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new relationship not actually being toxic for once Anonymous 128947[Reply]

im 18yo lesbo9000 and ive had terrible relationship issues my entire life, usually being a mixture of both me & the other person being the problem

ive got insane mental issues but i recently got a girlfriend (although we were basically dating for a long time now). shes really nice to me: she doesnt randomly ignore me, and doesnt suck at communication. shes really happy to see me and doesnt mind me texting her a lot (She even likes it WTF?). she also has issues but works hard to be the best she can be

but its crazy feeling so fucking normal for once. no more three-times-a-day mental breakdowns and cutting myself over stupid bullshit. being in a healthy relationship feels so fucking weird in a Nice way. im really not used to it and i feel like a stray cat being randomly picked up on the street and given a domestic home. but its something i want to get used to. is this what relationship issues/attachment recovery feels like? Cool…

Anonymous 129152

prepare for the beatings when she tries to assert her dominance over you


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous 128920

I love you, I don't want to tell you yet but I knew from the moment I met you, I love you

Anonymous 128956

So you sit there silently and what are you waiting for? Did valentines day trigger your loneliness wound?
Are you hoping I still love you? Are you hoping I will be the first to apologize?
Or do you just want the access to me, just in case?

Anonymous 128957

You do not have access to me anymore. Any time I feel like I miss you I remember all the times you hurt me and lied to me and how many days i went not eating and sleeping because of you, cutting myself because of you. All the promises you made that you'll always be here and always love me only to leave me

I'm tired of wasting my time on you. Go fuck yourself. You should die alone

Anonymous Moderator 128961

Some posters have been using this thread to vaguely communicate with others and to spam dozens of one-liners one after the other. Don't use this thread as a chat thread. Your posts will be removed.

Anonymous 129151

>>128961
thank you.


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Anonymous 128788[Reply]

i feel like ill never find true love as a woman partially because men are shit and partially because im also an emotionally unavailable woman who wants very specific things out of a man. im just mad every man ill ever be around is a shithead and men make me feel so mad and evil

Anonymous 128789

What are your standards for a man?

Anonymous 128835

alive and maybe has a job

Anonymous 128863

I used to be a big believer in "true love." But I've come to the belief now that most people are constitutionally incapable of it. I know I am. And I know all the men I'd love or who would love me are too. I don't really care to search for it anymore. I am also emotionally unavailable, and I seem to attract emotionally unhealthy men. It is what it is, you know? But its easier to accept that after experiencing it fail first, which I have. I recommend having one or two disastrous relationships and then maybe you too can accept the futility of love.

Anonymous 128962

I gave up on love a time ago.


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My boyfriend has ignored me all valentines day Anonymous 128893[Reply]

I even texted him happy valentines day and he didn't even say it back. He only said he couldn't do anything for me and he felt bad.
He just went out with his friends to drink and I feel lonely and sad.
He told me we couldn't meet today because he had to study, I don't know how to tell him how bad I feel so instead I'm drinking cheap whiskey and watching Gilmore Girls
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Anonymous 128896

>>128895
No I get it. I don’t mean to insult, you’re allowed to vent, vent all the way. I just wished young women would just stop with these moids as soon as possible. You sound hurt, and tired, and I don’t think love or relationships should be like that. Love is supposed to bring you life, even its difficulties should, I just don’t want anyone to torture themselves for a moid. You shouldn’t be drinking Whiskey and watching Gilmore Girls, it’s more him im annoyed at, not you, but I wrote it to sound like you.

Anonymous 128897

FUCKING
DUMP
HIM
NOW

Anonymous 128928

>>128893
Are you guys LDR or do you guys live close to one another? If it's an LDR relationship it may be understandable why he could have been busy that day, but if you guys live close he has no excuse.

Anonymous 128936

free yourself of that moid retard he clearly doesnt love you im so sorry nona but dont keep hurting urself by being with him

Anonymous 128942

>>128896
I know, but he's a really good boyfriend in other ways, I don't know what happened. Tbf I tried to make it seem like I don't think valentines day is a big deal when I do, plus we live 3 hours away from each other. I wish I could be more upfront
>>128928
I guess? Or medium distance more like


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Hypersexual Issues Anonymous 128879[Reply]

I'm unmedicated bipolar and when I'm manic I get really hypersexual, I don't do hookups atm I just make out with people here and there

Men want me for my body and don't emotionally connect with me the way women do

I can't find a partner to have sex with at the moment and I don't want to get into a bad relationship by being desperate

I get clammy around people that I find attractive, I alternate between staring at them and looking away, I get beyond flustered with cute people

I've been downright creepy towards people I've crushed on, both men and women

Do you ever see someone attractive and get carried away?

I feel so guilty about this all

Whenever my mania goes away so does my sex drive, I'm worried that it makes dating me difficult
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Anonymous 128881

>>128879
I should add that I'm 22 and don't have any stds

I've only slept with women, I'm afraid to go the full way with a guy

I identity as bisexual but I'm sexually confused, I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian

I live in a town of sorts so there's not really a local lesbian scene for me to explore

I feel creepy for being attracted to women, the majority of women I've crushed on weren't interested in me at all and I easily obsess

How do I tell which women are lesbians without asking?

Anonymous 128902

sure ya are not of the troon tribe

Anonymous 128903

>>128902
wow women aren't allowed to be horny?

Anonymous 128904

>>128902
People irl think I'm a ftm pretty often

I like dressing in suits and stuff

I have very mixed feelings on trans people, I've had some really bad experiences with trans people

most of them unattractive to me

Anonymous 128922

take your pills yuck


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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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>>127480
>marxist
>philosophy student (me too)

Anonymous 128466

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Pros
> very sweet and kind, he plans cutes dates for us and is always nice…
> very cute, extremely out of my league
> smartie pants
> puzzle master
> lets me drag him along because he always gets lost otherwise
> has sex witb me on my period
> good taste in films/kino
> very good kisser
> sensible political views for the most part
> not a big whore
> always nice to talk to, very compatible in that way
> really really funny
> gets really sweaty but in a cyte way during sex

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Anonymous 128470

>>128469
>ctrl + f hot
>photo
>hotdog
>photography
>shots
>hot tempered
….

Anonymous 128898

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pros:

>helps me with everything I need, I never have to lift a finger if I need information or if I need something done
>he calls me sweet things like sweetheart, baby, etc
>he's beautiful, he has crystal blue eyes and the most beautiful eye shape
>he's okay with me liking childish things like sanrio, LPS, stuff like that
>he has the softest lips, his hugs are so warm and nice and he smells so good
>his kisses are amazing
>he holds hands with me when we're out together
>he lets me talk about my special interests freely
>we could talk for hours everyday and never get bored
>he's super smart and funny and nice
>very nerdy but in a cute sexy way
>looks at my pictures when he's doing stuff to himself
>is okay with my fetishes
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Anonymous 128901

>>128898
Keep him.


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Anonymous 128849[Reply]

I can’t believe that sex and relationships are a normal part of peoples lives. The older I get the more foreign and farther away those things seem to me. It doesn’t even seem real. For normal people, it seems to just happens to them without resistance. Love, marriage, kissing, fucking, starting a family. It’s so common that they would have a hard time going a few months without it, let alone their whole lives. I wonder what it would feel like to be loved and accepted just for existing. And having things just come naturally for you because of that.
I wonder what being held by a man that’s safe and in love with you feels like. I can’t stop thinking about it

Anonymous 128864

tbh sex/fucking =/= love in 99.999999% of cases and a lot of guys pretend to love you because they know you'll give them access to your body so they can use and discard you and probably cheat on you.

romance media is all BS and if you speak to a lot of women irl they'll tell you that they've had to endure a lot of disrespect and subtle infidelity, while also performing sexual acts they don't want to do in order to keep their partner.

men aren't all they're chalked up to be and i honestly wish i could go back in time to before i dated anyone/was sexually intimate with anyone. don't feel too bad nona

Anonymous 128867

you will have to understand that normies are sociopaths
anywhere from 25-50% of people have ADMITTED to cheating on their partner
the normie libido is sky high
you will have to date autistic christian men to have something like what you want

Anonymous 128871

Same, but I've gotten so used to being by myself that I don't think I'd actually enjoy sharing my space with someone else, maybe if it's for brief periods it might be tolerable

Anonymous 128899

Love isn't real. There's just sex and there's manipulation.

Anonymous 128900

>>128867
autistic men have the same libido as normal, so do Christians and Christians sin more because christ forgives then


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Moid I had a crush on and then ignored me was dating someone already. Anonymous 128888[Reply]

O! So it wasn’t me, it was her. What a good moid, good moid. Scratch him behind his ear, he smelled a shark in the water and swam out to remain in fidelity. Doesn’t matter to me, I’m just happy it wasn’t because I was weird or anything. :) I actually have a chance with someone else!

Anonymous 128889

schizo

Anonymous 128890

>>128889 O fuck off, let a girl be happy on this wondrous day, I wish I was schizo, they would send me to some rent free facility until my end with free food, water, warmth and all of that stuff.


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Broken Computer - Please Help Me!! Anonymous 124156[Reply]

It's broken in a weird way. One day, out of the blue while I was typing code in Visual Studio, the monitor turned to grey static all of a sudden and the computer wouldn't respond to any inputs. Then, next time I tried to turn it on, it made a weird buzzing sound and wouldn't show anything on the screen. I have worked with lots of computers but never seen anything like this before.

Technical specifications:
- HP Desktop Slim 2021 Model
- 16 Gigabytes of RAM
- 1000 GB m.2 drive with Windows 10
- 500 gb m.2 drive inside a PCIE16 adaptor with Linux Mint Cinnamon
- I was on Linux when it crashed

Please let me know if you have further questions or solutions. I use this computer for professional purposes and need it for a programming project.
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Anonymous 124183

^
Try taking out your OS and running through the components one at a time until you get to BIOS. Start with the RAM. That sounds like it would be the culprit. Take one out and try booting, if the problem persists try the other one. If that doesn't fix the problem start replacing components one at a time until you get some signs of life. I doubt it has anything to do with the CPU, those things are super durable. Just my process, you're on linux so you almost definitely know more about these things than I do.
Good luck and please give updates!

Anonymous 124186

>>124183
I tried to boot into the bios in all sorts of ways but it didn't do anything. I tried swapping out the drives too, same thing.

Anonymous 124187

Additionally I scanned the whole system for malware but didn't find any. I ended up wiping the Linux drive just in case.

Anonymous 124201

I fixed it! I ended up reseating the ram and fixing the Linux system and it works like new now!

Anonymous 128882

what a dumb, surreal thread


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Anonymous 128766[Reply]

Are toxic female friendships common? What are they really like?

As a 25F with literally no friends, I always wondered how bad other women can be.
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>>128841
fascinating, but how about trolls?

Anonymous 128847

>>128842
Immoral and emotional

Anonymous 128856

Lots of hypocrisy, people that care more about status symbol rather than their friends happiness.
Lets say your friend has some grievances with her bf, not toxic shit but just some annoyances, the so called "friend" will say dump him immediately.
She doesn't care about the long term happiness of her friend thou, she just wants her to dump the guy because guy.

Anonymous 128858

>>128856
This shithole examplefies it nicely

Anonymous 128877

>>128856
And to add on top of that, this female friend of yours all along is waiting on the sidelines and shouting , encouraging you to break up with your boyfriend to leave you all alone. Only for the friend to use it to her advantage to bring along her own boyfriend and rub their relationship in your face while you're at your lowest point. It's all about dark triad and her having the most power in your friendship dynamic.


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