/feels/ - Advice & Venting

This image makes me so sad ik it's probably AI but it makes me so unreasonably sad

>>125947
why are you so angry
>>125948
he brought it upon himself sadly

>>125948
Why
because he's sticky?

>>126884
i don't have the cold heart needed to disable recently viewed photos in settings and just hope he doesn't notice

>>126777
thank you cos how are men gonna blame all their problems on the gender they are mistreating and then ask us to view them as the victim fix everything for them and for some reason we are expected to be attracted to people like that. and then be submissive and be like yas you’re the boss? nah. they can suffer until they find enlightenment and use it to strengthen their character. or they can perish.

yesterday i matched with a guy on hinge who introduced himself as a misandrist but he unmatched with me after i told him i wasn't gonna split a check with him kek.

performative male final boss.

>>126784
that’s crazy but bullet dodged.

>>126784
i actually laughed at this holy shit theyre so retarded kek. very misandrist of him

>>126784
>yesterday i matched with a guy on hinge who introduced himself as a misandrist
That's like an immediate personality disorder red flag, clinical levels or not. Weird ahh manipulation strat.

>tiktok
eww

There's subreddit on reddit called femcelgrippysockjail and average woman in there dates men.

>>126667

/r/femcelgrippysockjail is mostly troons.

>>126353
i havent used instagram in 5 years and there's r9k and looksmaxxing stuff all over my feed wtf

>>126694
It's true. I got kicked out of one of their side groups on fb cause a troon shared a meme about trans girls and guns and I called it a Tim meme. It's what pushed me towards radfem politics ngl. Not sure if I'm completely a terf tho

we're all your friends here nona

>>126807
I'm even willing to share my discord publicly in here and risk moids messaging me just to have someone talk with me

>>126809
There's find a friend thread on /b/ nona, you can share it there.

>>126810
Thanks for telling me, I posted there

loser men won’t even have a honeymoon period it’s just lovebombing to get what they want. decent men never stop showing up. if he’s bored after a honeymoon period, he’s never going to be happy with anyone ever so don’t even worry about it. those men all end up panic marrying at thirty something and divorcing like two years later. especially if it’s the type of guy with no female friends besides girls he’s trying to nice guy their way into a relationship with. they all end up with the women they wouldn’t even be friends with because they were delusional about their standards and don’t see women as people. as long as you aren’t that girl they’re settling for, don’t ever waste your energy caring. men like that are losers who hate themselves. tell yourself that and wait and see which ones still have hair past their mid twenties and choose from one of those instead. women have infinite options. men do not and have to worry. don’t worry about what men do.

>>126758
This has always been the case. Even young moids will date older just to get laid. But once they got money and able to attract girls his age or younger, he’ll try and wife them up.
>>126768
Yes even grandmas on tinder will have more options then moids. It’s always the short term but marriage good luck.
But there’s a lot of cope without self reflection. Maybe it wasn’t love bombing. Maybe it’s emotional labour and caretaker burnout then emotionally they check out. He can date someone half his age or twice his age. But it only takes a couple years for a fallout to happen in most relationships. We’re very comfortable with the dating hook up culture where if it’s too stressful suddenly it’s easier to break up then learning to endure or change to adapt to each others needs. But overall you deserve what you pull. Your partner is a reflection of you in some way or form. Do you see each other as human? Are you inheritly selfish and lazy? Did you feel you gave too much with little in reciprocation. Nothing wrong with transactional relationships as it’s more fair vs seeming to be more of a taker in the relationship.
But overall moids that want to marry. They know they have to work harder to get the young girls attention. If he’s dating casually without marriage he won’t care about age nor will he care about making it work as he’ll move on. The young girl he marries he has a lot to lose.

I know this is obviously not universal but most people into my soul were actually mental, whether as a dependant a narc or a sociopath. Actual love bombing shit. Idk how healthy soul attraction is supposed to look like.
I'm cool with that but I don't think most people would be

>>126761
and not just me too it's like a pervasive pattern with most ppl that I see as well

>>126760
because moids control the world.

>>126702
u can do better nona u dont deserve to stay with a horrible male

It's crazy how I never listened to Lana Del Ray even though I knew about the coquette scene back when it was niche. I just thought all the women were attractive lol
Maria and The Diamonds though… She was the goat. Better than Lana and Melanie hands down.
>>126693
Ethal Cain is irrelevant, that's a fucking moid. God I hate that stupid fuck so much. Men literally can't leave women the fuck alone even when it comes to aesthetics/music that is exclusively about womanhood. TTD.

>>126699
if she just masked more she would be so much more successful but she is authentic in a way that i think frightens a lot of people and they struggle to just take her at face value and believe what she says about herself and try to categorize someone who is intentionally having an authentic experience and therefore isn’t trying to flatten herself into one dimensionality and fitting in one neat little box like people want women to be

>>126670
Made me want to go on an alligator tour. Not to meet a guy like she did, just sounds fun.

>>126755
they honestly are super fun because they recognize the boats and come right up to be fed. they’re like polite dinosaurs. when i went on one the guy would have them wait turns even it was crazy.

>>126668
Maybe you're acting too desperate?
That's relatable. You can't force it though, just try to feel comfortable with someone, that may work better than trying too hard to appeal to them.
>And my closest current friend already had a best friend with whom she probably is close so with me she won't become close.
>had
So they're not as close anymore?
I used to have three best friends I was super close with, but we drifted apart and they stopped talking to me completely. I'm now closest with someone I barely ever talked to and barely share interests with. We feel really comfortable with each other, she's just really chill. Sometimes, that's all you need.
You can still try being closer to that current closest friend. And make more friends while you're at it, you never know when someone could turn out to be someone you really want in your life.

>>126668
Are these IRL friends or online “friends”?

>>126668
These people are low functioning psychopaths. It might be more that you're subconsciously pulled to psychopaths

Ever asked yourself why? Ever noticed ?

>>126676
This is true too though you might be needy

people are either selfish/individualistic and believe in things like emotional labor. or they are hurt and reluctant to trust new people. or a combo of both.

someone without a history of friendships and relationships is a red flag. sometimes it has nothing to do with you and it’s just where other people are. sometimes you trigger something in someone else’s pattern recognition and it doesn’t even have to be a real thing about you. you just reminded them of someone else.

when you take it personally every time or view normal distance from strangers as an attack, it can change your vibe and people can pick up on that. when you’re going into something expecting pain and disappointment and rejection and maybe feel nervous or defensive, people feel that emotion and wonder what’s going on in the interaction to make you feel that way. sometimes it makes them angry sometimes it makes them nervous. sometimes people even take advantage.

all of this can literally be bypassed by confidence and level eye contact. not i’m above you but everyone is my equal. you don’t have to care what anyone thinks of you. they’re not the judge. and you can also probably name some stuff you don’t like about people if you really think about it. no one is above you. there’s no one to impress. if you can internalize that people will like start begging to be around you.

hopefully this posts i just put it in the wrong thread