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Need some help here kind ladies Anonymous 126788[Reply]

I come from a very conservative, backwards ass country where women don't have many rights, and are expected to be highly subservient and covered up. Now I'm going to soon get married away to a girl which my parents have chosen. She will be coming to stay with me in Canada. She has always been pressured by her family and relatives to study all her life, not do any sports, stay covered and be a conservative housewife to a guy like me. Now I personally don't give a fuck about our shitty ass backwards islamic culture myself, and there's nobody here to enforce those rules here in the West, so I would really like her to open up, and be a confident normal woman, for her own good, maybe even get a job if she likes. To that end, I would really like to usher her into martial arts, I kinda want her to train muay thai kickboxing, because I've been doing that for a year now and feel pretty confident because of it, there's a lot of girls in our gym too, so I guess she'll feel safe, and our coach is a legit professional so no untoward incidents towards any females have happened in our gym.
How do I go about this?

Anonymous 126789

If she's so demure and obedient can't you just command her to do it

Anonymous 126790

>>126789
Yeah I suppose I could just tell her to, but I'm not sure if she's that obedient, have interacted very briefly with her. I would really like her to join me in martial arts and then take an interest in it and use it to stay fit and lean

Anonymous 126791

it's not about obedience but her learning skills she never had the opportunity to learn.

ever heard of girls radically changing in a new environment? that's cause they learn the behavior from other girls, or it could be people in general I guess.

some mental issues may mess with this process so keep that in mind. (she'll just need more support)



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 126780

>>126779
meanwhile the moid thinks he probably wasn't tall enough or something

Anonymous 126781

>>126780
Pretty much likely he saw someone better looking doing it and pull so he thinks he must do the same

Anonymous 126782

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>>126751
It scares me that he’s gonna be a dad

Anonymous 126786

>>126780
he probably wasn’t

Anonymous 126792

>>126780
>>126786
Of course he wasn’t, he was a greasy little rat. Even worse, he claimed to be “”pan”” the whole night and talked about attraction to men but only pulled that creep shit on the only two women at the function (my friend and I) I hate when bi/pans think they get a pass to lay their hands on me just cause they think I’m stupid enough to believe they don’t have typical foul male brained intentions. Like look bud, we both know the only reason you claim to be a fudgepacker is cause you can’t get a woman to hit, take your stupid ass black chipped nail polish and stick it up your aids hole rather than put them anywhere near me.



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 126769

genuinely so embarrassed for you. you’re embarrassing.

Anonymous 126774

i actually hate you for making me fall in love and get so attached to you

Anonymous 126775

i hate the weird things you do instead of apologizing to me. you can do all of these things but i’m sorry is beyond you? i hate how when i send a victim impact statement it’s threats but you’re right there when someone is sexually harassing me egging them on. you can do weird indirects and put all this effort into proving literally nothing instead of just saying you’re sorry. you could never fool me. i wish you’d just be honest for once in your life.

Anonymous 126776

i hate being able to see through you. i hate seeing what’s in there.

Anonymous 126787

the only person in love is you with yourself. you’re pathetic and a fucking weirdo for still thinking of me like that.



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Anonymous 126713[Reply]

i fucking hate performative males. i hate them i hate males who pretend to like music and fashion and sanrio and plushies and whatever else they think girls would find them interesting for i literally cannot fucking stand it. none of them have real personalities or interests and they know they will never be fucking interesting so they do this shitty job of copying women. all they're interested in is pretending to be book reading feminists to fuck girls and then immediately going back to being as shitty as they always were.
males are so fucking stupid because none of them can even think for themselves. the only people who are impressed by their perfomative lana del rey listening are their faggot friends lmao
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Anonymous 126770

>>126763
everytime a man complains about being lonely and how awful women are my heart grows ten sizes and i smile like the grinch.

Anonymous 126777

>>126770
based based based nona

Anonymous 126778

>>126777
thank you cos how are men gonna blame all their problems on the gender they are mistreating and then ask us to view them as the victim fix everything for them and for some reason we are expected to be attracted to people like that. and then be submissive and be like yas you’re the boss? nah. they can suffer until they find enlightenment and use it to strengthen their character. or they can perish.

Anonymous 126784

yesterday i matched with a guy on hinge who introduced himself as a misandrist but he unmatched with me after i told him i wasn't gonna split a check with him kek.

performative male final boss.

Anonymous 126785

>>126784
that’s crazy but bullet dodged.



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Anonymous 126758[Reply]

What are the harsh truths of relationships and marriage?

Do men really just give up after the honeymoon phase?

Anonymous 126768

loser men won’t even have a honeymoon period it’s just lovebombing to get what they want. decent men never stop showing up. if he’s bored after a honeymoon period, he’s never going to be happy with anyone ever so don’t even worry about it. those men all end up panic marrying at thirty something and divorcing like two years later. especially if it’s the type of guy with no female friends besides girls he’s trying to nice guy their way into a relationship with. they all end up with the women they wouldn’t even be friends with because they were delusional about their standards and don’t see women as people. as long as you aren’t that girl they’re settling for, don’t ever waste your energy caring. men like that are losers who hate themselves. tell yourself that and wait and see which ones still have hair past their mid twenties and choose from one of those instead. women have infinite options. men do not and have to worry. don’t worry about what men do.

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>>126758
This has always been the case. Even young moids will date older just to get laid. But once they got money and able to attract girls his age or younger, he’ll try and wife them up.
>>126768
Yes even grandmas on tinder will have more options then moids. It’s always the short term but marriage good luck.
But there’s a lot of cope without self reflection. Maybe it wasn’t love bombing. Maybe it’s emotional labour and caretaker burnout then emotionally they check out. He can date someone half his age or twice his age. But it only takes a couple years for a fallout to happen in most relationships. We’re very comfortable with the dating hook up culture where if it’s too stressful suddenly it’s easier to break up then learning to endure or change to adapt to each others needs. But overall you deserve what you pull. Your partner is a reflection of you in some way or form. Do you see each other as human? Are you inheritly selfish and lazy? Did you feel you gave too much with little in reciprocation. Nothing wrong with transactional relationships as it’s more fair vs seeming to be more of a taker in the relationship.
But overall moids that want to marry. They know they have to work harder to get the young girls attention. If he’s dating casually without marriage he won’t care about age nor will he care about making it work as he’ll move on. The young girl he marries he has a lot to lose.



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Why Anonymous 126760[Reply]

Why is everything about being as sexy as possible, getting hot people, being hot and good in bed..why is nobody into being into each other's souls

Anonymous 126761

I know this is obviously not universal but most people into my soul were actually mental, whether as a dependant a narc or a sociopath. Actual love bombing shit. Idk how healthy soul attraction is supposed to look like.
I'm cool with that but I don't think most people would be

Anonymous 126762

>>126761
and not just me too it's like a pervasive pattern with most ppl that I see as well

Anonymous 126773

>>126760
because moids control the world.



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My new friendship ain't working Anonymous 126739[Reply]

For the past half a year I've been trying to make friends online with other like-minded people mostly women. Days ago I met a person but they don't reciprocate my efforts and excitement. I'm so tired of trying.

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>>126739
That's terrible!

Anonymous 126772

it’s only been a few days. breathe.



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How has Lana del Rey influenced you? Anonymous 126670[Reply]

I have a personal theory that listening to Lana turns women into pickmes.
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Anonymous 126715

>>126702
u can do better nona u dont deserve to stay with a horrible male

Anonymous 126716

It's crazy how I never listened to Lana Del Ray even though I knew about the coquette scene back when it was niche. I just thought all the women were attractive lol
Maria and The Diamonds though… She was the goat. Better than Lana and Melanie hands down.
>>126693
Ethal Cain is irrelevant, that's a fucking moid. God I hate that stupid fuck so much. Men literally can't leave women the fuck alone even when it comes to aesthetics/music that is exclusively about womanhood. TTD.

Anonymous 126717

>>126699
if she just masked more she would be so much more successful but she is authentic in a way that i think frightens a lot of people and they struggle to just take her at face value and believe what she says about herself and try to categorize someone who is intentionally having an authentic experience and therefore isn’t trying to flatten herself into one dimensionality and fitting in one neat little box like people want women to be

Anonymous 126755

>>126670
Made me want to go on an alligator tour. Not to meet a guy like she did, just sounds fun.

Anonymous 126771

>>126755
they honestly are super fun because they recognize the boats and come right up to be fed. they’re like polite dinosaurs. when i went on one the guy would have them wait turns even it was crazy.



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How to stop feeling like a subhuman because I'm a woman Anonymous 126636[Reply]

No it's not because of men that I feel this way, neither porn, but I've seen porn and women act like subhumans in it.
My problem is that I see submission as subhuman and female submission in sex is human and natural and sex is the fundamental part of the reality. So it's like we are subhumans in life. I don't hate myself but I hate womanhood.
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Anonymous 126750

some men at the other end feel like subhumans because they think we somehow hold power over them via sex. they even feel like we live in a matriarchy even.
it's however you choose to look at it, weak fags of both genders will find an excuse to agonize over something. it's, in fact, just them (and you, OP) externalizing their shit self esteem onto everyone else while masking it as some sort of infallible truth. when you're saying you think women are subhuman you're really just unable to handle the thought that you just feel like one and can't deal with it.

Anonymous 126753

i agree. very honestly cant think of anything good about being a woman. its always been nothing but pain. when i started puberty my boobs ached all the time. and dealing with men. when i get my period i spend a week throwing up and crying. unless i look presentable at very moment of every day it feels like people dont see my as a person. i dont want to be a man. i want to be free.

Anonymous 126756

i know I will get hate for that, but femininity and masculinity is biological, it's not a social construct. Gender is biological. That's why I reject my biology. I hate my biological femininity and what it entails for us in sex.

Anonymous 126757

I don't feel oppressed by men. I feel oppressed by my biology. Especially in sex.

Anonymous 126759

>>126757
>I don't feel oppressed by men. I feel oppressed by my biology. Especially in sex.

Explain?



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