I dress or my interests like I was made to believe, sometimes you just don't vibe with people and that's ok. I was able to find really good friends in that new high school and we'd have a good time hanging out and having fun and they'd dress way more feminine than I ever could and it didn't matter that I contrasted with them. One of them is my best friend to this day and she has the nicest family.

I do advice you to start making an effort even when you dress tomboyish in the way that you should think about dressing nicely. Try a different type of shirt that's not a graphic tee (not that those can't look nice but they're a bit too casual, I feel), look for some nice pants of different colors or fits and don't forget to get some stylish shoes that you like and go along with your other outfits. Experiment a little so you look a bit more interesting too. Dressing nicely, even if not super girly goes a long way. I also take good care of my long hair and that always brings me compliments. It's about doing what you can to look nice, not what you don't like to look nice imo.

it is much easier to imagine leaving the earth with no one hurting over your loss
but the hole you leave is beyond your comprehension
i still think about my friend who i havent spoken to since november, every day

Family and best friends

my cat will

henceworth i am not gonna die no matter what, i am not leaving my purring creature behind

>>120541
Yes, my family. My friends too, but only delayed because we don't spend a lot of time with each other. I know they'd also be devastated though.
But it'd affect my immediate family the most, it'd be a mental health crisis on all of them, I wouldn't want to do that to them, especially not my little brother, he's only a kid, I couldn't do that… If I got into an accident, I'd fight so hard, not just for mine but also for their sakes…
Thinking about it like that reminds me that I really should take better care of myself in general…

Unfortunately, yes.

>>121522
I disagree the whole reason I have an inflated sense of worth is because I know people are often shitty. No more than anything they live to poison your mind, mental health, gaslight you, or just drive you off the road at any opportunity.

I have like one solid rock in life but holy fuck people are filthy. I think theyre frequently below me YES because I'm often proven right. They prove they are cannibals one way of another. Why should I care what they want or believe ? Why should I believe what they say ?? A person has to prove who they are before I give a fuck about them.

I won't stop looking down on people until they give me a reason not to.

What do you mean, bad things? Robbery? Battery? Cancer? Rape? Getting felt up in a crowd?

I'm certain sexual assault is way underreported. I'm just an ugly weirdo who never goes out or talks to anyone and even I've been groped, and when I redeemed my free scrotoid thinking a romantic relationship would alleviate my loneliness, he pressured me into sex, held me down, tried to control me financially, all the usual things men do to socialize.

>>120729
My hot and controversial take is that you're not wrong. Who knows what's good or bad?

>>120729
you’re probably not even an actual sociopath, just an asocial neet who never leaves the house. nothing bad ever happens to you because i’m guessing very little at all happens to you.

>>121556
women with male friends and partners, women who go to school, women who go to social events, women who use substances, women are socially naive or shy or easily pushed around, autistic women, any kind of woman who struggles with boundaries or are socially isolated.. like what do you think happens to shy lonely women who hang out with very few people and end up alone with a creep who sees they would lose everything socially for speaking up? do you think most boyfriends are patient when waiting to get laid? men will push women to over indulge on substances or pretend they are more wasted than they are to come on to women inappropriately. it’s fucking constant and most women at high risk have multiple risk factors.

>>120462
Why no sex?

Is he repuslive, or are you just past that age where your libido is high?

You should talk about this sort of stuff with him and let him know you dont have a sex drive as high, or if you dont like him physically you can straight up tell him that you'd be more attracted if he lost weight/took better care of himself and he'll change for the better. Only do this if you're good with words though, make sure it doesnt come off as rude!!

>>121315
You could try creating sockpuppets to advertise your site (unless the posts are hand-checked by mods)

I hate reddit so much it is unreal. One time I posted a joke image which was an altered version of an article obviously edited to be satire and it was removed for "misinformation". 4chin jannies are jocks making six figures in comparison

>>120289
I was a leader in a similar position, I quit after 6 months, I just wasnt having fun wrangling impassionate people.

I shouldn't have been born

>>120376
this happened to me and it turns out he found another girl online who lives near him and now they're together so yay. i cope by saying online relationships are fake anyway unless you actually meet the person irl

>>121543
Yeah sure

>>108538
Nothing stops you from calling moids sluts

He is misandrust and only makes exception for you on the height of emotions. He is kind and caring right now as means to earn your trust.
Do what you will with that.

>>121379
i think you mean misogynist right?

>>107458
>>Says that the same body count means differently in a relationship for men & women
But… isn't body count is different for men and women tho?
Its much easier to accumulate a high body count as a woman than it is as a man.
Everyone who's ever experimented with making a mans fake profile on a dating app vs a womans fake (or real) profile will know its true.
Doesn't mean men with a high bodycount are therefore better, absolutely not.
Just because its hard and takes a lot of effort to drink an entire bottle of vodka without falling over blackout drunk doesn't mean its a good thing and something to be proud of, its not.
Its still degenerate and I wouldn't want a manwhore with a high bodycount.
But I'd say it IS a different dynamic.

By the way this post is only about the pure number of "bodycount" without any context, just the simple act of having s*x with multiple different partners.
Because, at least for me and I assume a lot of you, its obviously NOT about s*x, its about getting an actual relationship with a loyal caring and kind BF, and thats just as hard for us as it is for them, if not harder (because I haven't managed to do so yet).

>>107476
>“biological instincts” is definitely a red flag
I probablly agree with that. Would need to ask the BF to clarify and explain first before jumping to conclusions tho.

>>121529
>a different dynamic
Just because it's easier for women (supposedly) doesn't mean the overall meaning of the bodycount has changed.

>>117983
Woww I think this is the only time I've ever seen anyone show any sort of interest for any of my features, sadly it will also be the last time.

>>110541
Unfortunately it feels like they are all either latina or trans.

>>117993
Anon, I'm sorry I never contacted you. I wanted to, but I know my family would never approve of us. I hope you can be happy with a fat and hairy hikki gf one day. I wish it could have been with me.

>>117632
they exist but they're usually like really tiny discords with verification, at least thats been my experience looking

>>110541
>hikki
Isn't that a lot of people here though? I mean, I'm that. But I don't date because I don't leave the house…
I'd like to date too in theory but I'm really bad about keeping in contact with people… I also don't know if I can have sex with someone when I'm almost 30 and a degen of the 3dpd variety, like, real sex just seems intimidating to me. I can relate to Tomoko though, I also listened to the yandere heaven series and played hadaka shitsuji at her age. Watamote made my cry tbh, that manga hit too close to home…
Idk if I'd count as femcel though, more like volcel if I'm not too upset about the celibacy and just want someone to cuddle with…
>>110591
yeah, fr

i'm pretty sure homosexuality is heritable to some degree and would extend to bisexuality for obvious reasons, doesn't mean you'll end up a filthy cheater though

i say tell her and watch it all crash and burn

>>121498
She is dependent on him financially. Also she has called him homophobic slurs in past. So there is a chance she knows

There needs to be a mass-culling of moids and moid-adjacent creatures.

yes kill me baby

Daddy issues?

And yet I can't help but love some moids sm

>>121405
It did massively well for it's budget and still retains a huge cult following and the ED is one of the most notorious EDs of all time