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Unsent Single-Sentence Messages Anonymous 129271[Reply]

This thread is for short, unsent thoughts (1–3 sentences max). Use this space to post standalone unsent emotional messages that don’t need to be a full letter.

Please do not use this thread for conversation, replies, or back-and-forth exchanges. Each post should stand on its own.

Anonymous 129369

It's my birthday soon and if you don't wish me one I'm blocking you.

Actually, I'm blocking you either way



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous Moderator 128961

Some posters have been using this thread to vaguely communicate with others and to spam dozens of one-liners one after the other. Don't use this thread as a chat thread. Your posts will be removed.

Anonymous 129151

>>128961
thank you.

Anonymous 129235

>>128239
Mom,
The older I get the more I understand you and realize the things you tried to tell me all along.
I see myself slowly become all the things I used to hate about you.
I was not a good daughter.
I sit and think about all the times you have asked me to come home. They play through my head and it hurts. I'm sorry I hurt you and I know you're right.
I'm too prideful to admit I was wrong.
I love you.

Anonymous 129244

https://www.tiktok.com/@etherealsyd/video/7606845906981309727?_r=1&_t=ZT-94CgREpsT4Y

No, I'll never give the hunt up, and I won't muck it up
Somehow this is it, I knew, maybe fate wants you dead too
We've come together in the very same room, and I'm coming for you
Do you think I'd ever let you get away with it, huh?
He swooned in warm maroon
There's gas in your barrel, and I'm flooded with Doom
You've made a wake of our honeymoon, and I'm coming for you

Anonymous 129275

You barely sound like a native speaker of your only language, how could you possibly think you're qualified to decide what counts as proper english?



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Does this make anyone else mad Anonymous 129315[Reply]

This ugly swede made a YouTube video whining and e-begging about how he couldn't get a gf, and ended up marrying a 7/10 woman that saw his videos and fell in love with him. Imagine if it was an ugly woman that made a video like that. She probably wouldn't have gotten as popular as he did and definitely wouldn't have got a cute bf to wanting to marry. I fucking hate moids. They have the easiest lives ever
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Anonymous 129344

>>129315
There's tons of incels whinning and begging for gfs, making vids too. The reason why this guy's case is so well known is precisely because an attractive girl reached out to him, which is abnormal.

Anonymous 129347

>>129327
i don't think anyone is delusional enough to date him for fame. 1) she rarely shows up on his channel. 2) you would know if you follow them that his fiance has a terminal illness… she is using him for a green card before kicking the bucket.

if you're a woman, you can't do the same and greencard/richmaxx your way into the ultimatdesu love. too bad :)

Anonymous 129348

>>129347 So she’s truly spending her last days on Earth with the moid of her dreams…huh? Geeencards r sparse nowadays, but no one can be that desperate, there’s some mediocre moid with the personality of wet toast to spend your days with…hey maybe he’s big down there and that adds to the goodies.

Anonymous 129367

Moids be looking like the picrel and still jerk off to porn with 6+/10 women in it, and complain about being lonely



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Who else here has BPD? Anonymous 129339[Reply]

F20 and was diagnosed with BPD recently, even though I knew I had it for a couple of years.

I have gotten so much better with my symptoms but currently I'm dating a guy that I feel cares more about being right that my feelings whenever he does something that affects me. I don't feel like he also ever takes into consideration the fact that I have BPD and this is something he knew from the start.

I'm tired of having BPD and such overwhelming emotions to the point I can't function properly
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Anonymous 129359

>>129358
I have heard that psychopaths are significantly more tolerable than narcissists.

Read a confession about a psychopath mom who was willing to treat her kids the best way she could even if she didn't feel genuine love for them, because if her kids feel bad that doesn't benefit her. The principle behind it is clearly lacking of emotional bond but I feel like a narcissist is pure destruction, as well as sociopaths.

Anonymous 129362

>>129359
My sister is a psychopath mom, she takes her kids on trips, buys them shitload of toys, sends them to learn how to dance, play instruments, but i can already tell that her kids will have problems. Children need to observe genuine love between parents to have an idea what a loving relationship is like and she just can't give that to them.
Remaining in a "friendly" psychopath's sphere of influence or tolerating a super talented narcissist isn't worth it. I myself have sociopathic tendencies, most likely due to dealing with too many psychopaths in my life.

Anonymous 129363

I follow(ed) a few people on tiktok and youtube who were initially diagnosed with BPD and made BPD videos but later turned out to be just autistic. Just be careful about the diagnosis.

Anonymous 129365

>>129351
it really sucks too because borderlines are frequently raised and abused by narcissists. i know i was.

Anonymous 129366

>>129365 My mom wasn't a narcissist, nor was my dad, but they were both traumatized by their childhoods and themselves, with their own issue, but both refused or were clueless to therapy. It's not even just narc's, but people who have children, but refuse to fix themselves first and when their kids also have issues, they blame and torment the kids.

That's another form of untold abuse. People need to wear condoms. If they aren't mature enough for therapy, they aren't mature enough for children.



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Would you ever hire an Etsy Witch? Anonymous 129364[Reply]

Honestly, their code of ethics is rancid, but I truly wonder if the Etsy witches when in communion, can manipulate the fabric of our reality and make quite the pretty dress for me to wear to cure me from my mind and bad luck with love.


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How to stop feeling like a subhuman because I'm a woman Anonymous 126636[Reply]

No it's not because of men that I feel this way, neither porn, but I've seen porn and women act like subhumans in it.
My problem is that I see submission as subhuman and female submission in sex is human and natural and sex is the fundamental part of the reality. So it's like we are subhumans in life. I don't hate myself but I hate womanhood.
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Anonymous 127266

>>126729
No, it's the other way around. Porn doesn't reflect real sex dynamics, it's real sex dynamics being affected by porn because 99% of moids are porn addicts and expect porn sex from their partners

Anonymous 127743

read the bible

Anonymous 129350

>>126636
this depressed me

Anonymous 129352

>>126636
When I have sex with my partner we usually do it standing up facing each other with our fingers interlocked. We both thrust into each other. This is far more respectful than being put on my back.

Anonymous 129360

stop thinking about sex so much and you will be less miserable. yes, heterosexual reproduction is fucked up when you really think about it, but you have to ignore that and go on with your day



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Anonymous 129164[Reply]

>tfw school is such a shithole that you romanticize your exhaustion and loneliness by imagining you're a sad anime girl

Anonymous 129207

Same

Anonymous 129357

it gets better after i promise. just hold thru this is how i felt but my life’s changed so much n its only been a year and a half since i graduated . wishing you the best



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Jealous of other women Anonymous 129306[Reply]

I’m jealous of other women.
All of them. It feels like every woman in the world has something I don’t. Something I’m missing on a fundamental level. Not just looks. Not just personality. Something deeper. Like they were given a manual on how to exist as a woman and I wasn’t. I don’t measure up. Not in my appearance. Not in how I act. Not in how I talk. I feel like I missed whatever makes someone naturally normal. I feel like a failed version of what I’m supposed to be. Like some kind of glitch. Being around other women makes it worse. I don’t feel like I belong. I feel awkward and wrong, like they can sense that I’m different. I compare myself to every little thing, their confidence, their ease, their femininity, and I always come up short. What makes it worse is that I actually want connection with women. I want female friendships. I want that closeness. But I feel like my jealousy and insecurity just poison it before it can even start. I’m scared I’ll ruin it or that they’ll see through me and confirm what I already believe. That I’m not enough. The only people I really talk to are men, and I’m exhausted by it. Men only end up hurting me. But somehow I feel more comfortable there than with women, even though it’s not healthy for me. I’m just tired of feeling like a failure as a woman. Tired of feeling behind. Tired of feeling like everyone else got something I didn’t.

Anonymous 129313

Femininity is lame, so you're doing something right.
Anyway, connection and closeness is not something so mystical and wonderful. I think if you got what you wanted you'd realise it's just "okay" and you'd be just as fine on your own.

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i love you, internet stranger

Anonymous 129356

im really wishing the best for you anon, i have been struggling with deep insecurities for years. all i can say is you have to try getting on the path to healing, it will take time but it will be worth it in the long run. please take care hugs



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Anonymous 129314[Reply]

this is my worst insecurity but i wish i was small. i mean im thin but i feel so tall. i feel like a planet. i want to be cute and dainty and flat chested. i want to be easy to carry and spin around. i wish i wasnt a giant
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Anonymous 129336

>>129331
>>129332
That's a lot of assumptions.
Besides, isn't it statistically true that ability to form a lasting relationship decreases with each new relationship one has?

Anonymous 129337

>>129336
Considering that all we know of OP come from these self-descriptions:
>I compare all the time to other girls that are petite and pretty
>this is my worst insecurity but i wish i was small. i mean im thin but i feel so tall. i feel like a planet. i want to be cute and dainty and flat chested. i want to be easy to carry and spin around. i wish i wasnt a giant
>I think my boyfie watching a certain kind of h3ntai made me think my body type must suck and all men must be borderline diddies
What kind of conclusion do you expect us to take from this? She's certainly not doing a good job of presenting herself as someone who's likely to get into a healthy relationship.

Anonymous 129341

it's OP. please dont let this post escalate. i wrote it feeling insecure as im vulnerable and hormonal right now but most of the time i am OK. this man doesnt do that anymore and has been good to me and he is a best friend to me and he has changed for the better because he is mature and genuinely loves me. people can grow out of their bad habits, even if those habits disgust you. he isnt like that anymore and i was feeling inadequate because im hormonal from pregnancy. these feelings pass and i would never inflict them upon a child. i thought this was a place to vent into the void. i apologize for disturbing anyone

Anonymous 129342

>>129341
i appreciate the honesty, but what i got was mostly assumptions about me. i want to marry the man that takes my virginity and i only felt disturbed/learned more later, to which he said he got rid of the habit about 2 yrs ago. i love him a lot and he's attracted to me the way i am and he's been attracted to me now more than ever because i'm having his child. sorry again..

Anonymous 129354

>>129341
>>129342
Don't apologize to those mind broken, genetic dead ends. None of what they said was due to concern over your well being.



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