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i hate dating so much Anonymous 129407[Reply]

i hate these freaking guys who follow only fans twitch streamers or whatever it makes me sick when im talking to a guy and i find out he follows them. Or when a man tells me he has like 15 bodies it just feels like so is that what I am to you? am i another one? what did the other 5 girlfriends do so wrong by you? I know its 90% cause of just my own insecurity but I literally cant stop it. I decided to try and be normal and date but i have never hated myself more. i want to retreat into my body and never face anyone again. I'm so sick of being the pursuer too like just once it would be nice to be pursued. never date nerd guys they all fucking suck. all guys fucking suck. It doesnt help that im not pretty and i have to consciously make the effort to cope and push it to the back of my mind. when im talking to or dating a guy the thought of him looking at another girl makes me physcially sick. I literally feel insane. I feel like im one of those crazy obsssessive ppl. which to be honest i lowkey am. I had a better time single and just watching edits on instagram. its crazy cause ive always been the avoidant type

Anonymous 129408

Why do obsess over people you hate deep down

Anonymous 129409

>>129408
*why do you

Anonymous 129410

>>129408
it doesn’t sound like op hates men at all lol.



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finally had sex with a girl, but i cried after Anonymous 129205[Reply]

i've only been with moids my whole life, but last night i had an opportunity to have sex with a woman and it was very lovely at first, but i realised during it i wasn't really enjoying it, so we stopped.

after i had left her house i just cried so hard.
i never particularly liked having sex with moids, but i thought that was a moid thing.

i think i struggle with having sex with anybody, it just makes me really uncomfortable despite the fact i really enjoy intimacy and the company of others.
i really like to flick my bean, so its not like i have no arousal.. i just dont like having sex with people.

have any other nonas experienced anything similar?
i feel like im in a weird situation because i can't expect a long-term relationship with anyone if the thought of having sex with them terrifies me.
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Anonymous 129263

>>129205
Honestly real. Sex is scary

Anonymous 129280

>>129237
>do you think porn could be the issue?
It definitely is an issue, especially starting at an early age. And masturbation can re wire the brain to only like masturbation and not enjoy normal sex, masturbating to porn got many people into voyeur/cuckshit

>>129239
This

Anonymous 129287

>>129239
This.

Porn has nothing to do with it; maybe even helped in making you think casual sex is empty and overrated.

Go find real love, OP.

Anonymous 129399

Yesterday I tried Mexican food for the first time. I didn't like it. No big deal.

Anonymous 129406

>>129237
is it just me or is 9 a common age to watch porn for the first time? I probably saw it around 7-8



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Anonymous 129404[Reply]

hey so do I just stop texting this guy or

we just met 3 days ago, told him I have a boyfriend (because it came up in conversation) and we chatted a lot cause we have things in common.

I usually never interact with men on purpose but since I have a bf now and this guy looked alternative like me I thought i could make a friend

bleh
just don’t know how to approach this

Anonymous 129405

>>129404
why are you worried about hurting the feelings of some moid who’s acting like a whiny entitled retard. just stop messaging him and befriend a girl. men aren’t your friends



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Is your type rare? Anonymous 129374[Reply]

I feel like my type is so rare…like men that I like are only on Pinterest or are dead musicians. I look around and there is no one there that looks like someone I would spend the rest of my life with. It's so annoying, but I am hopeful that if I just think really, really hard, he might just show up. POOF!

Anonymous 129383

musicians usually look that way due to drug addictions. maybe if you go to a run down part of town you'll find the love of your dreams

Anonymous 129385

i accepted being forever alone

Anonymous 129391

Yeh, my type is rare where I live. I like tall high IQ autists with soft dark brown hair and cute jew noses specifically but there are no guys like this in my fucked up city. I will probably die alone sadly

Anonymous 129394

my type is eastern european girls or asians but alot of the girls in my area are morbidly obese or lack a good personality
where i am my type is also quite rare, im too busy sleeping to talk to girls though

Anonymous 129402

i don't have a type. finding a decent person is hard though



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Unsent Single-Sentence Messages Anonymous 129271[Reply]

This thread is for short, unsent thoughts (1–3 sentences max). Use this space to post standalone unsent emotional messages that don’t need to be a full letter.

Please do not use this thread for conversation, replies, or back-and-forth exchanges. Each post should stand on its own.

Anonymous 129369

It's my birthday soon and if you don't wish me one I'm blocking you.

Actually, I'm blocking you either way

Anonymous 129397

stop using different numbers to contact me it’s been 2 years i hate you you ugly cunt

Anonymous 129401

if i could go back, i'd put you in prison.



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i have a phobia of female role in sex which makes me dysphoric as fuck and sex repulsed Anonymous 126444[Reply]

anyone else??? i just find the role submissive and humuliating, i dont wanna post it on nsfw board bc i dont wanna see anons talk about wanting to do humiliating sex acts i have a phobia of
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Anonymous 128278

>>128100
Only if you dont assert the female gaze.

Anonymous 128279

>>128276
Exactly

Anonymous 128280

>>128277
Yes, but it is an act of evil he is entitled to inflict on women, therefore it is “good” (when he does it).

Anonymous 129203

>>126444
It is ALL in how you see it. I don't see myself being penetrated; I see myself absorbing and swallowing the man's power within me. I don't see a blowjob as subservient but as using my power over him to make him beg for more. And surely a guy who goes down on you is acknowledging your dominance and practically worshipping you

Anonymous 129400

Sex is YOU conqquering HIM - absorbing, engulfing, stealing his power



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Anonymous 129166[Reply]

I am so fucking angry that I have to work for the rest of my life. The concept of working is fucking cruel if you think about it long enough. We are slaving our lives away and for what? To not be homeless? The homeless have more freedom than us. I am neet currently but I will be forced into slavery soon since my money is running out. The last job I had, I only lasted a week at. It was genuinely traumatic. Working was 10x more traumatic than when I was molested and soon I'm going to have to fucking do it again for the next 50 years. My life is a nightmare I wish I was aborted. I just want to play vidya all day that's it. That's my only goal
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Anonymous 129178

It's not taxes, you fool, taxes are a percent. It's rent. The rent always goes up until people can't afford it and the landlord laugh all the way to the bank. Luigi had the right idea.

Anonymous 129191

Your pedophile overlords need your tax money

Anonymous 129193

Luigi your landlord today.

Anonymous 129234

Then go be homeless :)

Anonymous 129398

Part time job as a toilet cleaner in offices and you're good to go, until money runs out of course



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 129381

I feel guilty to my bf's bloodline for not being from the same country.

Anonymous 129382

>>129381
that seems a little brainrotted to say. if they're white they'll probably appreciate you for spicing up their genepool. but nobody really cares about this stuff either way

Anonymous 129389

I'm so badly scared of death and the possibility of there being nothing after death. There's probably no such thing as a soul and your mind just dies with your brain and you're gone forever but I find that so difficult to cope with, it feels so final and definite. I can't even spend time with my family because I end up thinking of the fact that they're gonna die and become nothing and so am I. I wish there was some more evidence of there being an afterlife or consciousness not being made by the brain

Anonymous 129395

>>129382
ur subhuman

Anonymous 129396

>>129395
its called a joke



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 129235

>>128239
Mom,
The older I get the more I understand you and realize the things you tried to tell me all along.
I see myself slowly become all the things I used to hate about you.
I was not a good daughter.
I sit and think about all the times you have asked me to come home. They play through my head and it hurts. I'm sorry I hurt you and I know you're right.
I'm too prideful to admit I was wrong.
I love you.

Anonymous 129244

https://www.tiktok.com/@etherealsyd/video/7606845906981309727?_r=1&_t=ZT-94CgREpsT4Y

No, I'll never give the hunt up, and I won't muck it up
Somehow this is it, I knew, maybe fate wants you dead too
We've come together in the very same room, and I'm coming for you
Do you think I'd ever let you get away with it, huh?
He swooned in warm maroon
There's gas in your barrel, and I'm flooded with Doom
You've made a wake of our honeymoon, and I'm coming for you

Anonymous 129275

You barely sound like a native speaker of your only language, how could you possibly think you're qualified to decide what counts as proper english?

Anonymous 129384

>>129275
me when my enemy makes a spelling mistake

Anonymous 129393

if you were going to tell me to kms you
probably should have hidden your offline status and not needed to aggressively kill stuff in a game afterward for the first time in a week. i meant that shit i said to you. i’m going to outlive you.



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