>>313342Did you miss the part about little girls or… ? For many it's legitimately not a choice, because of how they've been conditioned and the way society treats them if they don't conform. Very little girls getting waxed and shaved while they see their male classmates remain the same, the ones who don't getting endlessly bullied and even assaulted. Women losing jobs for being "unprofessional", women in hospitals being treated as mentally unwell and doctos wanting to admit them because not shaving is seen as a sign of craziness and "lack of control", etc. etc. There's real consequences to not conforming, that's why it's really fucking hard to get to that point and encouragement is needed. I've personally been spat on and had men threaten me irl the very, very few times I tried going out with my legs unshaved. At a concert I went to recently, a woman with unshaved legs legit started getting surrounded by people yelling all sorts of disgusting shit at her, her friends had to form a circle around her until they fucked of. It's simply not that easy, it's not about "oh I'm fat and people are gonna be mean :((" it's legit harassment.
The whole point is that men will never understand this social pressure, they will never be punished, treated as crazy, or discriminated for being hairy, but women will, so there's no reason for them to barge into a space that's for women supporting other women. The same could be said about any other issue that you could think "just do it lol" about. It's not about whether or not it's easy, it's about men intruding into places where they don't belong, where they aren't and will never be part of the conversation because it simply doesn't affect them, yet they can't go two seconds without making everything about themselves. A hairy man is the norm, he's not revolutionary, he doesn't have to fear someone attacking him on the street for his hairy legs, so he should fuck off. That was the whole point of this discussion.