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Anonymous 09/13/25 (Sat) 04:14:18 PM125343 [Reply]

Most people don't really like me and I don't really enjoy their company either. That's sad but I have come to accept it.

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Anonymous 04/29/25 (Tue) 07:35:50 PM121744 [Reply]

The whole phenomenon of this dude is proof that standards/body-shaming/fatphobia don’t exist for males. If the original post had been of a woman it would be like any other post and be lost to time. But because someone had the audacity to try to socially enforce any rock bottom, bare minimum physical standard for the sacred male, everyone threw a fit and he got a whole media festival of events, money and opportunities thrown at him for weeks on end. In real life a female is torn to shreds for not spending most of her mental energy on appearances, but something as febrile as “hey maybe a male shouldn’t be so fat he can barely walk” is completely socially unacceptable and would get you fired while every handmaiden within ten miles performatively throws themselves on his gangrenous fat-entombed micropenis.

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Anonymous 09/06/25 (Sat) 11:58:45 AM125203

>>125198
>the average moid looks like a complete socially retarded schizophrenic chud on the surface
>find out he has a social life actually
>"oh maybe he's not as retarded as he looks"
it's called subversion of expectations

Anonymous 09/06/25 (Sat) 01:56:57 PM125205

>>125203
Social proof, not social life. Women are attracted to the socially approved men in their social context. Among normies these are like athletes. Among cc types it often is streamers, someone important on some discord group, etc. Basically the men with the highest social value

Anonymous 09/06/25 (Sat) 04:55:33 PM125206

>>121744
>proof fat shaming men isn't real
posts man literally famous because he was fat shamed online and publicly.
>"If the original post had been of a woman it would be like any other post and be lost to time"
if the original post had been a woman she would have received the same reaction bff, it was people trying to stand up to casual bullying.

also, its been ten fucking years nona, get over it. Im not even disagreeing that fat men have it easier, but this is retarded.

Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 05:47:10 AM125224

>>123292

Based pilled nona

Anonymous 09/12/25 (Fri) 11:58:20 PM125309

>>123309
fat women literally miscarry. we are NOT supposed to be fat.
higher bodyfat percentage is just a synonym for lower muscle percentage. it's no excuse to overeat and damage your ability to move, breathe, survive turning 60 or even to carry out a pregnancy in your prime.

>even if they weighed the same kg/lbs as men, the woman would have more fat & the man would have the most muscles.
the man would typically be 5-10 cm taller AND carry more muscle so the woman absolutely should not weigh the same as him. not even close. it's a disaster that women weigh as much as men these days.

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Anonymous 05/20/24 (Mon) 05:34:29 AM113757 [Reply]

I feel like I'm so ugly without makeup. Even after being showered in compliments. I get many compliments from unattractive men. I never get any from men that are good looking. Tinder, instagram, real life

How do I cope?

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Anonymous 07/04/25 (Fri) 12:53:19 PM123214

>>123213
>By any chance do you happen to live in ex-USSR?

no, many thousands of km west. also it was merely symbolic garlic because currently i don't even grow any since all i have is a tiny balcony. next time i move though i hope to have some more space to plant and then i grow garlic again and then i grow the strong pungent varieties that they don't sell in the supermarket and then when i have a completely raw phase again i make sauces with the pungent garlic and insult everyone who doesn't eat raw plants; i shake my fist at them and call their cooked food 'burned' just to express my contempt 😂

Anonymous 07/05/25 (Sat) 06:19:36 PM123249

>>114014
I never did and I'm doing alright. I just dress nice and honestly at this point whenever I put makeup on it looks wrong to me, even when someone else who's good at it does it. Does save me a lot of money looking at my makeup wearing friends and family, and it hasn't prevented me from being respected by peers or finding a loving partner. If you wanna wear it and it's just for yourself go for it, but you'll be fine without it too.

Anonymous 07/07/25 (Mon) 03:35:52 PM123310

look at the men around you and determine which ones you find attractive. if the amount of unattractive men highly preceeds the amount of attractive men, it could just be your environment. you could always try approaching them first but if you're in a region where courtesy is still expected, its likely the men you find attractive simply do not reciprocate your interest.

Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 09:44:13 PM125280

you are just fugly
embrace it

Anonymous 09/12/25 (Fri) 11:53:25 PM125308

>>123310
> if the amount of unattractive men highly preceeds the amount of attractive men, it could just be your environment.
lmfao
we've all seen the dating app stats at this point. it's way more likely she just thinks the average man is unattractive because she's social media brained. the self-consciousness about her looks comes from the same place. she compares herself to social media women and men to social media men. hence everyone irl is "unattractive" (normal) to her. basically self-imposed suffering because if you look away from the phone for a while you realize most people are just average and suddenly seeing something average in the mirror isn't so alarming any more.

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Anonymous 09/12/25 (Fri) 02:52:19 PM125305 [Reply]

How do I stop pushing away good people that are in my life?

Anonymous 09/12/25 (Fri) 04:37:53 PM125306

>>125305
What makes you start pushing them away

Anonymous 09/15/25 (Mon) 03:56:43 PM125406

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unironically picrel. you have to have a baseline kindness for yourself and others. it's easy to push people away if you believe you're 'unworthy' or 'undeserving'. having good people in your life makes you a better person. it can be hard, but these things come with time. good luck nona!

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I'm glad this site exists Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 06:40:35 PM125264 [Reply]

Came across this site when searching for alternative image boards. I've been hating being a woman for years, not because I have gender dysphoria, just the constant exhaustion of dealing with men and the confines of society. thank you crystal.cafe, and hopefully this site will become more active.

Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 06:56:09 PM125269

you do have gender dysphoria
https://agpchan.org/agp/
https://endchan.org/agp/
https://endchan.org/lgbt/
https://soychan.in/lgbt/
https://leftychan.net/lgbt/
https://leftypol.org/lgbt/
https://libpol.org/lgbt/
https://www.tranchan.net/
https://www.textchan.com/txt/cross-dressing-trapping/

Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 06:58:51 PM125270

>>125269
absolutely not. I love being a woman and I love girly things, I just hate the prejudice I get. I will never troon out and put poison in my body just to look like a moid with wide hips and a 5'9 stature.

Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 05:25:39 AM125282

I love you nona and I'm glad you're here but please don't post any more of these ugly memes.

Anonymous 09/10/25 (Wed) 09:35:09 PM125285

>>125264
Us gurlz needa stick together! I was in your shoes once too. Glad you found us nona

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Vent Thread Anonymous 03/03/25 (Mon) 03:20:11 PM120288 [Reply]

Previous thread >>117577

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Anonymous 09/13/25 (Sat) 08:17:45 PM125349

the scrote i have a crush one likes a basic girl and it gives me the biggest fucking ick. what the FUCK do you mean you are into bland dime a dozen basic bitches 10+ years younger than you?
kys you creepy short fucking skinnyfat incel i can't believe i ever thought anything different of you

Anonymous 09/14/25 (Sun) 04:38:20 AM125365

>>125349

do not like men for a relationship.

Men are like dogs.

They smell your hand and let you pet them.

Do not pet them before they approach first. They bite.

Anonymous 09/14/25 (Sun) 04:40:36 AM125366

I am tired of being autistic.

This nightmare never ends.

My humor is never the same, my lovers always find me apathetic even if I try. The less I try the more they try to fit with me.

It's as if men were born to obey.

At least my maus panzer and my cars do not make me sad.

Anonymous 09/14/25 (Sun) 08:33:04 AM125380

IM A FAILURE AT EVERYTHING
I TRIED AND TRIED but at the same time I don’t do any effort
I want things
I want to be somenthing
I envy people
Specially the ones who can read more that one minute of a book

Anonymous 09/15/25 (Mon) 08:36:40 PM125414

New thread >>>/feels/125413

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meeting internet boyfriend Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 04:24:55 PM125231 [Reply]

hi nonas,

have any of you met a moid from the internet before? i have been talking to a guy for a few months now and we are considering meeting. i have never had a relationship before so i'm nervous about what things will be like in person.. i don't know what to expect.

i have a tendency to self-sabotage and i worry that i am going to cut off this one chance i have at a relationship because i'm scared of what's unknown to me.. can anyone share advice?

thank you anyone who leaves a comment, i wish i had some friends i could talk to about this..

Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 04:30:22 PM125232

>>125231
w the popularity of dating apps i think there's less and less social stigma toward meeting on the internet in general.. that said it depends a lot on how viable this relationship is imo when it comes to whether you're helping or hurting yourself by meeting him.

do you think there's long-term potential? also i'll say i think the odds of establishing a viable relationship via the internet probably go way down if it's your first one, you just don't know what red/green flags to look for going into it

Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 04:47:54 PM125233

Where are you going to meet him? Just make sure you're going to a place where you're comfortable, don't let yourself be coerced into doing anything you don't want and have fun. Let him know if you're nervous. Make sure you have similar expectations of how your date will go.

If it helps, think of it this way. Meeting someone IRL instead of talking online indefinitely is a much better idea.

Anonymous 09/08/25 (Mon) 12:42:15 AM125235

> hi nonas,
Kek, the surviving 1/3 of genuine posts ever posted in this site are trannies, aren’t they?

Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 06:44:40 PM125265

Yes, when I was 13 I met a moid from discord. I got my virginity stolen from me that day.
met another last year, we got high, and again, in my weakened state, had sex.
met one last week and yet again, it was a hookup.

it made my self esteem plummet and reminder that I am a whore. I don't want to be a whore, I just crave physical intimacy, not even sex, just cuddles or kisses. don't meet up with moids from the internet. but if you do, make sure you trust him and its in a public place.

Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 06:46:17 PM125266

>>125233
I really want to meet up with an anon moid, hes from Norway and is really sweet. I'm pretty against e dating, but my city is shit and I hate all the guys here. I've met up with 3 different guys from the internet and it all lead to us having sex.
I'm fine with sex, I just don't want it to be dominantly that. hopefully a true relationship.

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Alaska sounds nice ig Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 08:06:04 AM125252 [Reply]

>be me
>parents abused/ abandoned me
>grow up
>find a nice lady
>she becomes a mom figure
>call her mom
>discuss adult adoption
>make plans to move to the same city and be a family.
>get text saying she's moving to France to be with her gf.

Are you fucking kidding me? The two people who are supposed to love me no matter what fucking HATE me for being born or don't remember I fucking exist. I find someone who ACTUALLY wants me to be a part of their family and they decide to just fucking ditch me so they can get laid by someone in France?

Fucking really? I'm worth less than a god damn plane ticket.

I will sacrifice literally anything for love. I memorize every tiny detail of a person's likes and dislikes. I memorize their habits and patterns and I cleave parts off of myself to put them ahead of me constantly. I work for peoples love because clearly no one will give it to me without me having to mine for it. And I thought I found one fucking person who wouldn't do that. Who actually understood and saw me. I THOUGHT I had a mother for the first time in my useless fucking life but no. No family for me.
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Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 01:40:36 PM125257

> I'm going to move to the middle of Alaska and just live by myself

mccandless maxing

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I wish someone would choose me for once in my life Anonymous 09/09/25 (Tue) 07:59:22 AM125251 [Reply]

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What hath befallen the race of bois Anonymous 08/28/25 (Thu) 11:39:43 AM125000 [Reply]

>be me, le schoolgril
I feel the boithirst in my bones, but I look around me and the dating scene seems postapocalyptic
Practically every boy in my program and in the social milieu I've fallen into (I'm a passive-type Pokemon)
- literally has an Instagram account and actually uses it
- either already has sleeve tattoos or is budgeting for them
- is unironically trying to looksmaxx or this-maxx or that-maxx or doing some other modern horror from TikTok
- has no dreams and no personality and either wants to be some kind of influencer or youtuber or smth, or pour his entire person into some soulcrushing desk job and have no other interests aside from killing beers, watching sportsball and slaying sloots

Some boys have approached me but the average quality is in the pooper, e.g. one guy on my res floor has this creepy radar for upset females, literally every time some girl is crying he shows up to give unwanted hugs and follows it up by asking her to coffee, he's transparently following some reddit guide to dating for manlets and it's so cringe and awkward, especially since I'm a femcel and I have a hard time saying no and hurting people's feels even when they probably don't have any

The worst thing is that the dating culture now seems so mercenary, everybody's on swiping apps and I feel like so much online brainrot has lurked through them into real life, everything is so contrived and hypercompetitive and awful
I feel like there is no love out there anymore because people have had it burned out of them by the brain-frying 5G death rays that come out of any phone with Tinder installed on it

Many grils seem to be able to give boys a shot and then move on when they prove to be loosers, but that doesn't sound like me, I'd probably end up crying for the rest of my life over some guy named Gary who thinks having a favourite flavour of vape is a personality trait

So wat do ladies, do I just an heroine or spend the rest of my life spending my NEETbux on Hello Kitty Island Adventure furniture, watching my mom's Gilmore Girls DVD's and cryibg?

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Anonymous 08/30/25 (Sat) 02:28:07 AM125059

>>125053
>Call me whatever you want
You are not on any normal spectrum and don't have any authority on the topic. If you're a paranoid cunt (that loves to shit on everyone because it "feels good" lol) to everyone on here I shudder to think what you're like IRL. Now fuck off and lurk for 12 years before posting.

Anonymous 08/30/25 (Sat) 12:34:34 PM125068

>>125059
>>125059
Asking you to be honest about men in all walks of life, is not instigating ww3, but keep going nuclear over it, it's really convincing

Anonymous 09/01/25 (Mon) 04:44:56 PM125119

>>125000
Normalfags are awful in both genders. Can't stand 'em.

Anonymous 09/01/25 (Mon) 11:14:13 PM125124

>>125023
I could've fixed him
Those chat logs were pretty fucked
>>125024
I kind of see now why some parents are so strict with limiting screen time and socials for their kids

Anonymous 09/07/25 (Sun) 06:03:28 AM125226

Because fame, attractiveness and status works. People have preferences. You've almost definitely crushed on some hot/popular/famous guy before. What are you looking for?