/feels/ - Advice & Venting

I generally feel very fucking lonely like the type that can be easily cured if I talked to people. But the friends I had growing up I never kept in touch. I suffer from a plethora of mental illness and I feel like a burden. I can't keep my room clean long enough or do anything worth a damn. I'm almost 21, and nearly everyone around me has a job but with my disability I can't. I feel like shit.

>>122097
you're basically me. wanna be friends

>>122122
>>122097
you're both me too

>>122097
>>122122
>>122185
me three :(

i have agoraphobia and am physically disabled to the point that i can barely walk across the room from my bed to my desk each morning. i struggle to make it to the bathroom on time and am constantly wetting myself or sitting in a full incontinence pad or whatever. i haven't left my home since february 2024, except once for an ambulance trip to the ER.
i havent showered since november because i cant step over the edge of the tub. my life is doordash, spongebaths, half sleeps and video games while my spouse burns out transitioning mtf in the deep south. i only stay because i cant survive on my own

>>120355
>it's a very small percentage of people on websites like 4chan
hmm, not really, now it's the norm, you easily could see it on twitter or tiktok

>>121949
instagram too every video i see is just hate/racism/outing themselves as future offenders it's disgusting

Yeah this is a big reason why I decided to stay away from all forms of social media. I did try it a few years when it started becoming popular. But the overwhelming negatively I saw on many posts would too often ruin my mood, or the braindead content in most of the other posts just made me bored. Plus it's easy to become a target for random trolls by posting just about anything. And most posts I tried to make would quickly get buried in all the noise anyway. Overall it was a very depressing, isolating experience. Now I prefer to stick to more obscure places like small discords or forums. I will only chat with people who act like a decent human being. I would eventually like to ditch 4chan because I'm sick of seeing a lot of bad attitudes on there too but unfortunately it's nearly the only place I know of to see regular discussion on some video games or anime I like. Any recommendations for comfy places online with only nice people are greatly appreciated.

>>122212
who hurt you?

>>121953
my ex was a lolicon too and I absolutely destroyed him kek. he's still yearning for me

>>121960
how did you do it? cause mine was a hardcore shotacon and nothing I did worked. try and make him miss me, see what he lost for being a pervert? nothing. anonymously tipped his irl female friend who's a mom to a toddler with evidence of his pedo antics so she could protect her child? "fuck off, he's my friend". pray to the goddess of retribution? hasn't seem to done anything. I just want him to suffer for being a fucking degenerate but men like him are pretty much the standard and accepted/coddled nowadays so nothing really will get to him and yes, it makes me seethe. most he's done is post on twitter "when will i ever be enough for someone :c" sandwiched between two posts of drawn porn of women getting brutalized shortly after breaking up but that's it.

>>121966
well perhaps I shouldn't say this but I got physically violent with him. told him he had to atone for his sins by letting me slap him as hard as I could, then after I did that I'd continue to treat him coldly and refuse to touch him. I bullied him for months and would just endlessly try to make him cry, then I broke up knowing he had extreme abandonment issues. he flew down and stalked me and I'd just keep telling him to kill himself, got a restraining order. it's been years but he's still trying to stalk me online. I've moved on to date more conventionally attractive, wealthy guys which I know would make him insanely insecure.
> "fuck off, he's my friend".
thats disgusting, I fucking hate women like that.

take solace in the fact that he's probably depressed and is just going through the motions until he dies.

>>121968
thats rude anon

>>121398
talking to my own shit rn and i gotta tell u it’s much better than talking to the moid i just dumped

call the police pls

>>122073
Where? I make $11.75/hr and have no reliable family

>>122095
Keep grinding nona

stage his suicide

>>122146
I agree with this nona

perhaps you could report him for this? threatening you, damaging your belongings

>>121962
He will just act more aggressive and try to harm my sister and me. He knows people that own guns etc etc.

>>121964
That sounds like a horrible living situation nona… If his biggest power is being a man, and knowing people with guns, thats not a lot of power. One up him. Buy a gun. Look at trailer parks near you. The worst that it can get is going to court, and he doesn't want that, but just in case, start keeping evidence. Best of luck nona.

>>122056
I would have done that a long time ago…unfortunately owning guns is not legal here

Are you me? I'm exactly the same apart from the not feeling horny part. I use erotic audios too.

there is no hope for us
i feel the exact same way, i found a guy who i really liked yet i couldnt imagine myself doing anything with him intimately, the like i felt was something closer to the way i feel towards my younger brother
i guess its something that comes with age

I feel ya, I kinda miss my college days, fuk'd alotta guys but now that working in an office sleeping with anyone will have dire consequences

>>122078
You get it…

>>122053
>Anyone else like being a whore?
You're the only one, sorry.

Find a real hobby and get validation from your own progress in it.

>>122053
yeah, go ahead and keep sexualizing yourself, throw away any sense of individuality, just make yourself easier to digest
yes this feeling is felt by all nonas across boards
yes we all do this
yes this is what women have been fighting for

I'd say the issue is mostly in that you're doing it for the sake of men in order to get their validation. If you just like looking good for you, that's mostly alright if not taken to the point of obsessive vanity, but desperately seeking out validation from other people belies a self esteem issue, which you no doubt are cognizant of. Basing yourself worth on beauty, something you just sort of have and don't really develop, as well as something that also has a time limit is not conducive to long term mental health and stability. While it's not as simple as >>122055 might make it sound, finding something to do with your life that isn't based on how others view you will probably make you feel better long term. You don't have to be good at it either you can just do it for your own sake.

Unless and until he is the ultimate and ultimate man idk why you would do all that …and for free?! Putting yourself in danger …are you dumb Nona? Check for mold in your apt

pity reply for another frog thread

>>121997
>tiktok, facebook
Nobody uses those
>twitter
It's called x granny

>>121997
all the people that matter dont use cringe social media anyway

>>121751
Dating is for retardpilled worthless eaters and it’s completely irrelevant to my post
Sorry I forgot 99.9% of people are illiterate mongoloids and tried to have a discussion about something

>>121914
lol okay but i will continue to oppress fat ugly men like picrel by rejecting and ignoring them for the rest of my life and so will most women. i love fatshaming men

>>121915
Your individual actions aren’t relevant to the discussion of collective societal actions you self obsessed fool

>>121923
I mean use your brain for 1 second. If society doesn't agree on an ideal body type for men, why are male models required to be skinny or fit? Why are characters meant to portray attractive men in shows and movies often slim, fit and tall? If you look at any female centric media youll see that the moids there are conventionally attractive, not fat pigs. You can look up various studies that shows women's prefefence for lean muscular men but perhaps you'd nitpick those studies as well.

>>121744
I see more fat women with regular size men than vice versa. I almost always see fat guys with fat women.