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Anonymous 130074[Reply]

I am a schizoid woman. I spend most of my time thinking about nebulous stuff in my head and doing solitary activities such as diy stuff, tinkering with computers, trying to make various stuff and all. I do not enjoy talking to other people unless they’re invested in my interests. Usually if I speak with someone I just wait for the conversation to end and for them to go away. I have little clue as to why other people are entertained by what they are. I prefer interactions where I don’t need to adapt to the other persons sense of normal. That’s why I dislike groups and often end up antagonistic towards them unless I have a big presence. I don’t have strong attachments.

That is just who I am.
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Anonymous 130096

>>130088
Don't you find it exhausting? I do, I can have at most likely one or two people I can feel a connection with in general. Multiplayer games sound exhausting

Anonymous 130098

>>130095
I don’t think a lack of emotions makes a person evil. You don’t have much control over how you feel, but you have the choice to act ethically despite it. I think whether one is evil or not is dependent on one’s actions.

>>130096
No, games aren’t hard. In fact it’s too easy to play way more than you should. But I have been constantly playing them since I was a kid, that must be why.

I do also enjoy watching stuff with others, though. In fact I don’t see a point in watching anime unless it’s with someone to talk about with. Which is a bit unusual I guess

Anonymous 130099

>>130098
As in, multiplayer games specifically. I don't get along with most people. Much less many people at once

Anonymous 130100

>>130099
If someone is willing to stay focused on a task without demanding things I don’t care about, I’m gonna get along just fine with them. As long as they don’t get pissed off over every single thing, too.

I think you can just chalk this up to individual differences. Schizoidness is a spectrum like every other construct, something like that.

Anonymous 130101

Also I enjoy games because you can be competitive there. If someone is better than me, I want to become better than them. Others relying on my skills feels good too. So maybe there’s some ego involved.


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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 130065

>>130063
Not everyone is miserable in their everyday life you know. You should probably stop and question why it is you're miserable and how you can address that

Anonymous 130068

>>130066
What a goofy thing to say. Sure everyone just give up modern medicine, modern luxuries like indoor heating, and the easy consumer lifestyle of just being able to buy shit like spoons without having to craft them yourself. Sure just give all that up to…let's see…die in the wilderness. Genius

Anonymous 130070

>>130068
Obviously as a female you can't follow the advice. You need society to survive, but for men they can easily leave society and be much better off.
Society is a waste, it won't give you anything but a hole in the ground. Who the heck cares about medicine? You're gonna die anyway. Stay away from things killing your soul and rising up bitterness in your heart.

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>>130065
wait… you're not ?
>um akshually if you're unhappy, you should consider stoppeeeeng
oh my god it said the thing !
nonas, get a load of this SICK NORMALFAG FUCK

Anonymous 130093

>>130073
If you want attention you can just post that


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Unpopular Opinions Anonymous 129936[Reply]

Share any unpopular opinions you hold here.
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Anonymous 130024

Therapy is useless
I've been to 5 therapists and couldn't find one that was helpful
Tbh I'm in a 3rd world hellhole so maybe nonas from developed countries find it useful

Anonymous 130056

>>130024
nah, therapists are scammers. only normoids with no real problems who are very apt at gaslighting themselves think they're useful, sorry nona

unless you're disabled and they're specialized enough to diagnose you for some kind of social support, but I'm guessing this kind of system doesn't exist in your country

Anonymous 130057

>>130018
Fruits are multi-year plants, vegetables are single-year, so pumpkins are definitely vegetables.

Anonymous 130059

>>130057
Wrong beyond all belief

Anonymous 130071

>>130057
Not what Vintage Story taught me


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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 128628

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I ain't got no panties on
Ain't got no panties on
I ain't got no panties on
On the dancefloor

Anonymous 128636

It took so long to remember just what happened
I was so young and vestal then
You know it hurt me
But I'm breathing so I guess I'm still alive
Even if signs seem to tell me otherwise
Got my hands bound
And my head down and my eyes closed
My throat's wide open

Do unto you now what has been done to me
Do unto you now what has been done

Tool- Prison sex. The latter half of the songs explains how abuse comes full circle, the abused become the abuser. Abuse like this leaves a hole in you that only seems to be filled when you hurt others. But you never truly get your power back.

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Yo, listen up, here's a story
About a little guy that lives in a reddit world
And all day and all night
And everything he sees is just reddit
Like him inside and outside
Reddit his house
With a reddit little window
And a reddit Corvette
And everything is reddit for him
And himself and everybody around
'Cause he ain't got nobody to listen (to listen)

Anonymous 129769

Rubbbin on her back as I suck on her NIPPLE!
Mane dis gal stacked butt cheeks like a HIPPO!
Jimmy crack corn Im gon bust on her LIPPO!
Jimmy in my cup my nig take a SIPPO!
Down by da benz so her cheese gonna FLIPPO!
Left the hotel with a limp like a CRIPPLE!
Pretty like highs and her smile had a DIMPLE!
Make her twat hot like a bust on a PIMPLE!

If you thinking I'm straight then you better think twice
Say you ain't got no cheese then I'm Jekyll and Hyde
'Bout to click on this bitch 'cause she need to learn me
Beat her with my pistol when I thought she burned me
It's the first of the month, you can call me Sambo
I'ma dick this ho down 'cause I like to gamble
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Anonymous 130064

you will never be a woman

cuz a woman has a womb, not a man

you can never be a woman

that's tough for some folks to understand

you will never be a woman

try as you might you look like cher not snow white

and while they take our rights away

you're up at night deciding if you're queer, bi or gay
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i hate being short Anonymous 129782[Reply]

i hate being short no one takes you seriously and peopl talk about how "cute" you are as if thats somethinf good and not extremely infantilizing. my self confidemce would be significantly improved if i was at least 5`6. short bodies look like shit in general, if youre skinny you just end up making yourself look even smaller and more fragile if youre fat your body starts to look all lumpy and your proportions seem off, if youre muscular you just look retarded any type of volume on short bodies ends up looking retarded. you cant win
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Anonymous 129791

6 inch heels for you

Anonymous 129792

>>129791
im gnc + live in a cold area + theyre uncomfortable. i wish i wasnt malnutritioned as a child so id be at least a little taller

Anonymous 129794

I somehow have multiple +180cm friends and family members old and young, they all complain about it and have horrible posture because they're afraid of standing up straight(bent knees, hunched back). They say they're attracting too much attention and younger ones say they get made fun of. They should be glad they're statuesque and you should be glad you're cute.

Anonymous 129795

>>129794
>you should be glad you're cute.
doesnt really match my personality and the traits that i wanna present. wish there was a way to trade

Anonymous 130062

>>129785
> Muscular looks weird, fat looks weird
hard disagree, unless we're talking obese or too muscular/too low fat percentage, n that case it looks off-putting no matter the height


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Anonymous 130046[Reply]

Why should I have to settle for an ugly man just because I'm an ugly woman? I hate ugly men.

Men can impregnate multiple women at once so all women should just be able to share the few actual good looking men.

Anonymous 130055

Why should anyone settle for an ugly female like you?

Anonymous 130060

What does "ugly man" or "ugly woman" even mean?
Disfigured?
Someone that society doesn't like?
Someone that you personally like?
Can't you just love someone because you love them?
If you see someone that isn't seen as "beautiful" by everyone else you won't allow yourself to feel anything?
Unless you feel someone is genuinely repugnant who cares.

Anonymous 130061

Taking care of a baby is a lot, I would rather share the burden with an uggo rather than doing it by myself


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/lg/ - lesbian general Anonymous 108545[Reply]

felt like this should be a thread tbh
what's everyone up to? i'm thinking of downloading tinder again
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Anonymous 130021

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do any of u nonas wanna date ? im 18 yrs and i'll drop my disc. i promise to be good to you

Anonymous 130022

>>130021
Looking for somebody to date on an image board. That's when you know you've hit rock bottom

Anonymous 130023

>>130022
i have. what about it

Anonymous 130027

>>130021
i'm 18 too but happy being single.
although, if you're fine with being email friends that sounds lovely!

Anonymous 130058

>>108559
>femme-leaning
As are most lesbians I know.
You want a girl, not a girl disguised as a boy.
Girls who want that are mostly just disgruntled heteros.


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Anonymous 130028[Reply]

How do you get over body dysmorphia?

>Not feeling pretty enough
>Always feeling too thin or too fat
>Feeling invisible around men
>Trying not to say that looks are everything
>Comparing myself
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Anonymous 130040

>>130039
Well, I dunno. I don’t care about that, for example.
Maybe you should try applying that logic to whatever you’re saying, if you have that self awareness. I don’t know anyone personally who pushes arms up their throat to vomit.

Anonymous 130041

>>130040
That's right, you dunno much at all. It's good I'm here to explain things to you. If you have any more questions feel free to ask me, little girl.

Anonymous 130042

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Garbagemoid’s stupidity is so cute. I guess if he were smarter he wouldn’t wind up picking up others’ trash.

Anonymous 130043

>>130042
I'm not sure what this refers to. But you should probably help your sister OP out, she's going through a tough time and I feel like you haven't really given her much feminine support with your meaningless platitudes about being herself.

Anonymous 130044

>>130043
I’ve already given her the perfect advice of not paying attention to demoralizing content and staying in reality. Seeing how she’s not responding anymore I’m gonna assume that solved her problem in its entirety.


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my bfs porn addiction makes me want to cheat Anonymous 129689[Reply]

my boyfriend’s porn addiction is making me lose my mind. I first found out about it in early August but I keep finding out things he’s lying about. At first he framed it as just watching a random video then closing. Then, I found out he used to pay for OF while we were together. after this, I found out that he was doing this shit the entire time before I found out and he had a twitter account for OF egirls + bought an anime porn game. He first blamed his problem on our relationship issues before I found out he was doing it the whole time.
He said that what I sent him wasn’t “enough to look at” compared to porn despite him literally being overweight with a receding hairline (quickly apologized but still).

After I found out about the OF stuff, I started cheating on him online. I was a very popular cosplayer and used to make lots of money off of my looks, so it feels weird and makes me feel resentful because I feel like he doesn’t admire my looks like this. Flirting with girls/guys online feels like an escape from feeling like I’m ugly + feels like a gotcha. It makes me want to show off my body and for a while I even thought of doing gravure work when I move back to Japan. I feel horrible for doing this. I used to hate male attention, but I feel relief when a cute moid hits on me. it’s like a “atleast someone appreciates my looks”.

He’s been a great partner and has been treating me amazingly since but I still feel this way sometimes and I feel like a horrible person. What should I do? Am I a bad person?
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Anonymous 129770

Do both of yourselves a favor and leave him. If hes lying about porn usage what else is he lying about? cheating is not good either and if youre vernting your frustration that way, why not just cut off the source of it rather than "dealing" with it?

Anonymous 129814

If you're as skinny and pretty as you say you are, then what are you doing dating a balding fat porn addicted, erectile dysfunction having moid? I don't even feel sorry for you at this point because from what you say you apparently have the access to get a much more decent moid who's actually handsome and doesn't jerk off to porn all day. Skinny women should never settle for fat men, they're disgusting, smell bad and have ED. Plus you're in the cosplay community, there are tons of model looking men who are in the cosplay scene. The world is your oyster when you're a skinny woman and you can have access to 90% better looking moids. You're only shooting yourself in the foot.

Anonymous 129914

strawman^strawman type thread

Anonymous 129971

>>129689
men will never give up porn. no matter which moid u get they will always want porn so if youre not ok with it you will never have a moid.

Anonymous 130011

Go to therapy?
Porn addiction is an addiction, you can't stop it by wishful thinking and just saying "no stop that".
Think of it like training a dog, if a dog shits on your carpet or steal food from the kitchen you can yell all you want or even be abusive to the dog… but that's not how you make the dog stop, it needs conditioning and training.
Just talk with him, make him admit he has a problem and look for practical ways to end this addiction, maybe through therapy, taking part in some programs, joining some groups and whatever, he'll be extremely embarrassed but accountability can help dealing with this shit by using this embarrassment as a way to stop doing it.

The real question is if you actually love him or not, because dealing with an addict of any kind is an ordeal.


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