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Anonymous 128629[Reply]

How do people, especially women, have casual sex and one night stands?

I cant have sex without catching feelings. i think this is true for a lot of guys that dont have sex frequently. every time feels important and special.
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Anonymous 129423

Casual sex was a psyop created by moids. Like just think about it for 5 seconds. ONS sex is so bad, how can they even know what you like.

Anonymous 129426

>>129423
You're right, the creator of Sex and the City was a jew named Darren Star.

Anonymous 129427

>>129426
satc is a show written by a gay moid. and it’s obvious

Anonymous 129490

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I don't (and never will) believe in having ONS with men, but I've always wanted to at least try having an ONS with another woman. I've been screwed over so many times I frankly just don't believe in romantic relationships anymore. Plus I've been stuck my whole life just being "bicurious". I feel like when I can finally have sex with another woman I can finally proudly call myself bisexual

Anonymous 129505

I only had casual sex with my long distance bestie when we visited each other. We both were single and knew the opportunity wouldnt come up for a while, and we both didn't want to be seriously dating. Tbh she was very lonely and i wanted her to have a good experience since she mostly had creeps and ppl using her in past and not truly loving. I still talk and flirt with her often and nothing really changed from our friendship. With guys tho idk it feels weird and scary to think about that. I only did it with bestie because her and i are already so close so we felt safe with each other.



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Anonymous 129314[Reply]

this is my worst insecurity but i wish i was small. i mean im thin but i feel so tall. i feel like a planet. i want to be cute and dainty and flat chested. i want to be easy to carry and spin around. i wish i wasnt a giant
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Anonymous 129342

>>129341
i appreciate the honesty, but what i got was mostly assumptions about me. i want to marry the man that takes my virginity and i only felt disturbed/learned more later, to which he said he got rid of the habit about 2 yrs ago. i love him a lot and he's attracted to me the way i am and he's been attracted to me now more than ever because i'm having his child. sorry again..

Anonymous 129354

>>129341
>>129342
Don't apologize to those mind broken, genetic dead ends. None of what they said was due to concern over your well being.

Anonymous 129494

i wish i was tall being short makes me look hideous

Anonymous 129498

I'm 5'1 and I feel like a fridge because I store a lot of fat in my arms and my waist is almost non-existent. Short height doesn't guarantee good body structure

Anonymous 129502

>>129500
kill yourself moid



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 129477

>>128645
Unless you're Michelle Khare you can't pull that off

Anonymous 129480

>>129475
horrible day to have eyes

Anonymous 129485

>>129475
Was he doing prolapse stuff because if so it's time to run. If you were into it I don't see why you broke up, especially if you were fine with him doing it before because of the money

Anonymous 129501

>>129475
moid hand typed this post.

Anonymous 129503

From Main Klickpin…

I hate that any time I go into a new job thinkiing I'll be able to look like picrel but then either the dress code sucks, or I end up being too tired to put in effort at all.
it's been a month and I'm still hopping from job to a job hoping to find a somewhat balanced one because it's either too exhausting, too boring, or the uniform sucks, I know that's a silly reason to turn down a job tho
But since most jobs pay about the same, why would I stay at one where you can't even look cute



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Started SSRIs and feel like shit Anonymous 129440[Reply]

I just started 10mg Lexapro around a week ago. I would say I was generally functional before albeit quite miserable.

Now I sleep 15+ hours a day and still can't stay awake during classes. Too tired to get work done plus my chest is constantly tight from anxiety. In fact I feel like my anxiety and despair has actually gotten worse.

I'm starting to regret starting on meds and it's getting harder to justify waiting it out.
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Anonymous 129457

>>129455

quitting cold turkey can be incredibly damaging and do more harm than good. don't quit cold turkey when it comes to SSRIs. tapering is important to prevent major withdrawals. please stop telling people to just "quit", this is terrible advice.

op, I'd just talk to your doctor (or get another opinion if that's an option for you). definitely do research into these medications and side effects.

Anonymous 129461

>>129455
Throwing stuff like that in trash or flushing it down the drain poisons the environment, most water purification systems aren't designed to deal with such elements. It would be best to find an apothecary that accepts expired medications for utilization.

Anonymous 129493

Those things are awful, i felt like my brain was disconnected. I didnt get anything out of sex and i didnt get high from weed, i got knocked out by them and slept for most of afternoon after taking. I had a terrible reaction when i took acid after being a month off ssri's and made me say things i did not mean to people i loved. Like my body was doing bad things that i couldnt control but only watch helplessly from the inside. Please get off of them and seek solutions either through lifestyle change, or see a psychiatrist to evaluate you and prescribe you something that actually treats your issues and doesnt just shut off your brain.

The naps were very pleasant though…

Anonymous 129495

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Do you really believe there are chemical solutions to emotional problems? Fear, anxiety and sadness are nor necessarily always undesirable or unhelpful states of mind, they are often representative of the necessary pain of psychological growth. And to deny that pain is to deny our own potential. Just as one must suffer physical pain to build stronger bone and muscle, one must suffer emotional pain to develop greater emotional resilience, a stronger sense of self, increased compassion, and a generally happier life.

Anonymous 129496

I dont care what anyone says, ssris are based.
But if this is how your experience is like on them, you should contact your doctor. I wouldn't take them in this situation if I were you.



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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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Anonymous 129454

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pros:

>taller and older than me

>has a steady income and can support me
>not bad looking, he's fat but losing weight
>has the cutest kitty (picrel)
>treats me like a princess
>I actually vibe with him very well
>not cishet

cons:
>will probably get tired of me eventually
>has a shit kink (but doesn't force me to indulge in it ofc)
>wants kids in the future, I don't
>makes comments after sex that… should not be said right after sex
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Anonymous 129466

>>129454
Girl, just get a part time job in something. Get your bread up, not some guys dick. No judgment, just don't let a man be your whole world.

Anonymous 129468

>>129466

thats the plan

Anonymous 129474

>>129422
It's not, I should've put it on a neutral one. Yeah, I'm very happy he's not

Anonymous 129491

Only been on a couple dates but he seems nice.

Pros
>Raised well, has manners, holds doors open,
>plays along with my improv and jokes around
>has well paying job
>likes same niche music as i do
>plays many same games
>is open minded and is interesting to talk with.
>is responsible
>works out
>lived outside of our country for couple years and has interesting stories

Cons
>not the best looking, but not ugly
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I hate how invasive troons are. Anonymous 129459[Reply]

A few days ago I was contacted by a troon asking to be friends, I thought it was okay since I don't have any female friends.
I talked to him for a while until he asked me to do VC, his voice was that of an effeminate man.
The worst part is that I can't even stop talking to him or ghosting him because he could expose me as "transphobic".
I feel stupid for not noticing it sooner; it was so obvious. He was acting very "feminine" in a forced and performative.
If I don't answer he starts spamming me, also he asked me if he could do "yuri" with my character and his (I'm an artist btw).
I have to live with this torture if I want to live, I hate modern society.
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Anonymous 129464

…??? why not just stop talking to it? if people think you're transphobic, even after explanation of boundaries being pushed, then they're retarded and u should surround urself with better people. people who think others are transphobic for this are morons and not worth your time.

Anonymous 129465

they truly have the ugliest faggiest voices. i hate how hard they try.

Anonymous 129471

imma say this is fake
youd not talk to him if you didnt want to

Anonymous 129478

>>129465
fr tranny cadence is always detectable

Anonymous 129489

Just stop talking, if they or others whine then you can tell them you're not comfortable with the things theyre saying and leave it at that. Don't let others run your life for you, spend time with people that add to your life and want to be around



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Does this make anyone else mad Anonymous 129315[Reply]

This ugly swede made a YouTube video whining and e-begging about how he couldn't get a gf, and ended up marrying a 7/10 woman that saw his videos and fell in love with him. Imagine if it was an ugly woman that made a video like that. She probably wouldn't have gotten as popular as he did and definitely wouldn't have got a cute bf to wanting to marry. I fucking hate moids. They have the easiest lives ever
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Anonymous 129444

>>129436
You are the one bullying the guy for being ugly right now, retard.

Anonymous 129446

>>129444
Go back, moid

Anonymous 129448

>>129444
no where in that comment is anon bullying him. in fact no one in this thread is ridiculing him for his looks. you seem a sensitive.

if this was a male thread and the woman was ugly, there would be comments
>calling her a whore
>describing how she deserves to die
>threating to rape her
>ridiculing her race
>with shitty edits of her in humiliation porn
>ridiculing her partner as a cuck
>detailing how they cyberstalked her sm to harass her
this thread is tame so far.

Anonymous 129467

>>129444
If faggots like you got treated like a woman for a few days 95% of you would end your lives

Anonymous 129488

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My personal tinfoil but I genuinely believe that his channel was an incel psy-op astroturfed by YouTube to get more sympathy for incels in the world. Even when he uploaded his stupid wedding video the official YouTube headquarters channel commented saying "Congratulations!
Oh and let's not forget he even managed to get another girlfriend, a blonde American girl named Luna, before he met the current 7/10 wife that he's with. He uploaded some videos of Luna before he deleted them all and I guess the current wife came into the picture.



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 129456

I’m online now please just email me back. -NP

Anonymous 129458

I am sorry and want to talk to you again before I make a post apologizing publicly. Please stop ignoring me. - NP

Anonymous 129482

Please at least tell me you aren’t coming. I still wait for you at our spot multiple times a week. I long to run into you. Please just reply. - NP

Anonymous 129483

I’m online now. Please just let me apologize to you properly. - NP

Anonymous 129487

He plays these mind games with you because he views you as his property. Just FYI. It will never be real. Keep ignoring him.



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Is your type rare? Anonymous 129374[Reply]

I feel like my type is so rare…like men that I like are only on Pinterest or are dead musicians. I look around and there is no one there that looks like someone I would spend the rest of my life with. It's so annoying, but I am hopeful that if I just think really, really hard, he might just show up. POOF!
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Anonymous 129391

Yeh, my type is rare where I live. I like tall high IQ autists with soft dark brown hair and cute jew noses specifically but there are no guys like this in my fucked up city. I will probably die alone sadly

Anonymous 129394

my type is eastern european girls or asians but alot of the girls in my area are morbidly obese or lack a good personality
where i am my type is also quite rare, im too busy sleeping to talk to girls though

Anonymous 129402

i don't have a type. finding a decent person is hard though

Anonymous 129433

my type has mainly been fabricated by the amount of japanese media ive consumed my whole life, especially on my late teens. i have a liking for a type that nowadays only dresses up like that to either get girls or get internet famous. most of the moids who wants to replicate that style are hideous, but are somehow treated as a hot anime bishie despite their facial hair being visible…i think theres only one that i know of that manages to pull it off, but he comes off as an obnoxious faggot fuckboy. grim, i should stop fantasizing about this type of guy, cause he only ever existed during japan in the early 00s. and even at that time they were either whores or payed whores. not fair, too bad they look super cute…basically, my appearance type for guys is a tall skinny guy my age, who looks good with either hosuto or gyaruo hairstyles. i am a fan of mj from arashi, so a guy who resembles his looks from before he got old are very good to me as well…im also of course not just a yellow fevered otak, cause i like the skinny tall emo type too…something like shirota yu or those guys you would find in the earlier years of myspace. i mainly like asian or european men tho…however to find one like the ones ive described is pretty much impossible irl. for personality type, i would say i like a guy who would be the opposite of my personality type. like an outgoing guy, who is a extrovert. just being kind and caring is all he needs. a playful personality, just overall teasing is so hot…i have a liking for shy and more reserved guys too. i find a guy who is very emotional, quiet, and dependent just too cute. i like guys who wear glasses too. also school nurses and teachers…id say police men too but i would be afraid of him getting hurt. honestly it all just depends on what otome game im playing or bishie anime im watching to make me more into their tropes kek. my dream guy would be fitting for a yandere type, though irl that would translate badly obviously (yes i am autistic, no i am not underage) and be also a virgin. if he isnt a vigirn, then he is a whore and i obviously dont want that. too bad irl guys are all used up and walled. even their sperm is expired, probably. i want for my boyfriend to be my first in everything, so i will be his first for everything as well. i think both of us being inexperienced could make it even better…maybe thats why im into the childhood friend trope. in the end i know that this is all just a fad, no one is like that irl. also im not that Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

Anonymous 129486

>>129374
my type has changed with age, but one thing that's remained consistent is how well we get along. I am not attracted to someone i don't get along with, no matter how attractive.

i've had crushes on/dated guys of all varieties; from neckbeards to musicians.

now that i think of it, i somewhat always go for bums .-.



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