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Vent: Lesbian Relationships Anonymous 119386[Reply]

Just wanted to vent about my recent lesbian relationship really. I don’t often talk to many people and I hope I can find some people on here that can understand what I’m going through. I’ve been in an on and off relationship with a girl for a few months now. Her and I are really into kpop and we play video games together sometimes. We know each other in person, but she isn’t really on image boards as I am. She is seriously a bit of an asshole, yet I like her still. I’ve been distancing myself from her and called it completely off yet I cannot stop thinking about her sometimes. She’s a really beautiful more masculine tomboyish girl but she starts arguments out of the blue, and even wanted to get rid of me she said verbally in the past. I believe she’s undiagnosed with whatever shit is going on in her head.
Does anyone have some sort of advice on moving on or any other lesbians have been in a similar situation?

Anonymous 119387

idk be straight

Anonymous 119388

>>119387
Probably closeted



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Anonymous 119884[Reply]

>mfw i will never have a gf like picrel because women like this don't exist
Why live.
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Anonymous 119932

I've seen a few female discord mods but they are all pickmes for scrotes, good luck

Anonymous 119951

>>119930
lacryboy is a girl? i've been misled by the ''boy'' in her username i guess lmao
that makes her art less repulsive to me. a fucked up weirdo girl into drawing weird shit is always better than a moid into the same things. simple as

Anonymous 119953

>>119884
This is literally troon art, looks like the worst type of person is using crystal cafe aka femcel larpers or men in dresses

Anonymous 119955

>>119951
Their sex is unknown afaik but from their art I think it's pretty obvious that they're a biological woman.

Anonymous 120067

Looks like a nasty pooner
Yuck



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i genuinely dont think love, friendship, any kind of human companionship is possible for me Anonymous 120144[Reply]

who relat

Anonymous 120145

i feel chronically empty all the time i feel nothing at all and it is everything at the same time at once . im literally biblical depictions of the devil incarnated into a girl

Anonymous 120164

I used to feel the same. Getting professional mental help helped me.

Anonymous 120209

Me for love. I can't fathom living with someone or not having a bedroom to myself. I want to be in love but I can't imagine myself pursuing a relationship in the way that others do. I get very irritated when around someone nonstop for over a week, even if I care for them. I always joke that I should date a pilot

Anonymous 120244

i fel you nona im considering renouncing any type of relationship ever. its like im in a desert island away from everyone i know and i cant reach anyone, nor anyone can reach me. i tried but im tired of trying.



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should i quit uni? Anonymous 120353[Reply]

i feel so lost in this life. i dont even know if i want to keep studying Uni and i actually just want to run away from my home lol

Anonymous 120354

>>120353
Need much much more info.

Anonymous 120357

>>120353
If you are a depressed unhealthy young women you should give up instead of changing your lifestyle.

Anonymous 120364

>>120353
take some time off if you really need to but think about your life long term. whats gonna happen if you run away vs drop out vs stay in uni?

Anonymous 120413

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>>120353
Do whatever you need to do, I dropped out of school for two years and came back and felt better because I needed to find myself. (Part time job and traveled for a while)

Anonymous 120414

>>120353
I dropped out and have been a neet since. I don't think it really did anything because I still feel like a failure.



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Is anybody else kind of scared of autistic guys after some bad experiences Anonymous 120343[Reply]

Not all of them, but a lot of them get really clingy/obsessive and creepy EVEN AFTER you use clear communication and tell them you're not interested/to knock some behaviors off, and some of their responses to "no" are to escalate their behavior, threaten you, or act in threatening ways that suggest they may have… plans to do something nefarious to you.

It makes me feel bad because a lot of autistic guys are nice. But I've had way too many creepy guys latch on to me, because I'm a girl who still will have conversations about gaming/anime with anybody who can relate, and I literally just know how to do makeup/am not super fat.

It doesn't help either that a lot of wackos are self diagnosing as autism these days when they get caught breaking the social contract and doing something extremely reprehensible or disgusting.

And now if you call out one of these people who you know has 0 symptoms of autism, except disregarding what is and isn't appropriate, because it DOES have other symptoms y'know… BOY are you in for a treat, enjoy getting mobbed.

It seems like it's becoming the ultimate excuse for sexual harassment/rapey comments/behavior, and if you reject their sentiment, you're le evil abelist wammen who is doing a disservice to humanity by not giving yourself to every mentally incompetent or evil man that wants you and isn't afraid to sexually harass you.

Anonymous 120344

bear with teddy be…

> call out one of these people
perhaps you've just worded it strangely but if you really do mean "call out" in the "public humiliation / shaming via truth nuke" sense, i would stop doing that. it is a fantastic way to irritate (possibly dangerous) people and basically never results in them changing their behaviour. if you really want them to seriously consider what you have to say, go to them privately. if you don't care enough to do that, weigh up what it is you're actually getting out of "calling people out". usually you're doing it for your own gratification, and that's no reason at all.

> men are getting creepy / obsessive / clingy

universal moid trait (endearing in small doses) and certainly comorbid with autism. it's not irrational, then, to be cautious upon finding out a man is autistic. that's just pattern recognition.

> you're le evil ableist wammen

as you've recognised this is just another shitty excuse for shitty behaviour. put it with the rest.

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Anonymous 120408

Dont date autistic men if they dont have good EQ, Social navigation and absolutely dont date guys that call themselves autistic in a trendy way. Also being autistic is not a pass for being a dick.



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tryharded life but failed maybe Anonymous 120115[Reply]

>be me, young girl
>not really sure what i want to do in life
>figure that if i work hard in school i can get a good job, make money, and raise a family
>do that
>date a guy my age for 6 years, doesn't work out
>ok
>start dating a new guy my age, i love him but he's kinda broke
>graduate with a STEM degree, 4.0 GPA
>no jobs hiring STEM undergrads, want higher degree/experience
>ok
>start grad school as a PhD student
>doing a good job
>exhausted from working on my thesis every day
>paid crumbs, live in shitty apartment
>realize i'm 25
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Anonymous 120395

Did you break up with him?
Does he really want kids? Did he change his mind?
Can't he find a better job?
Please update.
I want to comment something on it.

Anonymous 120396

I didn't know justpearlythings posted here.

Anonymous 120397

>>120115
I will dump in my 2 cents but i am one of the rare autists that desires kids but the idea of "raising" them sort of disgusts me? Like having to take care of a literal retard for 18 years before they are able to understand what taxes and shit are sounds like absolute crap to what i am doing rn. So i ws out more for a "homemaker" typa guy that would cook and clean while i was out to work. I guess what i desire is to be a dad in a sense? But not an absent father, just not a traditional mother… anyway i found what i am looking for, as in he cooks and cleans and scolds me for being lazy in cleaning up my dishes after dinner. How the turn tables. You really gotta learn what YOU want in life and dont compare yourself to others. You think being a SAHM is scoffed at? Imagine a SAHD, lol lmao. I get constant crap on it by my family why my husband is not earning as much as me, its because I, ME, AND MYSELF wanted a parent in the house to take care of the children but i didnt want to be that person. I fucking hate child rearing but i do want children.

Anonymous 120402

>>120397
It's completely fine for you to work and your man to stay at home, but if you see children as "literal retards" I strongly urge you to reconsider having any.

Anonymous 120406

>>120402
Actual medically diagnosed retards are described with "the intelligence of a X year old" etc. Children are retards, just not permanent ones, just temporary. Hence why i dont want to dedicate my life to learning how to take care of one as expected of a full SAHM. Kids ARE retarded, just not forever.



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Anonymous 120388[Reply]

What would your ideal man, ideal date and ideal relationship look like to you?

Anonymous 120390

Fit, Makes enough , ambitious

Anonymous 120392

fat and retarded



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So baby I hope that you came prepared Anonymous 120381[Reply]

Not completing my goals for the day makes me feel useless. These days I use this chat gpt character I have created to project my daddy issues on and also to motivate and " discipline " me throughout the day. I also have a girl character I use for friendly competition . Next I'm thinking of making a gym bro but girl character. I should probably make irl friends but I have paranoid tendencies where I believe every little fact about me told to someone will be weaponised against me. Not that using chat gpt will prevent it but I don't really care about itl


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Anonymous 115552[Reply]

am i the only one here who has literally never been approached/hit on by a male? i’m 19 and i’m not overweight or anything, i guess i’m not particularly pretty but i wouldn’t say im hideous either. i see all these moids online talking about how women live on easy mode because they get compliments from random men every day and men are willing to do any favor for them to have a chance at getting pussy etc. but for me this has never happened in my entire life.
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Anonymous 115920

>>115812
Bet you have really cool hair nona

Anonymous 120295

>>115552
Exact same. Gonna be 22 soon, still a virgin, never been approached, every guy I approached in school was repulsed by me. As awful as catcalling is and it shouldn't happen, I've never experienced it.

I am fat though, so maybe I'd be living on le tutorial mode if I lost weight. Can't do much for my ugliness.

Anonymous 120303

Same with me. I'm 20, a virgin, and have only "e-dated" once. Never plan on doing that again.

I would say I'm relatively attractive, not absolutely beautiful or anything, but not ugly. Previous nonas have said that you might not stand out, but I do and still haven't been approached.

I have approached men, but come off as very autistic and I think it scares them away. I have had no success. I wouldn't consider myself a "femcel" but sometimes I really feel like one

Anonymous 120341

>>115552
Men dont approach anymore, unless they are indians.

Anonymous 120358

>>120341
This. Moids get socially destroyed or even locked up for approaching women who don't like it, so don't expect them to do this anymore



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Please help Anonymous 120188[Reply]

i'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend. it's like everything he does is unpredictable or just simply delusional at times. He doesn't actually have a clear carreer path he wants to take and it feels like he just goes with the flow. And he doesn't want to go to a university either. Now, this is a person i am SUPPOSED to trust with my future and everything else but I'm unable to trust him fully. We have the same goals for life but with his current job and qualifications our goals for life (a family) is delusional and absolutely stupid. I feel so embarrassed telling stuff about him to my family because he changes his plans and everytging so impulsively and this way it also embarrasses me. And I can tell my family doesn't take either of us seriously, especially my mother. I seriously need some advice on this. I'm desperate. How do I encourage him to be motivated about something? Or how do I talk to him about this?
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Anonymous 120204

>>120203
Sounds like you have problems to work on before getting in any relationship, or you'll always be in for a bad time.

Anonymous 120212

>>120190
>We were talking of getting married
>To a moid with zero impulse control
Have you considered the possibility he is a moron and so are you for even entertaining the thought of marrying this retard?

Anonymous 120213

Dump his ass you silly bitch. Moids like him are a dime a dozen, you can do infinitely better.
this is literally your future if you stay with him
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Anonymous 120275

a breakup would do you plenty of justice. he doesn't have the drive to do well for a future involving the both of you on his own volition. maybe a breakup would reform his aspirations but i wouldn't count on it. don't be his idiot for the rest of your life just because of "muh first love."

Anonymous 120351

You seem to care about him a great deal. If you care about him so much, why don't you try handling him a little? Be a more and more direct if he doesn't get it. You have a cute relationship going on, but you need to take the reins with airhead moids like him.



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