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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 125397

OP here, it's been a while. Today started off with my husband in a pissy mood because I slept in. While he was on his computer I offered to take out the trash and go to the laundromat, which he said was selfish of me??

The care manager at the hospital recommendedI give him an ultimatum of accepting help at home or leaving. He refused, of course. I also asked him again to get mental help and he got angry with me.

I'm at the laundromat washing my clothes. I'm not planning on going home tonight, which I told my husband.

Thanks for being here to vent to.

Anonymous 125398

>>125397
just kill him or something

Anonymous 125399

>>125397
This is the first time I'm reading your threads and I can't believe you've been dealing with such a hopeless cause for 5 years. You are wasting your life.

Anonymous 125405

Someone else mentioned it in the first thread but to be clear, this man does not have OCD. He has OCPD which is a personality disorder that makes you insist others follow your rigid and pathological standards of quality, cleanliness, etc. And unlike OCD, people with this personality disorder think their way of living is best. He'll never want to move on from these cleaning rituals, his goal is to make others follow them. You can't look at possible outcomes here through an OCD lens.

People with OCPD often raise OCD children. My guess is OP's brain damage has made her fall into dependency and exacerbated her own susceptibility to developing OCD symptoms herself hence her normalizing the cleaning rituals.

All of this however is beside the point now, the violence is worsening – as it always does in abusive relationships – and she needs to use her last 2 brain cells to get out before she gets killed.

It's dangerous to flirt with leaving by randomly staying overnight elsewhere and so on. Showing you're comfortable with these steps and potentially planning an escape seriously risks you getting killed. When he thinks you're leaving for good he will have nothing left to lose.

Anonymous 125418

>>125397
you see any good movies lately?



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Positivity. Anonymous 116556[Reply]

Share any positive feelings or positive things.

Garden your soul garden.
Every focus is infinite multiverses.
Keep watering the ideas/plants that make you feel the loveliest love


Here’s a thing that has made me feel so good and is important to me:
Thousands of Polska girls and Belarus girls are covering my NorthAmerican city with graffiti. They’ve somehow clearly gotten the idea to all become collectively like a splatoon. It has changed the energy immensely and really improved the omnipresent feminism quality~level vibe. These girls have religions about ancient euro queens and it really shows, lots of ethereal stuff.. I see so many soulful girls are more comfortable loitering around and making anywhere a party! That’s SO important! Sovl
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Anonymous 125295

I don't platform

Anonymous 125296

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>>116556
So.eone horrible was shot today

Anonymous 125297

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Dating someone who loves and appreciates me after getting out of an abusive relationship of 2 years

Anonymous 125300

>>125297
I'm happy for you, nona.

Anonymous 125417

I cleaned out my bookmarks!



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confessions thread 2 Anonymous 63992[Reply]

>>51270 previous bread

I never brush my teeth for the full 2 minutes
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Anonymous 124643

I always heard my Mom calling out "Bonnie" (my recently deceased dog) during the beginning of the 2nd verse of this song.
Idk why, it might be due to a chemical deficiency in my brain, as that same verse puts it, but it has disturbed me for the past 9 years, ngl…

Anonymous 124644

>>107666
So what if you can see
The darkest side of me

Anonymous 125137

>>63992
If this is the worst you have done, you're a saint in disguise.

Anonymous 125141

I wanted to like Ziwe Fumudoh because she's such a boss as far as showbiz goes, well educated and not a nepo baby etc. But holy fk her satire is ass. I've never liked the format of "intentionally uncomfortable interview" because it mirrors regular mundane bullying too closely. Whenever I see her shorts all I can think about are the dumb mean girls who think this is a legitimate interviewer. I just can't wrap my head around publicly embarrassing someone unless you hate them.

Anonymous 125416

Recently I stole like 20 dollars from my dad because I wanted more cash to buy some shit and didn't wanna wait to get more even though I have over a hundred dollars



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288


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I LOVE RAGEBAITING PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET Anonymous 120119[Reply]

I LOVE RAGEBAITING IS SO MUCH FUN LOL. its funnier when they actually fall from the bait and insult me back. I get my daily serotonin from dumb people that believe everything on the internet LOL
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Anonymous 125401

I voted for Donald Trump because the Thousand Year Door remake added a tranny.

I am not joking. This is actually why I voted for Donald Trump.

Anonymous 125403

>>125401
very interesting thank you for contributing to American democracy aiden

Anonymous 125404

>>125401
The forces of Woke went too far that time, thanks for carrying on the fight!

Anonymous 125412

>>125401
11/10 ragebait I nearly fell for it and called you a scrote/tradthot



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bf attracted to other girls Anonymous 123128[Reply]

am i supposed to just accept that every guy is going to be attracted to other girls, even while he’s in a relationship with me? people say it’s normal, but honestly, it really hurts. i wish it didn’t get to me, but it does. my boyfriend always follows hot egirls on social media and sometimes even talks about how hot he finds them, celebs or not. it hurts. and yeah, even when it’s a celebrity, it still stings. i don’t really see a difference between him saying that about a famous girl or some everyday girl. it still makes me feel like shit. i’m struggling to come to terms with this ‘norm’, but it feels like i have to. seems like every guy is like this, and there’s no escaping it. it honestly makes me feel sick. what am i supposed to do?
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Anonymous 125364

He is a whore. Ignore him.

Do not think about him, nona.

You are better than this. We have faith on you, leave that moid.

Anonymous 125384

>>125348
Yea lemme get the the uuhhhhhhh shit that didnt happen

Anonymous 125388

>>125384
I find it really funny when ppl truly believe men like that don’t exist. Men can be absolutely pathetic for you when they’re dating or interested in you. It’s actually not hard to encounter men like this at all

Anonymous 125407

I fear the feelings here are normal on both sides. not cool of him to talk about it in front of you if it hurts you though. You should tell him how it makes you feel to hear him talk about it

Anonymous 125408

>>125388
True, but your story's still made up



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i am getting more autistic as i age Anonymous 121894[Reply]

22yo autistic girl diagnosed at 16. up until last year i never thought anything of it. that it was just some stupid label given by the doctors to label me as difficult and stuck up.
but now it seems my autism diagnosis wasn't actually a lie. i never had friends that i could get along with like other kids since i was 5 until now. people talking hurts my ears. i didn't really like any of my peers, they were always too outgoing and bright for me. they always did unsoliticed physical contact that made me so uncomfortable i ended up not leaving the house for the next few days. for some reason i cannot handle theatre audio systems anymore. i have to wear ear plugs just so i can watch movies on a big screen in film quality. everything sounds too sharp, like nails on a chalkboard. i cannot maintain eye contact with my psychiatrist and my therapist while talking. i talk staring at my hands while i fold and unfold the paper with my queue number on it (i bought a fidget cube so i can stare at my hands doing useless shit for as long as i need, paper degrades too easy). making exaggerated facial expressions like other people has gotten impossible. (people have gotten worried because my face is unmoving while i interact with them)
i feel like myself in high school where i hated everyone because i couldnt understand them for being so excited and so loud. now im in college and i can understand them more due to reading more philosophical/psychological topics on the human mind. but no matter how much i fucking "nerd out" i can never be truly human and day by day i feel more and more detached with humanity.

i'm turning into a sociopath. the more i have to make myself acceptable to society the more i feel like i am disappearing. this sucks. what if i really disappear and when i do have a chance to be a mother to a daughter, my rhetorical daughter will hate me for being so emotionally flat/empty/dead inside?

say that my dreams of raising a daughter better than my parents raised me will never come to anything. it'll hurt and i'll cope with that but, there are some days i feel so detached and not myself i have this slight unease if i murder family. i already hate my parents so i feel like they'll be the victims foremost if i do lose myself. but what i'm scared of is being so far gone. i commit murder in catatonia and get assessed in court in a catatonic state. no longer human, no different than an animal.

chat im going insane and i dont thinPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Anonymous 125219

>i'm turning into a sociopath. the more i have to make myself acceptable to society the more i feel like i am disappearing.
Undiagnosed Autism / ADHD / developmental disorders often lead to personality disorders because living with such conditions in normieland is a traumatic experience in itself. Getting treatment at the right age is important.

Whatever you're feeling is the inevitable response of everything that is happening around you. You're no insane. You're perceiving reality the way you should, but that doesn't mean that it's "morally" right or something.

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>>125219
I think this is put accurately

Anonymous 125267

never seen a more relatable thread. I've been sperged since I was 5, I just remember intense hyperfixations. I'm sorry

Anonymous 125303

>>125209
People like you want to exclude and outcast people lower than you on the social ladder, but eventually you'll outcast all the people lower than you and you'll be at the bottom.

Anonymous 125400

Literally kill yourself so nobody else inherits your autism. At least have a hysterectomy and burn your uterus.



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 125136

>>125098
lol cry moar

Anonymous 125320

>>124875
>My boobs fucking sag at 18, it's worse that they're large as it gives an illusion that my body is short and stocky whenever I'm braless (they look like they sit on my fucking ribcage)
I'm confused. where else would they sit?

Anonymous 125379

Uhg I’m actually ugly
My jaw is too far back and my face is crooked, like I have a squirrel face.
I’ve had sad-looking wrinkles since I was 10 years old, a wide nose with a hump.
A thick mustache and eyebrows, droopy eyes that stick out a little from the side.
My underdeveloped jaw made me look like I had a double chin even when I was skinny.

I was always bullied.
And I always knew I was ugly.

My teeth were crooked but I managed to get braces treatment.

I would never hesitate to get aesthetic treatments. Never.

Anonymous 125395

There was an older guy who slightly paid attention to me at work. Until he saw the night audit girl (she’s as tall as a fucking man). Now I’m just chopped liver I guess. I hope she falls down and bashes her face open. It’s fine tho I work before her and I can leave her all the extra work. Enjoy you dumb bitch

Anonymous 125396

>>125395
How old are we talking? Also, moids don't normally like tall women. If your only problem is being short, I doubt you can relate to the problems shared by other nonas itt.



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Anonymous 125378[Reply]

For a few months I was eating very few calories, and that turned into a whole mess that made me feel and somatize every single emotion to the extreme.
Sure, that was probably one of the triggers, but what really hit me was realizing how much time I was wasting—day after day—just endlessly scrolling for hours with no purpose. Not even the energy to reply to simple messages, let alone hang out with people. All this while I was still trying to keep up with my university classes, hit the gym, learn a language, and cook my “low-calorie” meals.

I ended up feeling completely paralyzed. Everything I once loved was just gone, and I had no interest in anything anymore. My days revolved around chasing dopamine through dumb reels and TikToks. I couldn’t even finish ten seconds of a video before skipping to the next, or saving it to “watch later”—a moment that never came.

I got totally obsessed with how I looked, constantly thinking about how skinny or “good” I looked. Which was stupid, because in the end, all that worrying left me unable to even look at myself in the mirror or on my phone camera.
I felt empty, dumb, my brain completely fried, like life was slipping away inside a virtual world.

And that’s why I’m here—because “normal” social media eats me alive. It feels automatic, something I do out of boredom in dead moments, scrolling endlessly just to avoid making any mental effort. I literally remember saving long texts to read “later” because they demanded too much focus and brain power.

After all this, I finally went to the university’s psychological services. During the interview, they asked me what I thought a “normal person” was. My answer: someone who’s actually present, who can tell what’s happening around them, and doesn’t have thousands of random thoughts or get lost in daydreaming all the time. Their response? ADHD.
I don’t want to take medication—and it’s kind of absurd to think that all of this gets pinned on something like that.

Honestly, I just want to go back to enjoying and learning from the things I used to love. Very few things spark my fried brain now. I don’t push myself to do anything, though I still try to take on longer activities even if I keep falling back into doomscrolling.
You can laugh, but I know a lot of people are going through the same thing right now.
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Anonymous 125389

>>125387
>>125383
I don't scroll slop, but I related to losing productivity in a haze more than a bit.
OP, try programs that lock your devices at time windows like night/morning

Anonymous 125390

>>125378
Im a real noma wtf, I’m just really addicted to doomscrolling and yeah I feel so pathetic cuz I’ve lose half of my life doing this
I guess the situation sounds too stupid so I even sound like 17 years old moid.
Sorry for sounding like a man while venting my phone addiction nona

Anonymous 125392

>>125389
I don't think OP is necessarily pathetic, but the problem is their life has a lot of issues going with it, not something productivity apps will help with. Nona's life is what happens to people who get raised by computers - directionless and too clueless to do anything other than scroooll. Probably lonely too.

Anonymous 125393

>>125392
That’s exactly what I’m trying to say. I know a lot of people have been through the same thing, but this is eating me alive. I feel dead inside, nothing moves my brain or makes me feel anything. I can’t even watch a damn movie or read anymore, I feel completely drained

Anonymous 125394

>>125393
Phone goes into toilet



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