>>335716
Must be the culture of where you live because that's not really the case where I'm at

After seeing my mom married to my dad it sounds annoying. And most men are annoying. So there you go. I don't get how women get attracted to men in the first place, accept on extremely rare occasions. I mean most of them are bad looking and when they're not their ego makes them ugly.

>>335930
Are they still together?

Yes, but I'm beginning to reject those fantasies.

I'm someone who is always in a relationship, or always has suitors (even when I'm unavailable in one way or another). Actually finding someone to marry is easy. However, the thought of life after marriage is what I'm beginning to find unattractive. Especially if I were to marry a scrote, I just can't shake this feeling that I'll always be unhappy. Now, whether that's because I'll be doing more work than him, I'll be victim of his insecurity (I like to go out and socialize ^_^), or because I'll get cheated on, or even worse, femicide. I just can't stand the thoughts of putting myself in these situations, when I could maintain more peace in my life by remaining single. Because of this, I've noticed myself become more avoidant in relationships.

I'm often making decisions based on the thought, "If I were on my deathbed, would I be happy if I did x?" Oftentimes, I come to the conclusion that I'd die happy if I traveled and partied a lot, more so than if I lived a quiet life being a wife who shrinks her social circle for the comfort of a scrote.

Nevertheless, I still value the closeness of being in a monogamous relationship. I like the exclusivity. I like the loyalty and the trust. I like always having someone to pour into, and support, and surprise with acts of service and kindness. And then I think: maybe I could do all of that with a female roommate, or perhaps I'm just a closeted lesbian.

For now, I don't see the point in getting married (in most cases)! As gay and libtarded as it may sound, marriage historically was a system to maintain the ownership of property. To own a nice house, or a boat, is not only capital, but also a status symbol. It's the same thing to own a woman, and the children she bears.

And for woman, she could not obtain capital independent of her father or a husband. The wealth and property of a family is then passed down to children, and the cycle repeats.

At some point, ((they)) have had to convince women marriage is more about romantic love than it is about the maintenance of and distribution of property to a family. I don't think I'm so blackpilled that I believe all scrotes are incapable of being as heckin wholesome as this fantasy may imply. But, I do think many scrotes do still view marriage as a way to secure property and status. Does that oppose the fantasy?

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No I unironically only ever fantasize about concubinage or being a mistress. I know this sounds stupid, but the way men treat and act in marriage is basically opposite of anything romantic, just a business deal. And the demands are enormous. I'd rather have this neat arrangement in which I am only expected to attend to a man when he is in a good mood and open to interaction and doesnt bother me with household problems. I seriously do not wanna be some mans oneitis it just sounds like bother and trouble

>>335906
Have you heard of boyjail? The idea is that all men should start in prison and earn their way out. Born male? Jail. You can be let out on probabtion is a council of women decides you aren't a creep. But if any woman accuses you of anything then it's life in jail. Forever.

We can pay for it by having the men work for zero pay.

>>335895
All money is imaginary

NVIDIA stock traders getting stonked real bad right now

>>335886
I mean what do you expect him to do? He's a short nerdy asian guy who managed to get into a position of power so women are jumping on his dick. It's probably the first time he's experienced that in his life so he'd obviously go for it especially if his wife isn't throwing it back like she used to. It's something you have to think about in relationships with men. Are you going to fuck him or will some other girl?

>>335927
We expect them to not act like subhumans lacking self control, unable to respect their partners. But, see, we're constantly shown why we shouldn't think of them as ensouled. Having this pressure point of sex that weakens them completely to any form of manipulation sounds pretty robot-ish, like a machine. "Press the button here, sex spy, and he'll lose all his awareness!" Pathetic as fuck, and it's his wife's fault? Putting out doesn't keep them around, they cheat regardless. They're wired for variety.

>>335706
U serious?

>>335750
What, do you think it is?

The idea of being a femcel or making a site for femcels is dumb because it goes one of two ways. Either you end up not being as bad as male incels so the attempts at "getting back" at the moids fails because you're not trying to hurt them nearly as much as they're trying to hurt you or you end up being on their level in which case there's no reason to celebrate because no normal person is going to celebrate there being more pedos in the world and you're just making the problems the male incels cause worse

>>335935
You're of the opinion that being an incel/femcel necessitates being a pedophile?

>>335937
Kinda crazy, since I know of several (or multiple) incels “hag-maxxing,” believing that it will somehow help them get into a relationship. Incels have no standards, unironically.

>>260679
Really is. Can scrotes just leave one corner of the internet alone? They just have to implicate themselves in everything. So self-centered, self-important and unaware.

>>260638
I was agoraphobic as a teenager for years after being hospitalized for attempting to take my life and now I’m just high functioning social anxiety and OCD. I can go to work, uni, and the gym during the day (albeit I do often take breaks to hide and decompress) but at night I can’t go anywhere without a relative bc of this anxiety (I even make my kids talk for me). When my work and uni are closed like during holiday seasons I stay in the house and clean everything over and over again while listening to religious recitations. At work and uni people just leave me alone because it is clear that I have issues socially. I also have PTSD which I guess is the root of all my current diagnoses.

>>260678
No.

I used to stalk moids for years thinking I would find love and it only caused me further mental distress. Fortune found me on a lonely corner of the Internet: I got a ldr bf last year and now I spend all my obsessive energy on him. He is also clingy so he doesn’t mind me messaging him a lot or that I say weird things to him sometimes. We are in love and I am going to move to his country and we are going to live happily ever after.

adhd & chronic depression

>>335583
I’m surprised and also unsuprised that this is the onoy post about lolcor being down.

>>335623
There was a shortlived bunker thread but it was full of the usual spam and was made by that retard who has to post that ugly unkempt scrote everywhere. I don't think it lasted an hour.

>>335623
There was infighting with Rikka but that got deleted

>blue wave hits US midterms
>bunch of baiters in amerifag thread
Glowpost much

When will Lolcow "feminists" realize they talk the same way as the tumblr tranny feminists. "It's never ok to call a woman a pedo but even if she is she's non offending so it's ok. I pinky promise not to touch the kids" sure jan

Non offenders are still scum btw

>>335701
Yuck

>>335701
The nerve for him to get upset when he decieved this woman with dishonesty about his sex, and likely frauded his appearance on the app through angles and filters. The absolute gall is distinctly male
>clocked me
Well, so much for being indistinguishable. They hardly ever pass based on face to face appearance, it's an open secret even for the most understanding members of the public. And if the usual scrutiny from functioning eyes doesn't do the trick first, then the illusion collapses fast thanks to their voice.
>got up and left
What world do these creatures live in where this isn't the guaranteed outcome after trying to date a lesbian when they're not one? How can anyone seriously sustain themselves off of these fantasies. You'll never be a woman loving another woman, this group wants nothing to do with you. If she would've continued into a relationship with him, then she would've been bihet. It's so painfully simple to understand.
>I didn't do anything wrong?
Vile. No respect for lesbians whatsoever, yet he claims to be one. What is with this scrote phenomenon of insisting they are, or truly understand, the things that they hate. Parasites

>>335701
The entitlement

>>335701
I almost puked.

>>335701
Here's hoping his next "date" puts a bullet in his head and leaves him in a dumpster

Discord friendfishers never succeed so most likely just gave up

>>335590
i only just saw this but tell me more about this thread

>>335620
i actually was in contact with him for a while and he seemed genuinely schizophrenic. he got me to talk to him on this telegram-like app and was convinced i was an fbi agent sent to spy on him. he also hated discord and said it spies on you

Yes, I remember that guy. I never watched any of his videos though.

>>335910
It does spy on you but find an app that isn't doing that at this point.
I'm enjoying some of discords privacy changes that people don't know about. Like if you don't opt out your messages in public servers can be searched up online now. I've been keep tracking of my ex since he doesn't know.

>>335815
It's never too late and you're much younger than you think, you've only had a few years of conscious thought really. There's not really a way to be "behind" at 20.
I was extremely internet addicted from my early teens until my early 30s and truly believed I couldn't connect with people in real life. But the people I talk to online exist IRL as well, they're just not all in my city.
I didn't finish school and never got further education or training but I have a stable part-time job that's enough for me, a relationship and pets, and my friends, though I still mostly speak to them online. Do you know what you want to achieve in life? What do you think you're behind in?

>>335863
I honestly dont really have any major, concrete goals (hopefully that doesn’t sound terrible kekek)
I think I would be perfectly content if I could live stably enough on my own, with my pets and maybe a partner.
( I’m a graphic design major atm, about halfway through my degree, but it’s also scary to think about finding a job in my field where id actually make enough money ….)

But all in all I feel the most behind when it comes to relationships w other people. I guess I still have plenty of time to develop them I just feel so discouraged because just about everyone I know IRL around my age just seems way more adjusted, and they have real partners and best friends … I must have severely stunted my social growth or something by spending all my time online instead of trying to make IRL friends or try and get a partner . I guess i’m right now stuck in what u mentioned, about not feeling like I can connect with people IRL. It just seems to get worse and worse with time, too, like I’ll never be able to actually form a close relationship with someone IRL. it just seems so daunting right now

>>335866
What are your interests? Do any of your online hobbies have IRL meetups or conventions? When I think back on it, all my friends that I truly connected with came from the same online circles as I did and I met them via events. So they don't live very close to me but we meet regularly enough even now as adults in our mid-late 30s.

>>335867
I’ve been into anime and mlp for a long time but I dont rlly have any otaku/brony friends. I’ve never rlly spoken to people at conventions before, but I might actually try to socialize next time i go to one, hahah. I wonder if I could meet my internet friends at a con sometime soon, maybe

32, living with parents
Unemployed with an useless STEM degree
Completely lost in life
Getting rejected for even basic entry level jobs like office coordinator (or ghosted)

Abusing children (physically or verbally)

Mostly because I will lose my last bit of sanity if I have to face the fact some family members may actually be bad people.

>>258744

forgiveness…guilt…legal punishment…

these are all just concepts to subjugate and colonize you.

yall are just a bunch of 60 year old christians in the body of 20 to 40 year old christians…

if someone does something to you that you didn't want then that person does not believe in consent. it is simple as that. there are different levels of how non-consensual it was, murder, rape, entrapment, pranks, theft, stalking, whatever. the person doesn't care if you want it and the person believes the end justifies the means and probably when they see violence going on they think that's sexy and their bodyparts get all lubricated or engorged or tingly and you bunch of victims need to understand that this doesn't work.

when you are into consent and the people around you aren't because for example they have a job where they just treat people like objects, then there is never going to be peace with that person. it will never work out.

stop wasting your precious young lives with all these rapists you dummies. get them away from you, you are their fuel.

>>259330
FYI: It is spelled "scot-free", coming from the old english word sceot for a type of tax.

I can forgive any criminal of any crime, so long as I'm not the victim.

It's easy to forgive others for their crimes if you're not the one on the receiving end of them.
I think nothing should be forgiven by the victim. They can learn to forget, to adjust and overcome what happened. But they should not tell the one that harmed them that they're forgiven. Never.