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Anonymous 126240[Reply]

So if this is a female version of 4chan, why don't you guys ever discuss race, politics, etc? Do you guys ever have race wars like 4chan? Are kikesses and pajeetas bullied here ?
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Anonymous 126386

>>126240
no, us women can't have an opinion on these matters.

Anonymous 126497

>>126240
No because we aren't retarded like 4chan moids

Anonymous 126827

>>126240
It's always fascinating to me that 4chan is about a million different things, while crystal cafe is almost exclusively about men and dating them. Definitely tells you something about the sexes

Anonymous 126829

>> 126827
4chan is about four things: incels commiserating and affirming each others delusions, incel hobbies, incels desperately attempting to alter their appearance to try to gain female attention, and the rest of it is pictures of naked women and attempts to meet them or get them to contact incels. incel delusions are about lack of female contact. you have exactly three interests: gaming, cosplay and anime. those are all covered here as well as every other female interest. thanks for your time!

Anonymous 126839

>>126243
Ironic how supposedly feminist website says that women have no place in discussing politics.



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 126825

you ruined the rest of my life in one afternoon.

Anonymous 126826

so no i’m not okay. i will never get to know what it’s like to be okay. i will never get back what you stole from me and rub in my face.

Anonymous 126835

"Meet Me In The Woods"

I took a little journey to the unknown,
And I come back changed. I can feel it in my bones.
I fucked with forces that our eyes can't see.
Now the darkness got a hold on me.
Oh, the darkness got a hold on me.

How long, baby, have I been away?
Oh, it feels like ages though you say it's only days.
There ain't language for the things I've seen.
And the truth is stranger than my own worst dreams.
The truth is stranger than in all my dreams.
Oh, the darkness got a hold on me.

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Anonymous 126836

whatever man. what do you expect.

Anonymous 126838

you listened to these songs and felt these things and still said nothing to me? i don’t understand. i really really don’t understand. if you feel bad why didn’t you say that to me.



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Anonymous 126830[Reply]

Nice girls really do finish last. I've been single for a few years and have not talked to any man until recently. I finally approached a guy I thought was cute. We hit it off but I did not know he was crippled. He explained he attempted suicide and shot himself but miraculously survived and now one side of his body is crippled. He ruined his potential over his ex who treated him like shit. And now I'm just here to pick up the pieces I guess since this is all I can get. Damaged, used goods. Fml

Anonymous 126831

not realistic bait

Anonymous 126832

>>126831
I wish this was bait. Unfortunately this is my life.

Anonymous 126833

>>126831
Reality can be stranger than bait. (formerly fiction)

Anonymous 126834

>>126833
He's not completely crippled. Just elbow down on one side and his foot on the same side so he walks with a limp and can't use one of his hands due to nerve damage

Anonymous 126837

>>126834
get him a cyber arm Nona. you're gonna have a cyborg bf



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why does society think women owe each other compliments? Anonymous 126800[Reply]

i hate the expectation that women are supposed to constantly compliment other women. especially on their looks. i’m a straight woman… i don’t view women through physical attraction at all. so complimenting their body or features feels unnatural to me. but if a woman doesn’t do it, people immediately assume she’s envious, insecure and sometimes even anti woman. men never face this. straight men aren’t expected to compliment other men, and when they don’t, no one questions their character or motives. women, meanwhile, are pressured to provide nonstop emotional validation. not complimenting a woman’s appearance doesn’t mean i dislike them. it just means i don’t feel obligated to perform a role society unfairly forces onto women. i don’t find women physically attractive. sorry not sorry.

Anonymous 126828

isn’t it just one of the first signs of being socially well-adjusted to at least attempt a compliment when seeing someone even if you don’t mean it? men aren’t expected to do it because they’re viewed as blunt and blind to social cues (and they generally are). women can read the room and can actually pick up on when someone needs validation or comforting. don’t fight it nano, the discomfort in being forced to compliment is just a reminder that you can emotionally understand someone.



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Ugh short guys... Anonymous 126821[Reply]

There's a gorgeous guy at my local library who genuinely looks like a fucking josei character irl. But he's unbelievably short. Like, literally around 5'4 compared to my 5'7. Such a shame…to have such a pretty and well defined face on the body of a little boy. This world is cruel.


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Sapphic girlies and lesbians Anonymous 125973[Reply]

It's hard out here for feminine woman who likes feminine women. Can I just be totally honest here though, despite the fact that I'm tolerant and have many trans friends, I gotta say I am genuinely starting to have trans fatigue. It's permeated into all walks of life to the point where we can't even have dating apps to ourselves.
It's enough that I have to sort through the usual Justin Beiber clones (as butch women are not my type), all the couples wanting to spring their boyfriend or husband onto you right out the gate, and now we gotta deal with the overwhelming amount of trans "lesbians" who most of which are still just clearly men, big ass men with stubble and balls and it's damn near impossible for lipstick lesbians to even get a fighting chance because these troops will fight tooth and nail to get into every single female only space they can. I'm not interested in dick, you can say it's fucked up that I'm concerned with what's in their pants, but that's a manipulative and almost predatory remark to make when they're fighting for their place to try and get into yours. It also makes it harder to find women when most of them are so far brainwashed you can't discuss this with them either, without them tweaking out and saying but trans women are women, like fuck off. They can exist but can they just accept being the 3d thing and leave women the fuck alone? I'm absolutely allowed care that they have a dick and not want them in my dating pool, they aren't lesbians.
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Anonymous 126048

>>125973
sexual orientation is based on sex, and you can't change your sex no matter what surgery or drugs one does to oneself. there's nothing wrong with you and it's bullshit to feel like you have to explain yourself. i might suggest looking into activities over the apps, like crafting or volunteering. of course you'll run into the ftm girlies, but as sexist as they can be at least they're not rapey like >>125979

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>>125973
It’s not just you. As a fellow fem4fem it’s just made it harder to wade through the muck, and it feels weird to have to relinquish what would be a completely feminine space to the invading sausage party for the social brownie points. A lot of the lesbian scene has been choked up polys trying to pawn their ugly boyfriend on me, or trans with hairy chests. I honestly have more luck in bars than on dating apps now, cause the bullshit you have to sift through just to find regular fem women is getting to be annoying asf.

Anonymous 126249

>sapphic

Anonymous 126813

>>125973
>spring their boyfriend or husband onto you right out the gate how normal is this with millennials and gen z

Anonymous 126820

agree with everything you’re saying here and nona you can date me if you want.i think you could call me futch i like wearing feminine clothes and makeup im just lazy asf but if I was dating a girl I would put more effort into my appearance again



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 126814

>>126805
OK, so most of you are supposed to be man haters, but the end of the day you actually only hate men because they don’t want you which is genuinely very pathetic. Celebrities are actually there to be fond over that is why they are incredibly attractive. They are not normal people that is the whole point. You’re retarded dude. It is absolutely insecurity.
>>126804
It was literally the most nonchalant post. It wasn’t like him shirtless or like anything near that.

Anonymous 126815

>>126805
It is weak to be insecure over celebrities. I could literally care less if he found a celebrity hot as long as he’s not looking up naked photos of her there’s literally no issue. It’s normalized because it is normal. Psychologist literally have stated that having celebrity crushes and incredibly healthy, especially in relationships.

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I missed you everyone. I got scared cause the site was showing error 500. I thought it meant I was being targeted or some schizo shit.

I'm gonna go to bed now

Anonymous 126818

>>126815
I mean, I’ve seen a lot of girls, especially the more arthoe type posting on twitter that they want suck off some celeb while having a boyfriend. Don’t you think that’s unhealthy?
I only posted this because the majority of time I see someone lusting over a celleb is never "aah they are so cute".

Anonymous 126819

>>126818
Yeah well that’s a bit rape-y and a bit much. It was literally just like what I see five minutes before my alarm goes off and it’s him brushing his teeth lol



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Anonymous 126353[Reply]

I'm so tired of those girls on Tiktok who are self labelled 'femcels' . They all are conventionally attractive with boyfriends and most of them self diagnose mental disorders they don't have. It drives me insane
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Anonymous 126656

femcels are not real.

Anonymous 126657

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>tiktok
eww

Anonymous 126667

There's subreddit on reddit called femcelgrippysockjail and average woman in there dates men.

Anonymous 126694

>>126667

/r/femcelgrippysockjail is mostly troons.

Anonymous 126812

>>126353
i havent used instagram in 5 years and there's r9k and looksmaxxing stuff all over my feed wtf



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How do I make friends online Anonymous 126807[Reply]

I'm so fucking lonely help me. I can't use reddit tho because I'm banned. Where do I find friends?!

Anonymous 126808

we're all your friends here nona

Anonymous 126809

>>126807
I'm even willing to share my discord publicly in here and risk moids messaging me just to have someone talk with me

Anonymous 126810

>>126809
There's find a friend thread on /b/ nona, you can share it there.

Anonymous 126811

>>126810
Thanks for telling me, I posted there



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