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Jealous of other women Anonymous 129306[Reply]

I’m jealous of other women.
All of them. It feels like every woman in the world has something I don’t. Something I’m missing on a fundamental level. Not just looks. Not just personality. Something deeper. Like they were given a manual on how to exist as a woman and I wasn’t. I don’t measure up. Not in my appearance. Not in how I act. Not in how I talk. I feel like I missed whatever makes someone naturally normal. I feel like a failed version of what I’m supposed to be. Like some kind of glitch. Being around other women makes it worse. I don’t feel like I belong. I feel awkward and wrong, like they can sense that I’m different. I compare myself to every little thing, their confidence, their ease, their femininity, and I always come up short. What makes it worse is that I actually want connection with women. I want female friendships. I want that closeness. But I feel like my jealousy and insecurity just poison it before it can even start. I’m scared I’ll ruin it or that they’ll see through me and confirm what I already believe. That I’m not enough. The only people I really talk to are men, and I’m exhausted by it. Men only end up hurting me. But somehow I feel more comfortable there than with women, even though it’s not healthy for me. I’m just tired of feeling like a failure as a woman. Tired of feeling behind. Tired of feeling like everyone else got something I didn’t.

Anonymous 129313

Femininity is lame, so you're doing something right.
Anyway, connection and closeness is not something so mystical and wonderful. I think if you got what you wanted you'd realise it's just "okay" and you'd be just as fine on your own.

Anonymous 129335

i love you, internet stranger

Anonymous 129356

im really wishing the best for you anon, i have been struggling with deep insecurities for years. all i can say is you have to try getting on the path to healing, it will take time but it will be worth it in the long run. please take care hugs


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Anonymous 129314[Reply]

this is my worst insecurity but i wish i was small. i mean im thin but i feel so tall. i feel like a planet. i want to be cute and dainty and flat chested. i want to be easy to carry and spin around. i wish i wasnt a giant
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Anonymous 129336

>>129331
>>129332
That's a lot of assumptions.
Besides, isn't it statistically true that ability to form a lasting relationship decreases with each new relationship one has?

Anonymous 129337

>>129336
Considering that all we know of OP come from these self-descriptions:
>I compare all the time to other girls that are petite and pretty
>this is my worst insecurity but i wish i was small. i mean im thin but i feel so tall. i feel like a planet. i want to be cute and dainty and flat chested. i want to be easy to carry and spin around. i wish i wasnt a giant
>I think my boyfie watching a certain kind of h3ntai made me think my body type must suck and all men must be borderline diddies
What kind of conclusion do you expect us to take from this? She's certainly not doing a good job of presenting herself as someone who's likely to get into a healthy relationship.

Anonymous 129341

it's OP. please dont let this post escalate. i wrote it feeling insecure as im vulnerable and hormonal right now but most of the time i am OK. this man doesnt do that anymore and has been good to me and he is a best friend to me and he has changed for the better because he is mature and genuinely loves me. people can grow out of their bad habits, even if those habits disgust you. he isnt like that anymore and i was feeling inadequate because im hormonal from pregnancy. these feelings pass and i would never inflict them upon a child. i thought this was a place to vent into the void. i apologize for disturbing anyone

Anonymous 129342

>>129341
i appreciate the honesty, but what i got was mostly assumptions about me. i want to marry the man that takes my virginity and i only felt disturbed/learned more later, to which he said he got rid of the habit about 2 yrs ago. i love him a lot and he's attracted to me the way i am and he's been attracted to me now more than ever because i'm having his child. sorry again..

Anonymous 129354

>>129341
>>129342
Don't apologize to those mind broken, genetic dead ends. None of what they said was due to concern over your well being.


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Anonymous 128905[Reply]

What is love to you? What does it mean to fall in love?
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Anonymous 129226

Love is cuddling under a heated blanket. It's him respecting my wishes to wait till marriage. It's us cooking for each other. It's us doordashing each other medicine or sweets even though we're too far away to get it ourselves. It's the stuffed animal he sewed by hand. It's the drawings he's made of us. It's the warmth I feel when he holds my hand. It's way we still are kind to each other after we get a little too heated during a discussion. It's the patience we have for each other when one of us messes up.

Anonymous 129230

>>129197
This is a good answer, Love this!

Anonymous 129261

Love is quiet and not flashy. It will still be there after the storm and is often confused for infatuation and temporary feelings that always pass. In the end its a life preserver that will always save you in a stormy sea of unknowns. It will only abandon you if you abandon and betray it first.

Anonymous 129345

love is when you wake up in the middle of the night from a bad dream but everything is okay because your partner is sleeping soundly next to you

Anonymous 129349

Love for me I guess isn’t really anything I can’t define or summarize because nothing is that perfect of idealistic. I grew up with two parents who hated each other enough to love one another can remain married for my whole life. They yelled and argued, and were abusive to each other, utterly toxic and kept running back like those shitty high school love wannabes.

So I suppose love for me silence. Absolute silence. No talking, nothing…and if in that silence it feels like I’ve had a million and one conversations with them over the span of a millennia in which neither of us censored how we felt, an were as weird and strange with one another as possible. That would be love and someone worth carrying a child for.

But I can’t leave for a millennia so love isn’t fucking real and stop giving divinity to chemical hormones that hone you into survival. You fall in love to get someone to protect you and keep you alive for a little bit longer and so you two breed like mutts and keep the human population booming like roaches. That’s love. It’s like food and water, all about keep you alive to goon the next day.


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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 129301

I told someone that ayatollah khamenei is dead and she said "oh no, that's so sad. i don't know who she is i'll go look her up."
I want to call her a retard but I'm too timid to say that out loud so I'll just shit talk her on here…

Anonymous 129302

>>129301
>oh my god [recent event] just happened!!
if anything, she's the based one here for being completely tuned out of the never ending actuality spiral

Anonymous 129307

I'm actually really upset that /x/ isn't more active

Anonymous 129326

anyone else feel burdened by the (seemingly) irreversible effects of prolonged exposure to the worst corners of the internet?
it’s isolating!!! not to mention the imposter feeling of knowing you are/were immersed in such degeneracy and then attempting to carry out a normal relationship or even friendship without being able to talk about it because they don’t relate/know about these corners.
resisting temptation of visiting the chans and seeing vile content only helps so much, i see it all around me now irl. it’s like it has ruined my brain chemistry LOL.

Anonymous 129343

>>129326
I feel this in a way. It's takes a toll on me to hide my powerlevel when discussing moid degeneracy (so basically any time any local crimes are discussed) as i am simply way too informed on the topic for a normal woman.


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sigh Anonymous 129284[Reply]

found a messed up game on bfs computer. magical girl hentai game with loli, rape, bdsm, bondage and torture. im done and lost. only so much i can forgive and look past. im tired. ijust want a normal guy. this was a mistake. should i leave or should i stay and use him for money.
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Anonymous 129293

>>129284
There are no normal guys. If it upsets you that much leave but don't be surprised when you find out the next guy is also a sexual deviant. Not every dude is a loli freak specifically, but you gotta be realistic, girl.

Anonymous 129303

Does he play genshin impact?

Anonymous 129304

>>129303
girls also play that trash for some reason…

Anonymous 129305

>>129284
Is it Depravia?

Anonymous 129338

Beat him up.


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i wish i was cute Anonymous 128827[Reply]

f19 and ive been bored recently and want to make an online presents with my face tied to it, im not gonna lie im pretty ugly, fat, and retarded LOL im abt 190 lbs and 5'9 so im gonna become a lolcow if i tried anything now but anyways does any one have advice, im already working out i know i need to stay consisent but its hard to stay motivated when i have such a slow metabolism

Anonymous 128828

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Don’t capitulate

Anonymous 129278

keep going! you'll not only look better, but feel better too. :3

Anonymous 129279

>im not gonna lie im pretty ugly, fat, and retarded LOL
Same ;_; ive thought this exact same thing lmao.
But I mean just stay consistent with working out and I would say just try to make content you never know, your profile /might actually blow up so shit y not try. And people that make fun of people and lolcows on the internet are sad as fuck, so just ignore

Anonymous 129334

>>128827
metabolism doesnt factor into the equation at all. you eat too much


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I am sad ill never have him Anonymous 129232[Reply]

I'm so sad I'll never have a boyfie like Sheldon Cooper. He is so perfect. I love his aspie mannerisms, his intelligence, his facial expressions, his mischievous smile, his flat affect, I mean even when he is flirting he is still innocent and spergy. He is so charming to me I love him so much. The fact that he is not real and I'll never have him makes me feel hopeless. I can't imagine being with anyone else. When I am sad I imagine him holding me and telling me cool science facts, or helping me research historical shit I'm into at the moment. I love him so much, he is perfect and I would feel so safe with him. Him and Amy are my hopefuel too, it's the only show where an ugly autist girl gets a happily ever after with a moid that actually loves her. I so badly want a romantic aspie love with a moid exactly like Sheldon Cooper. My heart hurts
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Anonymous 129262

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>>129260
I've never met a man like him in person before. I wish I had nerdy stuff around me so I could have more of a chance doe. But tbh I don't think men like him exist irl. He is so perfect real men could never compare. I mean he is quirky and cute, like and manic pixie dream boy. Too perfect to be real

Anonymous 129267

You don't actually like emotionally unavailable men, you just think you do

Anonymous 129274

nophono

Anonymous 129296

I want to hit him with hammers

Anonymous 129325

The Hindu code of Manu is very clear on these matters: any woman who disobeys him will be reborn in the womb of a jackal and tormented by diseases


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Anonymous 129294[Reply]

Why are so many American women posting on Instagram about wwIII like it's funny. They defend it by saying they're coping as though they would ever truly be effected by it. you can't run a mile, you're psychologically unfit, and you aren't smart enough to be put into any specialized roles. You're about as safe as you can be.the worst I can think of in terms of us civilians being targeted in war is 9/11 and the reaction to that was sensationalized and turned into a bigger deal than it really was.
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Anonymous 129297

>>129295
That's Ukraine though. I'm talking about the United States.

Anonymous 129298

>>129297
Yes, it's just an example of how things could turn out. United States is not invincible.

Anonymous 129299

Agreed, with the caveat that men are absolutely making the world war three memes also.

Anonymous 129300

>>129299
Oh yeah I know about them I just don't pay a lot of attention to them, so it's a gripe I specifically have towards people I follow. I see now what it seemed like lol

Anonymous 129312

United States won't be invaded because it's so far away, but it will lose all its power, its money will be worth as much as a Zimbabwe dollar, it won't be able to get any food.


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Anonymous 129214[Reply]

How have you reacted to men sharing their feelings with you? Do stories like this one seem true?
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Anonymous 129225

Stuff like this makes me wonder the context of her reply. I would never talk to my boyfriend like this. It makes me wonder if he did something fucked up then tried shifting focus to his own feelings, like many emotional manipulators do.

Anonymous 129272

>>129217
I find that most of the time when people complain about issues in their life, they want validation or a "rubber ducky" to bounce off ideas and to get things out of their head, aka venting.

So usually I just say "damn that sucks" or the like and listen to them.

>>129225
It might be the case, but it might just be what I stated before, and not thinking about her view or how she thinks. Kinda shitty to make a post online about this and not talk to her in a mature manner but that isn't really uncommon in most current relationships.

Anonymous 129276

>>129224
Ding ding ding. More women need to figure this one out.

Anonymous 129281

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if they are my chums i will listen to a moid be sad chungus but if the moid whinges about how women won't shag him or he blames women for his problems I simply chortle and go on with my merry day
also it's rather gay how most if not all deep revelations and deep sadnesses expressed by y chromies is shit that i and my female peers have clocked when we were like 8

Anonymous 129291

I've always had good experiences because I don't compartmentalise men and women as different much. I have had male friends my whole life so I know how to interact with them and what is hurtful. I will also say they are times they (men in general) shared other feelings beside sadness and I was like hell no.


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finally had sex with a girl, but i cried after Anonymous 129205[Reply]

i've only been with moids my whole life, but last night i had an opportunity to have sex with a woman and it was very lovely at first, but i realised during it i wasn't really enjoying it, so we stopped.

after i had left her house i just cried so hard.
i never particularly liked having sex with moids, but i thought that was a moid thing.

i think i struggle with having sex with anybody, it just makes me really uncomfortable despite the fact i really enjoy intimacy and the company of others.
i really like to flick my bean, so its not like i have no arousal.. i just dont like having sex with people.

have any other nonas experienced anything similar?
i feel like im in a weird situation because i can't expect a long-term relationship with anyone if the thought of having sex with them terrifies me.
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Anonymous 129242

>>129237
Yes, especially since you were exposed to it so young. Consuming that stuff can alter the way you experience and act on attraction which is probably why you struggle despite wanting it. Imo as you are, don't worry about trying to have sex. You aren't in the right headspace, and your perception of it is probably screwed by watching it from childhood to your twenties.

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>>129239
yeah, but i've only had with men in committed relationships, i still disliked it.

although, the first time i had sex with a girl it was casual. it felt like less of a chore than sex with moids. i disliked how i felt afterwards; i felt used, despite it being consensual. also i was the pillow princess.

i dont dislike intimacy, sex just scares me. i love masturbating, though.



>>129238
how do i get in contact with such a person, through my doctor? all therapy i've had has been rubbish, but i may have some underlaying trauma.




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Anonymous 129263

>>129205
Honestly real. Sex is scary

Anonymous 129280

>>129237
>do you think porn could be the issue?
It definitely is an issue, especially starting at an early age. And masturbation can re wire the brain to only like masturbation and not enjoy normal sex, masturbating to porn got many people into voyeur/cuckshit

>>129239
This

Anonymous 129287

>>129239
This.

Porn has nothing to do with it; maybe even helped in making you think casual sex is empty and overrated.

Go find real love, OP.


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