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i think my ex is gonna take his life Anonymous 130574[Reply]

i am 20 he is 24 he wanted to break up with me yesterday and i agreed, he then switched up and wanted to get back together and has apologised. i have ignored because he has done this before and i am really worried because he tried to force himself into my house whilst i was sleeping but my mum came to the house and she told him politely to go away so he gave her gifts for me. i did not want to break up with him but he never listens to my boundaries and has done loads of things to break my trust like reaching out to his ex and although ive moved on from certain situations because i am forgiving i have overtime built up resentment against him which is why i agreed to him breaking up. he is extremely emotional and is manipulative/gaslights when he wants to get his own way but i checked his twitter today and he has posted self harm on my tattoo i made of him and all over his arm and he has told me if i broke up with him he woudl take his life and so i am really worried because i still love him but he is destroying me mentally and draining me, the reasonwhy i didnt want to see him is because last time he flipped out he came tomy house and took this £600 mirror we both paid for but it was partially a gift to me and i took it badly as i wanted that mirror for over a year i am so worried for his wellbeing because recently he has completely changed his mentality and i am scared i told him i am worried to see him because i am scared he is going to harm me because he told memany times he could kill me and i believe him because he shares the same mentality of someone that would kill a girl because the girl has broken up with him and i love him a lot so sorry if i am not typing normally i am just really worried for him and for me too and im scared hes going to take his life wether intentional or not because he has done heroinin the past to try and kill himself im so fucking worried man
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Anonymous 130696

>>130574
his life and deaths are absolutely your responsibility. if he threatens suicide, thats a genuine cry for help. he has hurt you before but he definitely will not hurt you again when he has the chance. save this guy.

Anonymous 130712

>>130696
What the fuck are you talking about. This faggot moid needs to get over himself and stop manipulating this poor girl. Did you not read the part where he threatened to kill her before? Handmaids like you should stay quiet.

>>130574
Any updates?

Anonymous 131596

>>130696

Not really, depressive men who kill themselves do it.

Men who tell women about it want something in exchange.

It's about time that if she does what he wants, unless she actually acts like a sane person and contacts a ward or his parents (if possible) to care for the problem. If she acts like if he deserves her time after being, what she described, then she would end up being manipulated if she does as you say. Obviously.

A handmaiden would take the matters as her responsability to care for the emotional needs of man who hurt her, as to feel a person.

A woman as a proper adult, will just contact the proper adults for this situation as a mentally ill man is not acting properly.

Anonymous 131597

Guys I was memeing

Anonymous 131742

>>130574
hey op i hope you are safe.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131738

>>131731
You're stuck in a bygone era. TTS exists and most text in tiktoks is just reiterating what's being said verbally for clarification. There's not a lot of reading going on and even if you read every single thing presented, not many of those would be new words with nuanced meanings being used in ways you haven't seen before. It's largely just conversational vernacular often without proper punctuation.

Anonymous 131739

>>131738
Fair enough. I guess the Internet just gives a more diverse pool of choice for content now. So if you don't want to read you don't ever have to.

Anonymous 131740

>>131739
Like I mentioned before it's not just about diversity. Many algorithms even simple ones will filter out long-winded content because people don't engage with it as easily. I mean this kind of thing is literally a meme on 4chan where somebody will post a picture of a naked women with an irrelevant time wasting question and they'll get 300 replies whereas the much more thoughtful carefully constructed posts will get 2 replies and then archive. It's these algorithms effectively weaponizing human nature to optimize for max time spent on the site. Some algorithms are just more aggressive with their weaponization

Anonymous 131741

>>131731
my nephew and niece are little Ipad kids. THEY DONT EVEN BOTHER WRITING THEIR SEARCHES!!!! all day while I watch them I hear them deadpan into their ipads "Ballerina Cappuccina", "Aiden Ross being jewish", "Sabrina carpenter dead rose emoji pointing emoji"



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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To be a hermit is to be holy.

Anonymous 131005

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my face when I accidentally see people I don't like having a good day

Anonymous 131581

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I rejoined “society” and I started noticing something that hasn’t been here before.

I stopped constantly comparing people to each other. I don’t create mental hierarchies where someone is inferior or superior. I don’t evaluate them by asking “how good would being friends with them make me look?”.

I think I started seeing people as ends unto themselves. It is a strange feeling, as if I am a parent that doesn’t have a favorite child - they’re all just… valuable by themselves.

Somehow this feels very liberating. Weird, huh?

Anonymous 131679

I feel like I'm gradually becoming what I imagined normalfags were like.

Anonymous 131726

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If there's one thing that lowkey sucks about relationships (and having a family in general) it's the fact that you have an obligation to act with some sense of self-preservation, and to not be so insane, retarded and antisocial publically. I mean, as long as you want a good relationship.



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131711

>>131710
I wish

Anonymous 131712

Men can't love you unless you're white

Anonymous 131713

Are you in Russia also

Anonymous 131716

>>131713
No. I just see them around

Anonymous 131723

>>131712
How would you know what men want?



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous 131717

>>131714

>why are you larping as a dark triad personality?


>bullies people to gain status


…. the call is coming from inside the house

Anonymous 131718

>>131717
Wym to gain status. You are assuming that. Status is definitely one of those things I don’t care for. I don’t like people glorifying and justifying the behaviors that had been harmful towards me.

Anonymous 131719

>>131718
1) tf is a vector?

2) what happened?

Anonymous 131720

>>131719
In computer security, an attack vector is a specific path, method, or scenario that can be exploited to break into an IT system, thus compromising its security.
In health and disease transmission, a vector is a living organism that carries and transmits an infectious pathogen to another living organism

Anonymous 131722

>>131720

So nona either broke security protocol or transmitted a disease by bullying someone?

Sounds retarded af



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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 130965

Well it rains and it pours when you're out on your own
If I crash on the couch, can I sleep in my clothes
'Cause I spent the night dancing, I'm drunk I suppose
If it looks like I'm laughing
I'm really just asking to leave this alone
You're in time for the show
You're the one that I need
I'm the one that you loathe
You can watch me corrode
Like a beast in repose
'Cause I love all the poison away with the boys in the band

Anonymous 131038

Sympawny no.4 - in memory of sweet Chubby Cat
Chubby Cat was sweet and playful and the perfect cuddle buddy. With a sprinkle of playful piccolo, a touch of warm strings, and a sweet harmony progression - hopefully, the music sounds just a little bit like him. Rest in peace sweet Chubby Cat

Anonymous 131043

you can go on home, you got what you need
take my heart and put it up on your sleeve
tear it up so they can all sing along
live out your life
i’ll never tell you you're wrong
baby, don't forget, don't forget it's our song
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone
i’ll be the thing that lives in the dream when it's gone

Anonymous 131687

𝒮𝓊𝓃𝒹𝒶𝓎 𝓌𝒶𝓈 𝒶 𝒷𝓇𝒾𝑔𝒽𝓉 𝒹𝒶𝓎 𝓎𝑒𝓈𝓉𝑒𝓇𝒹𝒶𝓎
𝒟𝒶𝓇𝓀 𝒸𝓁𝑜𝓊𝒹 𝒽𝒶𝓈 𝒸𝑜𝓂𝑒 𝒾𝓃𝓉𝑜 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝒶𝓎
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒸𝒶𝓃'𝓉 𝐼 𝒻𝒶𝒸𝑒 𝒾𝓉?
𝒜𝓂 𝐼 𝓉𝑜𝑜 𝒷𝓁𝒾𝓃𝒹 𝓉𝑜 𝓈𝑒𝑒?
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒹𝒾𝒹 𝒽𝑒 𝑔𝑜?
𝒲𝒽𝓎 𝒹𝒾𝒹 𝒽𝑒 𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝓂𝑒?

Anonymous 131688

This Sunday instrumental is goated btw



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I am writing a story Anonymous 131669[Reply]

I am writing a dark fantasy story. I was wondering how do I get people to give me feedback and how do I know if people actually like it? I want to actually be a writer. <3

Anonymous 131670

Well I’m willing to give some feedback though I have no qualifications for that
Maybe a discord for writers?

Anonymous 131671

>>131670
>Maybe a discord for writers?
What if they steal her gems? I wouldn't risk it.

Anonymous 131672

>>131671
She should pick one of those people that never finish their works then



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Anonymous 127510[Reply]

Hi nonas
I really need help
I really like this guy and he really likes me, we spend all of our time together to a downright obsessive degree, and ive never really experienced something like this because i was not very appealing to boys growing up. But now, Im having trouble going forward with him

He is still hung up kn a girl he dated a year and a half ago. Usually this would immediately turn one away from pursuing anything, but he is so tied to my hip that i dont doubt his affections for me. But he does say things that worry me, I fear I cant shape up to this girl that he had a really thrilling romance with, everytime he mentions her I feel like he misses her more and more. He mentions how nice she was to him, and how well they understood eachother, and it is so affectionate. I am so sad, these days, I cry a lot, but he also freaks out if he feels like I’m upset with him or just disappointed with him, I dont doubt he loves me, but i dont think he will ever love me as much as he loves this other girl. I am really autistic and i have troublr understanding other people on a degree like that. They havent spoken in a year but its still like this.

I feel so stupid and dumb and immature, i feel like a failure of a woman, im 22 and I’ve never had a boyfriend, so this is my first time experiencing soemthing like this. Am I desperate? what should I do?
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Anonymous 127561

>>127549
i would never want to be the girl someone loses their virginity to. my fiancé lost his by threatening to break up with his girlfriend. they broke up shortly after. he just wanted to have sex and said she was withholding it from him. thankfully she left him.

Anonymous 127610

>>127561
>Yeah, I love used goods sluts

Anonymous 127611

>>127561
Wait, you're engaged to this asshole? Sounds like you may have some screws loosed.

Anonymous 131583

>>127533
Fuck. I was with a boy just like on the left. Oh my god, i miss him and I fucked up. My heart aches looking at this and it's so stupid.

Anonymous 131646

be egocentric.

Egocentric women always win. When men say women are egocentric they are right, women need to be egocentric to be happy. Else they will never be happy and find happiness.

Being egocentric, in the best amount. Being a narcissy in the way of having basic respect for yourself, and sacrifice a random man if he does not fit your ideal image of a man.

Treat men how they treat you.



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i hate being short Anonymous 129782[Reply]

i hate being short no one takes you seriously and peopl talk about how "cute" you are as if thats somethinf good and not extremely infantilizing. my self confidemce would be significantly improved if i was at least 5`6. short bodies look like shit in general, if youre skinny you just end up making yourself look even smaller and more fragile if youre fat your body starts to look all lumpy and your proportions seem off, if youre muscular you just look retarded any type of volume on short bodies ends up looking retarded. you cant win
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Anonymous 131599

>>130229
Also, less likely to have a heart failure than tall people and wounds heal faster.

Anonymous 131642

True

Anonymous 131643

Women under 5'6 should be castrated sorry

Anonymous 131644

I am 160cm

Anonymous 131645

>>131644
EEEEEEE SHE'S SO CUTE AND TINY I WANNA DIE



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