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i hope everyone had a wonderful day and if you didnt i hope tomorrow will be better Anonymous 120601[Reply]

:)
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Anonymous 120619

>>120601
thank you nona i hope you had a wonderful day too~!

Anonymous 120635

Thanks nona, you too.

Anonymous 121068

Kill me

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Maybe you'll find this letter Anonymous 120659[Reply]

Hi, I haven't lurked here in ages. But I miss you and maybe you'll randomly read this without knowing this was for you. I don't want to directly bother you so I'm doing this on crystal cafe instead. We're all alive and doing as usual. S finished her degree, I'm still stuck doing my crap diploma at 21 and I'm way behind my batch, supposed to do my internship next month but my credits are worth less than 3 semesters. M's mental state, fluctuates like it always does but I heard her dad is gonna enroll her into a practical college nearby her home in the near future.

My parents are still crap people, I ended my 7 year friendship with that girl on November last year. Not sure if you recall her. Eh, her opinions were shit anyway. All talk but no spine, much less bite.

Actually I think I'm doing pretty bad. It wont get better. Not anytime soon. Still seeing the psychiatrists but at a different hospital this time. Too soon to say if it's worse or better than the one I've been going to for the past 5 years.

A recent revelation I had while journaling was that I probably have C-PTSD from how crap the world treated me and the fact that my autism was diagnosed way too late to avoid the abuse from the people I was surrounded by. So at least it's not Borderline Personality or plain Avoidant Personality. Not entirely a deviancy in my part. Just mistreatment from others my entire life.

Hope you're doing fine and you're healthy, where ever you are and whatever you're doing. If you want, my email is open for you, always. Hope you still have it written somewhere you can access.

Anonymous 121050

thats a lil random



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Things they don’t teach you in school Anonymous 115819[Reply]

The important things. Like, what am I supposed to do when I, as a married woman who loves her husband, am feeling extremely attracted to a male friend? I wanna suppress my feelings and act like everything is normal but it’s so hard, it’s literally physically painful. I‘m feeling physically sick. Maybe I should cut contact with him, but I know that would really hurt him and I really can not do that. What am I supposed to do? I’m despairing. I don’t know who to ask
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Anonymous 115927

>>115900
I believe that I could accept it, if my husband would love someone else
You never know until it happens to you and it probably won't make you feel great. It's good you are going to a therapist.

Anonymous 116047

>>115900
I know it's hard, but if you want to save your relationship with your husband it's the best thing to do. You might find yourself hoping to get back in touch with the other guy, but it's for the best.

Anonymous 121009

>>115819
pocket him as a backup husband, men will die unexpectedly in their late 30s/mid 40s and its weirdly becoming more common

Anonymous 121027

>>121009
is this actually true?

Anonymous 121038

>>121027
Partly. Male deathrate in the 30s is conventionally 2x female but the younger age cohort is dying faster at an accelerated pace.
https://www.statista.com/statistics/241572/death-rate-by-age-and-sex-in-the-us/
Age Male Female
15-24 126.9 49.3
25-34 251.2 108.6
35-44 373.3 201.2
45-54 668.4 393.9
You don't really have to worry though, it's typically unmarried and especially never-married men that make those numbers happen.



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My father probably has narcissistic personality disorder Anonymous 120988[Reply]

… and idk what to do.
I realized it last time I visited. He had a surgery, I came to help. At the end of my stay he said I didn't help him at all. He constantly puts himself to position of a victim and feels superior at the same time. He enforces his authority all the time. He doesn't use/have empathy. He says weird things, often attacking me and others out of nowhere in the middle of normal conversation. He often talks only about himself, often pursues only his own interests. He manipulates and conditions his love (or at least behaving in a nicer way). He is incredibly arrogant, bumping to people on the street because he won't change his direction, He usually uses an argumentative/resentful tone of voice and even really despises everyone. Everyone but him is a jerk and should listen to him and do as he says and for us. He threatens everybody with God, saying they will be punished, often because they don't behave as he wants.

What is worst, he manipulates me to feel guilty. Therefore, it is hard to go no contact with him. How should I accept that it's okay not to talk to him anymore? Or how should I provide help to him for this disorder?

Anonymous 120992

I think you should stop giving a fuck and live your life. Adults should learn on their own …specially men



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Anonymous 120974[Reply]

god damn it, im so in love with my old ass coworker. But he is like so perfect. I just wish he was exactly the same but like 20 years younger. That would be great. He is so sweet yet still like, manly, and he's so helpful and he has long hair… At first I thought he was a boring person but then I realised it was a fun boring. I'm so attracted to him it's insane. I think the best thing about him is… he is a perfect gentleman, I feel like I could confess to him and he'd reject me, and hopefully this insane crush can go away. Seriously he would. Honestly it's so bad I am thinking of moving jobs. I have been head over heels for like half a year now. What's annoying is he doesn't even look old.


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I wish we had super realistic CGI and we got rid of actors Anonymous 120914[Reply]

We could have different looking characters for all films.So, where the movie starts I'm not looking at "George Clooney" the whole time.

That is not real yet but I wish it was. I don't care to find out weirdass facts about celebs anymore but do anyway.I don't mind preexisting gay actors, etc. I am cool with it.

inauthentic people give many the creeps. If they are straight up about who they are, many people do not mind and will admire them for being cool.

I am not fond of "femme" gays, because stop…but regular types people are fine.

I like Dracula Untold and would have watched a series of those films. The lead actor was gay playing a family man. I don't care.

Conversely, Allen Cummins, which is an ironic fucked up name, grosses me out. He always acts like some kind of fucking pervert orgasming in his pants. He reminds me of a pedo who would rape someone in their sleep.

Just a few random thoughts I wanted to share.

Anonymous 120915

No thankyou.

Anonymous 120924

If you don't like art, twinks or having a functioning brain we really have nothing to discuss.

Anonymous 120932

Don’t agree with your main point but I did love the Dracula untold movie

Anonymous 120971

We already have that. As you can see in actors that are already dead still appearing in movies. We can construct faces onto other faces and those faces can be modified like in for example(in relation to your picture) the squidface guy from pirates of the Caribian.



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Anonymous 120967[Reply]

Why do I pull all nighters and avoid work in the morning. One more month and I'm going to an isolated religious institution and fix myself. I need to go somewhere far away where there is not even a single cell tower …any tower honestly.

Anonymous 120969

Still alive. White Monster save me.



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one of my friends totally dropped me Anonymous 120770[Reply]

as the title says, one of my friends texted me last friday, and decided that we couldn’t be friends anymore. he said that our friendship was “too intense” and he couldn’t handle it for his mental health. this came out of nowhere, and he hadn’t expressed discomfort any time in the past about our friendship and what we talked about. we’ve only known each other since november but we’ve gotten really close in that time, and tell each other about our mental health, personal, and family struggles. i’m not mad that he did this, if anything im glad he’s prioritizing his mental health. but, it just really fucking sucks that he just,,, decided we can’t be friends anymore. i don’t even know if this is permanent. from the way he spoke, i don’t think it is, but i have no clue when he’ll be stable enough for us to be friends again.

on one hand, he’s kind of right? like, our friendship was a bit mentally draining for the both of us. but on the other hand i really miss him. i miss talking to him from when i woke up to when i went to bed. i miss seeing funny videos and sending them to him. i miss talking to him about literally nothing and everything. i think it’s worse because he still like, looks at my ig stories. he doesn’t hate me, we just can’t be friends for the time being.
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Anonymous 120839

>>120797
A role he really needs to fullfill better.

Anonymous 120844

>>120797
>>120839
op here, i came to check on this thread because i was thinking about him (and feeling terrible) again, and this really made me laugh so thanks you guys <3

Anonymous 120911

>>120844
how can I get into an obsessive relationship like you?

Anonymous 120918

>>120911
meet someone who is equally as mentally ill as you, talk from literally when you wake up to when you go to bed, develop complicated feelings for him, "confess" but make it clear that you're not sure if you actually like him (or men at all), tell each other your worst secrets, profit

Anonymous 120950

op here again. i texted him earlier and he left me on read. i sent him another text after that which he didn't read. i hate my life.



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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 120941

>>120936
Rooting for you!

Anonymous 120943

I'm scaring myself into staying…

I only make about 260,000yen a month after taxes. Our current apartment is 90000yen/month. Share houses start around 40000yen a month… I don't have much savings. Maybe I could rent a room with someone but I feel that will be hard to arrange on the DL. Manga cafe is 3000yen/night on weekdays. Hotels are more.

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Anonymous 120945

>>120944
Some errors here use this in place of number 2.
http://www.nwsnet.or.jp/

Anonymous 120946

>>120945
https://nwsnet.or.jp/
Sorry the 's' was missing



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Anonymous 120913[Reply]

neeting was fun but now I need to go out and get my hands on some cash and books. I get bored at home. I will earn money downscale then lollygag around the world. I'm hoping going out will give me a clear picture on the topic of being in a relationship. I love summer.

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Anonymous 120933

>>120931
I like how my message number ended in 13 and yours in 31^^
<3



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