>>314406
ty nonita. that makes sense with them not being threatened that im not in a group. i kinda suspect that my androgynous appearance contributes(no makeup, deep unmasked monotone voice, flat chest, kinda masculine face) ive gotten mistaken as mtf before lmao. what you said about most people not clicking is really true. Do you also not get invited to stuff/you’re the one being invited? Ive stopped putting in energy when things no longer feel reciprocal/they don’t click with me. Appreciate the advice

>>314407
>Do you also not get invited to stuff/you’re the one being invited?
not usually, but when I do get "invited" I always get some sense that something is not right and I'm just performing or tolerating them. like idc if you don't get me but want to hang out it feels kinda like mockery. I prefer doing the inviting instead.

Glad it helped.

Also I want to add a bit advice just in general - there will be people who seem to kinda "connect", but in reality it's some weird mimicry because they project some image onto you that seems cool and want to own you like a social pet or smth. There will be people motivated to fawn but in reality they don't understand you and are unreliable, because they're motivated by social points and see you as social capital. It's fucking bizzare but it can happen. I wouldn't say you have to avoid these necessarily, it isn't inherently bad, but I feel like it can benefit you to know about this fake type of connection. I think men are probably more motivated to do that but generally it can happen from women too.

>>314408
yeah i get why you’d not want to be invited, i would get suspicious as well that they’d want me to “perform”. I can see what you’re saying about the mimicry part too, that’s kinda happened before with friends seeming to idealize me. you ever feel also kinda cursed/chosen in a way as a true social reject/dissocial lol?

>>314411
>yeah i get why you’d not want to be invited, i would get suspicious as well that they’d want me to “perform”.
I think normalfags perform all the time too but they seem to enjoy it, or at least it doesn't go against their sense of self. I always thought it was stupid for some reason.

>you ever feel also kinda cursed/chosen in a way as a true social reject/dissocial lol?
I used to! I was medically neglected for a while which kept me very aloof and socially stunted due to stress and pain. Now that I'm healthier I have no problem socializing but I realized I just lack the capacity to care about social norms. I love when people readily share their real feelings instead of hiding behind a mask so it's not like I'm completely asocial. This is why I don't enjoy group dynamics probably, they are never frank, unless full of autistics or smth. They always have some sort of checks and balances that keep you from doing whatever you want.

>I can see what you’re saying about the mimicry part too, that’s kinda happened before with friends seeming to idealize me
Do you also feel like it's nice but hollow?

Anyways I enjoyed this chat a lot nona. Thanks and have a nice day/night wherever you are <3

Moved to >>>/feels/126733.

I have to say somewhere I was completely wrong that minimodding was never a ban reason. I genuinely never say it until now and the entire “culture” of lolcow used to be minimodding each so that’s weird, but I was wrong.

>>314246
Full of shotafags and also users there are like the most insufferable part of Lolcow x10

Mods are so retarded, how is mentioning fujos once and not even as the focus "fujosperging"? People call cows like Vivziepop fujos all the fucking time and it never gets redtexted as "fujosperging", the mods are such newfags

>>314403
Perhaps you should just let go and stop obsessing over fujos so much. It's not healthy. The mods of LC are doing you a favour.

>>314403
I visited LC and its like every other post has obnoxious red text underneath over the most pettiest stuff

I love seafood in general so much

>>314337
you can eat raw eggs if you pasteurize them, you can just blanch them in hot water for like a min. Also get like a good free range egg.

>>314340
Why wouldn't "raw milk" be safe, it's just normal milk. Processed milk tastes weird, after growing up at country side i couldn't get used to processed stuff, can't make cheese out of it either. Too bad i can't get normal milk anymore, i hate globalization, butter used to be dirt cheap.

>>314362
Pasteurised milk is gross and offers no nutrition, it just lasts longer on the shelves and is marketed as being safer

every now and then (let's say once a year) I raid the 4chan archives to see whatever people say about my current special interest

>>314357
i never took certified IT work to be a wfh job, the only low-skill wfh jobs that haven’t gone the way of the jeet a decade ago are terrible-sounding sales jobs. like cold-calling all day for insurance companies

>>314357
I'm OP (the other response you got isn't me) I lucked into it, my CV is all over the place and my absolutely insane boss liked that I have a mix of experience with e-commerce and customer service with a focus on difficult clients (I worked for a covid vaccination hotline before and it was hell). I was applying to every bearable seeming wfh job listed on recruiting websites and heard back from a few but this one hired me on the spot during our first call.

It's an email/ticket job working for a tech sales company where I do mostly internal communication between the CEO and repair centers or lawyers and tell him about updates and forward summaries of the cases to our lawyers and send some "we told you what we can do about it, if you don't want any of this then contact us through your lawyers you speak of" emails to customers. It's very flexible and relaxed and pays well. The only downside is my boss. He's a far right aggressive moid who fulfills every single stereotype of a dangerous scrote who will kill someone one day and his temper is extremely volatile and every call is 90% about his personal life and it's a small company with his wife being the HR so we're all at his mercy and whims. But I work 5 hours a day and effectively I only spend an hour of that really working. The rest of the time I dick around or sometimes go run errands.

>>314360
You sound like an insufferable humblebragging bitch. Hope you enjoy your job while most people suffer.

>>314395
I spent my life working first-level with tasks tracked by the second and you get penalised as soon as the tracker goes over your allotted timespan or people would look up the company info and threaten to come rape and stab me. So yeah I'm glad I get to relax a bit if only for a while. I deeply regret not getting a real education. A lot of office jobs are like this but you're not supposed to talk about it because they depend on everyone pretending to be busy and you don't usually get them without certifications. But in the end the truth is that a lot of the job market is luck and connections. I sent hundreds of applications and got lucky one time. Hope you find something good anon.

>>314395
are you accusing her bragging about having a ticket job or a job at all lol

>>314257
I often think about how easy it would be to book a consultation with one of those surgeons and murder them.

>>314262
Every server I join, its trannies in it or they are mentioned. The ones I am in now arent so bad tho, but a lot of servers are slop simply due to how annoying these people in particular are. In regards to music though, the music I like (breakcore/EDM and punk), its straight up INFESTED with tranny nonsense. You cant be punk and a tranny, thats an oxymoron because trannydom is based on consumerism, also how are you gonna tell people to "go out and vote" in a punk community then shame them for being not doing so? As for EDM, I see too many tranny DJs and they are all the worst of the worst when it comes to tranny nonsense, the worst stereotypes all rolled into one. It's revolting. Almost all tranny-made music sounds like shit too, just like most of their art. When it comes to horror, it's even more egregious- they killed online horror communities with their slop and their push toward censorship/virtue signaling which is insane considering these people are into the worst kinks you could think of. At least horror is fiction? I'd respect these people in some way if they just stopped wanting to take away freedom of speech/expression, but no they can't even manage that, not even when it comes to horror.
All of the art people I knew up who were privileged (upper class), they trooned/pooned out and went onto to preach out DEI nonsense, about how much they "care" about homelessness or discrimation, meanwhile they were abusive to actual minorities with no apology on their part. And of course, the only people they seemed to uplift were apart of the same background as them. No patience for anyone who actually gone through something in life, yet they think all their actions and their friends actions are excusable because "muh twans". Catty, performative rejects. Extremely hateful people for no reason considering all their problems in life were their own doing, unlike the people they bash on.

These communities already had a problem with bad actors, but at least they didn't have a victimcard to hide behind where they could get away with policing speech and acting like being a predator isn't bad or is justifiable.
>>314262
Yeah, of course. 100%.

>>313360
It's not 'all', but most of them, especially the troontwt who couldn't stop yap about 'MUH TRANNY RIGHTS' admitted to browse /tttt/ and importing their lingo during a conversation. When they aren't being sperging retard like a 4channer troon, they start begging for acceptance like a reddit troon.

It wouldn't be so bad if they wanted to be ADULT women but they have to make it 100x greasier by dressing like teenage girls or even younger. I had to be around one who wore a hello kitty shirt which was tight as fuck on him because it literally WAS a little girl's clothes on a fully grown man. You could see his chest stubble coming through it.
Shocking nobody, he was caught grooming children. But nobody said anything beforehand because it was a tranny. I think a lot of trannies aren't even trannies at all they just see it as a position to safely rape children from and/or they get a sick kick out of situations where everybody sees right through their bullshit but has to go along with it anyway. Like imagine the emporer's new clothes but he's fully aware of it the whole time, except he's not like a typical flasher, he gets pleasure out of knowing people feel disgusted, offended, or violated by the sight of him however they have a compulsion to act like nothing is wrong, and that's what he enjoys.
The fact that society is having so much trouble drawing a distinction between "normal" trannies and perverts suggests that there isn't one, and everyone knows it. I think the emporer's new clothes is a perfect metaphor for trannies in a lot of ways, but it's a different version of the story where the kid who tells the truth gets beheaded.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YVlypCOjTmY&t=1112s
praying to God LSuperSonicQ doesn't troon out because what the fuck is this lmaoo. Her first name is Alice too.
I watched him before he ever blew up, before lost media as a whole ever blew up. The thought of this dude trooning out is devastating, yet something tells me with his insistence on this character (+his autism lol) that he will. If he does, RIP to his channel and livelihood. I stopped watching Rob's Media after he made a point to defend Chris Tyson's pronouns, saying Chris is just an "ugly woman", and begging people not to misgender him in the comments.
>>314377
>But nobody said anything beforehand because it was a tranny.
Funny how that keeps happening yet we are supposed to act like there are no benefits to coming out as trans and that no oneee would everrrr try to grift in regards to the identity, let alone use it as a way to hide being a predator.

You forgot one, OP: the site is also filled with pedophiles.

https://moonmetropolis.substack.com/p/sir-another-pedophilia-scandal-has

In fact, it's owned by a pedophile:

https://edramatica.com/Null

…who regularly engages in criminal behavior:

https://alameenkarimmerali.substack.com/p/evidence-against-joshua-conner-moon

>>312957
>OnionFarms
lol nope

Josh sux!!!

Mask off moment for Jersh.

There's a thread on some tradcath pro-loli scrote named Tactikal Templar, the guy definitely deserves a thread but it's on 24 page with nearly 500 posts and 80% of it is just kiwiscrotes sperging about religion and racebaiting. Why can they not stay on topic for 5 seconds without having to remind everyone they hate anything that isn't white?

>question for the radfems here

Why would you want the advice of the most bitter, miserable, mentally ill nonas on here? Try seeking advice from the well-adjusted nonas on here instead.

>>314374
that’s only the blackpilled ones though it seems? a lot of radfem nonas seem perfectly fine? im pretty close to a radfem

>>314373
i wouldn't consider myself radfem but i've shared some of their insights in the past and still do now to an extent. ultimately with makeup as well as with other signifiers of feminity you have to decide for yourself how much you're willing to engage with them and to what extent. if you've dealt with body dysmorphia in the past i would maybe suggest against makeup because it could lead to being dependent on it, but if you're doing it for subcultural reasons then it's slightly different. you don't have to be either fully against makeup or support it blindly. in your case i'd suggest you tread carefully, not even for "political" reasons but for body image reasons

>body dysmorphia
That's the thing that caused teenage mutant ninja turtles, right?

>>314380
ty for the insight, I agree a lot.

>>313032
same here

4get is based though

>>313032
I use Brave on my phone because my friend’s military dad makes her use it. I need to get back into Tor but I am bad at using it.

>>312086
>Privacy
For anything privacy related, I like to check out privacy guide's recommendations.
https://www.privacyguides.org/en/search-engines/
https://github.com/pluja/awesome-privacy?tab=readme-ov-file#search-engines
I personally like to use Startpage for its similarity to google, Brave for its AI and DuckDuckGo because you can watch youtube videos on there without having to open youtube.
(I also watch youtube videos via invidious instances https://docs.invidious.io/instances/ or just use peertube at https://joinpeertube.org/browse-content )
I looked a bit into https://docs.searxng.org/ and tried out SearX instances, but the results don't seem as relevant to me compared to other engines' and setting things up would take some work. If I was at a point where I'd need secure privacy to this extent, I'd be using Tor and a different device anyway. For .onion sites, I've used Ahmia at https://ahmia.fi/
>more engines
I've been looking for different search engines myself; my go-to to search for site and program alternatives is this site: https://alternativeto.net/software/google-search/
Now I don't know how privacy focussed they are, but I like to use WolframAlpha for technical searches https://www.wolframalpha.com/ and I recommended https://www.factmonster.com/ to a parent before.
I also use AI search engines like https://www.perplexity.ai/ for random stuff and https://consensus.app/ to loPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>314344
>privacy-focussed AI
That's an oxymoron. They all sell your data.