[ Rules / FAQ ] [ meta / b / media / img / feels / hb / x ]

/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Talk about relationships of all kinds, ask for advice, or just vent
Name
Email

Email will be public
Subject
Message

*Text* => Text

**Text** => Text

***Text*** => Text

[spoiler]Text[/spoiler] => Text

Image
Direct Link
Options NSFW image
[1] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8] [9] [10]
| Catalog


Check the Catalog before making a new thread.
Do not respond to maleposters. See Rule 7.
Please read the rules! Last update: 04/27/2021

Hikikomori_,_Hiasu…

/rock bottom/ - general Anonymous 76609[Reply]

This thread is for people who have hit rock bottom. Not people who are having a bad day, but people who are living in the depths of despair. Whether you're a nona who is struggling with serious addiction, mental or physical illness that severely precludes your life, constantly feeling suicidal, whether you're being abused, have any other serious life issues or if you are simply unable to function and don't know where else to turn, vent here and let's try to support each other.
213 posts and 25 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 126933

Not rock bottom yet but I'm getting there, everyone is currently treating me as if I did something horrific just because my performance at work hasn't been the best for the last few months, this is even stretching into my family thinking this

Anonymous 126990

>>125666
You should be evicted for letting water damage happen. I hope you get sued.

Anonymous 126997

>>126990
i think they own wouldn’t it be their neighbors living room if not

Anonymous 127124

>>124208
Nona can you get a job at McDonald's or something? Or do some cardio at home? It's not over for you!

Anonymous 127125

>>124208
At least you have those fat reserves to help you get through the hard times.



IMG_7372.jpeg

Anonymous 126830[Reply]

Nice girls really do finish last. I've been single for a few years and have not talked to any man until recently. I finally approached a guy I thought was cute. We hit it off but I did not know he was crippled. He explained he attempted suicide and shot himself but miraculously survived and now one side of his body is crippled. He ruined his potential over his ex who treated him like shit. And now I'm just here to pick up the pieces I guess since this is all I can get. Damaged, used goods. Fml
21 posts and 1 image reply omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 126931

>>126883
she literally said he attempted suicide over his ex who treated him like shit he has issues

i think i misphrased it tho i was associating it with moids like the one she likes

its not about disability but many disabled moids will become incels bc their disability makes them undesirable and then they become kinda fucked up

Anonymous 126935

>>126931
maybe you're autistic or something because that doesn't sound like very unreasonable to tell about (1 life event that explains visible life debilitating change) especially if op asked him or if they "hit it off" hard enough

Anonymous 126936

>>126935
im an evil hag spirit

Anonymous 127081

>>126830
I'm not sure cute outweights crippled + porn addict this doesn't sound like a good deal
I knew a guy who suffered nerve damage from a failed an hero attempt and the constant chronic pain makes it extremely hard to function and not to abuse painkillers/porn to deal with it

>>126931
I'd like your thoughts on this but I've come to believe inceldom is a cope that only losers use to explain being social rejects without having to face their own inner ugliness - this mix of indulgent laziness and entitlement to muh waifu that results in the bitter inceldom we know, in my experience moids who come to terms with their unattractiveness or take some accountability are less likely to fall into it

Anonymous 127100

>>126858
It's ok to be by yourself



play-dough-group-t…

Why does everyone leave? Anonymous 127045[Reply]

People are either busy, or abandon you, or abandon their social media accounts they were in contact with you on, without a word, or outgrow you, or whatever else but everyone always leaves.
1 post omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 127048

>>127046
>the memories are yours forever

That's not what alzheimer's and dementia said

Anonymous 127050

>>127048
Well then you’re just screwed and should find a way to euthanise yourself before you hurt your loved ones

Anonymous 127054

you can’t take loved away.

Anonymous 127064

People stay when they're getting something from you. Doesn't mean you're a bad person if nobody stays with you, just that you need to learn skills ppl need. It's like a job.

Anonymous 127078

>>127064
this is so true it breaks my heart. and men only ever want one thing. i wish i’d never found out how quickly i would be discarded when i couldn’t provide sex temporarily



GVfWt0yWEAE85my.jp…

How to stop feeling like a subhuman because I'm a woman Anonymous 126636[Reply]

No it's not because of men that I feel this way, neither porn, but I've seen porn and women act like subhumans in it.
My problem is that I see submission as subhuman and female submission in sex is human and natural and sex is the fundamental part of the reality. So it's like we are subhumans in life. I don't hate myself but I hate womanhood.
24 posts omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 126757

I don't feel oppressed by men. I feel oppressed by my biology. Especially in sex.

Anonymous 126759

>>126757
>I don't feel oppressed by men. I feel oppressed by my biology. Especially in sex.

Explain?

Anonymous 127072

terminally-online.…

OP it sounds to me like you're taking what you see in p*rn for reality. I guarantee you it's not.

>>126663
This

>>126666
No they're fucking not. It is a skewed, reductive view of feminity.
You're so wrong that Satan himself blessed you with demonitc digits lmao

Anonymous 127075

>>127072
i agree. you have to watch porn to have these thoughts. stop watching that shit

Anonymous 127266

>>126729
No, it's the other way around. Porn doesn't reflect real sex dynamics, it's real sex dynamics being affected by porn because 99% of moids are porn addicts and expect porn sex from their partners



istockphoto-523478…

growing up ugly Anonymous 125729[Reply]

can you ever heal from growing up unwanted + ostracized by your peers? I've slowly but surely improved my looks and the feedback I usually get is above average. but I still feel hideous, like an alien or lesser-than. getting asked out as a joke and being made to feel like you're "gross" is rough. i analyze my looks so much i don't even know what I look like any more.

anyone here grow up ugly, glow up, and not feel like that same ugly kid?

it probably has more to do with me having not been white in a predominantly white area. i was kind of a cute kid.
1 post omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 125735

>can you ever heal from growing up unwanted + ostracized by your peers?
This one is really hard desu and requires a lot of support from others to recover. Bottom line is you need to be wanted and accepted by others.
If the extent of the damage done to you by ostracization was limited to your self-esteem, you'll probably have an easier time recovering by simply glowing up and changing your environment to a less racist one. You have an issue but you're pretty independent socially.
But if there was serious damage done to your socialization to a point where you're self-isolating weird etc then you'll need much more actual help.

Anonymous 125739

506fa6c2-f317-4016…

>>125731
Not OP, but sometimes I think some women in spaces like these sort of take it as a slight against all women when a woman talks about feeling ugly, lonely or pathetic or like a loser or something, and they feel the need to overperform how much of an outlier she is or that she's probably a larping moid, like embarrassedly saying "she's not with us" in case an outsider conflates her situation with yours. I don't think that's very fair. This mindset is why I never feel like I can vent about never having a boyfriend before, as if that's somehow remotely implying that applies to everyone here. It doesn't and you shouldn't care what hatereading scrotes think, even with perfect optics they would still make up bullshit reasons to insult women anyway, as they always have done for centuries including back when female outcasts were less prevalent than today.

If anything, I think it's a bit of a horseshoe to imply all women naturally live fabulous lives free of any insecurity, stress or problems. And maybe I'm being a retarded schizo, but "pinkpill" seems like an Inglourious Basterds wrong fingers moment. I thought feminism is the purplepill, and the pinkpill is moid discord/preddit tranny shit.

I dunno. Just seems a bit strange to argue we need to ban women for feeling miserable or suffering, and assuming an anecdote of a girl being harassed by moidlets is actually unrealistic anti-woman propaganda.

Anonymous 125741

>>125739
There has been some complaining about "embarrassing" posts here on /feels/ but really I don't think this thread falls anywhere under that umbrella

Anonymous 126992

>>125731
I’ve only ever seen men have this experience you’re right.

Anonymous 127071

maxresdefault1-28 …

Does anyone else have the urge to gain the attention of only the hottest people to compensate for all those years that you felt like you looked like a monster? Because I think that might be the thing that's ruining my life



490594501_97971706…

how to know someone is a fuckboy? Anonymous 125779[Reply]

I met a guy (unfortunately through a dating app and I haven't had a kiss in the last 3 years, we are going to for a date this Monday but, I really wanna know if anyone here had dealt with a fuckboy before and how to notice if I'm just gonna lose my time, he said he is open for a long time relationship so, at least the "open" may mean something? I won't open my legs coz we met.

Yeah that's all
Wish my stupid ass some luck, he is really cute ngl

And he is a nerd, quite a big nerd tbh, someone that collects anime figures and paint warhammer stuff at the end of the day goes against the "i go to the gym and I have a six pack" type of guy only, or that's what I think, sighs…
18 posts omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 127041

>>125779
just don't give it up
does open here imply the relationship is incidental?

Anonymous 127042

>>127041
what i mean to say is: is he really just looking for sex?

Anonymous 127055

tells you he’s never felt love before when he’s like thirty with half a dozen exes. that’s actually scary, baby, not a sign we are meant to be.

Anonymous 127061

if he’s looking at his phone when he’s with you. he shouldn’t be online when you’re home ever. if he is he’s bored.

Anonymous 127062

>>127061
and if he’s bored he’s monkey branching



G5uEv93WYAAzNhk.jp…

My new friendship ain't working Anonymous 126739[Reply]

For the past half a year I've been trying to make friends online with other like-minded people mostly women. Days ago I met a person but they don't reciprocate my efforts and excitement. I'm so tired of trying.

Anonymous 126744

1720963216871608.p…

>>126739
That's terrible!

Anonymous 126772

it’s only been a few days. breathe.

Anonymous 127029

>>126739
I hate this "nonchalant" precept that zoomers follow religiously thinking it makes them cool. Ugh

Anonymous 127051

>>127029
We've also got Millennials locked into permanent Dave Strider coolkid lowercase into their 30s and 40s, too.



IMG_8821.jpeg

Anonymous 126886[Reply]

if a man in your experience tended to listen to songs that mirrored his emotional state. and it turned out he had been listening to music that was basically either throwbacks, soothing instrumentals you know he listens to for anxiety, and otherwise pretty much entirely songs about being in the wrong and the kind of man who ruins his partners life without trying so they should stay away. like music about realizing too late you were wrong and it’s too late to apologize or redeem yourself. wishing you could go back and undo what you did. that you didn’t mean to hurt that person. that they were evil and dark and beyond redemption. would you believe they were sorry? would knowing someone didn’t intentionally hurt you make you feel better? especially if he was presenting a happy face to everyone and his music taste was alarmingly suicidal when it wasn’t before. he did not send me the playlist and we use different music apps. he’s just been silently listening to this stuff for years. is he sorry? is this a truer indication of his feelings than him trying to contact me and apologize?
32 posts and 2 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 126998

>>126994
Hey nona. The fact you're self aware about this is already a huge step. You don't need to save every animal or person that's in distress, it's another way to create a toxic environment. In fact you should be saving only yourself and people who won't inflict harm upon you. Many bad situations can be avoided this way, so hopefully you can find some solace and agency in this idea.

Anonymous 127001

>>126998
those tik toks of animals with days to live have been upsetting me so bad lately. i keep emailing shelters near me to get in touch with them because i can’t have a dog on my floor and i rent. the amount of suffering in the world drives me insane. i guess that’s why i even care someone who hurt me is depressed. he let me suffer alone when he knew i was hurting. there’s just a part of me that can’t be like that towards someone when i know i’m part of it. i wanted him to say sorry and then for it to be over. not for him to be silently suicidal and think the situation is so far gone i wouldn’t care if he apologized and he doesn’t deserve to be forgiven. cos like the greater implication scares me. what if no one ever forgives each other for anything and we don’t fix climate change and the whole world is just backed into a corner and the whole earth ends.

Anonymous 127003

>>127001
I actually understand you a lot…
Still I hope you remember that unless you take care of yourself nobody else will. Please put yourself first nona, and your loved ones if you have them
also these tiktoks are 100% made by manipulative mfers

Anonymous 127011

>>127003
i’m glad at least for the ones connecting dogs on death row to people who have confirmed they’ve saved them at least. i tried to show my local shelter the shelter needing animals transferred out and i hope that eventually no animals have to be put down and they can just be moved to areas with not a lot of strays like where i live. it like destroys me inside seeing this stuff because there aren’t any kill shelters within driving distance of me at all so it’s hard to do anything when the most urgent need isn’t local. i try to focus on wildlife rehab and conservation stuff here. i feel like i obsessively need to focus on fixing things or the weight of the world starts driving me actually insane.

Anonymous 127040

>>126989
he’s not secretly venmo-ing me and if he wanted me back it would be a temporary psychotic break. i think this might just be your best friends boyfriend.



IMG_8897.jpeg

Anonymous 126999[Reply]

would you stay with someone who punched a hole in the wall? thread pic is an example not the hole.
3 posts omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 127015

no matter what it is he was upset about, destroying things out of anger is genuinely manchild behavior. what i would do is tell him to grow up.

Anonymous 127024

at best he can't control his emotions and damages your home/belongings. at worst this is a warning sign for future domestic abuse if he can't control his violence when upset

Anonymous 127026

>>127024
he was reacting to something that happened to me to be fair to him. it did scare me though.

Anonymous 127037

>>127026
clear sign he thinks of you as his possession, dump him

Anonymous 127039

>>127037
honestly we already had a huge fight over it and made up but he also called me his woman and it made me cringe so much. i’m “your” WHAT? we barely know each other and i low key want to bail still



1698417923828417.j…

Hate Thread Anonymous 118525[Reply]

What do you hate and why?
41 posts and 5 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 126175

>>118533
you could replace trump with alcohol and this post would fit well in prohibition. But That would hurt the nonas who cant put down the bottle too much to say

Anonymous 126178

>>125949
>Most incels would've been utter normalfags if it weren't for their appearance

And most women would be incels if they hadn't been born women.

Anonymous 126196

1755642306827.webp

>>118525
Rodents

Anonymous 126984

Men who play games all day and the only way they’ll interact with you is when you play co-op or they need you to relieve a bodily function.

Anonymous 127014

>>118525
is this a carricature of nevada-tan



[1] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8] [9] [10]
| Catalog
[ Rules / FAQ ] [ meta / b / media / img / feels / hb / x ]