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Anonymous 127534[Reply]

Am I a bad person? I always lurk here and read the posts from the nonas, but I don’t really feel anything. I understand the reactions and emotions of people who suffered harm and want to do harm, but the only thing I can do is come up with a very generic opinion about it. I don’t think I’m a psychopath because I do feel remorse for things, but they’re usually petty and small things. Like, I cringe and feel awful every time I remember that I didn’t share my cold tea with my grandmother when she asked how it tasted, I almost cry whenever I think about that. But I felt nothing when I broke up with my ex and left him stranded in the middle of another town he didn’t know anything about.

Anonymous 127535

no, people are pretty much born without empathy that isn't just projective (so cognitive) and have to develop it. you just probably never learned why these things are bad.

I do think ppl overreact sometimes but I understand why. I just don't like it cause shitting on men is better when you're coming from a position of strength and not a position of a little bitch

Anonymous 127537

also you might've felt nothing about your ex cause he was annoying to you but your grandma wasn't. maybe a defense mechanism like emotional detachment, but I can't know for sure from what you said. maybe you just didn't value him like your grandma? either way it's probably way more normal than you think, not necessarily good though



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 127391

I might have isolated myself out of a group chat
And ngl I don't gaf at the moment.

Long story short there's a manchild who refuses to be held accountable and now his friends are creating excuses for him. And ngl I was mean. But also, I don't think he's the kind of dude I'd wanna hang around with for long periods of time. And he probably feels the same way???? Regardless his friends are enablers

I'm going to lean on my own spirituality more. Maybe I am wrong. But maybe this is the higher power cutting off people who aren't for my highest good in the first place

Anonymous 127479

I don't have anyone to talk to on my lunch break so I'm on cc. Feels lonely.

Anonymous 127481

I deserve love too

Anonymous 127528

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Reading lolcow's "Get it off your chest" thread and enjoying it so much somehow, almost as much as when I'm venting myself.

I wonder what it is about needing to vent in public, even if you don't want to talk about it with anyone. Just writing a letter no ones gonna see simply doesn't hit the same.

Anonymous 127530

I wanna go for some McDonald's fries rn but it's 6 AM



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Anonymous 127525[Reply]

what don’t i understand.

Anonymous 127529

No one has ever loved you for the way you are. He’s a criminal who was all over the “have you dated this man?” apps. You are the exact opposite of his physical type. You do however car pool to events he wants to go in and your friend helps with his cosplays.



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Anonymous 125487[Reply]

me and my bf aren't compatible
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Anonymous 125775

why aren’t you guys compatible? don’t leave us hanging nona

Anonymous 127404

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same

Anonymous 127504

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>>125487
>me and my bf aren't compatible
buy an adapter then

Anonymous 127507


Anonymous 127508

>>127504
this is what i make my bald little dicked ex look like every time i send him his monthly review on how he’s fallen short of mediocrity this time



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stop lying to yourselves Anonymous 127369[Reply]

there is nothing in the world moids value more than the women they call “whores”. yes nonas… even your precious nigel’s. they see no issue giving these “whores” their sexual energy daily while in “monogamous ” committed relationships. they will shame these women publicly and go jerk off to them 30 minutes later. and don’t you forget that if you were to engage in these whorish activities yourselves they will suddenly have a problem with it because you’re the madonna in their story. committing to a moid is allowing yourself to be his full time madonna. while he gets to disrespect both you and the “whores” he shames however much he wants. stop allowing them to do this. men do not love you. romantic love is patriarchal propaganda.
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Anonymous 127469

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Which is why we gotta turn the tables and start doing irl reverse harems. Get impressionable 22+ year Olds to bend to our iron will and become subservient to us. Once I make a 6 figure income and get my own place that's what I plan on doing.

Anonymous 127495

>>127469
except men cant get hard if they are not interested so reverse harem doesnt work

Anonymous 127496

>>127495
girl what he just has to stroke his dick twice and think of his ex all they want is sex

Anonymous 127497

>>127469
or you could just remove the "valuable" male element from your life entirely and focus on things that actually put you in a position of intellectual leverage over a male (the only way you as a woman could even fight back against male dominance anyway)

Anonymous 127500

>>127496
and you are okay with your harem boy thinking of his sex while fucking you?



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Hate Thread Anonymous 118525[Reply]

What do you hate and why?
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Anonymous 127485

the healthcare system and tragedies beyond your own control

Anonymous 127486

i hate being ugly, lol.

Anonymous 127490

I hate close-mindedness, people who refuse to reevaluate their own assumptions to protect their egos are bound to be ignorant.
I hate herd mentality, people who align their worldview to match that of their peers, in order to be part of some in-group, become a blind, mechanical force.
I hate cowardice in face of injustice, my own self-righteousness, getting old and not being able to take upon myself infinite amount of suffering.

Anonymous 127491

people who are negative all the time and make others miserable just because they're miserable lol

Anonymous 127494

men who rape virgins



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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 125631

>>125583
No one cares anymore this shits been going on for too long

Anonymous 127275

>>125583
I'll be honest i said i didn't care a while ago but it's been 2 months so checking in. Can u admit it was all a rouse?

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>>125583
>being abused by this man for literal years
>"gee, I hope my husband can be convinced to go to therapy!"

Girl.

Maybe you can go to therapy is his place because your delusions are almost as bad as his.

Only update when you've decided to leave him for good.

Anonymous 127477

>>127275
OPhere, it's not a ruse. I'm staying with my MIL tonight because things got out of control again. I'm probably going to start on seperating oncexthe new year opens.

Anonymous 127478

OP here again, thinking about fucking his mom as a revenge



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why does society think women owe each other compliments? Anonymous 126800[Reply]

i hate the expectation that women are supposed to constantly compliment other women. especially on their looks. i’m a straight woman… i don’t view women through physical attraction at all. so complimenting their body or features feels unnatural to me. but if a woman doesn’t do it, people immediately assume she’s envious, insecure and sometimes even anti woman. men never face this. straight men aren’t expected to compliment other men, and when they don’t, no one questions their character or motives. women, meanwhile, are pressured to provide nonstop emotional validation. not complimenting a woman’s appearance doesn’t mean i dislike them. it just means i don’t feel obligated to perform a role society unfairly forces onto women. i don’t find women physically attractive. sorry not sorry.
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Anonymous 127466

>>127457
god and the devil created me in a lab as a bet to be the most based woman alive so they could see which direction i’d end up going in

Anonymous 127467

>>127466
Which side are you gonna choose?

Anonymous 127468

>>127467
i think goodness but my ex really tests me sometimes

Anonymous 127470

>>127468
Honestly same

Anonymous 127471

>>127470
we are for real all trapped in samsara



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escaping samsara Anonymous 127407[Reply]

how are we going to do it guys

Anonymous 127408

I'm gonna be the emotional support for you guys who will do the solving

Anonymous 127409

>>127408
i love that. i am building a team.

Anonymous 127410

>>127407
One dickchop at a time



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Anonymous 106726[Reply]

post yr ideal partner
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Anonymous 126972

>>119668
I know a guy almost exactly like this, minus the TERF part.

Anonymous 127260

Haha this is interesting. completely ideal/unrealistic:
lookswise:
>5'9-6'0
>good hygiene
>have some sense of style, or at least aware to look put together
>good dental hygiene !
>mixed or not white;
>bigger than me , but not too muscular

personality
>minimal screen usage/no social media like me
>minimal longing for sexual intimacy
>values me as a person
>can cook
>does not drink/smoke
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Anonymous 127325

-does not post on social media or better yet have it
-always wants to spoil me
-caring
-over 5'11
-direct
-responsible and decisive
-pudgy muscular

Anonymous 127372

>Tall
>Similar culture to me (mediterranean)
>Charismatic and social but also has nihce interests/takes an interest in my hobbies
>Family oriented
>Quiet/more laid back than me
>Goal oriented and driven
>Likes to always touch and cuddle
>High sex drive to match me
>Big thick dick most importantly

Anonymous 127380

>>127372
having a nice one is honestly so important.



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