/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>125949
moids are pretty good at reality denial in general

>Particularly in class rooms and in the professional setting, women are PERCEIVED to speak more than they actually do. If women speak more than 30% of the total conversation, it is PERCEIVED as monopolizing the conversation.

>>118533
you could replace trump with alcohol and this post would fit well in prohibition. But That would hurt the nonas who cant put down the bottle too much to say

>>125949
>Most incels would've been utter normalfags if it weren't for their appearance

And most women would be incels if they hadn't been born women.

>>118525
Rodents

Men who play games all day and the only way they’ll interact with you is when you play co-op or they need you to relieve a bodily function.

i have a karmic debt number related to overcoming fear and you have one related to mistreating others. our only way out is helping each other. i don’t want to have to do this again.

I should have known by the way your name rhymed with Hell.

The person who is kind to a bad person isn’t a good person. They’re the devil whispering in their ear giving them more advice to continue being bad to everyone besides them. Why get better when you can isolate in hell? It’s just codependency for psychopaths. Come lay down in hell forever.

You’ve even started to smell bad like he does. Everytime I see you two squinting in the sunlight trying to pretend you didn’t just hole up getting wasted and gaming for a week without seeing the sun I have to watch my best friend age ten years in one year and pretend to smile. Slurring your words at your big age pretending it’s the first time both of you felt love, shit talk your normal exes, pretend you don’t find the things this man is saying corny. You make this face when he speaks where you try to look happy and in love, but first you sort of cringe back then try to quickly turn your facial expression to like oh I didn’t understand but now i’m surprised and overjoyed! But the tightness around the eyes and mouth give away how embarrassing you find this. You both have this sweet smell of rot now. Your faces are always puffy and never drained. He looks like he has literally no soul and the way he acts like this is his first rodeo and you’re the first woman to ever show him kindness because you pay for everything for him makes me want to throw up. He is manipulating you. He is pushing forty. He has definitely had people pay for his food before. Why are you so naive? This man had almost no rental history yet all of these belongings. Do you not understand he was living off of someone else and spending all his money on himself just like he does now? Do you not get that he only pays for things when they also benefit him? Do you not get he’s only with you because you do the same things like drinking and video games he already wants to be doing? And now you pay for half? The pictures he posts of you are intentionally humiliating. You don’t even look like that. Tell me why a man would post pictures of you with food on your face or with your stomach bulging or mid sentence standing behind a group looking scared while he is with another girl in the front? You’re half his age and a head taller than him. Your ex used to be able to pick you up with one arm and paid your way. This man doesn’t even brush his teeth. This dude can’t even keep a hard on. This man doesn’t drink water. I want to scream whenever I hear you say he got you sucked into another drama where you never see proof of any of these things happening the way he claims. But oh you’ve got to fix it!! When it’s not your problem!!! He’s killing my best friend.

forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.

>>126867
It literally is, he really expected women to be like "ohh that's so true sis slay" so he could take a screencap n bitch and moan in /r9k/ lmfao fucking loser

>>126906
there’s like five women here and a bunch of men spamming. why do they care about this place? because it’s not morally evil inherently like lolcow is so they want to punish the women here more for just being nice and chill?

>>126821
i miss u

I'm 5'0" I'll take him

>>126821
Truly embarrassing. You want to be three inches taller than your partner? You want to look down on his balding head and have everyone around you constantly notice you have wider shoulders and other embarrassing things that automatically make them and their relationship superior to you and yours? Being larger than your boyfriend is like having more money or a better job than your boyfriend. It’s like having a bigger body count than your boyfriend.

>>126952
ahh thank u for the suggestion ! ive been wondering about getting into some sort of office job just to escape my job rn </3 ill def keep that in mind for the future bc i dont know how to use those programs as i am rn lol.

>>126954
yeah, anyone with a modicum of computer literacy can do pretty much any office job, hiring managers just like to see stuff like this to back it up. you'd be surprised how many boomers working at offices barely know how to use a computer

one day he will be gone from my life. One day I will not give a single shit about him and he will repent all his life while I block his ass over and over because he can’t stop reaching out to me.
it’s a matter of time
You will be forgotten

I lack the requisite common ground to talk to someone. Shoot the proverbial shit, so to say. I was attempting to enjoy myself with colleagues. I was figurant to a conversation about Charlie's angels. I've never seen Charlie's angels and had no input. I tried hard to think if I could say anything about any movies; not really, I don't watch them enough. The spotlight turns on me and I admit I've not ever seen it. I'm not ashamed or proud, it's just a fact, but I can't redirect the conversation to anything interesting. It dies and I'm left alone. I wonder how people think of new things to say on the spot. I have nothing to say that hasn't already been said. Is there anything to say that hasn't yet been said? Maybe I lack imagination. I feel alone all the time. I have no stories, I have no life. I waste my potential because I wasted my potential, and I wasted my potential because I was sold a lie. I am appreciated, except it's not "I" who is appreciated, but rather the work "I" output. If I am appreciated, it's not for me, but for a conception someone has of me. All love is conditional.

How can I expect anyone to love me if I don't even know who I am?

I constantly have suicidal thoughts. I am on anti depressants and ketamine. I go to therapy. Is there really no end to this?

>>126942
This happens like extremely rarely anyway

>>126942
You're right, and you also helped double convince me against even thinking about messing with this guy tonight. I was caught between "is he cute or the only guy dressed well tonight" and that's probably enough of a reason to just not.
I've been on the back end of that scenario, it's not fun. he was a porn sick guy who really didn't care about the woman's looks so long as they had a large cup size. I am small chested and eventually he sprung the "gift" of implants on me. And yeah it would be using the guy in a gross way, even if he technically is interested (but with a presumably excited and willing partner which I guess I'm not). My thoughts for getting with him absolutely are not virtuous though, I am lonely and post bad breakup with the aforementioned asshole lmao. I think some girls with uggos are like me, and some probably have low self esteem too like one of my friends who absolutely could do better than her ogrish Redditor bf

icl my boyfriend is hella ugly

>>126959
mine too lol but im so into it he's just so unique i need him. only problem is i cant stop thirsting over randoms bc theyre attractive. its too bad attractive men dont have personalities

>>119831

ideally i'd be the first of seven and he'd forget about doing the other six

>>119835
what?

It's unironically a young benedictine monk I met when I was in France, I have no idea if I'll meet him again or not but he was an amazingly sweet snd kind person (like most real christians). I'm not a christian so I have no idea what this is about.

>>113773
>>113949
>>114178
Submissive men that aren't very fetishistic about it are naturally hard to find due to being, obviously, submissive. They're shy, probably don't go out unless it's with friends, probably don't use dating apps.
Really, the only time to get a submissive man is when you're in school.

>>119668
I know a guy almost exactly like this, minus the TERF part.

It's pretty nice I enjoy it

reading this post just made me want to smash my head against a wall. it's so bad that even the slightest mention of a "happy couple" sends me into a downwards spiral. i hate being lonely.

>>126349
Don't chase the bonding chemical highs lol

>>126350
people really get drunk on brain chemicals and then think when they’re depleted or you’ve developed a tolerance it means the spark faded. there was never a spark. he was just love bombing.

No one has these anymore. Everyone just marries who they’re with when they turn 30 now.

I'll be your friend! How ya doing today?

>>126844
omg im doing fine what about you ??

>>126847
3 days late… I'm so sorry.

Not bad tbh. Just got out of work and I'm about to get ready for bed. I got another shift tomorrow, then three more shifts next week.

Whatcha going to do for Thanksgiving?

>>126937
Yes but not as blackpilled/nihilistic as you probably
voluntarily abstinent/virgin and celibate never had a bf few can relate but it brings me mystical insight

>>126858
why not just leave. this is unbelievably cruel and i’m not going to defend men at all. but theres no way you are not emotionally disabled in some way and are on here. like i have ptsd i’m an emotional cripple. you are probably stunted or broken in some way too. and i think maybe that fear of being unable to be loved because of it is causing you to have these thoughts and post these terrible things. because you secretly feel that way about yourself.

You sound like a cringy tiktard trying it's hardest to larp as a genderbent 4chan moid. Insufferable whiny cunt

>>126883
she literally said he attempted suicide over his ex who treated him like shit he has issues

i think i misphrased it tho i was associating it with moids like the one she likes

its not about disability but many disabled moids will become incels bc their disability makes them undesirable and then they become kinda fucked up

>>126931
maybe you're autistic or something because that doesn't sound like very unreasonable to tell about (1 life event that explains visible life debilitating change) especially if op asked him or if they "hit it off" hard enough

>>126935
im an evil hag spirit