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Anonymous 05/20/24 (Mon) 05:34:29 AM113757 [Reply]

I feel like I'm so ugly without makeup. Even after being showered in compliments. I get many compliments from unattractive men. I never get any from men that are good looking. Tinder, instagram, real life

How do I cope?

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Anonymous 07/04/25 (Fri) 12:53:19 PM123214

>>123213
>By any chance do you happen to live in ex-USSR?

no, many thousands of km west. also it was merely symbolic garlic because currently i don't even grow any since all i have is a tiny balcony. next time i move though i hope to have some more space to plant and then i grow garlic again and then i grow the strong pungent varieties that they don't sell in the supermarket and then when i have a completely raw phase again i make sauces with the pungent garlic and insult everyone who doesn't eat raw plants; i shake my fist at them and call their cooked food 'burned' just to express my contempt 😂

Anonymous 07/05/25 (Sat) 06:19:36 PM123249

>>114014
I never did and I'm doing alright. I just dress nice and honestly at this point whenever I put makeup on it looks wrong to me, even when someone else who's good at it does it. Does save me a lot of money looking at my makeup wearing friends and family, and it hasn't prevented me from being respected by peers or finding a loving partner. If you wanna wear it and it's just for yourself go for it, but you'll be fine without it too.

Anonymous 07/07/25 (Mon) 03:35:52 PM123310

look at the men around you and determine which ones you find attractive. if the amount of unattractive men highly preceeds the amount of attractive men, it could just be your environment. you could always try approaching them first but if you're in a region where courtesy is still expected, its likely the men you find attractive simply do not reciprocate your interest.

Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 09:44:13 PM125280

you are just fugly
embrace it

Anonymous 09/12/25 (Fri) 11:53:25 PM125308

>>123310
> if the amount of unattractive men highly preceeds the amount of attractive men, it could just be your environment.
lmfao
we've all seen the dating app stats at this point. it's way more likely she just thinks the average man is unattractive because she's social media brained. the self-consciousness about her looks comes from the same place. she compares herself to social media women and men to social media men. hence everyone irl is "unattractive" (normal) to her. basically self-imposed suffering because if you look away from the phone for a while you realize most people are just average and suddenly seeing something average in the mirror isn't so alarming any more.

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Anonymous 09/12/25 (Fri) 02:52:19 PM125305 [Reply]

How do I stop pushing away good people that are in my life?

Anonymous 09/12/25 (Fri) 04:37:53 PM125306

>>125305
What makes you start pushing them away

Anonymous 09/15/25 (Mon) 03:56:43 PM125406

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unironically picrel. you have to have a baseline kindness for yourself and others. it's easy to push people away if you believe you're 'unworthy' or 'undeserving'. having good people in your life makes you a better person. it can be hard, but these things come with time. good luck nona!

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I'm glad this site exists Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 06:40:35 PM125264 [Reply]

Came across this site when searching for alternative image boards. I've been hating being a woman for years, not because I have gender dysphoria, just the constant exhaustion of dealing with men and the confines of society. thank you crystal.cafe, and hopefully this site will become more active.

Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 06:56:09 PM125269

you do have gender dysphoria
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https://endchan.org/agp/
https://endchan.org/lgbt/
https://soychan.in/lgbt/
https://leftychan.net/lgbt/
https://leftypol.org/lgbt/
https://libpol.org/lgbt/
https://www.tranchan.net/
https://www.textchan.com/txt/cross-dressing-trapping/

Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 06:58:51 PM125270

>>125269
absolutely not. I love being a woman and I love girly things, I just hate the prejudice I get. I will never troon out and put poison in my body just to look like a moid with wide hips and a 5'9 stature.

Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 05:25:39 AM125282

I love you nona and I'm glad you're here but please don't post any more of these ugly memes.

Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 09:35:09 PM125285

>>125264
Us gurlz needa stick together! I was in your shoes once too. Glad you found us nona

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Vent Thread Anonymous 03/03/25 (Mon) 03:20:11 PM120288 [Reply]

Previous thread >>117577

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Anonymous 09/13/25 (Sat) 08:17:45 PM125349

the scrote i have a crush one likes a basic girl and it gives me the biggest fucking ick. what the FUCK do you mean you are into bland dime a dozen basic bitches 10+ years younger than you?
kys you creepy short fucking skinnyfat incel i can't believe i ever thought anything different of you

Anonymous 09/14/25 (Sun) 04:38:20 AM125365

>>125349

do not like men for a relationship.

Men are like dogs.

They smell your hand and let you pet them.

Do not pet them before they approach first. They bite.

Anonymous 09/14/25 (Sun) 04:40:36 AM125366

I am tired of being autistic.

This nightmare never ends.

My humor is never the same, my lovers always find me apathetic even if I try. The less I try the more they try to fit with me.

It's as if men were born to obey.

At least my maus panzer and my cars do not make me sad.

Anonymous 09/14/25 (Sun) 08:33:04 AM125380

IM A FAILURE AT EVERYTHING
I TRIED AND TRIED but at the same time I don’t do any effort
I want things
I want to be somenthing
I envy people
Specially the ones who can read more that one minute of a book

Anonymous 09/15/25 (Mon) 08:36:40 PM125414

New thread >>>/feels/125413

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meeting internet boyfriend Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 04:24:55 PM125231 [Reply]

hi nonas,

have any of you met a moid from the internet before? i have been talking to a guy for a few months now and we are considering meeting. i have never had a relationship before so i'm nervous about what things will be like in person.. i don't know what to expect.

i have a tendency to self-sabotage and i worry that i am going to cut off this one chance i have at a relationship because i'm scared of what's unknown to me.. can anyone share advice?

thank you anyone who leaves a comment, i wish i had some friends i could talk to about this..

Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 04:30:22 PM125232

>>125231
w the popularity of dating apps i think there's less and less social stigma toward meeting on the internet in general.. that said it depends a lot on how viable this relationship is imo when it comes to whether you're helping or hurting yourself by meeting him.

do you think there's long-term potential? also i'll say i think the odds of establishing a viable relationship via the internet probably go way down if it's your first one, you just don't know what red/green flags to look for going into it

Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 04:47:54 PM125233

Where are you going to meet him? Just make sure you're going to a place where you're comfortable, don't let yourself be coerced into doing anything you don't want and have fun. Let him know if you're nervous. Make sure you have similar expectations of how your date will go.

If it helps, think of it this way. Meeting someone IRL instead of talking online indefinitely is a much better idea.

Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 12:42:15 AM125235

> hi nonas,
Kek, the surviving 1/3 of genuine posts ever posted in this site are trannies, aren’t they?

Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 06:44:40 PM125265

Yes, when I was 13 I met a moid from discord. I got my virginity stolen from me that day.
met another last year, we got high, and again, in my weakened state, had sex.
met one last week and yet again, it was a hookup.

it made my self esteem plummet and reminder that I am a whore. I don't want to be a whore, I just crave physical intimacy, not even sex, just cuddles or kisses. don't meet up with moids from the internet. but if you do, make sure you trust him and its in a public place.

Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 06:46:17 PM125266

>>125233
I really want to meet up with an anon moid, hes from Norway and is really sweet. I'm pretty against e dating, but my city is shit and I hate all the guys here. I've met up with 3 different guys from the internet and it all lead to us having sex.
I'm fine with sex, I just don't want it to be dominantly that. hopefully a true relationship.

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Alaska sounds nice ig Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 08:06:04 AM125252 [Reply]

>be me
>parents abused/ abandoned me
>grow up
>find a nice lady
>she becomes a mom figure
>call her mom
>discuss adult adoption
>make plans to move to the same city and be a family.
>get text saying she's moving to France to be with her gf.

Are you fucking kidding me? The two people who are supposed to love me no matter what fucking HATE me for being born or don't remember I fucking exist. I find someone who ACTUALLY wants me to be a part of their family and they decide to just fucking ditch me so they can get laid by someone in France?

Fucking really? I'm worth less than a god damn plane ticket.

I will sacrifice literally anything for love. I memorize every tiny detail of a person's likes and dislikes. I memorize their habits and patterns and I cleave parts off of myself to put them ahead of me constantly. I work for peoples love because clearly no one will give it to me without me having to mine for it. And I thought I found one fucking person who wouldn't do that. Who actually understood and saw me. I THOUGHT I had a mother for the first time in my useless fucking life but no. No family for me.
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Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 01:40:36 PM125257

> I'm going to move to the middle of Alaska and just live by myself

mccandless maxing

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I wish someone would choose me for once in my life Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 07:59:22 AM125251 [Reply]

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Anonymous 08/08/25 (Fri) 02:15:59 AM124510 [Reply]

I want my parents fucking dead and I've been in no contact for a year

Anonymous 08/16/25 (Sat) 07:05:19 PM124700

>>124510
Ok well your parents are not the ones who raised you, the state did(through media), they were just the workhorses paying for your upbringing thinking they'll get a reward or at least a 'thank you' at the end. They got played and you're the prank.

Anonymous 08/16/25 (Sat) 09:34:01 PM124702

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>>124700
>parents are not the ones who raised you
So they didn't do shit besides just bringing food home as they would without me (and god knows how much horrible shit to make my life unbearable) and they want to be praised? Cool. I'm glad your parents treated you like a God or however you conjured that innocent image of them.

Anonymous 09/06/25 (Sat) 05:21:56 PM125208

You should wish yourself dead. Autistic people have no place in this world. As a person with autism who mistreated her parents to hell and back, I can say God made a mistake making me.

Literally drink bleach first then drink vinegar.

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Dealing with getting doxxed Anonymous 08/24/25 (Sun) 10:41:49 AM124922 [Reply]

hello nonas,
i hope you don’t mind me reaching out and i hope you guys are doing amazing, but i’m feeling really lost and overwhelmed right now a few months ago my pictures and personal information were doxxed and since then i can’t stop thinking about it every time i check the website they’re still talking about me commenting on my body and it makes me feel absolutely worthless i don’t have anyone i can talk to about this and the anxiety is constantly on my mind i’m terrified they’ll find a way to reach my family something i would never want to happen it’s been consuming me and i feel like i’m trapped in this cycle of sadness the fact that they post about me regularly makes it almost impossible to resist checking the site even though i don’t want to i keep blaming myself for trusting people online and sharing my pictures with them when i rejected them they started circulating my images and using them to hurt me i have their pictures too but i’m afraid posting them would only make things worse giving them more fuel i’ve been inactive for a while but i still check the site now and then each time i hold onto a little bit of hope that things might have changed but i’m always left disappointed because they still keep posting about me even after all this time what should i do i feel so confused and lost. i’m so scared this will follow me into the future especially as i try to build a career in a public role i can't stop thinking about how my past will always be there lurking waiting to catch up with me when i was 17 i made racist remarks and hurt people with my words even if i thought they were just jokes or satire i was wrong i was cruel and i was selfish hiding behind anonymity thinking it didn’t matter but it did and it does i can’t change what i did and i know that no amount of regret will take away the harm i caused i feel lost in this realization but i accept it i accept that this part of me this mistake is something i have to carry with me forever i wish i could take it all back i wish i could undo the pain i caused but i can’t all i can do now is be sorry and try to be better even though i know it might never be enough

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Anonymous 09/05/25 (Fri) 10:17:21 AM125181

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>>125180
That is strange they'd go on so long without you interacting at all… they sound like real freaks. It's not what you want to hear but without new material they're going to have to move on eventually. I understand the temptation to keep looking but the best thing you can do is put it out of your mind. Just because they refuse to get a life doesn't mean you should waste yours too.

Anonymous 09/05/25 (Fri) 11:25:18 AM125182

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>>125181
yes nona i feel uncertain about what steps to take i have been trying to distance myself from all of this yet i cannot help but think that filing a report may not bring any real change since they could simply dissolve this group create another exclude me from it and still misuse my pictures nona what troubles me further is the thought that they might somehow discover my current address my college or even my parents workplace though i think this is unlikely and perhaps i am being overly paranoid.how are you doing nona? i apologize if i am troubling you.
here's a deer for you ^-^
nona how do i keep my mind off of it, it has been really very hard im sorry to make this all about myself but it's extremely mentally draining (i do have "somewhat" of an ongoing social life but i am the very point where i keep thinking about it even if i am out with other people)

Anonymous 09/05/25 (Fri) 01:33:45 PM125183

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>>125182
When you're saying they could make another group and exclude you from it, makes me think maybe it's clear to them you still have access to this group? You should leave if they can see that. That might be prolonging the issue if they can see you still have access.

The best way to keep your mind off something is to get busy with other things, like calling friends or hanging out, watching a movie, listening to music, reading books, or doing something physical like crocheting painting running etc. Idk if many batting cages are around anymore but it's fun to go out and hit something as hard as you can. I understand if it still comes to mind when you're with people but don't stop making plans and doing activities. Just avoid being idle because that's when your mind starts filling up the blank space with things it can get nervous about.

It's ok to make it all about you nona it's your thread. I've stressed about stuff like this on the internet before and life has always moved on for me. I hope you feel better soon.

Anonymous 09/05/25 (Fri) 10:21:57 PM125186

>>125183
yes nona. they can see that i am in the group but i remain inactive. they cannot know for certain whether i have read the messages so they might only assume that i do. i feel a strong desire to leave the group chat but my anxiety convinces me to stay. it tells me that if i leave they might focus on me more or uncover something else about me?
i went out with friends to keep my mind off of it and ended up checking it again after i came back home. :\
i really need to compel myself physically not to check it again i genuinely should but i am unable to.
nona, could you share what happened with you and how did you get out of it?

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>>125186
You definitely should leave the group then. Make it a formal thing for yourself, it's time to start a new chapter and move on. Knowing you're able to see the messages can be playing a big role in why they keep going like this especially if people know you're anxious and the type of person who wouldn't be able to stop reading the updates.

For me someone unhinged got pics of me and posted them in many places insulting me. They also got my full name and where I work. They tried to threaten me at first but I blocked their accounts and left wherever it was happening. It's been years and nothing has happened irl. At the end of the day people move on, that stuff gets buried eventually and I don't care about what crazy people think. Let them waste their life with that, I have better things to do, and so do you nona

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Hate Thread Anonymous 11/13/24 (Wed) 09:02:40 AM118525 [Reply]

What do you hate and why?

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Anonymous 08/24/25 (Sun) 03:51:19 AM124909

>>124907
:(…
I've managed to avoid that kind of hurt by never really making plans in the first place (bad solution lol)
If you're into this sort of thing, tonight's a New Moon. So if you'd set up for a group thing and everyone feels distant or unready, it could outgoingness at its natural ebb.

Anonymous 09/05/25 (Fri) 11:13:14 PM125187

I hate feeling disconnected from other people.
I hate not enjoying normie things.
I hate thinking two people are friends, only to realise later they hate each other.
I hate knowing that they gossip about me the same way they gossip about each other.
I hate that they have the gall to waste my time with faux-polite banalities.
I hate that having friends is difficult.
I hate that not having friends is harder.

>>124900
I think the prize is getting to experience love.
I'd question whether it's true love if they incessantly bring it up.

Anonymous 09/06/25 (Sat) 12:10:40 AM125188

>>125187
Not having friends is easy as shit if you know what people are really like

Its like vacation

Anonymous 09/06/25 (Sat) 12:11:03 AM125189

>>125187
The only person I interact with every day is my husband. So he comes up a lot the few times I have conversations with others. Maybe normies are the same.

Anonymous 09/06/25 (Sat) 08:02:29 AM125191

>>125189
Yeah it makes sense, don't worry about it