/feels/ - Advice & Venting

What is real love at first sight, slow burn love and intimacy like? When touching, holding hands, hugging, or having a first kiss have so much meaning and weight to it?

it seems like people don't like that anymore, they just want sex, or just using each other.

Every moid I've dated that didn't watch porn was very asexual to some degree. The last guy I talked to was demisexual and hearing him say he cared little about my appearance made me feel undesired and unattractive. He made me feel seen, safe and understood everything about me. It often felt like he read my mind, but I couldn't get over that feeling that he wasn't attracted to me physically. I want to feel desired, pretty and hot. Is that wrong of me?

This thread is for people who have hit rock bottom. Not people who are having a bad day, but people who are living in the depths of despair. Whether you're a nona who is struggling with serious addiction, mental or physical illness that severely precludes your life, constantly feeling suicidal, whether you're being abused, have any other serious life issues or if you are simply unable to function and don't know where else to turn, vent here and let's try to support each other.

My parents do not care about me like at all.I had to find a place to live within 15 days. When I told my dad he basically said I should have planned better. My mom treated me like shit about it. My step mom was nice but not in a genuine way. This has set me up for being a complete failure socially.
My managers at my job helped me find a rental. They were the only ones who went out of their way to ask me how it went. To ask when I was moving in. If I needed anything or any help. I feel like I owe them now and like I’ve gotten too close to them and I wanna quit my job and never leave the house again. I know I feel this way because of the way I’ve been treated by my parents.

ive been dating this guy for about 6 months and its been really good until recently. he's super sweet, attractive, intelligent, very much a catch. ive never been with a guy who ive felt so happy to be with and i havent dated in a while.

things were going well until recently, when we were hanging out at his house and i was sitting on his couch sans makeup.

thing is, ive worn pretty heavy makeup when we first met, and i haven't taken it off until now. i noticed he was being really distant and i asked him why.

that's when everything came to head. he reluctantly admitted he felt really disappointed with how i naturally look and he was more excited to date me when i was done up. he went on to say he felt lied to and that i look significantly different without it.

i had no idea what to say so i just told him that he shouldn't be dating me if it was bothering him that much. he told me he wasn't sure how to bring it up to me and that maybe we weren't as great of a fit as he originally thought.

ever since then ive been replaying the event in my head and we're still together, but there's now an awkward distance between us. ive been feeling really down about the whole situation and have no idea of how to move forward.

nonas, what would you do if you were me? ive never had this problem with boyfriends until this week and i now feel pretty insecure about my makeup usage. i have no idea if he still likes me and we havent spoken as much after the conversation happened.

i'd appreciate any advice. thanks for listening if you've gotten this far.

Do men really become bored and sick of being with the same woman? Does honeymoon phase end in every relationship?

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girls, i’m kind of scared about a possible stalker finding where i am. i used to talk to this weird guy online when i was younger. he said something about moving to where i live but i doubt he did. men who look like him are fairly common but i saw a man that looks similar to him. i don’t know if im just overthinking.

drunk as fuck alone in my room. how can i ever find friends or love if im just a stupid gay loser shut in femcel freak

i gotta die i like this guy and i feel like my nervous system is under attack. every time he texts me i feel like im gonna throw up everywhere . dont even know if he likes me back but i kinda hope he doesnt because we should all just die this is the most nerve wracking thing to happen o me