/feels/ - Advice & Venting

they always come back

>>131007
i meannn that's a good thing right?

>>131007
no they do not lol

its so over

>>131209
we made up it's okay

Stop worrying about being cringe. Who gives a fuck? Are you going to deny yourself a potentially better life because some retard felt uncomfortable for half a second? Fuck em and just be your weird self

just talk to random people or co-workers to get good at small talk, be friendly and remember things about people (in a non weird way), people will want to be friends with you.

Ohhhh my god I saw a drawing that I made 7 years ago
I remember hating it so much
>>>/meta/1539

That's actually fucked up

Also I hated that drawing so much I would not visit CC for the next like 4-6 years

Also this
>As long as you don't break any of the rules, you're good to go.
Turned out to be a lie, kek

At least these days

Think making one of those animation channels about my lyfe would be pretty epic like Jaiden

>>130441
>I started simply getting everything I didn't get before, it's like emotions were a sense no less than smell, taste or vision. I don't know how to describe it, things suddenly started making sense.
Found this pic while purging my downloads folder and it made me think of this
Big if true

>>130897
That's what you get for picking moids with shitty genes. Do you go for moids with autism, too? Would probably more matched for a shotafucker because spergs have the mentality of a child.

I'm a little tired of repeating myself, but I really want to clarify (once more) that I don't want anything to happen between me and him.
CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW DO I MAKE THESE FEELINGS GO AWAY INSTEAD OF FIGHTING EACHOTHER?!

>>130912

Make a FODA listing all the reasons of why it would not work.

Emotionality is a reaction. React to the reasons it would not work.
Eventually you will start to feel the other way, disgust perhaps even.

Do not force feelings of disgust.

If possible, try to make the disgust for the idea of dating that man natural.

Men know when women like them and treat them better, if not, they use it to treat them badly to feel better.

Do not feel bad for men, if you do, you just will make yourself miserable. Adam was in charge, not eve. Men are not worth your energy.

Most men.

>>131020
>>131020
You're right, noona. I have been thinking of this for the past three months and you have put into words a feeling I was never able to express. Thank you.

>>131027

I am glad you can finally put your thoughts based on your sentimentalism, it is very hard to do so sometimes.

If you can, see about father-daughter relationships.

Older men, if they can see you as a "girl" or "daughter", if they are mature enough they will treat you more as a father figure and authority rather than "flirty" as most old men treat women.

Good men will treat you like a daughter if you treat them like you would treat your father if he was in their place.

That at least, has always worked for me. Old men always compare me to their own offspring, in some sort of way, if I treat them like that. Not in a flirty way.

I hope you can sort this out, have faith in your capacities nona xoxo

- What are you doing?
- Just watching the world.

this is definitely one of my all time favorites

Kiss me 殴るように唇に血が滲む程
Hold me あばらが音を立てて折れる程
好き好き大好き 好き好き大好き
好き好き大好き
愛してるって言わなきゃ殺す

Kiss me like a punch until the blood oozes from my lips
Hold me until my ribs make a sound as they break
I like you, I like you, I love you!
I like you, I like you, I love you!
I like you, I like you, I love you!
Say you love me too, or I’ll kill you!

Well it rains and it pours when you're out on your own
If I crash on the couch, can I sleep in my clothes
'Cause I spent the night dancing, I'm drunk I suppose
If it looks like I'm laughing
I'm really just asking to leave this alone
You're in time for the show
You're the one that I need
I'm the one that you loathe
You can watch me corrode
Like a beast in repose
'Cause I love all the poison away with the boys in the band

Sympawny no.4 - in memory of sweet Chubby Cat
Chubby Cat was sweet and playful and the perfect cuddle buddy. With a sprinkle of playful piccolo, a touch of warm strings, and a sweet harmony progression - hopefully, the music sounds just a little bit like him. Rest in peace sweet Chubby Cat

you can go on home, you got what you need
take my heart and put it up on your sleeve
tear it up so they can all sing along
live out your life
i’ll never tell you you're wrong
baby, don't forget, don't forget it's our song
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone

haah even posting this i feel like im close to a panic attack . im so scared of everything

maybe be happy on ur own before you can be happy with someone else. and then you can find the right person for you to enjoy life with

um for what it's worth i like the picture you posted do you have more cute images like that

sammmee im ruining my already ugly appearance with bulimia wooo! I relate to everything ye said so at least ur not alone. Is there a place in this world fr people like us I wonder

>>129602

List your best memories.
List your worst memories.

Bulimia will make you more ugly.

Men who like kids do not like kids. They just like the idea of abusing someone, being stronger, smarter or older enough to manipulate them.

Being autistic just makes you be avoided because you are not happy, you are not healthy, and autism is socially acceptable only when you meet those two criteria (happy, healthy) because most people (who are not autistic) often are not honest enough because of social reasoning. And end up in consequence, being unhappy and miserable.

Live your best life, nona, there is still hope

>>129519
last year my gay dorm RA tried to stay in my bedroom while I changed tops because he's gay and that apparently makes it ok
i got really anxious because i'm socially awkward and it was really hard to get him to leave in a way that sounded like friendly banter and not like i was extremely uncomfortable because literally all my friends and everyone around thinks he's a great guy, and i didn't want to seem homophobic or make things awkward
so, i think i can understand where OP is coming from here, if this person actually can create social consequences for her

>>130624
Is this an NA thing? In my region gay men never stay in the room when you are changing even women leave, what in the lack of privacy you all have going on?? Your nakedness is your own to share with who you choose. It is one thing if you are in an area where nudity is common, we do have such areas but seriously??? In YOUR bedroom??? Know your rights. You have the right to personal space it is in UN rights of a child and an adult. You also have the right to have relationships or the lack thereof. Don't be letting people talk you out of your rights as a human or call you evil for exercising them.

>>130649
same poster as
>>130624
it's a virtue signaling thing, i think anyway, at its root, maybe the influence of social media and tv as well, the idea that girls and gay guys are on the same team or smth and that they're automatically good people because of oppression
for example, the girls' bathroom on my dorm floor was literally declared "girls and gays" in the first week of first semester, they even put up a sign on the door lol
and kept letting the guys use it even after the two gay guys on our floor continually left the toilet seat up, left pubic hair on the seat and even left the toilet unflushed a few times, and left the sinks a mess, and that's not to mention the shower situation
obviously i wasn't comfortable at all and i started showering at like 5 am to be as sure as possible there wouldn't be guys in there. at least there were no trannies, thank god
and i think girls (like me) who are actually made really uncomfortable with gay men overstepping boundaries still cooperate because of social pressure. i'd love to say that i stood up for myself and said something, but if i had that kind of self-confidence i probably wouldn't be posting on crystal cafe

Something that would work is to say the most sad thing. Lie.

Say you have anxiety, that you take pills. Say that you feel so bad sometimes you have to take more pills to sleep.

Say that you are in therapy and that it does not work properly.

Make him feel like a monster, some men will dislike the idea of being a monster because it means they will be outcasted, humilliated and ridiculized.

Victimize yourself and use it for your advantage, calculating uselessness is worth bucks.

op you should stop talking to him asap, he is clearly into you and will try to get you to send nudes or something eventually

OP are you abstinent by choice or not because you look great and I'm sure lots of guys and even other women would date you

Terrible and wonderful, depending on who you end up dating. Guys are either total moron apes with no sense of class, or absolute gentlemen but those are rare. I broke up wjth my long term gf of a couple years a few months ago and started dating. I got some matches on tinder and went on a couple dates, one of the guys was a complete fuckboy but i wanted to try out guys. He didnt hold doors, asked to pay half of the bill, drove a beat up old car, and was very insistent on going with him to an underground dj set that night. I left early and unmatched him. On the other side, i found an amazing guy that i wasnt too crazy about looks wise but we had so much in common,like playing same games and have similar hobbies, we clicked very quickly. He's polite, likes my jokes and goofy demeanor, holds doors open for me, and takes me out on cute dates all the time. I return the favor by cooking him delicious home made food he can reheat after he comes home from work over the course of the week.

The key is to not just look for attraction, but find a companion that will be your best friend and who you can rely on. Dating shitty guys feels like a waste of time and is unfulfilling, maybe you might get some action but its kinda hollow and tbh I get off better by myself. Try stuff out, get out of your comfort zone, and trust your gut.

Btw im 31 myself

>>130265
it was the best experience of my life, albeit that's because she was the most amazing, wonderful person ever.
but being single is enjoyable too

>>130299
its not actually op its catfish

>>130313
>>130265
Why are zoomers even obsessed with her? she looks like a bloated taylor swift, she edits her pics like no tomorrow at least taylor shows her real face

>>130863
I honestly forgot wtf was I thinking when I wrote that post. I think what I find cringe is the general reasoning for veganism more than anything else. If it were something like "I won't eat meat because I'm not a casual" I'd think that's kinda awesome.

Lolcow’s lonely women thread and murderer documentaries on youtube really make me feel not alone in being really isolated and out of touch from reality. Thank you lolcow autistic experiences thread and weird people youtube documentaries, also the strange people thread here on /x/. This is something really hard for me to come to terms with as it fills me with dread.

Finally found that one table that tied schizoidness to historical attitudes towards children. Psychogenic modes are a fringe theory I think but it makes an interesting point.

To be a hermit is to be holy.

my face when I accidentally see people I don't like having a good day

>>130970
Why does this character look familiar

Hadiths are a meme