/feels/ - Advice & Venting

schizo

>>128889 O fuck off, let a girl be happy on this wondrous day, I wish I was schizo, they would send me to some rent free facility until my end with free food, water, warmth and all of that stuff.

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Try taking out your OS and running through the components one at a time until you get to BIOS. Start with the RAM. That sounds like it would be the culprit. Take one out and try booting, if the problem persists try the other one. If that doesn't fix the problem start replacing components one at a time until you get some signs of life. I doubt it has anything to do with the CPU, those things are super durable. Just my process, you're on linux so you almost definitely know more about these things than I do.
Good luck and please give updates!

>>124183
I tried to boot into the bios in all sorts of ways but it didn't do anything. I tried swapping out the drives too, same thing.

Additionally I scanned the whole system for malware but didn't find any. I ended up wiping the Linux drive just in case.

I fixed it! I ended up reseating the ram and fixing the Linux system and it works like new now!

what a dumb, surreal thread

>>128842
Immoral and emotional

>>128841
>picrel
imagine thinking autists are unemotional

Anyway, some women are fucked up people. They're a bit less ballsy about it than men are and will be more underhanded, cry-bullying, morally justifying their own sadism. But the pathology is the same.

Lots of hypocrisy, people that care more about status symbol rather than their friends happiness.
Lets say your friend has some grievances with her bf, not toxic shit but just some annoyances, the so called "friend" will say dump him immediately.
She doesn't care about the long term happiness of her friend thou, she just wants her to dump the guy because guy.

>>128856
This shithole examplefies it nicely

>>128856
And to add on top of that, this female friend of yours all along is waiting on the sidelines and shouting , encouraging you to break up with your boyfriend to leave you all alone. Only for the friend to use it to her advantage to bring along her own boyfriend and rub their relationship in your face while you're at your lowest point. It's all about dark triad and her having the most power in your friendship dynamic.

no picture?

>>128860
I am neet and I relate to all of this too. I truly believe that some of us are ment to be neet and unemployed forever because that's what life chose for us. it isn't a choice. Maybe you can try faking being a retard so you can get neetbux from the government

You have to do everything in your power not to be held back by your family. It doesn't mean you don't care about them, it just means you are exercising your right to make yourself happy. It's not your job to give up your life for your siblings illness.

>doing anything my family does not approve of feels risky

They're not showing up for you as you are for them. You already recognize that that's not right. You're in the right to leave. Leave and never look back… get a wagie job, learn how to drive, get certified in something so that you dont have to rely on your family to provide for you….


Ngl, what >>128868 said is valid too. If you can manage it, go for it. It'll only be a temporary fix, cause ssi/ssd doesn't cover rent, but it'll help with getting your own money at least??

fasting is good idea but then also eating zero calorie stuff and not stretching your stomach is

I'm with you, I just graduated high school at 18 and I feel so lost and existentially empty. I dealt with some bullying for my weight and thinking I was ugly no matter what, I still get scared if my shirts are too low cut because I'm that self conscious

To be attractive you must first love yourself, then comes looks.

Don't change to please others, change to please yourself.

Build healthy habits that make yourself feel good and lose weight slowly as a bonus, shortcuts like adderall will hurt you long term.

You are 18, Adult life have not even started yet, you have so much time so don't stress about everything.

Focus on the healthy small things that make you feel good and build those habits slowly.
Write down goals that are reasonable and strive to reach them.

Start easy like a little bit of exercise every day to get your body moving, it can literally be just stretching in the beginning to build the routine, a walk outdoors every day and minimum of 3 eggs for breakfast for nutrition and vitamins.

As you read this, improve your body position by just 5%, stretch something that is stiff, just a little. See, feels better.
Continue like that every now and then. Small habits grow with time.

you're just 18, barely an adult yet. maybe it's a function of my social circle but most people i know including myself didn't have our first relationship until college when we were older than 18

i second getting a part time job, it'll help keep you busy and you'll be standing or walking rather than sitting down + you can start saving to buy makeup and clothes so win win

>>128737

this is bad advice lol

OP you should count calories rather than having rules like this. You lose weight as long as you're in a deficit.

Whole foods and fruits are good ofc but you can def still stay in a deficit and have more than 1 fruit a meal lmao. Also it's not that hard to allocate a couple hundred calories in the week for a sweet treat. If you over restrict you'll probably end up binge eating eventually.

You can hit the gym everyday as long as you're hitting a different muscle group every time but you should take a rest day for muscles to repair between training the same area.

What are your standards for a man?

alive and maybe has a job

I used to be a big believer in "true love." But I've come to the belief now that most people are constitutionally incapable of it. I know I am. And I know all the men I'd love or who would love me are too. I don't really care to search for it anymore. I am also emotionally unavailable, and I seem to attract emotionally unhealthy men. It is what it is, you know? But its easier to accept that after experiencing it fail first, which I have. I recommend having one or two disastrous relationships and then maybe you too can accept the futility of love.

Don't waste your time on someone that don't meet you with reciprocity.

Don't explain yourself, just walk.

>>128843
I don't want to, but it feels like he doesn't even like me back, he's told me before that I like him more
Writing this all down makes me realize I've been acting kinda desperate and pathetic

>>128844
It's ok to want love.

He is not very interested or he is an avoidant, either way it's better to just walk and find someone who meets you.

And I will tell you a little secret about attraction: Whatever quality you like in him is actually a projection of yourself; qualities you have that you project onto this external person.

Look for that in yourself and you will find it easier to walk.

>>128846
Thank you, you're so sweet, I needed to hear that

>How do you guys deal with people like this?
make them lend me couple bucks and promise ill pay them back though i never will and keep asking them for more and more favors aswell. basically make these fuck niggas my bitches

>I might just be an asshole but
You 100% are. What have you done that's so rebellious and interesting that makes you have a spine compared to these people? You're posting on a loser femcel site. This post is just you sucking your own dick.

>>128811
Oh I'm also not very smart or accomplished, I'm just angry with this one particular idiot.

>>128812
Not really. This post isn't about a particular situation at all, just how you're better than this person we know nothing about. Not sure what you're expecting people to say about a situation you haven't shared. It just comes off narcissistic.

Don’t capitulate

Learn to use apostrophes before any of that looksmaxx bullshit.

Burn every bit of clothing he has, and force him to go and get wearable stuff. Or idk, wash the most crappy stuff “accidentally” with bleach and take him shopping as a date.

So I have good news and bad news. The good news is he's trying to learn about clothing already, so he's already on the right path. The bad news is >>128787 has given you terrible advice, because using trickery, subterfuge and ultimatums to influence your loved ones is a very silly idea. He'll only resent you for forcing him out of his comfort zone.

You could try finding some mensware bloggers, writers, YouTubers, etc. so he can educate himself further. Also it's worth remembering that the men's section of any highstreet clothes retailer is full of badly fitted, uninspiring, and either way-too-on-trend or years behind items. This is why today you can see public wonders, like 40 year old men wearing skinny jeans, or whatever the hell pic related is. He has probably never had any guidence on how to not dress like a 16 year old, and if he tried bringing it up around other men, there's a high chance they'd just call him gay. He's basically learning Chinese without ever having so much as overheard a Chinese person actually speak the language, so it's going to take him a while before he doesn't look like Chris Chan at a disco.

Finally, this sounds really dumb, and I am both that and tired, but watch some earlier Michael Mann films with him. Every man in those films is very well dressed*, and even though the clothes are 30-40 years old, any man wearing them would only look out of place today because his contemporaries are wearing polo shirts with low-rise drain pipe trousers. You could actually employ some trickery here and casually comment on how well dressed the likes of Will Graham are.

*This doesn't apply to The Last of the Mohicans or The Keep, fyi.