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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 126805

>>126803
Everything isn’t insecurity. Seems like you just think anything your partner doesn’t like means they’re weak. Celebrities aren’t outside reality. They are just regular people, not objects you get a pass to openly drool over. They are literally not special humans. Just because you think they are doesn’t mean everyone else has to. I don’t care how normalized that shit is. It’s pretty weird and lame.

Anonymous 126814

>>126805
OK, so most of you are supposed to be man haters, but the end of the day you actually only hate men because they don’t want you which is genuinely very pathetic. Celebrities are actually there to be fond over that is why they are incredibly attractive. They are not normal people that is the whole point. You’re retarded dude. It is absolutely insecurity.
>>126804
It was literally the most nonchalant post. It wasn’t like him shirtless or like anything near that.

Anonymous 126815

>>126805
It is weak to be insecure over celebrities. I could literally care less if he found a celebrity hot as long as he’s not looking up naked photos of her there’s literally no issue. It’s normalized because it is normal. Psychologist literally have stated that having celebrity crushes and incredibly healthy, especially in relationships.

Anonymous 126817

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I missed you everyone. I got scared cause the site was showing error 500. I thought it meant I was being targeted or some schizo shit.

I'm gonna go to bed now

Anonymous 126818

>>126815
I mean, I’ve seen a lot of girls, especially the more arthoe type posting on twitter that they want suck off some celeb while having a boyfriend. Don’t you think that’s unhealthy?
I only posted this because the majority of time I see someone lusting over a celleb is never "aah they are so cute".


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 126776

i hate being able to see through you. i hate seeing what’s in there.

Anonymous 126787

the only person in love is you with yourself. you’re pathetic and a fucking weirdo for still thinking of me like that.

Anonymous 126799

i wish the things i saw in you had been real. it’s so disappointing realizing the person i knew wasn’t real. i think that’s the difference between me and her. she still thinks that shit might have been real but it never was. you’re ice cold honestly. that heart made of metal thing really rings true.

Anonymous 126806

>>120977
wow. a lot can change in 7 months. i can’t believe i ever typed these words out. i feel like during my time spent with this loser i must have been going through like psychosis or something. this man was a piece of shit. i’m glad he’s lonely and miserable now.

Anonymous 126816

>>126806
tea and proud of you. men aren’t shit. the second you realize you’re not attached and in love, you’re just trauma bonded you’re basically free


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Sapphic girlies and lesbians Anonymous 125973[Reply]

It's hard out here for feminine woman who likes feminine women. Can I just be totally honest here though, despite the fact that I'm tolerant and have many trans friends, I gotta say I am genuinely starting to have trans fatigue. It's permeated into all walks of life to the point where we can't even have dating apps to ourselves.
It's enough that I have to sort through the usual Justin Beiber clones (as butch women are not my type), all the couples wanting to spring their boyfriend or husband onto you right out the gate, and now we gotta deal with the overwhelming amount of trans "lesbians" who most of which are still just clearly men, big ass men with stubble and balls and it's damn near impossible for lipstick lesbians to even get a fighting chance because these troops will fight tooth and nail to get into every single female only space they can. I'm not interested in dick, you can say it's fucked up that I'm concerned with what's in their pants, but that's a manipulative and almost predatory remark to make when they're fighting for their place to try and get into yours. It also makes it harder to find women when most of them are so far brainwashed you can't discuss this with them either, without them tweaking out and saying but trans women are women, like fuck off. They can exist but can they just accept being the 3d thing and leave women the fuck alone? I'm absolutely allowed care that they have a dick and not want them in my dating pool, they aren't lesbians.
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Anonymous 125979

>>125976
I can get laid and have just fine, just first time back in the dating scene in some time and it is wildly bad that for every female on an app if they're not just a porn bot, there's like 5 more accounts that are just dude's
Always the quickest to like your profile and most active because they are desperate

Also had a friend recently who had a very bad falling out with her friend who is MtF trans, kept getting aggressively touchy and cuddly at the bar even though she was actively saying no, so they turn around and tried making out with her boyfriend as if that would somehow bypass the no
They have become absolutely predatory at this point and it's worth being upset over

Anonymous 126048

>>125973
sexual orientation is based on sex, and you can't change your sex no matter what surgery or drugs one does to oneself. there's nothing wrong with you and it's bullshit to feel like you have to explain yourself. i might suggest looking into activities over the apps, like crafting or volunteering. of course you'll run into the ftm girlies, but as sexist as they can be at least they're not rapey like >>125979

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>>125973
It’s not just you. As a fellow fem4fem it’s just made it harder to wade through the muck, and it feels weird to have to relinquish what would be a completely feminine space to the invading sausage party for the social brownie points. A lot of the lesbian scene has been choked up polys trying to pawn their ugly boyfriend on me, or trans with hairy chests. I honestly have more luck in bars than on dating apps now, cause the bullshit you have to sift through just to find regular fem women is getting to be annoying asf.

Anonymous 126249

>sapphic

Anonymous 126813

>>125973
>spring their boyfriend or husband onto you right out the gate how normal is this with millennials and gen z


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Anonymous 126353[Reply]

I'm so tired of those girls on Tiktok who are self labelled 'femcels' . They all are conventionally attractive with boyfriends and most of them self diagnose mental disorders they don't have. It drives me insane
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Anonymous 126656

femcels are not real.

Anonymous 126657

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>tiktok
eww

Anonymous 126667

There's subreddit on reddit called femcelgrippysockjail and average woman in there dates men.

Anonymous 126694

>>126667

/r/femcelgrippysockjail is mostly troons.

Anonymous 126812

>>126353
i havent used instagram in 5 years and there's r9k and looksmaxxing stuff all over my feed wtf


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How do I make friends online Anonymous 126807[Reply]

I'm so fucking lonely help me. I can't use reddit tho because I'm banned. Where do I find friends?!

Anonymous 126808

we're all your friends here nona

Anonymous 126809

>>126807
I'm even willing to share my discord publicly in here and risk moids messaging me just to have someone talk with me

Anonymous 126810

>>126809
There's find a friend thread on /b/ nona, you can share it there.

Anonymous 126811

>>126810
Thanks for telling me, I posted there


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why does society think women owe each other compliments? Anonymous 126800[Reply]

i hate the expectation that women are supposed to constantly compliment other women. especially on their looks. i’m a straight woman… i don’t view women through physical attraction at all. so complimenting their body or features feels unnatural to me. but if a woman doesn’t do it, people immediately assume she’s envious, insecure and sometimes even anti woman. men never face this. straight men aren’t expected to compliment other men, and when they don’t, no one questions their character or motives. women, meanwhile, are pressured to provide nonstop emotional validation. not complimenting a woman’s appearance doesn’t mean i dislike them. it just means i don’t feel obligated to perform a role society unfairly forces onto women. i don’t find women physically attractive. sorry not sorry.

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Anonymous 126713[Reply]

i fucking hate performative males. i hate them i hate males who pretend to like music and fashion and sanrio and plushies and whatever else they think girls would find them interesting for i literally cannot fucking stand it. none of them have real personalities or interests and they know they will never be fucking interesting so they do this shitty job of copying women. all they're interested in is pretending to be book reading feminists to fuck girls and then immediately going back to being as shitty as they always were.
males are so fucking stupid because none of them can even think for themselves. the only people who are impressed by their perfomative lana del rey listening are their faggot friends lmao
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Anonymous 126770

>>126763
everytime a man complains about being lonely and how awful women are my heart grows ten sizes and i smile like the grinch.

Anonymous 126777

>>126770
based based based nona

Anonymous 126778

>>126777
thank you cos how are men gonna blame all their problems on the gender they are mistreating and then ask us to view them as the victim fix everything for them and for some reason we are expected to be attracted to people like that. and then be submissive and be like yas you’re the boss? nah. they can suffer until they find enlightenment and use it to strengthen their character. or they can perish.

Anonymous 126784

yesterday i matched with a guy on hinge who introduced himself as a misandrist but he unmatched with me after i told him i wasn't gonna split a check with him kek.

performative male final boss.

Anonymous 126785

>>126784
that’s crazy but bullet dodged.


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Anonymous 126758[Reply]

What are the harsh truths of relationships and marriage?

Do men really just give up after the honeymoon phase?

Anonymous 126768

loser men won’t even have a honeymoon period it’s just lovebombing to get what they want. decent men never stop showing up. if he’s bored after a honeymoon period, he’s never going to be happy with anyone ever so don’t even worry about it. those men all end up panic marrying at thirty something and divorcing like two years later. especially if it’s the type of guy with no female friends besides girls he’s trying to nice guy their way into a relationship with. they all end up with the women they wouldn’t even be friends with because they were delusional about their standards and don’t see women as people. as long as you aren’t that girl they’re settling for, don’t ever waste your energy caring. men like that are losers who hate themselves. tell yourself that and wait and see which ones still have hair past their mid twenties and choose from one of those instead. women have infinite options. men do not and have to worry. don’t worry about what men do.

Anonymous 126783

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>>126758
This has always been the case. Even young moids will date older just to get laid. But once they got money and able to attract girls his age or younger, he’ll try and wife them up.
>>126768
Yes even grandmas on tinder will have more options then moids. It’s always the short term but marriage good luck.
But there’s a lot of cope without self reflection. Maybe it wasn’t love bombing. Maybe it’s emotional labour and caretaker burnout then emotionally they check out. He can date someone half his age or twice his age. But it only takes a couple years for a fallout to happen in most relationships. We’re very comfortable with the dating hook up culture where if it’s too stressful suddenly it’s easier to break up then learning to endure or change to adapt to each others needs. But overall you deserve what you pull. Your partner is a reflection of you in some way or form. Do you see each other as human? Are you inheritly selfish and lazy? Did you feel you gave too much with little in reciprocation. Nothing wrong with transactional relationships as it’s more fair vs seeming to be more of a taker in the relationship.
But overall moids that want to marry. They know they have to work harder to get the young girls attention. If he’s dating casually without marriage he won’t care about age nor will he care about making it work as he’ll move on. The young girl he marries he has a lot to lose.


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Why Anonymous 126760[Reply]

Why is everything about being as sexy as possible, getting hot people, being hot and good in bed..why is nobody into being into each other's souls

Anonymous 126761

I know this is obviously not universal but most people into my soul were actually mental, whether as a dependant a narc or a sociopath. Actual love bombing shit. Idk how healthy soul attraction is supposed to look like.
I'm cool with that but I don't think most people would be

Anonymous 126762

>>126761
and not just me too it's like a pervasive pattern with most ppl that I see as well

Anonymous 126773

>>126760
because moids control the world.


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