>>21693Oof nona, my mum was a nightmare when I started dieting and losing weight. She treated me like I had an eating disorder when all I was doing was counting calories for the first time in my life and avoiding junk food. She knew I wasn't starving myself or fasting or purging, and I have zero history of doing so even when I was a teenager, I've always been a greedy fatass. She knew full well I was resisting temptations and cravings because I love food, which is not the mindset of an anorexic person. She'd offer me chocolate and other unhealthy things as "it's just one" after I told her I'm not the type of person who can have just one, I'd rather have none at all. She'd order takeaways for me without asking me and then I'd eat it out of guilt because I didn't want to waste it.
She's obese and recently started some kind of diet pill medication that's been making her throw up and stop eating to lose weight. I don't want to be mean, I do love her, but it is kind of ironic. She also tells her doctors she only eats 1 meal a day and her weight is a thyroid issue, but she has infinite sugary snacks and fizzy drinks stored up in her room to graze on.
I'm not normally a /fph/ type of person, but fat family members are kinda crabby. I've read similar stories to yours. I remember a guy telling his wife he was concerned about her cholesterol when she went on a diet, as she was eating eggs, but he had never shown any concern for her cholesterol when she was eating McDonalds. I'm not a vegan, but I think it could be similar to why some people obsess over trying to get vegans to eat animal products again, maybe they think you're passively guilting them by changing your habits. This is why I'm not /fph/, I don't care about other people being fat if that lifestyle makes them happy. Food is awesome and I'm very live and let live. It's just this lifestyle does not make me personally happy, especially with my hypochondria and panic attacks I mistake for heart issues, and my fat body feels physically gross and uncomfortable to me. My individual choices are not a moral attack on anyone else, but I suspect some people think it is.