>>128825
There's no need to be patronising. And I know, as an American, you're fundamentally incapable of true empathy, but not every small town on Earth is like your picturesque little idyl. I also don't even know where I'd find eggs that expensive over here.

I wasn't having a go at you for liking towns with no career or education options, I was just saying something I prefer about being somewhere people know how contactless payments work. Liking what I like doesn't mean I hate what you like - most people over the age of 18 understand that.

>>128816
I don't live in the midwest, that is why why i said this part of the usa, my own experiences, stop being so hypersensitive, im not going to pillage your small town and send my moids to fuck ur women.

>>128817
Guess where I live, New York? Did I say something which speaks to all ppl? Or was I discussing my own experiences living in one of the most expensive places in America, soemtimes the suburbs are more isolating here, but we also have more isolated parts. I can't afford to live upstate, so i live in a bumfuck suburb, the city is my only get away from some of the most vapid ppl I know. I'm not talking about everyone, I'm taking about myself and my experiences, not everything in the world is to be applied upon everyone. Next time learn subejct pronouns or fuck yourself on an ice pick.

>>128817 Upstate NY is more expensive if anything, lving amongst nature is for the rich here, and the city is also for the rich, but at least I can walk and see shit other than a strip mall for once in my life.

>>128818
Thank you for stating the obvious do they give nobel award's for that out for that, I literally said cities arent perfect, but what there is, I can wager is fine for me. It's fun. I like it. I like the wilderness as well, and visit upstate when I want to experience it. I'm not one note fuckhead like some of you ppl here, I can like both things and see the issues with both things. Nothing is black and white, the city is fun, lively, and enjoyable, it's the thing bolstering ur goddamn economy, so maybe thank it once in a while next time you say shit. thx.

What are your standards for a man?

alive and maybe has a job

run everyday
hit the gym everyday
only eat whole foods
the only sugar you get is from fruits (1 per meal) (AND AN ACTUAL FRUIT LIKE A WHOLE BANANA NOT FAKE BULLSHIT)


win

don't demoralize yourself at all, you can lose weight, get a bf pretty quickly (if you want, you should first love yourself, then get a bf, trust me if you take care of yourself and be happy love will come soon enough) and at 18 you are very young still. It doesn't take that long to revitalize yourself, sometimes even less than a month.

>>128757
i second this. i'm 18 too, you're probably either freshly out of hs or about to graduate. get a part-time job that pays well. go to the gym (or do home workouts if you're self-conscious, calisthenics are great) eat in a deficit, and eat well. you spend money on food only for it to be eaten in ten minutes and later digested into shit, so might as well make that food work for you as much as possible. fiber helps. remember that people who make fun of you (either irl or behind a screen) are the same as you and me, they shit, they fart, and if they're hating on you they probably hate themselves too.

find whatever it takes to get you through the day, even if it's retarded, if it keeps you alive and happy that's all that matters.

fasting is good idea but then also eating zero calorie stuff and not stretching your stomach is

I'm with you, I just graduated high school at 18 and I feel so lost and existentially empty. I dealt with some bullying for my weight and thinking I was ugly no matter what, I still get scared if my shirts are too low cut because I'm that self conscious

Don’t capitulate

i really do love you. i don't understand how you went from loving me to being disinterested at best within a day. my selfish hope is to prove myself to you. i want to marry you one day. you're the only person who has ever even claimed to love me.

remember when i made that chainsawman drawing for you on the wall at the bonfire? remember kissing me for the first time in the cold? it feels like you already forgot but i think of it every day

and i hope that one day my limbs stretch to their limits, my body cracking open with rage, he sees me and is afraid.

This dumb bitch is too much of a wilting violet crybaby to call the bank. Just do it you fucking weakling you'll only be talking to a chatbot anyway. This is why I can't take your suicide threats seriously, your risk-aversion is so pathological you can't even bring yourself to make a phone call. I don't think you'd even kill yourself if you had a button right in front of you that would give you a painless instant death if you pressed it.

look, no one is saying you arent allowed to schizo post in the unsent letters thread, but PLEASE can you keep it all in one post? im so fucking tired of the 45 posts all clearly written by the same person during a manic episode.

Burn every bit of clothing he has, and force him to go and get wearable stuff. Or idk, wash the most crappy stuff “accidentally” with bleach and take him shopping as a date.

So I have good news and bad news. The good news is he's trying to learn about clothing already, so he's already on the right path. The bad news is >>128787 has given you terrible advice, because using trickery, subterfuge and ultimatums to influence your loved ones is a very silly idea. He'll only resent you for forcing him out of his comfort zone.

You could try finding some mensware bloggers, writers, YouTubers, etc. so he can educate himself further. Also it's worth remembering that the men's section of any highstreet clothes retailer is full of badly fitted, uninspiring, and either way-too-on-trend or years behind items. This is why today you can see public wonders, like 40 year old men wearing skinny jeans, or whatever the hell pic related is. He has probably never had any guidence on how to not dress like a 16 year old, and if he tried bringing it up around other men, there's a high chance they'd just call him gay. He's basically learning Chinese without ever having so much as overheard a Chinese person actually speak the language, so it's going to take him a while before he doesn't look like Chris Chan at a disco.

Finally, this sounds really dumb, and I am both that and tired, but watch some earlier Michael Mann films with him. Every man in those films is very well dressed*, and even though the clothes are 30-40 years old, any man wearing them would only look out of place today because his contemporaries are wearing polo shirts with low-rise drain pipe trousers. You could actually employ some trickery here and casually comment on how well dressed the likes of Will Graham are.

*This doesn't apply to The Last of the Mohicans or The Keep, fyi.

>How do you guys deal with people like this?
make them lend me couple bucks and promise ill pay them back though i never will and keep asking them for more and more favors aswell. basically make these fuck niggas my bitches

>I might just be an asshole but
You 100% are. What have you done that's so rebellious and interesting that makes you have a spine compared to these people? You're posting on a loser femcel site. This post is just you sucking your own dick.

>>128811
Oh I'm also not very smart or accomplished, I'm just angry with this one particular idiot.

>>128775
Nowhere in OP was it specified what country's army he joined.

>>128777
doesn’t change anything

>>128775
>>128777

lol he did join the us army, most people from my town do cuz theres nothing better for them here. Also 'muh free college'

You got two options.

Either get neet bucks from your parents and get on that unemployment lifestyle…. or at least get a part time job to fund your interests and get out of your small town. You could also get a full time gig or go to college, but baby steps are better. The last thing you need is to circle through a bunch of degrees because you're trying to find yourself or worse- get a degree only to find out nobody hires people with your degree OR EVEN WORSE THAN THAT you gotta sink money into a masters degree to be taken seriously in the field you choose.

Best of luck adulting Nona!

>>128782
Many countries mandatory conscription for all moids. They'll die either way if war breaks out