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Vent thread Anonymous 132763[Reply]

Again we need to vent
Previous Thread >>>/feels/129800
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Anonymous 133349

>>133348
I also used to post nudes on soc underage. When I was 14 I was adding people on soc and got groomed by this 20 year old man. We have spoken on and off over the years but I was so, so in love with this POS who kept using and manipulating me.

I still think about him. I try to add him using common usernames I know he uses on discord but I haven't spoken to him in a year and a half ATP. I don't really even miss him anymore, idk why I do it.

Anonymous 133351

>>133349
I've done similar shit. Not nudes but I did partake in sexual discussions and sent porn on imageboards before I was 18. Mainly on Lolcow where I would talk about kinks on /g/ or post Shayna and her friends' porn. I lurk the you know what site and have a meltdown when I see them constantly posting gore of kids

Anonymous 133352

>>133349
I think I did find his Gmail account that he used to email me with by typing in random letters via the "emails from" tab. I tried sending an email on another account but apparently that email doesn't exist anymore so I'm at a dead end

Anonymous 133364

>have favorite female character
>checks subreddit of said character
>all disgusting ugly ai generated gooner pics of that character
>check another subreddit
>wow this is pretty chill and nice
>find out moderator is a real woman
>the troonlesbian mod of the first subreddit accuses the moderator of the second subreddit to be a male

Ah yes the subreddit with official art and polls is the one moderated by a man not the one that is just goooner bikini ai art 24/7.
What a retard.lmao. I am glad people like him will hero one day.

Anonymous 133366

>>133348
sweetheart u don't miss him you just crave the validation he gave you and bc u were so young it may have felt like love and all these intense feelings but no… and now youre obsessed with having that again and think he's the only way how… hell nah! How long ago was it because i dont know if i believe you being 18+ now… either way i dont really care but pls like quit this. U are worthy of love by an actual human thats ur age. and trust me when you find a good stable love you will feel how different it is. its not about lust or your body and whatever.
i have a bit similar problem where i seek out male validation and am also often checking my exes social media and doing things in the hope they'll reach out to me. but when i really think about it, its not like i would want a relationship or anything with any of them again. its really just about this validation from someone wanting you like that. anyway gl nona


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Be yourself Anonymous 133356[Reply]

just yesterday i discovered im a femcel. Maybe other femcel that sees me thinks im not one of them. Im a socially accepted femcel just because im pretty but honestly ive never had a partner my experience with guys has been so weird that ive never had a boyfriend and ive never even kissed anyone.
i love men and id really like to have my first boyfriend but i dont think we should put men on a pedestal or blame beauty standards for our misery I think we should empower ourselves by using beauty standards to our advantage If you cant beat the enemy you should join it.
Don’t be a ‘Stacy’ or a ‘True Eve’. Be a ‘True Lilith’

Anonymous 133357

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>>133356
Men should be the ones performing beauty for us. Where do they get the gaul to expect us to jump through hoops for them, when they are the ones begging for sex like they're gonna die from loneliness ? How is it we are completely outnumbered by men on dating apps? And they wanna be a 4 or 5 and only accept an 8 or 9 woman? Hahah no they need to make it worth our time

I mean i think everyone has wierd experiences with men… Its just way easier to avoid a ton of the shit that comes with dating. Its too much headache and too easy to be single.

Anonymous 133358

>>133356
Some men are SOOOO stupid I never seen a really handsome man be picky with his taste in women. The only ones who are demanding are old men who like younger girls or stupid guys saying some shit like "goth mommy" and they look like shit

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men do not appreciate all the work that goes into looking beautiful, they just see "pretty girl". look good for yourself, and bring happiness to those who love and care about you. never chase love, but nurture the one that shows genuine care and affection, not just tepid attraction. Good Luck Nona!


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Anonymous 130353[Reply]

What was the hardest part of growing up for you?
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Anonymous 130359

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always feeling different to other children, people constantly misunderstanding me, my emotional needs rarely being met and feeling so out of place and alienated.

Anonymous 130363

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Feeling misunderstood by my family, never outgrowing my middle school awkwardness, not being very good at picking myself up again after big disappointments and rejection, having difficulty imagining a good future for myself that wasn't an impossible fantasy where I was as beautiful as I wanted to be and as loved as I wished I'd been

Anonymous 133297

dealing with neglect and abuse at home only to go to school to get bullied for being "weird" (unkempt because i was neglected) and having teachers either ignore me at best or participate in tormenting me. worst part was seeing how they treated the kids with present and proper parents with kindness and care. believe it or not i didn`t chose to not have the right pencil with me at 7 years old, i`m not doing this to make your teaching harder. but i guess some teachers just like the power and without parents who care about you, who will defend you anyway? we say we care so much about childrens safety as a society but that`s just bullshit.

Anonymous 133341

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finding a reason to keep going

Anonymous 133363

Not killing my children after I got pregnant at 16.


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Anonymous 132401[Reply]

I need to know if loosing your virginity to a moid is really worth it. I'm afraid to be thrown and dispossed like an used tissue after gifting my virginity to someone…should I consider having my first time with another girl?, ¿Do you regret losing your virginity?
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Anonymous 132608

>>132401
Pretty much just regretted it, mostly because the relationship didn't work out and the guy I lost it to wasn't a virgin either. It leaves me bitter knowing I've shared something private with someone who I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with. They'll likely forget about and associate this as one of his many attempts at finding love. I regret being a sensitive trusting faggot and letting my guard down. They weren't that bad of a person. I miss feeling more naive and optimistic about life. I hate the feeling of deja vu of attempting the same thing with someone else, it feels dirty. If none of this bothers you, go ahead.

Anonymous 132616

>>132608
> It leaves me bitter knowing I've shared something private with someone who I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with

You figured it out, no amount of shallow platitudes about ah it's just sex, have fun,
will ever tell what you know now.
I hope you can find your love soon thou, good luck nona.

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my first time was with a girl and i don't regret it, it was her first time too. its better to have a partner who is a bit more experienced than you because they can guide you in a way, but it has to be someone who truly cares about you and isnt using you as a cheap fuck. imo sex with men is very physical while with women its more sensual and beautiful. p.s. cum smells awful and tastes worse

Anonymous 133346

I'm still a virgin but I wanna try sex with a man and a woman just to know for sure if I'm straight bi or gay. I can get horny thinking about certain individuals but how the actual sex is could impact that. Like I used to be more into women when I was younger and got crushes on other girls but then as a teenager I got into gay guy porn and now I prefer men

Anonymous 133362

wtf some of you are insane? You have a precious and vulnerable part of you that should be protected from people that just want to use you like evil men and lesbians who want to be men, even in this thread. it makes me sick. don't listen to this bullshit! girls in this thread are actually saying to throw away your virginity and get your feelings stomped on and get used and accept you are worthless it's just !!!


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what is wrong with me am i normal Anonymous 132022[Reply]

ive been with this guy for 6 months now and i’ve never felt so fucking horrible in my entire life because of him. we were dating but then he ghosted me for 5 days because i hung up a call to talk to my friend real quick. i was literally gonna call him back and that call only last 10 minutes. after that everything went to shit. he was saying he didn’t love me anymore out of no where. i felt like i got stabbed in my heart 5000 times. i begged him not to leave, bawling my fucking eyes out on call. and he did. so now we’ve been talking and flirting but to him we’re not official, to him we’re “just friends” despite how fucking much he flirts with me. the love he gives me doesn’t even feel real now. also i don’t know how to time all of this, its a lot, i’m sorry. but also i think i may have bpd or something i don’t know. it’s like all the littlest things he does makes me feel like shit and then i bawl my eyes out and start cutting myself. whenever he doesn’t wanna call i do that. or when he slightly sounds like he thinks another girl is attractive or something even though he’s not directly saying that. but also he views women in a very object way. because of that i cant really see men the same either. he’s told me whenever he saw a girl that he thought that was hot, talked about the porn he watched. i felt horrible. i loved him so much i didnt even think of any other guys i just thought, “wow this guy is so fucking ugly and boring my boyfriend is so much better” whenever i saw other guys. and he doesn’t even feel that way back. and when i told him about how i felt about it he just brushed it off saying it wasnt a big deal saying all men do that. but anyway, me and him just got into an argument because he promised me to call but he said he didn’t want to and i started crying and cutting myself. he didn’t even comfort me. he never comforts me. i feel like if he did i wouldnt even care that he didn’t wanna call. but its the fact that it’s like wow he just doesn’t give a shit about me. i just blocked him. please tell me am i fucking crazy? am i overreacting? i’m also partially asking this because he thinks i’m crazy.
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Anonymous 132360

>>132323
If she is in love with the facade of a narcisist and is ready to pay the price, let her be in love with what that man pretend to be. The choice belong to her.
I somehow find it beautiful.

Anonymous 132431

you deserve better and you will definitely find better. leave this relationship before it messes you up long term. being alone is hard at first but it's a kind thing to do to yourself over facing abusive bs like this

Anonymous 133233

>>132022
can you give me a tldr version?

Anonymous 133236

>ghosts you for 5 days for talking to a friend
And you think you have BPD? No. You aren't crazy or overreacting. He's manipulated you and doesn't love you. He just wants a woman to walk all over. Never give him another chance.

Anonymous 133361

when you hung up on him to answer your friend he probably saw it as rude but sounds like he internalized it in some way as categorical of your entire personality so he's decided apropos of nothing that you are evil and deserve to be treated horribly as a punishment or form of correction. he probably has a delusional sense of being an instrument of righteousness in an entirely un-self-examined way that leads him to justify treating you badly whenever he decides that your behaviour doesn't match his entirely uncommunicated and likely ill-conceived standards. this cycle of behaviour probably comes as a form of defense mechanism to protect him from his insecurities as the minor discomfort he likely felt at the moment of your slightly rude one-time action was intolerable to him - I presume because he has a massively inflated sense of self worth which causes him to be enraged at the thought of someone 'lesser' than him having the power to cause him pain in any form, no matter how minor. so now he oscillates between his everyday persona and his 'punishment' persona - i.e. between the mask and his truly evil intentions towards you. he means to cause you harm and wants you to suffer so he gaslights you saying his behaviour is the normal way a man should treat a woman (it isn't), and he is intentionally trying to lower your sense of self worth by comparing you openly to other women. I expect he also does this in a thousand myriad other ways which are designed to hurt you and keep you at the low level of self worth so that he can continue to keep you addicted to him. your attention and obsession with him has likely become a source of pleasure to him, fuelling a cycle of misery which will benefit him entirely and destroy you entirely. I am really happy to see you blocked him. don't go back.


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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 133313

>>133312
Any movement is good

Anonymous 133314

>>133296
Dean Withers is so fugly

Anonymous 133335

I really ought to start getting some sort of income or a job
I’m paranoid if I lose my husband aka only breadwinner I’ll get fucked

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gonna try and escape neetdom. hopefully it works this time. wish me luck.

Anonymous 133360

>>133359
good luck have fun


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/lg/ - lesbian general Anonymous 108545[Reply]

felt like this should be a thread tbh
what's everyone up to? i'm thinking of downloading tinder again
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Anonymous 133053

>>133052
subtle brag lol

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obligatory viewing

Anonymous 133274

do you ever wish you were straight?

just been having some depressing thoughts lately.

Anonymous 133342

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i've recently matched with this cute green haired alt girl on tinder. i thought she'd be a great fit since she wrote she likes submissives and i've been lookin to not be the top for once. turns out she is actually bi and into timid twinks and feels bad about domming women since "they're precious and don't deserve that". I don't think she got over her exbf yet tho, despite being broken up for a year now, she keeps mentioning him and all the shitty ways he treated her. I wish she was more affectionate and called me pretty and asked more about me, i want to connect with her but she also is slightly autistic and sometimes comes off as cold. On our second date we went to an ice cream shop, we get in line and i whisper to her that i'll pay for today, and she says she was gonna, i say "lets rock paper scissor for it" she agrees. we both throw scissors, and says "i shouldve known…". she did paper second round and i went scissors again lmao. Shes so cute , and fashionable, and soft and kisses nicely, but i hate that this probably won't be anything more than FWB type situation.

Anonymous 133343

dated a guy for a while and hated kissing him, got back with a girl and i didn't realize how much i missed not getting scratched while making out


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Anonymous 133323[Reply]

What are unique struggles of being a lesbian? As a straight woman who passionately hates men, I always wondered.

Anonymous 133325

This photo makes me want to goon

Anonymous 133329

should be obvious. it's very, very lonely even by everyone else's standards. majority of women are straight, even if you hate men you're still attracted to them and at some point you'll still yap about them in some form.

you deal with all this suffering and for what? to have a smaller dating pool that has the same problems that the hets and bisexuals have because too many women are picking up the same bad habits and traits that moids have.

Anonymous 133332

>>133323
i'm vry feminine and so is my girlfriend– it's lovely and amazing (we're the type that have cute picnics and braid each other's hair)

also, her and i both hate men, but i don't think anyone should date women just bc they hate men… you should LOVE women too

i was vry vry lonely and had never dated until meeting her so i guess that is a big issue…

Anonymous 133336

>>133332
it seems like it's not necessarily about gender but about compatibility, connection, respect and liking each other


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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 132334

>>128474
updates?

Anonymous 133159

hoping op is well

Anonymous 133214

tell us how it's going op

Anonymous 133333

op will stay with this man until he kills her. the end.

Anonymous 133334

Op got tired of making shit up for (you)s


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