/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Yeh, my type is rare where I live. I like tall high IQ autists with soft dark brown hair and cute jew noses specifically but there are no guys like this in my fucked up city. I will probably die alone sadly

my type is eastern european girls or asians but alot of the girls in my area are morbidly obese or lack a good personality
where i am my type is also quite rare, im too busy sleeping to talk to girls though

i don't have a type. finding a decent person is hard though

my type has mainly been fabricated by the amount of japanese media ive consumed my whole life, especially on my late teens. i have a liking for a type that nowadays only dresses up like that to either get girls or get internet famous. most of the moids who wants to replicate that style are hideous, but are somehow treated as a hot anime bishie despite their facial hair being visible…i think theres only one that i know of that manages to pull it off, but he comes off as an obnoxious faggot fuckboy. grim, i should stop fantasizing about this type of guy, cause he only ever existed during japan in the early 00s. and even at that time they were either whores or payed whores. not fair, too bad they look super cute…basically, my appearance type for guys is a tall skinny guy my age, who looks good with either hosuto or gyaruo hairstyles. i am a fan of mj from arashi, so a guy who resembles his looks from before he got old are very good to me as well…im also of course not just a yellow fevered otak, cause i like the skinny tall emo type too…something like shirota yu or those guys you would find in the earlier years of myspace. i mainly like asian or european men tho…however to find one like the ones ive described is pretty much impossible irl. for personality type, i would say i like a guy who would be the opposite of my personality type. like an outgoing guy, who is a extrovert. just being kind and caring is all he needs. a playful personality, just overall teasing is so hot…i have a liking for shy and more reserved guys too. i find a guy who is very emotional, quiet, and dependent just too cute. i like guys who wear glasses too. also school nurses and teachers…id say police men too but i would be afraid of him getting hurt. honestly it all just depends on what otome game im playing or bishie anime im watching to make me more into their tropes kek. my dream guy would be fitting for a yandere type, though irl that would translate badly obviously (yes i am autistic, no i am not underage) and be also a virgin. if he isnt a vigirn, then he is a whore and i obviously dont want that. too bad irl guys are all used up and walled. even their sperm is expired, probably. i want for my boyfriend to be my first in everything, so i will be his first for everything as well. i think both of us being inexperienced could make it even better…maybe thats why im into the childhood friend trope. in the end i know that this is all just a fad, no one is like that irl. also im not that Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>129374
my type has changed with age, but one thing that's remained consistent is how well we get along. I am not attracted to someone i don't get along with, no matter how attractive.

i've had crushes on/dated guys of all varieties; from neckbeards to musicians.

now that i think of it, i somewhat always go for bums .-.

It's my birthday soon and if you don't wish me one I'm blocking you.

Actually, I'm blocking you either way

stop using different numbers to contact me it’s been 2 years i hate you you ugly cunt

if i could go back, i'd put you in prison.

i know all of your accounts so stop thinking you can hide shit from me

I relate to this a lot. Where do I even go from here? I don't have the motivation to go out and get a job but I also don't know what else to do other than rot in bed and play games 24/7. Being a NEET is honestly pretty hard

>>128773
OP HERE… so my male friend finished bootcamp and i was able to call and play video games with him recently but hes barely the same person. He seemed uninterested to talk to me and empty? fml. I think im gonna lose him soon as well

>>129469
They broke his spirit. He got what he asked for.

>>129469
maybe he thinks youre not interested so the army is all he really got

>>129165
Part time job as a waitress or cleaner

Part time job as a toilet cleaner in offices and you're good to go, until money runs out of course

Would you rather be a tradwife?

>>129234
So because I dont want to be a slave that means I should just be homeless and die? That's sociopathic
>>129398
I am autistic so I can't stand schedules. That's the problem I have with working. I only want to work when have energy to do so. Autistic people are just not meant for this world. It sucks having a brain that's wired the opposite of surviving in normalfag society basically
>>129416
I mean, im ok with being a tradwife as long as I dont have to cook or clean everyday. That's too much work for me tbh

I knew a guy who worked with homeless people.

according to him, there were many homeless moids who owned cars who literally refused to get jobs because they enjoyed homelessness too much. as long as they had a car and some cash for the occasional hotel room, they were happy. I stress "moid" here because they didn't have to worry about getting raped in the streets lol.

these were regular men with no drug addictions or mental illness. they lived like John Candy in Planes, Trains and Automobiles and loved it.

This is understandable but for me it's less the work that sucks and more the not making enough to make ends meet. My goal is to get a degree and rent a small apartment (I don't need much else) but I always told myself that if I reached a point where I truly hated working I'd just become a hardcore crust punk and spend all my life listening to good music and hanging out with alcoholics. I'd probably save up enough to get a trailer/van and live the van life or something. Then I'd do the kind of work that's enjoyable yet not enough pay. With the rising gas prices that's not very realistic but it's probably less than renting an apartment.

>>129237
>do you think porn could be the issue?
It definitely is an issue, especially starting at an early age. And masturbation can re wire the brain to only like masturbation and not enjoy normal sex, masturbating to porn got many people into voyeur/cuckshit

>>129239
This

>>129239
This.

Porn has nothing to do with it; maybe even helped in making you think casual sex is empty and overrated.

Go find real love, OP.

Yesterday I tried Mexican food for the first time. I didn't like it. No big deal.

>>129237
is it just me or is 9 a common age to watch porn for the first time? I probably saw it around 7-8

>>129399
are u comparing trying food for the fist time to having sex for the first time

>>128939
It's ok to talk his ex. A bit weird though but tolerable, I guess. Just don't expect him to accept it if he discovers that. Would you be ok if he were stalking all of your profiles on Insta/FB/Whatsapp and talking to your exes, too?

>>128878
They're notorious for betraying their friends and family to conform to the new rhetoric, I personally experienced that.

>>129150
Can confirm, my sister has no loyalty towards her family that keeps supporting her throughout her life, just blindly defends people she has never met (at expense of those who are closer to her). As if to mechanically compensate for lacking natural human virtue, she clings to crude ideas of morality.

>>129157
Update
>talked to his ex
>she was nice to me (gave me a cupcake)
>Didn't tell her I knew him just poked around her life she surprisingly didn't mind and they basically broke up cause he is always doing something, if he is not studying for college or at college he is either at his job or doing charity work (he also helps out at a church, I found that kinda cute) she told me he was great as a partner when he was with her the main issue being most of the time he wasn't with her. She also told me he wasn't very close to anybody she told me he is surrounded by friends and people who like him but he doesn't have best friends or even close to his family. I mean she told me they are on good terms but not close, she found that odd and I do too
>>129150
>>129157
I kinda see what you mean nonas, I don't think he betrays people, he just stays outside of everyone's life's and offers them help when they need it, I guess that's honorable/selfless¿?

We went on a another date today, he is sweet but I noticed what his ex meant, he listened to me and we had a great chat but after being 5 hours together, he never talked about himself, the only thing I learned about him was his favorite ice cream,I need to ask who he is to get to know him
Bottom line is
>I don't like that at all it makes me feel as if he doesn't trust me, plus I do know myself well enough to accept I like attention from my partner, I would be miserable if I felt as if I was just a way to fill his freetime a hobby not a partner… so yeah I'm ghosting him but props to him, at least he is the most selfless person I've ever met… I guess…

no, political moids will always love their ideology moer than you.

>>129351
it really sucks too because borderlines are frequently raised and abused by narcissists. i know i was.

>>129365 My mom wasn't a narcissist, nor was my dad, but they were both traumatized by their childhoods and themselves, with their own issue, but both refused or were clueless to therapy. It's not even just narc's, but people who have children, but refuse to fix themselves first and when their kids also have issues, they blame and torment the kids.

That's another form of untold abuse. People need to wear condoms. If they aren't mature enough for therapy, they aren't mature enough for children.

>>129366

Agree entirely. Not sure how old you are, but one of the things that bother me is when we're called the weaker generation whenever mental health is mentioned, just for being self-aware and not being an asshole to people despite your upbringing.

If anything they are the weak ones for taking the easy path (People were assholes to me so I'll be an asshole to them) And not being neither smart or aware enough to even try and make a difference.

>>129365

I'm pretty sure my dad is narc as well :/

stopped believing in all of these
im just me

>>129376
It depends who the man is and who the woman is but if a woman is unhappy with me I do sometimes take it personally

>>129376
Yeah, same for me. When men insult me I dont really care as much unless it's something extremely important to me. But with women are mean it makes me so sensitive for some reason. I'm not sure why this is tho. Maybe I'm just used to men being rude and bitchy but when women are rude to me I do take it more seriously and introspect more when it happens

>>129376
Same for anyone who owns a brain. Women are honest, more emotionally mature, smarter and not brain rotted from porn and red pill.
And most importantly, women are humans, males are subhumans.
Opinion of subhumans doesn't matter to humans.

Same

it gets better after i promise. just hold thru this is how i felt but my life’s changed so much n its only been a year and a half since i graduated . wishing you the best

I graduated a while back but yeah I used to do this

>>126729
No, it's the other way around. Porn doesn't reflect real sex dynamics, it's real sex dynamics being affected by porn because 99% of moids are porn addicts and expect porn sex from their partners

read the bible

>>126636
this depressed me

>>126636
When I have sex with my partner we usually do it standing up facing each other with our fingers interlocked. We both thrust into each other. This is far more respectful than being put on my back.

stop thinking about sex so much and you will be less miserable. yes, heterosexual reproduction is fucked up when you really think about it, but you have to ignore that and go on with your day