/feels/ - Advice & Venting

>>126219
No I Think You Need To Be Reminded

>>126216
Literally whataboutism…
If it's unrelated, it's unrelated.
Unless whatever happened in the current situation is somehow caused by whatever went wrong in the past. But usually, it's something that's caused by not having fixed something that had already been wrong in the past. But even then, you could focus on solutions instead of just faulting someone to put them down. Some list shouldn't be the end of a discussion, even if the argument likely requires some pauses because people need time to process emotions and if they don't take the time, they might opt for whatever solution is the fastest rather than most effective.

Ok Kanaya Maryam

>>126230
There are some things that are always going to be relevant. If someone did something like cheat or put their hands on anyone even in the past, every action of theirs should be weighed against it like “Should I bother dealing with someone who leaves the toilet seat up when I know he cheated on me?” and the answer is “No.”

>>126234
kek

>>125870
I'd say it's pretty normal to not want to get up in the morning if it means having to deal with some assholes who berate you all the time and don't even want to listen to you. Some people are just incapable of dealing with a human they have power over. And some of them are parents. Best of luck nona.

>>125860
I've been there. I promise, it can get better, even if it's a slow process…
But yeah, you're not "making excuses", you're struggling and those people could help you instead of pointlessly complaining about what you're actively suffering from.
But some people simply don't get it. It can be so frustrating, I've had breakdowns over this before with different people. It's a special kind of hell when people don't understand you and you try to express it in different ways and rather than just taking you by your word, they pretend like they can relate somehow and totally get it but by what they're saying, you can tell that they really don't…
I hope you have a therapist you can talk to at least… And that you're getting support, even from the people who don't fully understand. I'd hope they're trying to help at least, even if they're apparently quite bad at it.

>>125860
They don't understand because they never had something like that happen to them. Unfortunately depression is something very few people can actually understand or even sympathize with, people always think there are worse things in life etc etc Trying to explain to them is useless because they will always try to rationalize it when it's not something to rationalize.
Give yourself time, try read things online, self help and care can help a lot

Radahn, stop being a baby and brush your teeth, they smell like your sister´s rot

>>125932
Wish I could say this to my best friends boyfriend. Imagine getting a new relationship when you’re so depressed and have no hobbies and friends and your new gf has to fix his self esteem cuz his “CRAZY EX” made him sad. And your entire first year of dating is you and him against the world baby. Meanwhile his ex is a normal woman who got cheated on and wouldn’t take him back. Who he still pines over publicly. While my best friend picks up after him and he pretends this is his first real relationship and he was the victim in all his other ones or “it just didn’t feel right like it does with you”. And what feels right is living like a depressed loser but she pays for half of it and does all the chores.

>>127073
Always works on people like this

someone is leaving messages pretending to be you and it’s actually ridiculous.

i saw someone like idk exactly who it is or maybe it is you trying to get me to contact you reacting a certain way i’m not sure. but you really went too far with that last one.

you can still apologize but trying to mess with my relationship is going too far. i wish we never dated. it’s the night we met vibes not what if vibes. you should know this.

and if you think those songs are love songs.. oh my god? you’re not one of THOSE people who don’t understand what they mean and like propose during them right???

>>126867
It literally is, he really expected women to be like "ohh that's so true sis slay" so he could take a screencap n bitch and moan in /r9k/ lmfao fucking loser

>>126906
there’s like five women here and a bunch of men spamming. why do they care about this place? because it’s not morally evil inherently like lolcow is so they want to punish the women here more for just being nice and chill?

>>126821
i miss u

I'm 5'0" I'll take him

>>126821
Truly embarrassing. You want to be three inches taller than your partner? You want to look down on his balding head and have everyone around you constantly notice you have wider shoulders and other embarrassing things that automatically make them and their relationship superior to you and yours? Being larger than your boyfriend is like having more money or a better job than your boyfriend. It’s like having a bigger body count than your boyfriend.

It's pretty nice I enjoy it

reading this post just made me want to smash my head against a wall. it's so bad that even the slightest mention of a "happy couple" sends me into a downwards spiral. i hate being lonely.

>>126349
Don't chase the bonding chemical highs lol

>>126350
people really get drunk on brain chemicals and then think when they’re depleted or you’ve developed a tolerance it means the spark faded. there was never a spark. he was just love bombing.

No one has these anymore. Everyone just marries who they’re with when they turn 30 now.

I'll be your friend! How ya doing today?

>>126844
omg im doing fine what about you ??

>>126847
3 days late… I'm so sorry.

Not bad tbh. Just got out of work and I'm about to get ready for bed. I got another shift tomorrow, then three more shifts next week.

Whatcha going to do for Thanksgiving?

Your post reminded me of myself (in a good way!). If you want a drinking friend or to chat with another person who has experience in this field, feel free to add me on discord: archer054

I relate to this post. High and and ugly shut in femcel

>>125613
in /b/

do heroin

I hate you larping faggots. Go back to tiktok

this is why I don't expect friends with randos from imageboards. at most expecting a one time chat is reasonable I think.

as for being interesting, you're supposed to learn that from experience anyways.

don't expect to become friends right off the bat*

>>126888
its just exhausting introducing myself over and over and i barely get any reciprocation. maybe they are dull and boring like me.

>>126896
you're not supposed to be doing that tbh unless they're interested, you're supposed to make them feel emotional things first and foremost. which is hard to explain cause you need to experience it to get it

This image makes me so sad ik it's probably AI but it makes me so unreasonably sad

>>125947
why are you so angry
>>125948
he brought it upon himself sadly

>>125948
Why
because he's sticky?

>>126884
i don't have the cold heart needed to disable recently viewed photos in settings and just hope he doesn't notice