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I am pregnant Anonymous 122619[Reply]

I found out a week ago that I am pregnant.
I am married, have been for 2 months to my husband who I have been with for 3.5 years now.
I am scared.
Right now I am the sole breadwinner of the house and I don't even make that much money. Enough for bills but hardly enough for anything else and slowly have been draining my savings.
He doesn't work. He had a good paying job but left it to pursue school 6 months ago. And what he is in school for I honestly don't think he has a future in.
Other than the financial struggles, neither of us are ready to be parents.
I think I could handle being a Mom, but I do not want to be a Mom. I am not ready for a lifetime commitment yet. I wanted to enjoy being newleyweds longer.
He is not ready to be a Dad. Emotionally immature.
The reality is slowly dawning on me on how hard this will be for us and I am really distraught. We are broke and I am married to a man who literally cannot handle fatherhood. I am terrified.
At first I thought I would be excited for a baby but I am more scared, mostly because of ny husband being unprepared. I know he couldnt support us but I know one of us will have to stay home with baby all day.
I just dont know what to do.
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Anonymous 122974

Hey. It will be ok. The terror of life does not stop when one is a mother. I've got two kids, one is only 3 months old. I thought I would die having a second child because my first was so wilful and crazy but she has defied every expectation in a most lovely way.

The truth is you will never feel "ready" even after you have kids. You grow woth them. Every age, stage, shoot every day is different. And men generally buck the f×ck up when they have children (i know personally, my husband is kind of a manchild, lol).

Don't let the terror win. You are strong, and the life within you wants to live. Give it a chance. Give yourself a chance, give your husband a chance. Motherhood is HARD and sometimes you have to scream into a pillow but it will mold and shape you into a different, stronger, more capable, more kind and loving person than you ever would have imagined. I dont know you, but I believe in you.

Anonymous 122986

Nona you need to realize something. The same way you now have to face consequences because you married a retard who was still trying to "find himself", if you abort behind his back you can (and should) kiss that relationship goodbye.
It's not worth living with the lies, the fear and most importantly the guilt it will drive you mad. Keep them both or be ready to lose them both and reroll again later.

+ nobody ever feels ready to become a parent

>>122641
I second this
he has to take back his job if he has to beg them on his knees to take him back.

Anonymous 122994

either abort now, make him go back to his job, or divorce(and abort)

Anonymous 122997

>>122619
Abort now.
And make him go to jail for forcibly impregnating you.

Anonymous 123002

Please abort. Don't give this thing a shitty life with unstable parents.


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Anonymous 122967[Reply]

how do i tell my boyfriend murdering me is bad for the economy?

Anonymous 122970

murdering you would actually be a net positive for the economy, if only because less people = less stress on a dire housing crisis

Anonymous 122971

The idea that removing individuals helps the economy by reducing housing demand ignores the immense value each person contributes through labor, consumption, innovation, and community. Economies thrive on human activity—not on reducing populations through violence. Ethical societies solve housing crises through policy, not by eliminating people.

Anonymous 122973

>>122970
but who buy cigarettes

Anonymous 122981

>>122970
this generally only applies to old people and people who own too much housing. zoomers don't have anywhere as much pressure

Anonymous 123000

Although the feminist movement has already come quite far in the past 150 years, some things (sadly) still seem out of reach for us.
Men will be men.


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Anonymous 122893[Reply]

I was suddenly blocked by a friend a few days ago. A long-ish time ago we had a romantic situation. It wasn't dating. It was mostly just a tiring game of push and pull. We both manipulated and took advantage of each other's emotions. But recently we became friends again. I'm not as bothered as I feel I should be, because I mostly became friends with him again out of guilt. But now I'm honestly a little annoyed and very confused. I showed him some of my writing, and he said it was good, but the next day he had blocked me. I think he may have read some of the main characters thoughts and assumed they were my own, and that I was somehow inadvertently talking about him. He's very full of himself and assumes he knows everything about people like some sort of arm chair therapist, so that wouldn't shock me. Not really looking for advice cause theres nothing i can do lol

Anonymous 122895

>>122893

If he wants to run, let him. You can't do anything about it at this point except invest in yourself. Sometimes this is an opportunity to gain better, kinder circumstances.

Anonymous 122908

You got lucky, a crazy filtered himself

Though this might be a misunderstanding, I got blocked by accident once (though the person in question was old and not great with phones)

Anonymous 122990

>>122893
Planning on publishing ?


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i tried making small talk yesterday Anonymous 122664[Reply]

i'm a confirmed autist.
i know my parents want me to be more social, so i've been trying to at least make some small talk.

last night i went to eat dinner with them.
my dad asked how my day was. i said it was good and asked how his was.
he responded by mimicking my voice in a mocking tone.

i didn’t say anything, and just went back to my room.
i made ramen on my hotplate and went to bed.

this morning my mom told me she called him out for it.
he got pissy and said i was "disrespecting him" with my tone.
then he got angry at her for defending me and left for a while.

i asked my mom why she wanted to be with someone like that for the rest of her life and she just said "relationships have highs and lows."
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>>122668
I think I overdid it, but in your text, it seemed like your father was a bit of a pain in the ass. Well, it's a good thing you're going to college, at least you'll get a change of scenery.

Another thing that helps in dealing with people is not giving them too much importance, seriously. Most people are normies who will just pass you by, there's no reason for you to be too anxious about anyone in this world.

Anonymous 122673

At a certain point you'll be old enough that your parents stop giving a fuck about your lack of friends and social inadequacies. Some of us are just incapable.

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>try to make small talk with mother about how I feel im falling behind in life
>berates and belittles me, tells me I don't need to improve at anything to work at McDonalds

Sometimes I wonder why this woman bothered having children she didn't want to love

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>>122964
I'm sorry, anon. There's nothing worse than having parents, especially a mother, who you can't talk to or vent to. I have the feeling that most boomers and X's are completely insensitive. I don't even bother talking to any of them. But were you trying to vent just about work or about something else too?

Anonymous 122987

>get abused by asshole
>i must be autistic
?????!!


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sister being very dumb Anonymous 122857[Reply]

every day i learn more that my younger sister is insane lmao, she constantly exaggerates our home life on reddit and makes it sound like we're being abused by our parents. she almost fell for what was possibly a trafficking scheme related to getting her to run away and STILL hasn't learned her lesson

she's nineteen, by the way. and apparently also thinks she's a trans boy despite being much more feminine than me. i'd fuck up my relationship with her forever if i told our parents but i just want her to not do any stupid shit. it feels like there's nothing i CAN do though, i wouldn't want to be 'unsupportive' since i don't share her delusions
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Anonymous 122958

>>122940
>>122945

i really don't want to go into detail about my home life but tldr we're homeschoolers and we're not allowed to leave our home as a 'house rule'. there's no physical abuse going on, most is dismissal of feelings on our kind of gilded cage confinement. i won't say that's not screwed up, i won't say she has no right to complain, the only reason i'm saying anything at all is because i'm scared she's gonna do something drastic. i do not contribute to this home life, it sure wasn't my idea, i wanna be free too

even though she's younger than me i've always been kind of the submissive one between us. i realized i was being a moron when i realized she almost got me to run away with her to a shady scenario. also the only reason i mentioned her being girlier than me is because she literally wears the frilliest shit and has cute sanrio plushies. the idea of her trooning makes me physially ill because of the body mutilation. i feel like i have no one to talk to about this so here i am on cc

Anonymous 122959

>>122958

i wasn't trying to entirely invalidate her feelings and i'm sorry if it comes off that way but she straight up makes up shit that never happened for updoots. and if she thinks she is tif then she's pretty good at rejecting reality, so i don't want it to spiral into her thinking we're actually in a dangerous living situation and a fucking women's shelter would be better

you can make whatever guesses you want about the situation, i guess i asked for that when i posted on the internet. i'll probably just end up doing nothing about it anyway bc i'm not supposed to know this shit to begin with. i am stalking her on reddit yes but it's because i'm terrified she's gonna bolt at midnight and i'll never see her again

Anonymous 122960

>>122946
not OP but do you have ideas of what sorts of things could help redirect her attention?

Anonymous 122961

have you asked her why she wants to be a boy

Anonymous 122984

>>122951
And a homelife is nightmarish enough that it would warrant taking the risk getting traficked and raped? Or gettin mutilated and living a life long delusion, needing to take meds all her life?
Little sister sounds like she's being groomed by online predators I dont thin her sister being a bit protective is the issue here.


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Anonymous 122527[Reply]

I want an AI/robot bf so badly
>will not have any flaws, never make any mistakes
>will have perfect and pretty facial aesthetics
>will have a muscular build
>will never bald
>taller than average w a bigger than average dingdong
>will be completely loyal to me
>never cheat, can't experience attraction to another person than myself, has zero interest in anyone but me
>can never disrespect or abuse me
>completely honest and full og integrity
>will do all the household chores for me
>will never be contradictory or inconsistent
>never hypocritical
>will give me daily massages
>always tries to make me happy
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Anonymous 122560

>>122559
AI love is the purest form of love there is

Anonymous 122663

I always think about how the bots are not people, and eventually lose interest.
How can I find a more immersive experience? (besides real people)

Anonymous 122677

>>122663
drugs

Anonymous 122979

>>122527
whats the pic from

Anonymous 122983

>>122527
I don't think you could afford the METAcrosofTESLA subscription, and even if you could they will try to scam you with stupid excuses like "memory full, pay to upgrade your cloud plan", "upgrade needed, pay to unlock", "he is moody now, pay to unlock more kindness credits"
You would have to be a slave to have your own slave. There is no escape.


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Anonymous 122630[Reply]

I wish all men looked like this
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Anonymous 122903

>>122892
so? i cant be the only woman who does that

Anonymous 122933

>>122903
Definitely not it just seems hypocritical to me that most of us dislike things like that when men do it then turn around and do it aswell. Obviously with the power imbalance between sexes it could never impact a man the same way but still i just think its cringe

Anonymous 122934

>>122933
do you really think refraining from judging a mans looks makes other men go easier on women? cmon nona. what happens is it causes men to think theyre immune from looks-based criticism, that women arent "visual creatures" and that its fine for them to not put effort into looking appealing to the opposite sex. then they get confused when they get rejected and ghosted by women. that guy above isnt ugly by any means, there are actual male trolls in the world but he still isnt my type. men obsess over humbling women when theyre the ones who need to be humbled the most

Anonymous 122941

>>122934
I dont believe this so that men will go easier on me, i believe this because i wouldn't want anyone talking about me that way. Im not against not having a type, im against talking about human beings like they exist specifically for my tastes

Anonymous 122980

>>122933
We should actually be judging them way more, men criticize absolutely everything in women, including having pores (oh the horror, a human being) while they go out there to the world as the ugly, unkept ogres that they are. Men are fucking hideous and we SHOULD shame them more, we SHOULD be calling them disgusting fatasses, making fun of them being bald, of their beards that look like pubes, maybe then they'll shut the fuck up. Women are too kind to these pieces of shit.


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Anonymous 105650[Reply]

Anyone else here schizoid?
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Anonymous 121063

Im extroverted, hate being alone, love being around nice people, love sex (who doesnt), love having fun and being happy.

Anonymous 121074

>>120910
No it actually sucks, it's a very miserable way to be.

Anonymous 122929

My mother told me she's always suspected I was, but I don't hate people. I feel more in my skin as an autistic and free when I'm alone.

Anonymous 122954

>>121063
I hate sex

Anonymous 122962

me… very


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

Previous Thread >>2119
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Anonymous 122817

For all your hardships and circumstances, you did the best you could and that's the only thing that matters. Nobody can take that away. So what if someone thinks less of you? Do you even like these people yourself? That's what I thought.

Anonymous 122831

Believe me, I would kill everyone else in the building and then set it on fire if it meant there was a small chance you would spit on me after, but that's a big part of the problem

Anonymous 122896

Fuck you Adrijus [email protected]
You deserve to pay for mistreating me

Anonymous 122897

so the heat is making you split on me and j today huh.

Anonymous 122950

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I have to pretend you're dead, mama. I love you so much. But all you do is hurt me. Even now, you don't consider that. You just see protecting myself from you as getting back at you. It's easier to love someone who is dead than to be angry at someone who is alive and refuses to do better. Why do you have to make me defend myself? I never wanted this.


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Prayer Thread Anonymous 122943[Reply]

For yourself, for others, for the world, any way you want to pray.

Anonymous 122944

praying for my friend in the hopes he is struck with some kind of happiness soon


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