Men make me feel so lonely Anonymous 125423[Reply]
I can’t handle how lonely men make me feel. No matter how kind, patient, or understanding they seem, they always end up disappointing me. They’re all lustful. They all watch porn. All of them struggle to see women as actual human beings, some just get better at hiding it. They all want you to perform for them in some way shape or form.
I ache for this so called true love. I want romance, tenderness, respect. I want someone who sees me, who values me, who cherishes me. But instead, day by day, I grow more bitter and resentful. It feels like I was sold a lie about what men and relationships are supposed to be. It makes me angry and doubt romantic love is even real at all. It all just feels like a cruel lie. I even feel like the women who claim their men are so great are experiencing some sort of cognitive dissonance.
I keep telling myself I just won’t ever get this from a man, but accepting that is so hard. The loneliness eats at me. Sometimes, it feels like being a straight woman is nothing but a curse. Being alone sucks but being with them makes the loneliness even worse.
14 posts and 2 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.Anonymous 125671
The sad thing is that many man find platonic, emotionaly mature and empathic relations with other man because lust do not take over them. But here I am gatekeeped by nature, doomed to be seen as meat by those I want love from
Anonymous 125761
>>125671I feel like platonic friendship is something they should be able to handle, but it is so rare to see it work without the man catching feelings. They need to learn emotional maturity
Anonymous 125767
>>125441Seconding this. Every time I thought a man was different it was only because I didn't know them enough.
Anonymous 125768
>>125602The same men talking about how most girls are whores will turn around and relentlessly pressure you for sex or leave you because you said you don't wanna fuck. They simultaneously want an innocent puritan who also instantly becomes as sex-addicted as they are the moment you get together.