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Unpopular Opinions Anonymous 129936[Reply]

Share any unpopular opinions you hold here.
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Anonymous 130116

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>>129936
I wish men and women were kinder to each other. Casual sex and online dating has killed love and romance and turned us into commodities. I think couples should try just a little harder, and not treat each other as something disposable or break up over meaningless stuff. We've only got one life to live.

Anonymous 130117

>>130116
this isn't an unpopular opinion ngl, especially not on here or any women centric site. not necessarily disagreeing tho

Anonymous 130119

>>130057
What even is this definition? Fruits and veggies are not strict distinctions, so I consider anything that's fruity and worthy on a salad plate as fruit. Else relegated to the veggie-sphere.

Anonymous 130121

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>>130056
>>130024
Man therapy highly depends on what exactly ails you, and differs wildly from person to person, what their environment is, how do they think through stuff etc. Most therapists treat it like a doctor would - read from a book on how to treat it, follow the instructions, ignore the patient's direct response etc. In practice it's more like bending a piece of wood, you gotta know how flexible it is in the first place. A therapist has no idea what you've been through. That outsider perspective should be complemented with proper guidance but most therapists don't do that.

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>>130121
Yeah except most doctors aren't in a field with a replication crisis and dubious scientific efficacy.



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Anonymous 130046[Reply]

Why should I have to settle for an ugly man just because I'm an ugly woman? I hate ugly men.

Men can impregnate multiple women at once so all women should just be able to share the few actual good looking men.

Anonymous 130055

Why should anyone settle for an ugly female like you?

Anonymous 130060

What does "ugly man" or "ugly woman" even mean?
Disfigured?
Someone that society doesn't like?
Someone that you personally like?
Can't you just love someone because you love them?
If you see someone that isn't seen as "beautiful" by everyone else you won't allow yourself to feel anything?
Unless you feel someone is genuinely repugnant who cares.

Anonymous 130061

Taking care of a baby is a lot, I would rather share the burden with an uggo rather than doing it by myself

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>>130061
That's how gorillas do - they share parenting among their troop with females and even the male silverback helps. Gorillas are one of the more involved male parents in nature.

Anonymous 130120

You're probably not ugly. Society gives women self esteem problems, while most men look like naked mole rats by age 30 because they refuse to do a single hair treatment. don't settle.



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Poly & "ethically nonmonogomous" people in dating Anonymous 130104[Reply]

I'm dating in the city, and I've noticed that poly people will just not leave me the fuck alone. It doesn't really matter how clear and polite I make it that I'm not interested in being with multiple people, these people will continue to push you, prod you, try to get you drunk to sleep with you or worse fucking lie to you about it for a long time. It's not even just men, a lot of the times its women, especially bi women pimping themselves out for their boyfriends, even lesbians. These people will make a big stink about how what they're doing is the most humane, down to earth, ethical way to fuck someone even while actively pushing your boundaries, even after straight up hiding this from you to take advantage of you. At this point I'm pretty sure some of them just have a fetish for coercing people into this shit.

I had someone reveal this while fucking me after talking to me for weeks, and I've reached a total breaking point.

This might be too much of a Brooklyn problem, but if you're in any major liberal city I'm sure you could throw a stone and hit any of these creeps. Anyone have any idea wtf is wrong with these people? How do I get them to leave me the fuck alone and go fuck each other instead?

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Anonymous 130106

>>130105
This answer feels really profound, but I'm feeling like the second scientist unable to totally understand it. Nonetheless thank you.

Anonymous 130109

>>130105
Even the birds know city girls are no good. Nature is healing

Anonymous 130113

>>130109
I've encountered these freaks are in the suburbs too. no need to feel so special, sadly.

Anonymous 130115

This is a big simplification but I think it’s natural to reduce people to sex objects when you’re poly. It’s impossible to get invested into so many people at once and usually poly relationships develop pretty quick, worse yet, you’re becoming a sexual object for multiple other people at once. Hell, if monogamous relationships were designed to take care of your offspring long term, what are the modern poly relationships designed for then?

I’m having a hard time explaining this, but I hope the general idea is there.



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Anonymous 130107[Reply]

I'm not sure if my boyfriend cheated on me or not. He tried to meet up with his ex but he hasn't. Didn't? I'm not sure. Everytime I try to talk about it he seems to sigh a little, maybe it's out of shame. I love him so much. He told me he wanted to stay. I'm letting us stay together, but I'm so nervous. I want to trust him again. I'm tired of being a paranoid schizophrenic about this. I love him so much. I don't wanna get hurt again. This is a horrible, no good, bad thing, isn't it? He held me and panicked a whole night with me about it. Oh, geez. Geez, geez, geez.

Anonymous 130108

>He tried to meet up with his ex but he hasn't. Didn't? I'm not sure.
I mean do you have any evidence that he did?

Anonymous 130110

>>130107
If he's thinking about his ex enough to try and meet up, he's 100% thinking about fucking her. I'm not saying you should break up with him but if I were you I would assuming what you're saying is true and he did try to meet up with her. No guy is meeting up with his ex to just talk unless they have kids together or he's trying to fuck.

Anonymous 130111

>>130110
Not defending a moid but how do we know he's thinking about her?? OP what is making you fixate on his ex? It might be healthier to let this relationship go either way if its bringing you so much turmoil.

Anonymous 130112

>>130111
Based on what OP has said I assume he tried to arrange a meetup which means he was thinking about her. Maybe she tried to meetup with him and he agreed before deciding not to. In either case it seems like he intended to cheat

Anonymous 130114

>>130112
Couldn't tell if she just thought he did or something from the "but he hasn't. Didn't?" but maybe i'm just special needs.

>I'm letting us stay together,

I mean, you're not going to listen to us, but just leave. moids are plentiful and most are low quality.



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Anonymous 130074[Reply]

I am a schizoid woman. I spend most of my time thinking about nebulous stuff in my head and doing solitary activities such as diy stuff, tinkering with computers, trying to make various stuff and all. I do not enjoy talking to other people unless they’re invested in my interests. Usually if I speak with someone I just wait for the conversation to end and for them to go away. I have little clue as to why other people are entertained by what they are. I prefer interactions where I don’t need to adapt to the other persons sense of normal. That’s why I dislike groups and often end up antagonistic towards them unless I have a big presence. I don’t have strong attachments.

That is just who I am.
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Anonymous 130096

>>130088
Don't you find it exhausting? I do, I can have at most likely one or two people I can feel a connection with in general. Multiplayer games sound exhausting

Anonymous 130098

>>130095
I don’t think a lack of emotions makes a person evil. You don’t have much control over how you feel, but you have the choice to act ethically despite it. I think whether one is evil or not is dependent on one’s actions.

>>130096
No, games aren’t hard. In fact it’s too easy to play way more than you should. But I have been constantly playing them since I was a kid, that must be why.

I do also enjoy watching stuff with others, though. In fact I don’t see a point in watching anime unless it’s with someone to talk about with. Which is a bit unusual I guess

Anonymous 130099

>>130098
As in, multiplayer games specifically. I don't get along with most people. Much less many people at once

Anonymous 130100

>>130099
If someone is willing to stay focused on a task without demanding things I don’t care about, I’m gonna get along just fine with them. As long as they don’t get pissed off over every single thing, too.

I think you can just chalk this up to individual differences. Schizoidness is a spectrum like every other construct, something like that.

Anonymous 130101

Also I enjoy games because you can be competitive there. If someone is better than me, I want to become better than them. Others relying on my skills feels good too. So maybe there’s some ego involved.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 130065

>>130063
Not everyone is miserable in their everyday life you know. You should probably stop and question why it is you're miserable and how you can address that

Anonymous 130068

>>130066
What a goofy thing to say. Sure everyone just give up modern medicine, modern luxuries like indoor heating, and the easy consumer lifestyle of just being able to buy shit like spoons without having to craft them yourself. Sure just give all that up to…let's see…die in the wilderness. Genius

Anonymous 130070

>>130068
Obviously as a female you can't follow the advice. You need society to survive, but for men they can easily leave society and be much better off.
Society is a waste, it won't give you anything but a hole in the ground. Who the heck cares about medicine? You're gonna die anyway. Stay away from things killing your soul and rising up bitterness in your heart.

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>>130065
wait… you're not ?
>um akshually if you're unhappy, you should consider stoppeeeeng
oh my god it said the thing !
nonas, get a load of this SICK NORMALFAG FUCK

Anonymous 130093

>>130073
If you want attention you can just post that



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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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I ain't got no panties on
Ain't got no panties on
I ain't got no panties on
On the dancefloor

Anonymous 128636

It took so long to remember just what happened
I was so young and vestal then
You know it hurt me
But I'm breathing so I guess I'm still alive
Even if signs seem to tell me otherwise
Got my hands bound
And my head down and my eyes closed
My throat's wide open

Do unto you now what has been done to me
Do unto you now what has been done

Tool- Prison sex. The latter half of the songs explains how abuse comes full circle, the abused become the abuser. Abuse like this leaves a hole in you that only seems to be filled when you hurt others. But you never truly get your power back.

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Yo, listen up, here's a story
About a little guy that lives in a reddit world
And all day and all night
And everything he sees is just reddit
Like him inside and outside
Reddit his house
With a reddit little window
And a reddit Corvette
And everything is reddit for him
And himself and everybody around
'Cause he ain't got nobody to listen (to listen)

Anonymous 129769

Rubbbin on her back as I suck on her NIPPLE!
Mane dis gal stacked butt cheeks like a HIPPO!
Jimmy crack corn Im gon bust on her LIPPO!
Jimmy in my cup my nig take a SIPPO!
Down by da benz so her cheese gonna FLIPPO!
Left the hotel with a limp like a CRIPPLE!
Pretty like highs and her smile had a DIMPLE!
Make her twat hot like a bust on a PIMPLE!

If you thinking I'm straight then you better think twice
Say you ain't got no cheese then I'm Jekyll and Hyde
'Bout to click on this bitch 'cause she need to learn me
Beat her with my pistol when I thought she burned me
It's the first of the month, you can call me Sambo
I'ma dick this ho down 'cause I like to gamble
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Anonymous 130064

you will never be a woman

cuz a woman has a womb, not a man

you can never be a woman

that's tough for some folks to understand

you will never be a woman

try as you might you look like cher not snow white

and while they take our rights away

you're up at night deciding if you're queer, bi or gay
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i hate being short Anonymous 129782[Reply]

i hate being short no one takes you seriously and peopl talk about how "cute" you are as if thats somethinf good and not extremely infantilizing. my self confidemce would be significantly improved if i was at least 5`6. short bodies look like shit in general, if youre skinny you just end up making yourself look even smaller and more fragile if youre fat your body starts to look all lumpy and your proportions seem off, if youre muscular you just look retarded any type of volume on short bodies ends up looking retarded. you cant win
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Anonymous 129791

6 inch heels for you

Anonymous 129792

>>129791
im gnc + live in a cold area + theyre uncomfortable. i wish i wasnt malnutritioned as a child so id be at least a little taller

Anonymous 129794

I somehow have multiple +180cm friends and family members old and young, they all complain about it and have horrible posture because they're afraid of standing up straight(bent knees, hunched back). They say they're attracting too much attention and younger ones say they get made fun of. They should be glad they're statuesque and you should be glad you're cute.

Anonymous 129795

>>129794
>you should be glad you're cute.
doesnt really match my personality and the traits that i wanna present. wish there was a way to trade

Anonymous 130062

>>129785
> Muscular looks weird, fat looks weird
hard disagree, unless we're talking obese or too muscular/too low fat percentage, n that case it looks off-putting no matter the height



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/lg/ - lesbian general Anonymous 108545[Reply]

felt like this should be a thread tbh
what's everyone up to? i'm thinking of downloading tinder again
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Anonymous 130021

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do any of u nonas wanna date ? im 18 yrs and i'll drop my disc. i promise to be good to you

Anonymous 130022

>>130021
Looking for somebody to date on an image board. That's when you know you've hit rock bottom

Anonymous 130023

>>130022
i have. what about it

Anonymous 130027

>>130021
i'm 18 too but happy being single.
although, if you're fine with being email friends that sounds lovely!

Anonymous 130058

>>108559
>femme-leaning
As are most lesbians I know.
You want a girl, not a girl disguised as a boy.
Girls who want that are mostly just disgruntled heteros.



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