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Anonymous 122069[Reply]

Roommate keeps humping and groping me in my sleep and now my dog snaps at me when I try to get her to sleep in my room instead of his. Maybe I am unlovable

Anonymous 122070

>>122069
>male roommate

Anonymous 122072

>>122070
that was never specified, just sayin

Anonymous 122073

Move out

Anonymous 122090

>>122072
It clearly says “his” room



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/rock bottom/ - general Anonymous 76609[Reply]

This thread is for people who have hit rock bottom. Not people who are having a bad day, but people who are living in the depths of despair. Whether you're a nona who is struggling with serious addiction, mental or physical illness that severely precludes your life, constantly feeling suicidal, whether you're being abused, have any other serious life issues or if you are simply unable to function and don't know where else to turn, vent here and let's try to support each other.
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Anonymous 121863

>>121608
Jesus, show some compassion. Just because someone has what you don’t have doesn’t mean they’re not missing something vital in other areas. Obv bait, but I would hate to see anyone even consider this line of thinking.

Anonymous 121931

>>121564
Thirding this, also my life, only smoking weed helps and that makes me even more asocial, what pure mockery

Anonymous 122043

i have no one now

Anonymous 122050

>>122043
idk what to say in support nona but i empathizing too hard to stay quiet

Anonymous 122089

>>120268
fuck you mean by watch a show? she literally has non-meme schizophrenia only meds can help



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Vent Thread Anonymous 120288[Reply]

Previous thread >>117577
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Anonymous 122066

>>121996
Still no response, I think I fucked things up with my one work friend by sharing stuff about my life.

Anonymous 122079

>>122061
I hear you sister, my first abortion was weird but it gets easier. no moid will ever tell me what to do with my body.

Anonymous 122080

I'm really into this dude who's like 12 years older than me. I'm legal but he's a little older. I wish we could date without everyone thinking he's a groomer or that im weird.

Anonymous 122085

>>122080
(Assuming you're 19)
If you're very intelligent, very tall or look old then people would be accepting
Bonus points if he looks young and is very attractive.
If you're five feet tall you're screwed
People are shallow, yes. An obese guy is seen as way creepier than a skinny guy for no rational reason whatsoever

But it's fine really as long as you're not on the spectrum or a dumb dumb, then it is indeed very creepy. If your and his parents are ok with it it's all that matters, NPC's opinions don't matter.

Though it's unlikely that you're a good fit for a healthy relationship, needs to be a really good match for an age gap to work out

Anonymous 122088

>>122080
What would you even have in common with a guy 12 years older than you?



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Anonymous 119969[Reply]

Anyone else just accept the fact that they'll never have a husband and kids? How do you cope?
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Anonymous 121875

I had a relationship with a guy a few years ago and it showed me the depths of my emotional problems, as well as how my "gender non conformity" makes relationships with men very difficult. I've been alone since and, although I do long for companionship and even family, when I try to picture myself in that scenario, it feels ridiculous, almost impossible. I've always wanted children, but find the prospect of motherhood very grim. I guess I cope by reminding myself that I wouldn't be a good parent.

>>121726
I hope you can follow through and end this relationship. If you truly want to have children you should give yourself a chance at it.

Anonymous 121902

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Humans don't breed in captivity, that's our species's last defense against enslavement.

Anonymous 121908

>>121902
it may interest you to know that the japanese have adapted Anne of Green Gables to anime again.

Anonymous 121945

I like moids and babies I just don't have the constitution for a life alongside either one. It does feel hard to survive sometimes so I have decided to read as much as I can to fill out my life

Anonymous 122087

>>121945
what do you read



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Anonymous 120345[Reply]

Does anyone else feel like they are too sensitive for the internet? Like I cant handle being on it for too long lol. I went on 4chan once and was sad at how everyone talked to eachother.
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Anonymous 121932

>>120345
i used to frequent 4chan, but then i took a look at this place and i never want to set foot in there again

tldr; its not you, its 4chan

Anonymous 121935

Nothing on the internet feels like it affects me or is even directed at me.
Instead I feel like I'm too sensitive for social interaction. Knowing people and having them know me in return feels far too intimate and overwhelming, I'm always anxious and insecure because there is so much at stake. The internet protects me from all that. Even if I have to talk to someone 1 to 1 I can hide my face and my life and remove myself from the situation instantly and permanently any time I like.

Anonymous 121949

>>120355
>it's a very small percentage of people on websites like 4chan
hmm, not really, now it's the norm, you easily could see it on twitter or tiktok

Anonymous 122086

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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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Anonymous 122071

>>122068
Myers-Briggs is psuedo-scientific nonsense. Moreover the arbitrary classification of humans along imaginary divides is a precursor to genocide.

Anonymous 122075

>>121825
I dont care if my boyfriend watches porn

Anonymous 122081

>>122064
are you guys ever able to come up with anything else besides “you’re just a jealous psycho woman”? you guys sound exactly like the males you cater to. no surprise though. if calling me that makes you feel better, go right ahead. whatever you need to convince yourself that men (especially men like that) actually care about you.

Anonymous 122083

>>122075
good thing my response wasn’t addressed to you then

Anonymous 122084

>>122064
I wouldn't say her problem is anger, I think she's autistically rational, maybe even mindbroken by the modern beatification of rationality. She should just shame coomers for being disgusting freaks with no impulse control instead of making stuff up about respect or love.
It's ok to hate porn and coomers, dammit.



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Anonymous 122076[Reply]

Anybody else here that really don't care about romance? I like sex but romance is not my thing. As long as I can have sex with the guy I don't care about who he loves etc. I don't wake up or go to bed wishing someone else was here I just go to bed or wake up. I don't hate romance I simply don't long for it. I'm only 19 so it might change.

Anonymous 122078

I feel ya, I kinda miss my college days, fuk'd alotta guys but now that working in an office sleeping with anyone will have dire consequences

Anonymous 122082

>>122078
You get it…



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Anonymous 121977[Reply]

good morning I hate men
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Anonymous 122022

Sometimes I wish there was a planet that only allowed females in and we could all live in harmony

Anonymous 122046

i don’t know how anyone can even tolerate men. they are so disgusting.

Anonymous 122047

>>122021
We need to start with female and I mean female ( so no male children ) only living areas.

Anonymous 122048

>>122047
Time to Gerudomaxx.

Anonymous 122077

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TOTAL MOID DEATH!!!!
TMD TMD TMD



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Anonymous 122053[Reply]

Anyone else sexualize themselves to moids to feel good about themselves? I've been doing it for two years now I hate it but I cant help it being told that I'm loved and I made people feel good makes me not want to stop yet I feel so disappointed in the whore I am

Anonymous 122054

>>122053
>Anyone else like being a whore?
You're the only one, sorry.

Anonymous 122055

Find a real hobby and get validation from your own progress in it.

Anonymous 122065

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>>122053
yeah, go ahead and keep sexualizing yourself, throw away any sense of individuality, just make yourself easier to digest
yes this feeling is felt by all nonas across boards
yes we all do this
yes this is what women have been fighting for

Anonymous 122067

I'd say the issue is mostly in that you're doing it for the sake of men in order to get their validation. If you just like looking good for you, that's mostly alright if not taken to the point of obsessive vanity, but desperately seeking out validation from other people belies a self esteem issue, which you no doubt are cognizant of. Basing yourself worth on beauty, something you just sort of have and don't really develop, as well as something that also has a time limit is not conducive to long term mental health and stability. While it's not as simple as >>122055 might make it sound, finding something to do with your life that isn't based on how others view you will probably make you feel better long term. You don't have to be good at it either you can just do it for your own sake.

Anonymous 122074

Unless and until he is the ultimate and ultimate man idk why you would do all that …and for free?! Putting yourself in danger …are you dumb Nona? Check for mold in your apt



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