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Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 02:50:10 AM122462 [Reply]

I'm arguing with a moid online and I'm winning but it's so annoying that they point out how long I've spent arguing with them aghhhh. I feel recharged after coming back to cc. thank you nonas for your epic presence

Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 03:27:57 AM122464

>>122462
>I'm winning
proof?

Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 03:45:21 AM122465

Who is the girl in the pic? I feel like I recognise her but I also don’t

Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 06:39:16 AM122467

Just don’t do it, duh.

Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 02:46:30 PM122472

>>122465
it's nagyung from fromis_9!
>>122467
yeah you're right, I just get this desire to correct moids and teach them a lesson but my free time is too precious tbh

Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 08:30:24 PM122488

>>122472
Aw I should’ve known that, I used to listen to fun! religiously

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Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 03:57:14 PM122475 [Reply]

>break up with bf
>get back together
>notice 700+ deleted messages with one person, A
>asked about it, he lies
>said once during the breakup he "was getting desperate" but never did anything, using a nickname others use but mainly A1
>A1 not awkward around me or him
>said he wouldn't want to be with anyone, all he wanted was me, seemed convincing
>A1s body type in media, seemed inappropriately irritated and awkward despite minimal reaction from me
>uste to talk about how i took his (virginity), kinda guilt tripping me to stay sometimes, but doesn't anymore, sees as toxic or other?
>he was very rude when we broke up even reaching out on fake numbers to insult me, so maybe shit talking?
thoughts?

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Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 04:22:54 PM122480

>>122478
but it's my fault

Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 04:59:04 PM122483

>>122475
Not saying you should date him but I actually think the erratic behaviour is evidence he's pretty attached to you (if he wasn't he'd be more cold/indifferent/wouldn't behave that differently after the breakup). He's using anxiously attached protest behaviour, he's not being avoidant.

Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 05:18:12 PM122485

>>122483
i realize we both hopelessly play negative attachment roles but i'm not really sure how to be normal id assume he's similar

Anonymous 06/01/25 (Sun) 05:22:10 PM122486

>>122485
meh I think anything other than avoidant behaviour can be worked around with love.

Anonymous 06/05/25 (Thu) 12:50:33 PM122536

>>122475
I'm stealing this femjak

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Anonymous 05/30/25 (Fri) 06:32:39 PM122394 [Reply]

Got sick and did not get any work done. I will journal before sleeping to atleast feel something. My money problems will be solved soon but living through it is hell.

Anonymous 05/30/25 (Fri) 07:06:02 PM122395

You just had to make a thread for this?

Anonymous 05/30/25 (Fri) 07:28:27 PM122396

>>122395
Yes what about it

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Anonymous 11/29/24 (Fri) 02:43:28 AM118787 [Reply]

In your own words, what does falling in love feel like to you? How do you know there's a connection, a spark, a vibe?

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Anonymous 12/09/24 (Mon) 02:27:56 AM119008

>>118829
It is also the most sublime drug known to man. Better than an entire drug cocktail

Anonymous 12/11/24 (Wed) 05:10:42 AM119057

I knew for sure when I realized I only want to marry and have kids with him.

Anonymous 05/08/25 (Thu) 09:04:53 PM121955

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It’s a hunger a need for someone. When I love someone I need them for my life to have any meaning

Anonymous 05/09/25 (Fri) 05:10:11 AM121965

One side bliss, one side worry.
Every moment with him is wonderful. Laughter, passion, pleasure. I can open up and be myself with no facade.

Without him is anxiety. Did I mess something up? Is he okay? He’s depressed, so will he leave me? Did I hurt him? Is he eating? Did he get drunk? Is he okay at work? It tears at my heart.

Anonymous 05/31/25 (Sat) 05:31:51 PM122453

>>118787
Everything feels so clever and light hearted and funny and next thing you know they've sucked your soul out and made you feel smaller and heavier and more insignificant than anything else ever had in your entire life

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Man who has me blocked stalking my LinkedIn Anonymous 05/30/25 (Fri) 11:25:16 PM122435 [Reply]

I had a crush on a guy and I was admittedly weird (mentioning my anxiety). He's 4 years older than me. He would reply to me and we would have some convos (text only) but he always ignored me irl. I think he thought I was trying to compete with him academically (I come from a weird community that's academically competitive). He seemed curious about my academic prospects. I blocked him bc it was affecting me negatively mentally and then he blocked me (after). I recently graduated and he viewed my LinkedIn (100% him).

Anonymous 05/31/25 (Sat) 06:50:50 AM122443

viewing a LinkedIn profile = stalking or is there something else going on?

Anonymous 05/31/25 (Sat) 09:05:38 AM122447

>>122435
I look at random people on linkedin to see what theyre doing. Idk this was stalking. I am set on private though so they cant see i viewed them

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/lg/ - lesbian general Anonymous 07/05/20 (Sun) 08:09:32 AM108545 [Reply]

felt like this should be a thread tbh
what's everyone up to? i'm thinking of downloading tinder again

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Anonymous 01/14/25 (Tue) 10:36:17 PM119562

I want to date a woman already. It’s been years (since COVID) and I have been daydreaming about love and who the next “she” would be;; her personality, appearance, et cetera.

But I’m not cute enough for the bi (and maybe les? But tbh I think those are spicy straights) on dating apps. And if I seem attractive IRL, then that probably disappears once it’s made obvious that I’m so damn socially awkward.

And also I’m just unaware of if I’m interacting with another bi/les woman.

I’m so lonely. I really want to share my life but I’m stuck with yearning. It seems as if I’m no woman’s type!

Anonymous 01/14/25 (Tue) 10:39:17 PM119563

>>119562

Also OP of this post, I struggle with internalized racism and homophobia, as well. I’ve heard that people can sense things like confidence and insecurity so I wonder if I’m sending a vibe that’s just overbearingly negative and I don’t even know it.

Anonymous 05/30/25 (Fri) 11:48:52 PM122436

>>119489
you have to just stop caring what others think. easier said than done yes, but that's truly the only way.

Anonymous 05/30/25 (Fri) 11:54:40 PM122437

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i need a gf. i dream of picrel being my future.

Anonymous 05/31/25 (Sat) 12:12:21 AM122439

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>>108556
>first crush?
a girl in elementary school, but i didn't understand what i felt for her at the time. first crushes i recognized as crushes were in middle school. i imagined being married to her and i told my mom abt it.
>what’s your local lesbian/LGBT scene like?
troonland
>cute stories about your gf
am a femcel
>favourite lesbian media?
does madoka magica count? my lesbian experience with loneliness, kase san, run away with me girl are among some of my faves. sailor moon and utena also mean a lot to me.
>lesbian media you hate?
most things that are modern and western
>coming out stories
told my mom when i was 15. she blamed it on me hating men.
>are there any cows you’d uhaul with?
idk lol
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Anonymous 05/10/25 (Sat) 02:22:59 AM121977 [Reply]

good morning I hate men

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Anonymous 05/13/25 (Tue) 03:34:50 PM122077

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TOTAL MOID DEATH!!!!
TMD TMD TMD

Anonymous 05/28/25 (Wed) 01:40:47 PM122352

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now that i have a bf and 1 guy friend who are very normal humans (trust me on this nonas), it makes me hate all other men even more!!! i love hating men i love hating men :3 Total female domination!!!!!

Anonymous 05/28/25 (Wed) 02:09:13 PM122355

>>122352
>now that i have a bf and 1 guy friend who are very normal humans (trust me on this nonas)
yup
dats what made me start hateposting on men

Anonymous 05/28/25 (Wed) 08:24:17 PM122365

>>122352
>i hate men!!1!
>i'll still keep dating and fucking them tho cause this one is different!!
fake misandrists stfu challenge

Anonymous 05/29/25 (Thu) 04:26:45 AM122371

>>122365
sybau

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diagnosis vs ruining future career Anonymous 05/28/25 (Wed) 04:21:50 PM122358 [Reply]

i became an adult and graduated high school recently, going to college in the fall
i have my first doctor's appointment as an adult coming up soon
i've been waiting for this appointment to confess my symptoms of mental illness, but i am faltering and wondering how, or even if i should do this
i am fairly confident i have onset schizophrenia, due to my symptoms of auditory and visual hallucinations, paranoia, and delusions
i am aiming to get a job in the defense sector, and i know that any mental illness diagnosis will bar me from getting a security clearance
i want to receive treatment/medication, but i don't know if it's worth tanking my career over

please help, nonas

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Anonymous 05/28/25 (Wed) 05:49:00 PM122361

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can't you just tell your doctor your symptoms? just be like "yeah i hear voices sometimes and also i think i am the lizard queen" or whatever. they'll probably just refer you to a specialist

Anonymous 05/28/25 (Wed) 06:00:07 PM122362

You don't want antipsychotics, they're not good for the brain

Anonymous 05/28/25 (Wed) 06:18:01 PM122363

>>122358
>schizophrenia
>defense sector
Honestly, being trans is probably going to be a bigger barrier to working in your preferred field in the coming years.
>symptoms of auditory and visual hallucinations, paranoia, and delusions
The fact that you're capable of recognizing them as such means that you do not have a significant disorder. Just keep quiet about it and let it be someone else's problem if it ever gets bad enough that you can't live with it (unlikely). Many people live happy/normal lives with these minor symptoms.
If you are high-iq enough, you can also try self-medicating if it bothers you.

Anonymous 05/28/25 (Wed) 06:21:33 PM122364

>>122363
>>122358
Also, I forgot to mention, you can just fly to a different country for healthcare as well.

Anonymous 05/30/25 (Fri) 01:41:34 PM122389

>>122358
t-minus a few hours

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MY EX Anonymous 05/29/25 (Thu) 11:58:54 PM122381 [Reply]

I just talked for hours with my ex-boyfriend, who was also my first boyfriend ever, and it was so nice talking with him again. He also sent a selfie of him AND HE WAS/IS SO GOOD LOOKING AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAREFGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH WHY DID HE LEAVE ME I WAS 17 FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK I WANT GHIM SO BAD BUT HE WILL NEVER DATE ME AGAIN ANYWAYS HAHJAHAHJAHJAHA kill me I hate my life I unironically live a nightmare existence u can ask me anything and I'll answer truthfully… I am almost 20 years old btw, going through a divorce from a marriage with a man in his 30s who I met at 18.

Anonymous 05/30/25 (Fri) 02:17:06 AM122382

>>122381
why cant you and your ex get back together? and why did you guys break in the first place

Anonymous 05/30/25 (Fri) 02:49:45 AM122383

what was the age gap between you and your ex

Anonymous 05/30/25 (Fri) 03:55:08 AM122384

>>122381
why did he dump you? how did he dump you? how old is he now?

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Anonymous 04/24/25 (Thu) 10:13:58 PM121599 [Reply]

Cried about dad cheating on mom. I haven't told anyone yet. Just spiralling and asking chat gpt how this can affect me and what preventative measures I can take. When should I tell my mom. Should I ever tell her. Ugh. Now all day will be spent drinking coffee because I did not sleep and I have to study for an exam. I want a fat greasy pizza. This is my sign to work even harder in uni. Girls is such a fun show. I need a tarot card reading. Chewing five pieces of gum will really hurt your jaw.

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Anonymous 05/11/25 (Sun) 04:57:09 PM122041

>>122038
Aww , i feel so hard for you.. I found my dad's cheating evidence at 10/11, and I never saw him the same/ as a good guy after that. My mother later went on to detail how he was doing it the whole time. Even when my mom just had us…
The audacity of shitty ass "dads"!!

Anonymous 05/11/25 (Sun) 05:59:04 PM122044

>>122041
I'm going to destroy his entire being he is going to pay for this

Anonymous 05/12/25 (Mon) 06:30:07 AM122057

>>122037
Cheating is so stupid.. for one, you're(addressing your dad here) going to be found out, also, why make your own life more complicated? But most important - you could have spent your resources on the family you chose to create you stupid moid.

Anonymous 05/12/25 (Mon) 06:31:31 PM122060

>>122044
Based. Sometimes scorched earth is the proper response. Start gathering as much dirt as you can.

Anonymous 05/26/25 (Mon) 08:06:22 PM122326

>>121599
tell your dad you know what you did and threaten him to delete contact (if its ongoing) or you will go to your mum and tell her. If not, if he does it again you will find out and tell mum