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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 129561

A guy I was crushing last year now started to show interest in me and Im ok with it but I'm not doing anything about it. Sure is fun seeing him try, not being subtle at all how he does things that clearly say "I want you to see me". He's an actor and he's probably addicted to attention, also I think he's in a relationship but I haven't confirmed yet. I'm not doing anything about it because I definitely value my mental health more that I did back then. I'm proud of that

Anonymous 129565

Everytime my stepmother talks to me I can tell she wants to pry information from me because she basically doesn't want me to have a relationship with my dad, much less my dad help me with money problems (not that i need it) but gooodd i hate how she talks to me like i am stupid and i don't get what she is trying to do, even now that i am an adult.

Anonymous 129568

>be me
>have an important presentation in the morning
>wake up in the middle of the night
>can't sleep
>checks phone
>favourite yaoi artist goes to jail due to attempted murder
Sigh. And the horrors persist

Anonymous 129578

Is it abuse to keep a cat in a room most of the day if they're getting the basics taken care of? He's got food, water, an elaborate litter and pee pad setup, a couple toys, two beds, and a window he can look out of. I let him out when I'm home and awake, which unfortunately most days is like 4 hours since I work full time. The cat will not poop in his box and peeing in it is a crapshoot. He steals food given the chance, screams every 20 minutes or so, and fights my other cat. I don't like letting my cats outside, but even if I were to consider that option he can't safely go out without supervision. I don't see an alternative that resolves all the issues I have with him. Removing carpet doesn't solve the issues he has with my other cat or the screaming, plus it's fucking expensive. I don't want to risk him going in and out of shelters until he's either euthanized or left outside to die by rehoming. He's very sweet despite all the behavioral issues and I want him to have a happy and healthy life.

Anonymous 129579

Im in medicine and I regret it so much. I never really cared for medicine, I went here for the job security and because I kinda liked psych, but I really wish I had done something else. Everyone here wanted to be a doctor since they day they were born and they really go above and beyond for classes that arent even graded. Meanwhile they have 0 interesting things going on outside of school. I really feel like a ghost, I just come to every class in silence, go to dorm in silence and count down the days until I get that degree


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Anonymous 129314[Reply]

this is my worst insecurity but i wish i was small. i mean im thin but i feel so tall. i feel like a planet. i want to be cute and dainty and flat chested. i want to be easy to carry and spin around. i wish i wasnt a giant
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Anonymous 129571

>>129569
You are legit dumb if you think men care about the height and health of their offspring. They just want to nut in a woman, a child is just a proof that he had sex, healthy or not.

Anonymous 129572

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>>129571
Men project onto and identify with their hypothetical future children, every child is a potential son to them hence why they get so pissy about abortion ("but you're basically aborting me!!!!")
Anyway, the real counterpoint to OP's womanlet fantasy: picrel.

Anonymous 129573

>>129317
How tf did her bf being a pedophile get brushed over so easily?

Anonymous 129574

>>129573
bc it's unsurprising, most men are pedophiles

Anonymous 129577

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>>129322
>>129324
There are things that should stay within a person's pants.
Whether you trust your partner or not.


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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>>129549
Just a basic ass substitution cipher with each letter corresponding to only one punctuation mark or special character. Which is not secure at all because any random moron (like me) can figure it out, the only difficulty is it's full of typos. E is a divided sign, T is a forward slash, etc. It's still divided by spaces which makes common words extra recognizable.

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>>129553
wait you’re so cool that sounds so hard. where did you see this or can you not reveal it here

Anonymous 129558

>>129557
It's just the reddit account of someone I know personally. If you've ever had a reddit account and value your privacy, you should send an archive removal request to arctic shift ASAP.

Anonymous 129575

you. do. not. get. to. declare. yourself. absolved. you are not forgiven. you have not repented. you have not faced justice or punishment. the only absolution for you is a bullet to the brain. i’m not that merciful. i am going to let you rot of cancer unforgiven and then i get to torture you in hell. you do not get closure and there is no end to this.

Anonymous 129576

It's been a month since I've stopped flushing the toilet. I hope you get the message


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femcel vent Anonymous 129429[Reply]

i hate my life. being below average as a girl is torture. im technically fakecel bc i actually found a man who i like who is an older dilf and he lets me live with him so i get to have sleep in his bed and have sex sometimes so that's nice but has anyone else noticed how when youre below average as a girl people aren't as kind or respectful of you? its like stacys who know how to do makeup and have good genetics have a halo effect and everyone is gentle towards them and stuff but the man i live with he's kinda rough during sex and doesnt seem to care about my feelings much sometimes and then i have 1 friend (my only friend) who is considerably cuter than me and everyone always treats her like her feelings matter and will allow her to cut corners and stuff just to avoid hurting her feelings
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Anonymous 129538

Being an ugly girl is like being dead but you still have to feed yourself and pay taxes.

Anonymous 129554

>>129432
men who fuck you like that literally wouldn’t care if you died in front of them

Anonymous 129555

>>129481
true as fuck
>>129429
Yeah ive noticed this too, People are blatantly rude to you when youre an ugly woman. Especially men. They are literally violent as fuck like gorillas. I hate them and im scared of them. Also nona, the guy youre with sounds like a total pos please have a back up plan in case you have to leave him

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>>129555
shyt sorry I meant to reply to >>129538

Anonymous 129560

I feel like if you are below average and manage to bag a guy, it's still not worth it. He would treat you as a fleshlight at best, not romance to speak of.
Guys would court beautiful women only because they know their worth and are not easy, so that's where eleborate dates, flowers, sweet talks etc come from. As for beautiful women who don't get princess treatment… Girl, love yourself, you deserve better.
Anyway, going back to us uglies. We wouldn't get any courtship or respect because for guys, it's just not worth the effort and reserved only to pretty women, and even then guys will try to be cheap.
Do you want a relationship with a lazy slob who will get you on a single coffee date once and then just crush at your place for drunk sex while never showing you affection? Yes or no? Because that's all you'll get.
I know it because I was desperate enough to try having a relationship and it was the best I was able to get.
If it's okay to you and you have no self-respect, be my guest, go on and date.
But if you are an ugly women without a profound mental illness, please don't try dating, you will be treated worse than your partenered peers, you will compare yourself to other girls who get flowers and gifts, and you will hate yourself even more.


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i have a phobia of female role in sex which makes me dysphoric as fuck and sex repulsed Anonymous 126444[Reply]

anyone else??? i just find the role submissive and humuliating, i dont wanna post it on nsfw board bc i dont wanna see anons talk about wanting to do humiliating sex acts i have a phobia of
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Anonymous 129521

Tie him to the bed and blindfold him.
Now you can do what you want without any pressure. No female role, only your own desires at your own speed. You don't even need penetration.


>>129203
>And surely a guy who goes down on you is acknowledging your dominance and practically worshipping you
Make him deserve you. He show some devotion or he won't feel you.

Anonymous 129524

>>129522
You don't need to be raped to do that, and you won't be getting money unless you extort him out of court.

Anonymous 129539

>>126444
OP, if you are still here I think I can understand.

What you should do is to speak to your BF because you will get over it together or not at all.
Make him understand your problem and try to solve it, if for no other reason because otherwise he will stay dry.

The solution I propose is to have him be the receiving end. There is no need for penetration, play with him and tell him what to do.

If that is not reasuring enough, have him sexualized while you are not. Make him be naked for a full weekend, make him tell you how he value you as a person while you call him a walking dildo. This sort of thing will reasure you that you are not his lesser and that sex is neither humiliating nor submisive.

Anonymous 129547

>>129539
You don't know blackpill-chan? She absolutely does not have a boyfriend kek.

Anonymous 129563

just become ftm at this point


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Anonymous 129404[Reply]

hey so do I just stop texting this guy or

we just met 3 days ago, told him I have a boyfriend (because it came up in conversation) and we chatted a lot cause we have things in common.

I usually never interact with men on purpose but since I have a bf now and this guy looked alternative like me I thought i could make a friend

bleh
just don’t know how to approach this

Anonymous 129405

>>129404
why are you worried about hurting the feelings of some moid who’s acting like a whiny entitled retard. just stop messaging him and befriend a girl. men aren’t your friends

Anonymous 129513

>>129404
>Moid friends
Are you that naive? Maybe its an ego boost talking to a guy thats desperate to have sex with you but thats as far as the friendship will ever go.

Anonymous 129528

This guy is whiny and entitled, nothing positive will come from talking with him. Ignore and dont reply

Anonymous 129559

How did it go, OP?
I'm late but if I recieved that text and did still want to be friends, I'd say something like "there's nothing wrong with a chilled out friendship, don't assume anything less than total intensity means the other person secretly wants to ghost you. if i didn't want to [go to the thing]" I would have just cancelled it directly."
and if I did not want to be friends I would say
"lmao, if that's how you respond when I don't talk to you for a few hours then now I don't want to."


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Anonymous 129533[Reply]

Im so sad I'll never have a someone like Napoleon. Sometimes I read his letters and pretend they're directed to me and it's the only thing that motivates currently. I feel like crying since I'll never have a boyfie like this thats this in love with me obsessively. Why am I always falling in love with fictional/unatainable people? Sorry I know this is cringe as fuck but I just need to vent about this sigh. Im so in love with him

Anonymous 129534

I also always wanted an obsessive bf but after self-reflection i realizedit's because of insecurity and a need for constant ego boosts. Growiing up with not enough attention and care from my parents makes me feel like if someone isn't unhealthily obsessive with me/not love bombing me means it's not love

Anonymous 129535

>>129533
Napoleon usually wrote his letters while doing two or even three things at the same time. might have been geopolitic or diplomacy, or managing a network of spies. I wonder what else he did when writing this one.


>>129534
You do not want somebody who if fighting Austria half of the time as a BF.

Anonymous 129551

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>>129534
ye I think I have this issue too. It definitely comes from insecurity and trust issues. but I still want tbh, I want a bf that will love bomb me permentantly and forever since my parents didn't care about me that much as a child
>>129535
thank you for this fun fact. every time I read about hem I fall more and more in love heehe dkdjdjh. He is my favorite husbando at this moment im thinking of buying a body pillow of him to hump lul


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Anonymous 128629[Reply]

How do people, especially women, have casual sex and one night stands?

I cant have sex without catching feelings. i think this is true for a lot of guys that dont have sex frequently. every time feels important and special.
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Anonymous 129525

It's like any addiction. You start when you are young and dumb.

Anonymous 129526

I didn't have a whole lot of casual sex but I've had a fuckbuddy or two before. I have an avoidant/anxious attachment style, hell, it's taking me a while to actually feel something for the moid I'm with. I always have walls and barriers up because I know I'm going to be left behind and I don't want to get hurt.

Anonymous 129537

I have casual sex because I like sex. I don't like emotions. If you can't have sex with catching feelings, then casual sex isn't for you. That's fine.

Anonymous 129544

>>129537
If you like sex, casual sex isnt for you. You need to get to know each others bodies first, likes and dislikes etc.

Anonymous 129548

I have personal circumstances that prevent me from being able to have a long term relationship but I still want affection. Its not the healthiest but I can squash my feelings easily because I remind myself of the circumstances I’m in and other things that make me unworthy of a relationship. I also don’t have friends and only really interact with people for sex yet I’ve met interesting people this way.


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Jealous of other women Anonymous 129306[Reply]

I’m jealous of other women.
All of them. It feels like every woman in the world has something I don’t. Something I’m missing on a fundamental level. Not just looks. Not just personality. Something deeper. Like they were given a manual on how to exist as a woman and I wasn’t. I don’t measure up. Not in my appearance. Not in how I act. Not in how I talk. I feel like I missed whatever makes someone naturally normal. I feel like a failed version of what I’m supposed to be. Like some kind of glitch. Being around other women makes it worse. I don’t feel like I belong. I feel awkward and wrong, like they can sense that I’m different. I compare myself to every little thing, their confidence, their ease, their femininity, and I always come up short. What makes it worse is that I actually want connection with women. I want female friendships. I want that closeness. But I feel like my jealousy and insecurity just poison it before it can even start. I’m scared I’ll ruin it or that they’ll see through me and confirm what I already believe. That I’m not enough. The only people I really talk to are men, and I’m exhausted by it. Men only end up hurting me. But somehow I feel more comfortable there than with women, even though it’s not healthy for me. I’m just tired of feeling like a failure as a woman. Tired of feeling behind. Tired of feeling like everyone else got something I didn’t.

Anonymous 129313

Femininity is lame, so you're doing something right.
Anyway, connection and closeness is not something so mystical and wonderful. I think if you got what you wanted you'd realise it's just "okay" and you'd be just as fine on your own.

Anonymous 129335

i love you, internet stranger

Anonymous 129356

im really wishing the best for you anon, i have been struggling with deep insecurities for years. all i can say is you have to try getting on the path to healing, it will take time but it will be worth it in the long run. please take care hugs

Anonymous 129541

i struggled with this exact thing nona, and while it can come from a wide variety of places, what is important is understanding that there isn't necessarily one right way to be a woman. for a woman who isn't traditionally feminine like myself, it can feel like there's no place for you. this isn't true. the world is big and you are you, and that is exciting! there's a place for every kind of woman, and being patient with yourself while finding female friends will help open your eyes to this. it will get easier, i promise. take care


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