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Anonymous 125487[Reply]

me and my bf aren't compatible
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Anonymous 125680

same but we are 3 years in ahahaha

Anonymous 125775

why aren’t you guys compatible? don’t leave us hanging nona

Anonymous 127404

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same

Anonymous 127504

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>>125487
>me and my bf aren't compatible
buy an adapter then

Anonymous 127507




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Anonymous 127505[Reply]

Anyone else struggling with conversations?

>Everything feels transactional

>Job interview. When they just ask questions they're not even interested in because they're forcing themselves to make a conversation
>Hard to stay on a topic if you don't know anything about it or they don't know anything about it
>Making an effort for people who don't care anyway. You're basically just entertainment for them until they get bored and find someone new
>People only care about themselves and their own interests. If you talk about your life or your own interests, they tune out
>Supporting them but they don't support you
>They change the topic to whatever they're interested in and you have to talk about that otherwise the relationship stops
>They don't really make an effort or remember anything about you
>They moan and whine to you about how depressed and miserable they are to you. You try to support and be there for them, or try to be positive, but they don't want that. They don't even ask how your day is going. They're just so used to you being there for them that you're like their own personal toilet
>When they randomly start sexting
>When they use you as their own personal therapist or complain about ex-girlfriends because they're more interested in those girls than you
>If you try to share something about your own life, they might make it about themselves and put the focus on them, because they don't care or want to know about what you're saying. But you are expected to care bouw
>You try to be invested in their life and be there for them, but they never do it for you
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Anonymous 127506

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>>127505
she looks like she just ate a lemon



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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 127498

there’s blood on the side of the mountain
there’s writing all over the wall
shadows of us are still dancing
in every room and every hall
there’s snow falling over the city
you thought that it would wash away
the bitter taste of my fury
and all of the messes you made
yeah, you think that you got away

but i’m in the trees
i’m in the breeze
my footsteps on the ground
you’ll see my face in every place
but you can’t catch me now
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Anonymous 127499

11:11
searched the catacombs
i found you now you’re gone
i want to get you on the phone
but no
gotta let it go

Anonymous 127501

>>127364
I dont drink
I dont cuss
I wanna ride on the front of the bus

Anonymous 127502

killing all my self esteem
why you act so selfishly
all i want is love
not a role inside your silver screen

Anonymous 127503

who else would it be about but me?
you’re kidding yourself



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stop lying to yourselves Anonymous 127369[Reply]

there is nothing in the world moids value more than the women they call “whores”. yes nonas… even your precious nigel’s. they see no issue giving these “whores” their sexual energy daily while in “monogamous ” committed relationships. they will shame these women publicly and go jerk off to them 30 minutes later. and don’t you forget that if you were to engage in these whorish activities yourselves they will suddenly have a problem with it because you’re the madonna in their story. committing to a moid is allowing yourself to be his full time madonna. while he gets to disrespect both you and the “whores” he shames however much he wants. stop allowing them to do this. men do not love you. romantic love is patriarchal propaganda.
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Anonymous 127469

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Which is why we gotta turn the tables and start doing irl reverse harems. Get impressionable 22+ year Olds to bend to our iron will and become subservient to us. Once I make a 6 figure income and get my own place that's what I plan on doing.

Anonymous 127495

>>127469
except men cant get hard if they are not interested so reverse harem doesnt work

Anonymous 127496

>>127495
girl what he just has to stroke his dick twice and think of his ex all they want is sex

Anonymous 127497

>>127469
or you could just remove the "valuable" male element from your life entirely and focus on things that actually put you in a position of intellectual leverage over a male (the only way you as a woman could even fight back against male dominance anyway)

Anonymous 127500

>>127496
and you are okay with your harem boy thinking of his sex while fucking you?



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Hate Thread Anonymous 118525[Reply]

What do you hate and why?
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Anonymous 127485

the healthcare system and tragedies beyond your own control

Anonymous 127486

i hate being ugly, lol.

Anonymous 127490

I hate close-mindedness, people who refuse to reevaluate their own assumptions to protect their egos are bound to be ignorant.
I hate herd mentality, people who align their worldview to match that of their peers, in order to be part of some in-group, become a blind, mechanical force.
I hate cowardice in face of injustice, my own self-righteousness, getting old and not being able to take upon myself infinite amount of suffering.

Anonymous 127491

people who are negative all the time and make others miserable just because they're miserable lol

Anonymous 127494

men who rape virgins



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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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Anonymous 127231

>>127230
she claims she was saving herself for marriage and he raped her. he claims she lost her virginity to him consensually within their first week of dating. this was two years after hs for them so it was a long time ago but she has maintained her story since she came forward and still is angry. he goes on those subreddits to watch for her posts he claims. thank you for the password tip, i will access his PC and his passwords and see what he gets up to. i wish i knew how to unhide chats because i’m sure i’ll find some he sent to her and tried to hide.

Anonymous 127480

pros:
>quite romantic, actually
>very, VERY..! good sex
>marxist (me too)
>philosophy student (me too)
>i'm his first love
>has very good taste in fashion
>good taste in film
>actually a genius
>always pays for our dates
>has a really sexy car
>has read The Second Sex
>extremely hot
>sexy biceps
>doesn't watch porn. if he's jerking off, he's looking at sfw pictures of me
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Anonymous 127483

>>127480
>has a really sexy car
Is it a Renault Twingo?

Anonymous 127492

>>127480
Forgot these pros:
- Drinks Matcha
- Wears funky plushies

Anonymous 127493

>>127480
>anger issues as a child that were never resolved
>very bad reputation on campus
>our college had to move us into seperate houses
Clearly they are seeing something you are blinding yourself to. Please be safe nona.



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 127219

>>127215
that cardboard story sounds like a modern torture method! I can see how it would help though. how did she explain it when asked?

Anonymous 127347

Off all the days to be sleepy my body is sleepy on the day I need to do it less and not more

Anonymous 127391

I might have isolated myself out of a group chat
And ngl I don't gaf at the moment.

Long story short there's a manchild who refuses to be held accountable and now his friends are creating excuses for him. And ngl I was mean. But also, I don't think he's the kind of dude I'd wanna hang around with for long periods of time. And he probably feels the same way???? Regardless his friends are enablers

I'm going to lean on my own spirituality more. Maybe I am wrong. But maybe this is the higher power cutting off people who aren't for my highest good in the first place

Anonymous 127479

I don't have anyone to talk to on my lunch break so I'm on cc. Feels lonely.

Anonymous 127481

I deserve love too



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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 125631

>>125583
No one cares anymore this shits been going on for too long

Anonymous 127275

>>125583
I'll be honest i said i didn't care a while ago but it's been 2 months so checking in. Can u admit it was all a rouse?

Anonymous 127458

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>>125583
>being abused by this man for literal years
>"gee, I hope my husband can be convinced to go to therapy!"

Girl.

Maybe you can go to therapy is his place because your delusions are almost as bad as his.

Only update when you've decided to leave him for good.

Anonymous 127477

>>127275
OPhere, it's not a ruse. I'm staying with my MIL tonight because things got out of control again. I'm probably going to start on seperating oncexthe new year opens.

Anonymous 127478

OP here again, thinking about fucking his mom as a revenge



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 127452

>>127363
i understand you nona. i’m 25 as well and feel the exact same way. i’m sorry it hurts so bad.

Anonymous 127472

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it really sucks that being sexually abused changed the way my body feels to me. it’s like there’s something wrong with me and i’m not sitting in my body right. like my soul inside me. and like a part of me physically is genuinely holding tension constantly that i can’t let go of and i can’t ever fully relax. i hate him for doing this to me.

Anonymous 127473

>>127472
A prayer for Nana No. 127472, if counts for anything

Anonymous 127474

>>127472
thank you i think that it actually does really matter

Anonymous 127475

>>127451
Thanks for asking and sorry I'm replying so late
I'm sad I'm furious I'm angry etc. The good thing is I'm starting to feel it instead of being numb to it.
I was very socially retarded for a long time and after unlocking a certain memory I realize why kinda
Like I had a classmate who didn't like me and made passive aggressive remarks towards me. One day we gone over to her house with other classmates and she just tells me to stay in the other room?? for something?? and I think I finally get to chill alone. But I didn't realize what I was doing was kinda setting myself up to find silver lining in shit treatment too much, really she just wanted me to fuck off.
It's embarrassing and led me to many dumb situations but also it's something that made me extremely adaptive.
Like I end up like being a weird lure for certain people that's capable of fucking them up suddenly and I don't really get traumatized too much but like… It's not worth it. It just isn't.
I'm like this very weird person you overestimate at first due to my detachment, then you underestimate me cuz you realize I'm actually just stupid then I end up re emerging in a real weird way.
I still hate myself for not caring about status and disrespect so much cause it just made socialization harder tho.

Sorry if this rant ends up weird. I think it stems from my childhood where I had to make up my own rules cause I didn't want to play by my parents'.



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