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i hate being short Anonymous 129782[Reply]

i hate being short no one takes you seriously and peopl talk about how "cute" you are as if thats somethinf good and not extremely infantilizing. my self confidemce would be significantly improved if i was at least 5`6. short bodies look like shit in general, if youre skinny you just end up making yourself look even smaller and more fragile if youre fat your body starts to look all lumpy and your proportions seem off, if youre muscular you just look retarded any type of volume on short bodies ends up looking retarded. you cant win
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Anonymous 131642

True

Anonymous 131876

>>131595
life is not an anime being treated like a child barely has any benefits

Anonymous 131877

>>131643
i would never willingly reproduce but i agree

Anonymous 131878

>>131643
nope

Anonymous 131880

>>131643
men won't look so tall anymore if every woman is a skyscraper. we need the mix for novelty! use! your! head! / preserve! height! rarity!


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¿What can I do if I'm in love with my proffesor? Anonymous 130854[Reply]

First I need to clarify that I'm already eighteen, and that I'm not stupid enough to try anything (I don't want advice to flirt with a middle aged man who is starting to bald a little)
I don't want anything to happen. Even though I feel attracted towards him in a way that I have never felt towards any other man, I know that: A)I don't want to get raped. B)he won't notice me (if he's not a fucking pervert).
But I just NEED to hear it from someone who has been through the same situation. He's kind, walks around with his dog, is confident and well-spoken. GOD I have written a shit ton of poems for this guy.

He doesn't seem to be married or in a relationship, but in some ways, I feel like it's weird how his entire body language shifts when he's talking to a girl (am I going crazy?)
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Anonymous 131020

>>130912

Make a FODA listing all the reasons of why it would not work.

Emotionality is a reaction. React to the reasons it would not work.
Eventually you will start to feel the other way, disgust perhaps even.

Do not force feelings of disgust.

If possible, try to make the disgust for the idea of dating that man natural.

Men know when women like them and treat them better, if not, they use it to treat them badly to feel better.

Do not feel bad for men, if you do, you just will make yourself miserable. Adam was in charge, not eve. Men are not worth your energy.

Most men.

Anonymous 131027

>>131020
>>131020
You're right, noona. I have been thinking of this for the past three months and you have put into words a feeling I was never able to express. Thank you.

Anonymous 131162

>>131027

I am glad you can finally put your thoughts based on your sentimentalism, it is very hard to do so sometimes.

If you can, see about father-daughter relationships.

Older men, if they can see you as a "girl" or "daughter", if they are mature enough they will treat you more as a father figure and authority rather than "flirty" as most old men treat women.

Good men will treat you like a daughter if you treat them like you would treat your father if he was in their place.

That at least, has always worked for me. Old men always compare me to their own offspring, in some sort of way, if I treat them like that. Not in a flirty way.

I hope you can sort this out, have faith in your capacities nona xoxo

Anonymous 131874

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I'm back with some news about this…and nothing has happened. He's just pretty friendly to me, and most of the time when I catch him staring at me from affar, I notice that he's just…tender. He's younger than I thought! (28 yrs old, but stil close to thirty). Now I wish he was my uncle, lol.
If someone ever wondered how he looked like, here it is a cartoon character he reminds me of.

Anonymous 131875

>>131874
I'm glad all's ended well.


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Anonymous 131855[Reply]

Why are 99% of men retarded? There was this long time friend I've known for years who is extremely mentally unstable, he suddenly got really flirty with me and I just decided to be nice to him out of pity, suddenly it spiralled into a huge drama and I got accused of being an unfaithful whore because he started doctoring screencaps and feeding a bunch of people lies about us secretly wanting to fuck. All of my friends abandoned me but I don't really mind, I still have my boyfriend who saw through the retardation and didn't care about turning something like that into some weird soap opera drama. Well I'm pissed off slightly and had a bit of an angry streak anyway, people I've known for years throwing me away despite it being none of their business. I literally told all of them to move on, that I didn't plan on interacting with that guy ever again but instead they started leaking my DMs and questioning me about shit I've said in private, treating my private problems like a youtube drama.
No wonder no one wants to be nice nowadays anyway.
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Anonymous 131866

>>131865
No I just don’t think you’re really an authority on the subject of friendship.

Anonymous 131867

>>131866
>No I just don’t think you’re really an authority on the subject of friendship.

holy kek get fookin rekt m8 >>131865

Anonymous 131869

>>131863
>What kind of fucking friend group is that
An awful terrible one. I can't even describe the mess that was born out of this stupid shit.
That mentally ill retard was a pretty girly bi-fag, so he also flirted with people from that group to get them on their side or whatever retarded garbage, I got really annoyed that people felt sorry for him and started shit talking my friend group behind their backs. Of course I really didn't mean any of those insults and its clear as day that it was just the ramblings of someone that got really mad, somehow people from that group I spoke to started gossiping about my shit talk and then like a bunch of randos joined in and like started treating the thing like a weird YT drama, commenting about what was happening and what should be done, while also leaking my DMs and making a big deal out of it.
Like me and my boyfriend spoke about it and simply decided he was not allowed to interact with us ever again and yet suddenly I got approached aggresively the other day. "How dare you shit talk us during all of this." And well I had to deal with a bunch of retarded aggresive comments, I just left them and decided to never look back.
This entire situation is nonsense and seems like petty HS drama but all of these people are in their 20s some of them like fully employed even. I'm in my mid 20s and my bf is in his late 20s, we are all literally grown ass men and women.
What kind of stunted development they had that they want to live themselves through petty retarded ''dramas''?
I'm glad I distanced myself but it still sucks that I've lost a friend group despite it objectively being for the better, I still have some dumb sentimentality left over.

Anonymous 131871

>>131869
looks like you were a perfect fit for that friend group, what kind of a woman in her mid 20s starts talking shit behind her friends' backs, trying to justify it with "oh, but i didn't really mean it" and expects no drama after that?
also your bf def shittalks about you behind your back, geg

Anonymous 131872

This OP post sounds like the biggest pile of bullshit ever.


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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 131043

you can go on home, you got what you need
take my heart and put it up on your sleeve
tear it up so they can all sing along
live out your life
i’ll never tell you you're wrong
baby, don't forget, don't forget it's our song
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone

Anonymous 131687

𝒮𝓊𝓃𝒹𝒶𝓎 𝓌𝒶𝓈 𝒶 𝒷𝓇𝒾𝑔𝒽𝓉 𝒹𝒶𝓎 𝓎𝑒𝓈𝓉𝑒𝓇𝒹𝒶𝓎
𝒟𝒶𝓇𝓀 𝒸𝓁𝑜𝓊𝒹 𝒽𝒶𝓈 𝒸𝑜𝓂𝑒 𝒾𝓃𝓉𝑜 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝒶𝓎
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒸𝒶𝓃'𝓉 𝐼 𝒻𝒶𝒸𝑒 𝒾𝓉?
𝒜𝓂 𝐼 𝓉𝑜𝑜 𝒷𝓁𝒾𝓃𝒹 𝓉𝑜 𝓈𝑒𝑒?
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒹𝒾𝒹 𝒽𝑒 𝑔𝑜?
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒹𝒾𝒹 𝒽𝑒 𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝓂𝑒?

Anonymous 131688

This Sunday instrumental is goated btw

Anonymous 131745

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Oh, won't you lay down with me?
Let yourself be free

Hold your breath, don't breathe
Just believe in me
Trust you're coming with me
We can finally be free

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IcYfWknChuo

Anonymous 131853

>>131687
>>131688
Moby lover <3

Why is all his new music so shit. It started being shit after he quit drugs and alcohol.


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i think my ex is gonna take his life Anonymous 130574[Reply]

i am 20 he is 24 he wanted to break up with me yesterday and i agreed, he then switched up and wanted to get back together and has apologised. i have ignored because he has done this before and i am really worried because he tried to force himself into my house whilst i was sleeping but my mum came to the house and she told him politely to go away so he gave her gifts for me. i did not want to break up with him but he never listens to my boundaries and has done loads of things to break my trust like reaching out to his ex and although ive moved on from certain situations because i am forgiving i have overtime built up resentment against him which is why i agreed to him breaking up. he is extremely emotional and is manipulative/gaslights when he wants to get his own way but i checked his twitter today and he has posted self harm on my tattoo i made of him and all over his arm and he has told me if i broke up with him he woudl take his life and so i am really worried because i still love him but he is destroying me mentally and draining me, the reasonwhy i didnt want to see him is because last time he flipped out he came tomy house and took this £600 mirror we both paid for but it was partially a gift to me and i took it badly as i wanted that mirror for over a year i am so worried for his wellbeing because recently he has completely changed his mentality and i am scared i told him i am worried to see him because i am scared he is going to harm me because he told memany times he could kill me and i believe him because he shares the same mentality of someone that would kill a girl because the girl has broken up with him and i love him a lot so sorry if i am not typing normally i am just really worried for him and for me too and im scared hes going to take his life wether intentional or not because he has done heroinin the past to try and kill himself im so fucking worried man
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Anonymous 130696

>>130574
his life and deaths are absolutely your responsibility. if he threatens suicide, thats a genuine cry for help. he has hurt you before but he definitely will not hurt you again when he has the chance. save this guy.

Anonymous 130712

>>130696
What the fuck are you talking about. This faggot moid needs to get over himself and stop manipulating this poor girl. Did you not read the part where he threatened to kill her before? Handmaids like you should stay quiet.

>>130574
Any updates?

Anonymous 131596

>>130696

Not really, depressive men who kill themselves do it.

Men who tell women about it want something in exchange.

It's about time that if she does what he wants, unless she actually acts like a sane person and contacts a ward or his parents (if possible) to care for the problem. If she acts like if he deserves her time after being, what she described, then she would end up being manipulated if she does as you say. Obviously.

A handmaiden would take the matters as her responsability to care for the emotional needs of man who hurt her, as to feel a person.

A woman as a proper adult, will just contact the proper adults for this situation as a mentally ill man is not acting properly.

Anonymous 131742

>>130574
hey op i hope you are safe.

Anonymous 131852

Woooo!!!! Let him die! Let him die! Let him die!
Come back to us with an update in a few months. Of course, guys like this are histrionic attention whores, so I won't be expecting much of anything interesting to happen.


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Has anyone else given up completely on their life? Anonymous 131845[Reply]

I work a dead end job, no higher education, I'm not saving for retirement, no real plans for the future unless you count Pinterest boards for the future lul, I have health issues I refuse to address, etc. I don't know, I'm just tired of hearing about self improvement everywhere. I genuinely don't care and would be happy just decaying on my desk chair while scrolling on the webs all day. Anyone else like this?

Anonymous 131848

>>131845
On the contrary, the last 10 years of my life have been fraught with seemingly insurmountable difficulties and now that I have a second chance at life, I don't intend to waste it and it's filled my soul with boundless energy. Don't take your life for granted. Life is beautiful

Anonymous 131849

>>131845
Please address your health issues especially if you are on your parents insurance. Regardless I feel somewhat similar, except I’ve worked really hard for a bullshit degree and career path that won’t work out. Sort of followed my dreams to a fault. I know I would not be happy doing anything else but I fear I cannot be happy doing this either and should have kept rotting like during Covid.

Anonymous 131850

you have a job so it's not so bad, you can always get a higher education and find your passion, maybe in 5, 10, 15 years, half of the population under 25 is in your exact same place. i'm in the same boat but with no income lol. you should start motivating yourself by doing little things, like skincare, painting, easy stuff, i've found a lot of interests that way that made me a bit less miserable. i'd also love to just bedrot and doomscroll forever but then the guilt hits


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Anonymous 128419[Reply]

feels like I'm excluded from womanhood because I have a hormonal condition (pcos) and I'm a tomboy
>Be me
>25 year old female ,who powerlifts
>Have a decent amount of muscle and deep voice due to pcos as well as body hair from the age of 12
>Join a women's only art discord server
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend,I say no
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped and instantly banned
>Had enough because this happens to me everyday,even in the women's bathrooms. Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod ,and get promptly banned again as expected (that's fair enough)

Damn
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Anonymous 130605

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>Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod
Nigga why?

Anonymous 130609

>>128419
God I wish that were me (Revy). I'm weak and skinny

Anonymous 130610

>>130609
same

Anonymous 131438

>>128419
>sending nudes to strangers without consent

Anonymous 131836

>>128419
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped
>send my pussy and tits to the mod
>I posted this photo of this painting I made of my boyfriend who has big honkers
Yeah that happened
anon if any of this is true, I'd look into therapy because none of this is normal behaviour


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are women meaner or nicer when you look good? Anonymous 131767[Reply]

Since I've moved to a big city I've had this problem where I'll be minding my business in a grocery store and some crackhead middleaged woman will try and start a fight with me. It happens a few times a year. I never instigate, I always keep to myself and stay far away from people. They'll throw insults usually, but last week a woman tried hitting me with her cart.

I always look like a bum when I go grocery shopping. My friend suggested I dress up when I shop so that these women will feel inferior and leave me the fuck alone. Does that work? I thought they'd get jealous and the opposite would happen.

Idk. Let me know what you guys have experienced.
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Anonymous 131793

>>131778
Yes. /thread

Anonymous 131794

>>131793
No

Anonymous 131807

You probably seem harmless and kind, and that type of thug really likes to hit on women. If you dress better, they might think you have more money and want to ask you for more things; the best thing to do is walk around with a serious face, homeless people and drug addicts like to intimidate people who seem excessively kind.

Anonymous 131809

>>131808
No milf for canadians

Anonymous 131826

>>131772
Nod and walk away.


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there’s always another girl Anonymous 131762[Reply]

i don’t know why men can never just be satisfied with one girl. they always want something more from other girls in one way or another. one girl will never be enough for them. it doesn’t even matter how devoted and loving you are. in my experience that makes them want to do this sort of thing even more. without fail they always do this to me. this man has done this to me with multiple girls. my heart is broken. i am so devastated.

Anonymous 131763

>>131762
I'm sorry to hear someone has broken your heart. Unfortunately the kind of person who will be loyal and trustworthy in a relationship might not be as interesting or fun as the person who might cheat. It's really important to think about the kind of person you're dealing with when choosing a partner. You don't want to overanalyze every little thing they do but you should absolutely be paying attention if they say they're still close with their ex or if they're a person who has a tendency to do drastic spontaneous things. At the end of the day, love is ultimately a gamble and as any gambler will tell you, sometimes you're just going to lose. Keep your head up there are billions other fish in the sea.

Anonymous 131764

I hear a lot of ice cream helps and throw his clothes into the street

Anonymous 131765

i’m sorry nona :( men suck. take the advice sylvia could never follow through with herself.

Anonymous 131766

>>131763
I know what you are.

Anonymous 131792

Typical moid behavior.


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bf clothes smell like ferret Anonymous 131785[Reply]

i love my boyfriend desu
but clothes that hang up in his room smell like ammonia-y ferret droppings. not musky, like cat pee if it was even worse, and without actually coming in contact with the pee. he has to wash his clothes when he comes over. when i go over i have to keep my clothes shut in my zipped suitcase. my dumb ass just hasn't told him that i know the source of it
we're ldr and idk how to broach the topic that it is gonna be me or the ferrets if he wants me to move in with him. i have migraines and my ocd already makes me think i'm stinky
also it's bad for animal welfare i think
wtf i do
(i already am bitey when he doesnt do stuff to my standard in my home, he just says ok and does it tho)

Anonymous 131787

build a decontamination chamber in your house

Anonymous 131788

>>131787
do not worry
there will be no house if this is not dealt with somehow


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