/feels/ - Advice & Venting

why aren’t you guys compatible? don’t leave us hanging nona

same

>>125487
>me and my bf aren't compatible
buy an adapter then

>>127504
kek

>>127504
this is what i make my bald little dicked ex look like every time i send him his monthly review on how he’s fallen short of mediocrity this time

Which is why we gotta turn the tables and start doing irl reverse harems. Get impressionable 22+ year Olds to bend to our iron will and become subservient to us. Once I make a 6 figure income and get my own place that's what I plan on doing.

>>127469
except men cant get hard if they are not interested so reverse harem doesnt work

>>127495
girl what he just has to stroke his dick twice and think of his ex all they want is sex

>>127469
or you could just remove the "valuable" male element from your life entirely and focus on things that actually put you in a position of intellectual leverage over a male (the only way you as a woman could even fight back against male dominance anyway)

>>127496
and you are okay with your harem boy thinking of his sex while fucking you?

the healthcare system and tragedies beyond your own control

i hate being ugly, lol.

I hate close-mindedness, people who refuse to reevaluate their own assumptions to protect their egos are bound to be ignorant.
I hate herd mentality, people who align their worldview to match that of their peers, in order to be part of some in-group, become a blind, mechanical force.
I hate cowardice in face of injustice, my own self-righteousness, getting old and not being able to take upon myself infinite amount of suffering.

people who are negative all the time and make others miserable just because they're miserable lol

men who rape virgins

>>127457
god and the devil created me in a lab as a bet to be the most based woman alive so they could see which direction i’d end up going in

>>127466
Which side are you gonna choose?

>>127467
i think goodness but my ex really tests me sometimes

>>127468
Honestly same

>>127470
we are for real all trapped in samsara

I'm gonna be the emotional support for you guys who will do the solving

>>127408
i love that. i am building a team.

>>127407
One dickchop at a time

>>119668
I know a guy almost exactly like this, minus the TERF part.

Haha this is interesting. completely ideal/unrealistic:
lookswise:
>5'9-6'0
>good hygiene
>have some sense of style, or at least aware to look put together
>good dental hygiene !
>mixed or not white;
>bigger than me , but not too muscular

personality
>minimal screen usage/no social media like me
>minimal longing for sexual intimacy
>values me as a person
>can cook
>does not drink/smoke
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-does not post on social media or better yet have it
-always wants to spoil me
-caring
-over 5'11
-direct
-responsible and decisive
-pudgy muscular

>>127372
having a nice one is honestly so important.

>>127339
What is the point then. You're essentially dragging around a ball and chain.

>>127348
i left eventually. and i think very badly of those abusers now. i was abused and had very low self esteem. i wasn’t allowed to have any until i realized how shit these people really were.

>>127349
Good for you !!

>>126943
these replies say otherwise lol

>>127350
thank you. i think i’m a lot smarter and stronger and i like myself more now. and i don’t like those men one bit.

>>127305
thanks for being understanding, nona <3

>>127307
Of course; thank you for stepping up for that other noona!
People like you make this world a better place

>>66543
Genius

>>107365
>Squishes
>just a friend?
Yeah, just a term for when you really desire a close friendship with someone specific. Seems more practical and less chronically online than "blorbo" or "bias wrecker" to me, both terms I've heard more often than squish…
>Sensual Attraction
>sounds like a creep
Yeah, hugging a kitten or even your friends is really creepy, wanting to be physically close is so inhuman. /s
>Aesthetic Attraction
>why do they need a label or bullshit term for every single thing.
Because certain people act like absolute dumbasses when you're aroace and call someone "attractive" and wrongly assume that they understand the concept of appreciating beauty without physical desire.

I often get so embarrassed about things I say while I'm saying them, even if it isn't anything bad and I'm anonymous. My face is ablaze. Just gotta push through.
It's odd that it's harder when I'm trying to say nice things. Why is it easier to be mean online? Why does being kind make me feel so vulnerable and self-conscious?

>>118889
Right time right place. You also gotta do background checks and search for their discord handle in the archives before adding. If you see him posting in sexting threads and shit like that, don’t add him

my gf and i have been long distance for a bit over 3 years now. im getting frustrated because every time i ask what our long term goals will be i get a vague non answer ("well when i graduate…" etc)

thankfully both of us have the income to afford multiple trips a year to see eachother but it's definitely affecting my life since i feel like all the time in between visits is just like… the void. like im standing around in an elevator waiting to get to the next floor. i almost feel like i'm wasting my life on this but that's hard to admit.

i want to make it work and i feel like we can but man this is so taxing. at least its gone better than my last LDR where the first time we met up she immediately dumped me and we had to spend the rest of the trip awkwardly being friends only lmao.

I see my post about him from a long time ago was deleted. Much to think about.

I know this thread is pretty dead but has anyone gone through the CR1 process without a lawyer? I'm worried my fiance is about to piss away thousands on something we can file for ourselves.

>>127271
post on reddit maybe?

Tolerance to sexual deviancy has no place in a healthy society.

>>126590
I used to get frozen pizza only on birthdays..

>>126675
the way i started nodding before i realized what you weirdos were on about. how is a woman loving another woman DEVIANCY? go ask the men in your life hard questions and leave wlw alone? go bother a fucking coquette age player? literally there are entire reddit communities of pedos and people who molested children to harass. you could get this energy out any other way and instead you’re being homophobic because a girl will hold another girls hand. you sound crazy. literally there are men in your life who have harmed women and have crazy internet footprints. where is this energy for them?

>>126681
i will make you a frozen pizza daily my princess. i would make you REAL pizza.

>>126590
This is so chronically online. Half of the things you mentioned don't even exist in the real world. You are spending so much time and energy being negative,, no wonder women don't like you lol. And then you use this fictive rejection to blame and generalize other groups. No way you just made me defend moids among others…

The way you're expressing yourself sounds like someone who's hurting, but not someone who's beyond hope. I can recognize how badly you want a relationship, a connection with another woman. I struggle with the same thing, with not being able to find women who are into other women. Perhaps also because I am femme4femme. But I don't think it's as impossible as you make it out to be.. because if you don't even try to reach out to women then what do you expect?

I hope your concert goes well, but also don't lose hope if something doesn't work out. You deserve a good relationship and I wish you the best in pursuing one.