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Are men evolving to a sociopathic hivemind? Anonymous 123286[Reply]

This is a genuine question, because I can't fathom any other reasoning. Courting is dead, it's gone. In no particular order the following occurs: love bombing, ghosting, mirroring, hot/cold method. Even my friends who fit the patriarchal male gaze to an absolute T (virgin, quiet, submissive) are getting stepped on. It seems like all or nothing, there is no slow progressional vetting before a clear decision is made. Many other girls around me in my career and academia have given up on the idea of marriage and children. The ones that haven't tend to have a man-child tier boyfriend or they're accepting to be chronically cheated on.

The ideology that women have to be top 1% of females to deserve a male counterpart that doesn't wreck havoc on livelihood and minds is insane. I've talked to many boomers and they agree something is universally wrong; we are no longer just homemakers, but we have the ability to be that and MUCH MUCH more, how are we all fundamentally somehow "never enough" for them?
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Anonymous 124064

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>>123286
>>123306
>>124023

Anonymous 124065

>>124064
"Yes this retarded comic strip will prove my point! I wonder why no woman has ever loved me"

Anonymous 124066

>>124064
Also this is fake you would NOT be interested in anyone who wasn't a virgin you puritan freak

Anonymous 124067

>>124065
>>124066
>Chad might pump and dump me, but YOU point out that Chad pumps and dumps me so that makes you even worse!!!

lmao
Fine, refuse to learn. Keep repeating the same mistakes, and keep getting pumped and dumped in the exact same way.

Anonymous 124068

>>124067
It's not you "pointing out" that makes you a piece of shit. It's how you go after women for being with shitty men when you'd never come close to doing the same thing to a man. Never in your life will you see a guy getting judged for dating a gold digger, she's always the one that gets all the shit. But women get caught in a toxic relationship and don't even think of blaming the actual shitty man for a minute.

>"pump and dump"
You think of women as commodities to be used yet think you belong to the "good men". If you ever kys livestream it so I can have a laugh.


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tech in america in the big 25 Anonymous 124044[Reply]

I hate it
fresh outta HS
Tech careers look screwed
Dream job is ruined cause of market oversaturation
Years of fucking code experience wasted cause of AI, though ig I have some experience with major AI corpos too
I don't wanna apply to a CS major and murder myself financially
I hate everything else
What do I do

I'm not a regular here sorry

Anonymous 124048

I don't know what kinda jobs the AI took for you, but in the companies I see there's barely any competent workers to go around, most people can't do shit and are just good at marketing themselves.

Anonymous 124059

have u considered going to college? idk what ur options are as being just out to hs. also, have u considered working in ai? it's a hot thing rn

Anonymous 124063

i would probably suggest going to a community college and getting a cs degree from there. having lots of experience should also be helpful for you in finding a job! people are worried about AI, but tbh it's not as impactful on CS as people think it's gonna be.


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I am pregnant Anonymous 122619[Reply]

I found out a week ago that I am pregnant.
I am married, have been for 2 months to my husband who I have been with for 3.5 years now.
I am scared.
Right now I am the sole breadwinner of the house and I don't even make that much money. Enough for bills but hardly enough for anything else and slowly have been draining my savings.
He doesn't work. He had a good paying job but left it to pursue school 6 months ago. And what he is in school for I honestly don't think he has a future in.
Other than the financial struggles, neither of us are ready to be parents.
I think I could handle being a Mom, but I do not want to be a Mom. I am not ready for a lifetime commitment yet. I wanted to enjoy being newleyweds longer.
He is not ready to be a Dad. Emotionally immature.
The reality is slowly dawning on me on how hard this will be for us and I am really distraught. We are broke and I am married to a man who literally cannot handle fatherhood. I am terrified.
At first I thought I would be excited for a baby but I am more scared, mostly because of ny husband being unprepared. I know he couldnt support us but I know one of us will have to stay home with baby all day.
I just dont know what to do.
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>>123573
I guess maybe he's trying to slide a thread or just bury recent threads in general lol

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>>122986
Do this and you will throw your whole life away, this is a lonely witch whispering to you becuase she has no remorse and wishes doom upon others. Under no case should you abort the child, killing off the potential life which you yourself created with full conscience will eat you up, it's murder, and people who've lived through much worse still had the fortitude to raise kids…

Anonymous 123777

>>123566
You can get in the mail sex tests for your baby btw, you don't need to wait until the second trimester anymore

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>>122619
Nona it's been a month what happened?

Anonymous 124061

>>122619
if u do choose to have the baby, can you possibly move in with his parents or your parents? this way, ur expenses with be less and it wouldn't be too much on you.

at the end of the day, what's done is done so don't beat urself up too much for who you chose to marry. working and going to school at the same time is hard, but it is an option and ur husband will have to look into it. there also other expenses you guys will have to prepare for during pregnancy and after the baby arrives.

good luck <3


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Anonymous 122099[Reply]

My boyfriend possibly has a fetish for maids. What should I do? Should I be worried about this?
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>>122745
LOL nona is just unlucky and straight

Anonymous 122749

>>122745
Rude >:(

Anonymous 122764

>>122738
>>122745
>>122747
acechads just can't stop winning

Anonymous 123578

Ghost him before he hurts you

Anonymous 124058

IDK do it with him dressed as a maid once and a while?
Like not everything is some Freudian thing nona. Sometime a fetish is just, you know, a fetish. Like this really isn't a warning sign in it of itself. Maybe he wants to treat you like shit or maybe he just things girls look good in that kind of outfit. It really means nothing without context.
If you do go though with it have him do something for you as a trade. It doesn't have to be inherently sexual but if you do have any weird thing you always wanted to try use this as an opportunity to make him do it.


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Anonymous 123633[Reply]

ithink my boyfriend is starting to actually hate me. it seems like he goes out of his way to do, say, or show me things he knows will hurt me. and he just doesn’t care. he doesn’t listen to me at all. he also just hasn’t been as kind, gentle, or considerate with me lately. i honestly think he’s just given up on me. i want to cry it hurts so bad.
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Anonymous 123690

>>123689
same nona. OP needs to get her revenge. I would make him cry to have me back and still dump him.

Anonymous 123693

>>123690
I don't even think it's a question of revenge, but that if he doesn't want this relationship anymore, he should honor what he has in his pants and be man enough to say what's really going on, and not treat the girl like trash like that and make her suffer.

Anonymous 123695

>>123693
This is how a lot of moids act nona. They silent breakup so we have to break up with them and they feel ok. Moids today are disgusting and have zero sense of accountability. When this happened to me I wrote a really long letter and broke up with him and then he kept apologizing like a madman. I didn't take him back and now I am with a much better moid who does treat me like a human being.

Women need to stop wasting their time with these moids who play games.

Anonymous 123696

What kind of things does he do that would constitute abuse nona? You should keep a tally and confront him about it.

Anonymous 124057

Men do this all the time. When they dislike their s/o they'll just start torturing her with no remorse. I wish a lot of suffering upon him, maybe you could do it. Why don't you drug him or something?


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I feel like im wasting my youth because I'm only getting uglier now Anonymous 123706[Reply]

I've been self conscious about my unattractive features for years now but recently I've started looking even uglier as im starting to notice my eyebags and forming smile lines and even eyebrow lines, I look so ugly I look older than I am and genuinely look like a moid and I hate being like this and I dont think anyone can convince me otherwise. I just wish I could be beautiful forever and never have to worry about aging. People told me that I would look better by now but I'm only getting uglier. I don't want to die like this, spending my whole life being ugly. What do I do about this? Do I just suck it up?
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Anonymous 123809

>>123808
Kek, I understand what's going on way deeper than you do, keep insulting me though to keep the illusion that you are smarter than everyone else. You won't manifest me being clueless just because you love deluding yourself with random assumptions, which you would discard if you actually questioned yourself.

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>>123810
You mean it's not me responding in kind after you tried putting me down for not 100% aligning with your opinion? Made you behave pretty humbled so seems like it worked to me.

Anonymous 123813

>>123812
Notice how when I'm not insulting you again you are assuming all kinds of retarded bullshit again. This is where manifesting, aka delusion marketed by unironic con artists like Napoleon Bonaparte and Andrew Jackson Davis to swindle retards like you out of your money, gets you.

Anonymous 123817

>>123815
>you are not ugly, you let yourself be manufactured into something you have yet to take a good look at.
Finally, something that's nice and I actually agree with. :) Isn't this much more productive without trying to tell other people they don't question anything in their lives?

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I feel similarly cause I'm at the "peak" of my youth and I look like this. Feels bad to think that this is the best I'll ever look.


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Anonymous 124041[Reply]

What does it feel like to cuddle with someone you truly care about?
Without it just being about sex?

Anonymous 124043

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>>124041
To me it feels like a calm restfulness that you can't really capture with just a nap, or meditation.

Anonymous 124053

safe and warm and content and connected


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Vent Thread Anonymous 120288[Reply]

Previous thread >>117577
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>>123705
I mentioned the name thing because she will definitely push for naming your child after the girl whenever you get pregnant. Don't let her win

Anonymous 123755

im really scared i might be going through some sort of psychosis right now. would i b asking this if i was? im really paranoid

Anonymous 123756

I need to see public freakouts ohhh my god…. Only to cure my lethargy…. These clubbers dont need it for anything I HAVE THINGS TO DO

Anonymous 123757

>>123755
whats going on?
I think you may not necessarily be experiencing full blown psychosis, but some psychosis adjacent symptoms. Dissociation for one.

Anonymous 124051

I don't want to go home.


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Dating Apps/Websites vs Bi and Lesbian women. Anonymous 124050[Reply]

Let's ignore the trans-identified men for a second… anyone else notices that bi/lesbian women don't really notice you on dating websites, anyway?

Is there a reason behind this??

Or is this really just a "me" issue and something I will just have to accept.

Like, there are women there, but they never reach out to me.

Well, there was ONE but that went nowhere because I was insecure at the time… but that was after my eleventh time on some kind of dating website.

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