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Why are normies like this Anonymous 111375[Reply]

How you go from being married with children to meeting a 20 years younger girl one day and dating her 2 weeks later and already fucking her then getting a divorce months later. How do you go from meeting a moid then becoming a homewrecker weeks later after pretending to care if he is married or not. It's so shitty to do it to another woman. And how you can fuck a literal stranger… Hypersexuality? Pickmism?


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are men capable of genuine love? Anonymous 110818[Reply]

so last month this guy that i've been talking to for a while confessed to me. his confession seemed genuine, and i was flattered since a man has never shown romantic interest in me before. last week i was speaking with one of his friends and apparently the guy only ever talks about me sexually, he just fetishizes me and didn't mean anything he said in his confession. after observing his other friends, i realized that they're all like this. men only befriend you because they want to hit, are they even capable of actual love? is it something to do with this generation? i'm scared to ever talk to a man ever again, probably won't.
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Anonymous 111231

Wait, same anon, actually the book is spot on, its called being loaded and unloading he was showing romantic interest cause its just a sexual attraction and because he wanted to unload aka fuck, his friends are right however in the book it said that your moid s friends will lie to you that his love isn't just sexual. They are capable of loving feeling loved by you and romantic love is actually sexual to them

Anonymous 111248

Yeah some amen are worth it. they’re just very far and in between. I get called Laura Palmer cause virgin looks but probably slutty. Get told I have daddy issues, I love my dad. He sends me memes almost everyday. Just a bunch of sexual bullshit. My bf now calls me Laura Palmer and when he says it he means I’m an angel. I’m esoteric and untouchable. Which is much different than what people normal say to me. Girly it just takes some time :/ just don’t diminish yourself so that you don’t end up alone.

Anonymous 111360

I always feel like men only talk to me due to simple mating instincts and societal pressure. They don't care about who I am, they don't want to share their lives with me especially, they approach me "romantically" because their biological, internal and external lives revolve around vaginas and getting off and proving that they're fucking real vaginas. Doesn't matter whose vagina so long as it's the highest value meat hole available to him.

My long-term bf wants a family with me and I still don't believe that he loves me. He doesn't know much about me or my thoughts. He never asks. He fucks me, takes me out to have someone's company, and tells me he wants this and that. He has never once asked me if I want a family or what kind of life I want, he just talks to me in this tender voice and tells me what he wants me to provide for him.

I don't feel that we are close or that he would even want to be. I am supposedly his closest friend and life partner but there's literally a boomer cleaning lady at work who has shown more emotional depth, caring, and support towards me. My boyfriend knows what movies I like and that's it, everything else goes in one ear and out the other.

Anonymous 111361

>>111360
Why do you stay?

Anonymous 111374

>>111361
I'm depressed and socially anxious. I often think about leaving and simply living alone but I'm scared it may turn out to be a mistake. The thought of getting back into dating makes me want to vomit and going through all that would still get me yet another guy who sees me as a walking vagina.



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moid hate thread Anonymous 85163[Reply]

doesn’t have to be about your boyfriend. I just hate fucking men at this point.

>everyone of them has failed me

>any moid I’ve dated either had a rape kink, or raped me
>porn/hentai addiction
>used me for my body
>always had an alternative motive
>manipulated me into insanity
>abused me if I didn’t do anything they wanted
>even my own dad has failed me

I have no fucking hope in this world.
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Anonymous 111330

>>111320
>Women men date are a reflection of who they're attracted to
I know you misstepped but..
Wow.. No way?

Anonymous 111367

>>111320
There is a subset of autistic men who are asexual but they're also super annoying.

Anonymous 111368

>>111367
Every "asexual" moid I've known is hardcore into fetishes due to autism (ex. bondage, feet, furry).

Anonymous 111369

>>111367
Elaborate, because to me that sounds like the perfect moid

Anonymous 111373

There is nothing more pathetic than pick mes for gay moids, I feel kinda bad for them cause they probably could never imagine he talks so much shit about them behind their backs



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/vent/ Anonymous 109995[Reply]

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Anonymous 111365

everyone hate me

Anonymous 111366

I hate my sister.

Anonymous 111370

Whenever I try to put myself out there to talk to men, I find myself getting so frustrated. It's like whenever I talk to normie men, I can't connect with them because there's some kind of gap, but when I talk to men online there's still a gap because now I'm the one who is too normie for them. Then on top of that, I feel like there's this expectation for me to be very affectionate and friendly very quickly or else they assume I'm not interested and they pull back. But how am I supposed to be affectionate and flirty with someone when I still don't really know them? I don't think I could feel comfortable doing those things with someone unless I loved them, but how can I tell if I love someone within a few weeks (or even months) of knowing them? I can't! And no one is going to wait around long enough for me to make up my mind. I just don't understand how dating and finding someone to love even works. I'll be fine without a relationship, but is it supposed to be this difficult? If I knew that there's something I could be doing better, then I'd work on it because I'm sure I'm not a perfect person and probably have some flaws in my attachment style. But it's so hard to tell if it's me or if it's the people I'm talking to or the external situation that's making this so difficult for me.

Anonymous 111371

>>111370
Samefag to add that I'm not even looking for some kind of perfect romance or someone who gives me butterflies or takes care of me in any type of way. Just someone who I feel comfortable talking to and enjoy their company. That's all I want! This is why I wonder if there's something wrong with me. It's even hard for me to find female friends who I genuinely enjoy talking to so to find a man like that seems impossible at this point.

Anonymous 111372

Got fired from the job
My Disk got corrupted
Windows won't boot…
I….. I'm tired boss…



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Having a sibling that is more popular than you Anonymous 111251[Reply]

Do any of you have an older or younger sibling that grew up more popular than you? Maybe they were deemed the golden child and had been given more attention by your parents or maybe they just had better luck in school. They seem to have more friends, got a relationship before you, have better looks etc. How does it feel to be the overshadowed sibling and how do you find ways to cope?

Anonymous 111267

My older sister had more friends than I did but she always hated me for being thinner than her and used to hit me and lock me in the closet.

Anonymous 111268

My younger brother is definitely not the golden child, but he's way more socially adept than I am. More friends, more life experience, etc.

Anonymous 111274

>>111251
Not to derail, I loved this show to death as a kid and the irony is that Kara always seemed like the better one and was more popular in the fandom. I hated when season 2 onwards changed the art style and ruined them looking like actual twins. They were perfect like this.

Anonymous 111278

>how do you find ways to cope
you don't. just move out.

Anonymous 111357

I'm the eldest, but apparently I was just made wrong. I look like my dad, so I'm lanky and pale as a starting position, and my mum hates me on some level because of it. Meanwhile my younger sister is a carbon copy of our mum, so she's dark and curvy and beloved. I was attacked by a gang of boys in primary school, so I was terrified of all men until my late teens and lost all chance at friendships and relationships. Meanwhile, she was doted on by every man she met and was dating from age 12. Her being adorable is the reason our loaded step-dad agreed to marry our mum. I got saddled with anxiety and depression, and you'd think her suddenly developing rapid cycling bi-polar would put my treatable conditions in the win column, but NOPE, everyone just sees her as a manic pixie dreamgirl and idolises her rampaging libido. She's always had more friends, boyfriends, attention, love and affection than me because I was just doomed from birth. Her being a wreck doesn't even impact her profession or academic life, because people gather around to just fix everything for her. Seriously, people have taken at least TWO exams for her in uni and multiple assignments/tests because they feel so bad about the medication needed to level her out making her feel sick every 3 weeks :(. At her new job, which she got with a degree she didn't earn, she has a small band of simps who do the hard parts for her. Despite that job being working for a commercial TV station, and mine being trying to avert agricultural disaster within our lifetimes, our mum still considers her job vastly more important and has DEMANDED I actively sabotage my career in to…feed my sister's cat. It just hurts.



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/lg/ - lesbian general Anonymous 108545[Reply]

felt like this should be a thread tbh
what's everyone up to? i'm thinking of downloading tinder again
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Anonymous 109388

>>109384
The difference is that I feel extreme involuntary guilt and those TikTok people usually do it as a way to stroke their ego or to make themselves look like good people

Anonymous 109389

>>109387
>>109386
Thinking everything is your fault is some sort of narcissism (as in: it is a failure of considering others, as you place yourself at the center of everything). Often it comes from immature parents making you responsible for everything and/or growing up in an unstable household (because if you believe all things are your fault, you have the illusion of control over them and it's less stressful than having zero control).
So these feelings of misplaced guilt are not to be trusted and if they persist once you live on your own (meaning out of your unstable family and/or living conditions) you need to work on them with a shrink or else.
>>109388
And publicly convincing yourself you're better than those tiktok people is not about stroking your ego?

Anonymous 109390

>>109389
The best solution to this problem would be to kill myself. And my parents are great. And I’m not mad. And everything is an excuse to kill myself because I am not a functional member of society.

Anonymous 109391

>>109390
Society is sick; not being a functional member is rather a good sign (again: stop thinking you're the issue).

Anonymous 111318

>first crush?
My first crush was this cute chick that worked with me at a Taco Bell. I tried to become friends with her and
I even got her phone number at some point but she ghosted me after a couple weeks.
>what’s your local lesbian/LGBT scene like?
I go to an art school so a lot of the people around me are queer. They seem cool I have nothing to say about them though since I don't interact with my peers much.
>cute stories about your gf
After two weeks of dating my girlfriend I knew that I was in love, but I didn't wan't to make her feel weird by telling her too soon. So I marked in a date that was 3 months away on my phone to tell her that I love her for the first time. But then she told me that she loved me the same night I that fell in love with her!
>how did you know you were gay?
I tried to reject the fact that I was attracted to women when I was a kid. I got myself a boyfriend in high school to try and prove to myself that I was straight. But I couldn't even bring myself to kiss him or even have sex with him. The thought of doing any of those things with him or any other man was disgusting. That's when I accepted my identity and came to terms with it.
>which lesbian stereotypes do you fit? which ones don’t fit you at all?
I don't fit any of them lol.
>what were you like as a kid? tomboy? girly girl who made her Barbies kiss?
I was a tomboy as a kid. I wanted to wear pink dresses, play with dolls, and be a girly-girl but I was too ugly for that.
>get mushy and describe your dream relationship/date/etc
Every date I have with my girlfriend is a dream date. But one day I'd like to bring her out to a tulip field.
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friendless thread Anonymous 110737[Reply]

post here if you have no friends IRL. how did it happen? are you content with it? or just talk about whatever you want.
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Anonymous 111299

>>111296
I feel you anon. They'll ask for your opinion on something but when you don't really have an opinion or they don't like the answer you're boring or a bitch.

Anonymous 111306

>>111234

>very deliberately moved to a very isolated area to be close to nature


Cool! How do you make it work? Remote job, homesteading, something else?

The older I get the more I long to be a deranged hermit in a hut but I certainly don't have the means (or know-how) to make it happen currently.

Anonymous 111307

>>111306
>but I certainly don't have the means (or know-how) to make it happen currently.
Same.

Not that I live in a country that really has isolated areas to begin with.

Anonymous 111308

>>110737
I’m ugly and weird and unsociable
I think everyone who wants to be friends with me is probably using me for something
Nobody wants to be friends with me
I’m mentally ill

Anonymous 111311

I used to have an online friend as a kid that I would play video games and voice chat with pretty much everyday. I don't remember what happened exactly but I think I had a mental illness moment and blocked him for no reason. I don't really miss him specifically but I really miss having a friendship like that.



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Uncaring friends Anonymous 111275[Reply]

I don't have many friends but the few I do have seem to have no problem cutting off people they were once close with. Like straight up cutting them off, maybe a short explanation but it ends in "you're getting me down lately so I don't want to see you anymore". It's not one or two people, it's a bunch of them. It just leaves such a sour taste in my mouth about them, I feel like I have to watch my behavior because they had no problem ditching other people, why would they treat me any different? Having no friends is better than this shit, I've stopped reaching out to them because I don't want to get too close anymore. Does anyone recognize this? I don't think cutting people off is inherently bad but treating friends like they're disposable is so vile.

Anonymous 111277

This is why friends can be counted on a few fingers and acquaintances are plenty.

Anonymous 111300

I think it's natural and I don't feel bad when other people ghost me either. Friends are replaceable and not really necessary or enmeshed in your life at all. It's nice to have fun with people, but if someone is going to start making my life unpleasant, I wouldn't want to deal with it either. Life is hard enough without that crap.

Anonymous 111310

Some people are just like that, they have enough people that care about them already.



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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 111062

>>111011
>>111026
Thank you both. I want to leave asap but I'm also so scared. My brain keeps trying to convince me to stay. I had to make a list of what I'll have to do for the rest of my life if I stay and it helps a little. Loojing at notes I made about him abusing me helps a little. But my mind clings to any nice or decent gesture. I feel bad that I'm "wasting" money on moving out. I keep reading the abusiverelationships sub on le reddit which helps. Hearing other people going through the same process I am is validating. But I feel sick to my stomach from the extra stress of sneaking around and making a huge life change and trying to process my emotions in secret on top of the regular stress I feel just being at home. But I want to be a success story.

Anonymous 111151

I'm probably moving out in two days after work!! I'm going to try to buy a blanket and stuff tomorrow. I'll only be able to take a few pieces of clothes, unfortunately I can't be choosy.

Anonymous 111180

I'm moving tomorrow! I wasn't before but now I'm scared me soon-to-be-ex will turn violent or try to cause problems for me. He told me this morning that he has to stay with me until he dies even though he hates me. I don't think he will show up at work but my coworkers were surprisingly cool when I told them about the situation (obviously I didn't tell them I was abused but me leaving without giving my husband my new address implies something happened).

Anonymous 111225

I did it! And I don't know my roommates that well yet but at least one feels like she would definitely be a miner.

Anonymous 111298

Sorry to make this my blog but the only other person I talk to is my mom and I'm embarassed to be proud of this. I made small talk with two (TWO) other girls here and we even made tentative plans to go out together next weekend. Everything is going so much better thsn the first time.



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