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/rock bottom/ - general Anonymous 76609[Reply]

This thread is for people who have hit rock bottom. Not people who are having a bad day, but people who are living in the depths of despair. Whether you're a nona who is struggling with serious addiction, mental or physical illness that severely precludes your life, constantly feeling suicidal, whether you're being abused, have any other serious life issues or if you are simply unable to function and don't know where else to turn, vent here and let's try to support each other.
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Anonymous 121581

>>121519
Sorry if it sounds like Im mocking you but Im dead serious
It seems like you should bash his head with bottles more
Worked last time and you dont have much to lose so may as well.

Anonymous 121583

>>121575
no like you deadass are such a neet you think trying once with a notebook and them somehow remembering you years later makes sense how would you be working from home with no credentials that’s harder than getting a fast food job. who would fucking remember you if there are so many applicants and jobs are so hard to get. like please the turn over rates since covid have been crazy none of the entry level jobs can stay fully staffed lmao.

Anonymous 121584

>>121575
what did the homeless people thing have to do with anything just pretending that it isn’t a well known thing they do fuck all and pretend they have no other options? just wanted to like scold? you’ve had twenty years to get in these programs like please.

Anonymous 121585

>>121575
my awful gangstalking not husband abuses me whenever i log off league of legends guys please help me all i have is a shit work from home job mcdonald’s wendy’s arby’s and burger king know me by name and hate me! i have no choice but to spent all my time on image boards please believe me

Anonymous 121586

>>121575
i work LONG HOURS at the gangstalking factory to afford your xbox live subscription get back to grinding



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Anonymous 121044[Reply]

>meet boy on reddit
>funny boy, finds me funny
>somehow in 10 days' time we are exchanging nudes and talking about getting married
>i want out

what do. i feel like such a whore.
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Anonymous 121562

>>121396
Three dates, three weeks, three months
You need to hit these marks before you advance to overcompensating with attraction, sex, etc.

Anonymous 121574

delete your account and never do anything as crazy as e dating again. a redditor i can’t imagine what it really looks like. how pathetic.

Anonymous 121578

>>121044
You got played by a guy online who's doing the same for ten other girls

Anonymous 121579

>>121044
You got played by a guy online who's doing the same for ten other girls

Anonymous 121582

>>121562
>three weeks, three months
so which is it then?



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Anonymous 120541[Reply]

Would anyone miss you if you died tomorrow?
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Anonymous 121447

it is much easier to imagine leaving the earth with no one hurting over your loss
but the hole you leave is beyond your comprehension
i still think about my friend who i havent spoken to since november, every day

Anonymous 121448

Family and best friends

Anonymous 121480

my cat will

henceworth i am not gonna die no matter what, i am not leaving my purring creature behind

Anonymous 121538

>>120541
Yes, my family. My friends too, but only delayed because we don't spend a lot of time with each other. I know they'd also be devastated though.
But it'd affect my immediate family the most, it'd be a mental health crisis on all of them, I wouldn't want to do that to them, especially not my little brother, he's only a kid, I couldn't do that… If I got into an accident, I'd fight so hard, not just for mine but also for their sakes…
Thinking about it like that reminds me that I really should take better care of myself in general…

Anonymous 121580

Unfortunately, yes.



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sorry i just want to vent Anonymous 121576[Reply]

i don't know what's happening to me lately, i have been feeling way more lonely than usual, normally, i'm a lonely person, i like to be in my room doing my own thing, i normally sit alone in lunch at uni, i have a very few friends, its normal to be alone for me, but lately i have been feeling a void growing in the pit of my stomach, its eating me from the inside out and i can't do anything about it, or i feel like so, have yall ever heard the song 'race' by alex g? that's how the pit of my heart sounds. Im having 2 weeks of vacation, so i'm in my house all day, i'm not doing much, just assignments from uni, playing LoL, BS1, sims4, eating, bathing, sometimes i call my online friends on discord and we play together, but most of the day, im just… there…
I'm sitting in my bed… doom scrolling… waking up late…
I do talk to people of my family, i live with my grandparents and my big sis, my sister works all day and my grandparents work too in their small business, so the house is always alone. I'm the only one here all day, and i don't have much to do, i just clean, eat, play.
I feel like my life is in pause, like i'm missing something, like i need to be somewhere important and i'm really late. Video Games don't fill the void anymore, every time im playing it feels so repetitive, i don't get distracted of my thoughts by playing, i can't write down how i feel because i don't actually feel anything anymore, im just so tired, but i can't sleep, i don't even sleep anymore, im just existing in slow mo, every time i try to relapse on SH i just can't, i have grown a coward, i just feel so sad and anxious because i feel like this is going to be how i'm going to live for the rest of my life and i can't do anything, i don't feel normal, i see other girls in my class, same age as me (17) looking so healthy, so pretty, so smart (cuz i'm also failing all of my classes), i just look at them and i get so upset, they look so mature and beautiful, they already look like young women, im stuck looking like a pre teenager due to my ED, i want to be like them, surrounded by a lot of friends, pretty, mature, smart, funny, i bet they never feel alone.
i want to stop feeling alone, i want to be normal like everyone else, i just feel like im fragile, but not like glass, like a bomb that could explode any second.
you don't need to give me advice if you don't have any, i just wanted to feel heard, and here i alwaPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

Anonymous 121577

>>121576
I don’t mean to be dismissive, but 17 is too young to be depressed. You have so much youth and potential. Even if you failed college and accomplished nothing with your life for half a decade, you’d still have plenty of time. If you are feeling alone, that just means your mind is telling your Ito make a better effort to make friends. Try to join other tables, even if they don’t work out. Say hi to people in your classes. Talk to cute moids your age. Don’t end up like me. Choose happiness. If you are happy, you’ll do better in school and feel prettier. Please don’t end up like me.



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do bad things happen as much as ppl say? Anonymous 120729[Reply]

I have rly low empathy even for friends and I constantly find it very hard to believe that 'bad things' actually happen to people. I've had friends tell me about being assaulted and stuff and even though I don't show it on the outside I am internally thinking 'she is probably lying for attention'. I go through life and people are always really nice to me and they're generally pretty rational, polite, decent, so I find it hard to believe bad things like that actually happen as much as people say they do. Like every person I know seems to say they've been assaulted or something. Is this sort of thing actually normal or am I some kind of sociopath? Or is it just cuz I'm privileged? I can't help but believe people just make this stuff up for attention.
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Anonymous 121553

>>121522
I disagree the whole reason I have an inflated sense of worth is because I know people are often shitty. No more than anything they live to poison your mind, mental health, gaslight you, or just drive you off the road at any opportunity.

I have like one solid rock in life but holy fuck people are filthy. I think theyre frequently below me YES because I'm often proven right. They prove they are cannibals one way of another. Why should I care what they want or believe ? Why should I believe what they say ?? A person has to prove who they are before I give a fuck about them.

I won't stop looking down on people until they give me a reason not to.

Anonymous 121556

What do you mean, bad things? Robbery? Battery? Cancer? Rape? Getting felt up in a crowd?

I'm certain sexual assault is way underreported. I'm just an ugly weirdo who never goes out or talks to anyone and even I've been groped, and when I redeemed my free scrotoid thinking a romantic relationship would alleviate my loneliness, he pressured me into sex, held me down, tried to control me financially, all the usual things men do to socialize.

Anonymous 121557

>>120729
My hot and controversial take is that you're not wrong. Who knows what's good or bad?

Anonymous 121572

>>120729
you’re probably not even an actual sociopath, just an asocial neet who never leaves the house. nothing bad ever happens to you because i’m guessing very little at all happens to you.

Anonymous 121573

>>121556
women with male friends and partners, women who go to school, women who go to social events, women who use substances, women are socially naive or shy or easily pushed around, autistic women, any kind of woman who struggles with boundaries or are socially isolated.. like what do you think happens to shy lonely women who hang out with very few people and end up alone with a creep who sees they would lose everything socially for speaking up? do you think most boyfriends are patient when waiting to get laid? men will push women to over indulge on substances or pretend they are more wasted than they are to come on to women inappropriately. it’s fucking constant and most women at high risk have multiple risk factors.



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Mo lest ation Anonymous 121546[Reply]

I’m looking for fellow victims of a man named Randall Mosey of Ohio. He should be 32 by now. Blue eyes, white guy, computer nerd who loved starcraft. He molested me when I was 13 and I know there are others, because I tried to reach out to his girlfriend through her tellonym and she got really upset and deleted my messages after responding to one saying she’s “tired” of people trying to ruin his reputation. So that is not the first time someone’s tried to tell her that her boyfriend’s a pedophile. She accused me of lying because I hid behind anonymity. Excuse me that I’m not exactly jumping at the idea of hopping on a skype call with you guys.

I wanna know if y’all have any advice on finding other victims too. I just keep remembering.

Anonymous 121555

have you gone to the police?

Anonymous 121558

You are not going to find them on cc

Anonymous 121570

>>121546
post real pictures of him. i’ll save them forever and always remember he is a rapist. all of them deserve to be exposed. i’d post it in gioyc in lolcow. maybe make the post less personal army but they will probably ban you but leave the post about him up anyways.

Anonymous 121571

>>121546
post real pictures of him. i’ll save them forever and always remember he is a rapist. all of them deserve to be exposed. i’d post it in gioyc in lolcow. maybe make the post less personal army but they will probably ban you but leave the post about him up anyways.



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I’m a terrible sister Anonymous 121483[Reply]

I’m the failure of my family. I think my upbringing was pretty rough, but out of my 4. other siblings, I’m the only failure. My younger brother and sister are both well adjusted and normal human beings with jobs and houses. My older brother is kinda a weirdo, but he is super nice and makes a lot of money as scientist. And my eldest brother is the coolest and best person I’ve ever known. He literally took beatings on everyone else behalf and practically raised my siblings and I after a certain point. He always protected me and helped me out, even though I’m a worthless person. One time he beat up a kid who hit me and his girl friend always talked to me because she knew I had problems making friends in high school. He was the kind of guy who would stop on the highway to help cars on the side of the road or lend everyone else money. He even started a few side hustles for my other siblings and I, but I never really got into them.

A few years ago he got married to his girlfriend and was promoted to an amazing job . He had the perfect life, perfect friends, and perfect relationship, and he deserved it. I was always super jealous of him and my siblings even though it’s my fault my life sucks.

About 2 months ago my eldest brother’s wife and kid died so he started drinking. Because his job involves cranes and boats, he got fired when he showed up to work drunk too many times. His life has gone to complete hell and I’m pretty sure he is going to kill himself drunk driving.

All my other siblings and his friends are doing everything they can to cheer him up, but there is literally nothing I can do. My sister and younger brother keep taking him out to eat. His wife’s family is helping him clean up his house. Even my weirdo shut in older brother is driving 300 miles a week to hang out and work out with him. I don’t have money to do anything for him and there is literally nothing interesting I do to talk with him about. I don’t have a family of my own for him to be around like my younger siblings or share any interests with him like my older brother. I can’t even help with all the side hustles that are falling apart without my eldest brother, because I have no real skills.

I wish I was nicer to him and I wish I could do something for him. The last time we talked, he told me he was sorry for not helping me more to have a better life before his friends had to carry him out of the bar.
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Anonymous 121537

>>121523
Honestly I’m in kind of the same boat, being the failure of the family and having a bad relationship with all my siblings and I’ve come to terms with that, but unlike you I don’t really care to mend those relationships because it feels impossible, most of the tension in my relationship with my siblings comes from childhood, which seems almost baked in too every interaction we have, it feels like it would be less rebuilding those bonds and more creating them, which would be a task that requires both parties to be willing to put in the effort when neither do.

Like i said I’ve come to terms with that and have chosen to just remove myself from their lives, not that they seemed to mind anyway, and accept that abuse and neglect affects different people in separate ways and that most of the shitty ways we treated each other was just children trying to put together the pieces of their psyche while raising themselves.

Sorry if this comes across as bleak, dont take a random person online as a preacher of the only way to live your life.

Anonymous 121549

I kneel, I squeal, my siblingship isn't real

Anonymous 121561

Why can't you help clean his house too? Or mow his lawn? Maybe buy his groceries? You could meal prep like 3 frozen meals for him each week.

Come on, think of something.

Anonymous 121567

>>121561
I couldn't mow his lawn, it's pretty big and on has a big hill part. I guess I could make him some meals. As for cleaning his house, the tension between my other siblings who are there a lot and I will probably thick enough to cut. I'm a little scared to deal with that. I should though, so I guess I should just suck it up. Maybe it would be a good way to do as this Nona said >>121516

I remember this time when my younger brother was trying to start a fight with my second oldest brother and after catching him, threw him through a fence. My brothers remember these kinds of events fondly, but that sort of stupid moid stuff always scared me. I think it’s because they didn’t have a mother figure and they communicate very physically. I had a dream last night where I knocked on my eldest brother's door and my second oldest picked me up and throw me into a china cabinet. He would never, but I think subconsciously am really nervous about this situation.

They like lasagna. "A way to a man's heart is through his stomach", right? Couldn't hurt.

Anonymous 121568

>>121567
I’ll head over tomorrow. I’ll give you nonas updates as to whether I’m thrown out a window or I’m actually useful.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 120288[Reply]

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Anonymous 121520

>>120462
Why no sex?

Is he repuslive, or are you just past that age where your libido is high?

You should talk about this sort of stuff with him and let him know you dont have a sex drive as high, or if you dont like him physically you can straight up tell him that you'd be more attracted if he lost weight/took better care of himself and he'll change for the better. Only do this if you're good with words though, make sure it doesnt come off as rude!!

Anonymous 121530

>>121315
You could try creating sockpuppets to advertise your site (unless the posts are hand-checked by mods)

I hate reddit so much it is unreal. One time I posted a joke image which was an altered version of an article obviously edited to be satire and it was removed for "misinformation". 4chin jannies are jocks making six figures in comparison

Anonymous 121531

>>120289
I was a leader in a similar position, I quit after 6 months, I just wasnt having fun wrangling impassionate people.

Anonymous 121559

Reze aesthetic.jpe…

I shouldn't have been born

Anonymous 121560

>>120376
this happened to me and it turns out he found another girl online who lives near him and now they're together so yay. i cope by saying online relationships are fake anyway unless you actually meet the person irl



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How do I feel comfortable wearing makeup? Anonymous 121518[Reply]

I want to start dressing nice and wearing makeup but feel really uncomfortable and out of place doing it. It just feels very wrong even though I'd like to try. I think it's a combination of me being autistic with no social skills and never fitting in especially with other women, not having friends, money or going out growing up so never thinking about my own clothes until adulthood, being very boyish and being horribly bullied and outcasted at my all-girls secondary school so I felt alienated from anything womanly as a whole. Plus I'm pretty childish and retarded personality-wise so there's going to be a clash between the way I would present while dressing up and me naturally being annoying. Most of the time I only wear shirts/trousers because it's masculine/androgynous so it feels natural, I feel like I can be my retarded self and I put no effort in; I'm not very attractive anyway so along with my issues of feeling wrong for acting and dressing feminine, I'm terrified that I'll be mocked for it, like 'why does that ugly bitch think she looks good?', or 'why is that tomboyish autist wearing that?'. I'm far from a model but I don't want to feel ugly. I'd rather not try.

Tried wearing skirts and makeup a few years ago during college at ages 17/18 but felt horrible, I think I rushed into it and should've slowly started dressing nicer rather than coming in all dressed up one day but it still felt so very wrong. I still daydream about getting validated by my secondary school classmates all the time precisely because I felt I was so ugly, so retarded, so below them and so alien; I feel like going out dressed the way I've wanted to since I was a preteen would not only fulfil what I've always wanted to do, but also help fix my need for validation by feeling like I'm at least not autistic enough to only wear graphic tees and maybe even alrigth-looking.

Anonymous 121524

>>121518
Most people are egocentric. That's not inherently a bad thing and it makes a lot of sense - "ego" is Latin for "I" and it would take extra cognitive load to think of things from others' perspectives by default.
What that means is that just as you are focused on yourself, people are too are too busy keeping their heads down and surviving to judge you. Just figure out what you want and do it without apology.

Anonymous 121539

Start with light makeup like tinted lip balm and spf sunscreen/moisturizer and rouge, tinted brow gel. You could try douyin makeup also, it’s youthful looking so I am sure it would go well with your young at heart personality nona

Anonymous 121550

People don’t really care, but as someone who was in your shoes I just gave up on makeup and focused on dressing “nicely” and skincare/haircare instead. Casual but still modest dresses in particular are great if you’re not doing anything active. Low effort to look nice in other people’s eyes and comfy. Just make sure to consider your body type when picking dresses out. Skincare is as simple as just using sunscreen in the morning and a moisturizer at night that you’ve found works. Hair care is just doing things like braiding long hair before sleeping, gently detangling during conditioning starting at the ends, and adjusting how often you shampoo (usually less often unless you have super straight and fine hair). It’s so low effort that it’s hard to feel bad about trying but the results work well. I get complimented on my hair and how I dress fairly often nowadays thanks to the little changes I made and don’t really feel bad about going without makeup anymore. My skin’s better off without it anyway.

Anonymous 121554

If I had the audacity to dress up I would but I've seen a lot of girls in my position with aweful makeup and dress sense. If I cringe at it then I'm sure others would too and I'm not confident that I wouldn't make horrible choices.

Personally, I tried stepping it up just a little, I changed my jeans for Hakama style pants and then started wearing some thin patterned scaves. That made me feel a little more flowy and feminine in public without putting my gangly body on display.

I kept everything a muted palette to stay under the radar.

Maybe just make some baby steps in the direction you're hoping for.



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