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Does anyone have a fear of never finding love? Anonymous 128837[Reply]

It's fine if I never find love or die alone. It's not a fear for me because life is life and I have my books, my cats, and my friends. But sometimes, maybe it's hormones or basic human fears, but I worry that never finding love will prove something about myself, like I am unworthy or a repellent of any sort of love. Around my period these feels worsen as is natural, but sometimes there is a hole in my belly from that fear and I can't let it go and I get anxious. :(


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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 128831

>>128825
There's no need to be patronising. And I know, as an American, you're fundamentally incapable of true empathy, but not every small town on Earth is like your picturesque little idyl. I also don't even know where I'd find eggs that expensive over here.

I wasn't having a go at you for liking towns with no career or education options, I was just saying something I prefer about being somewhere people know how contactless payments work. Liking what I like doesn't mean I hate what you like - most people over the age of 18 understand that.

Anonymous 128832

>>128816
I don't live in the midwest, that is why why i said this part of the usa, my own experiences, stop being so hypersensitive, im not going to pillage your small town and send my moids to fuck ur women.

Anonymous 128833

>>128817
Guess where I live, New York? Did I say something which speaks to all ppl? Or was I discussing my own experiences living in one of the most expensive places in America, soemtimes the suburbs are more isolating here, but we also have more isolated parts. I can't afford to live upstate, so i live in a bumfuck suburb, the city is my only get away from some of the most vapid ppl I know. I'm not talking about everyone, I'm taking about myself and my experiences, not everything in the world is to be applied upon everyone. Next time learn subejct pronouns or fuck yourself on an ice pick.

Anonymous 128834

>>128817 Upstate NY is more expensive if anything, lving amongst nature is for the rich here, and the city is also for the rich, but at least I can walk and see shit other than a strip mall for once in my life.

Anonymous 128836

>>128818
Thank you for stating the obvious do they give nobel award's for that out for that, I literally said cities arent perfect, but what there is, I can wager is fine for me. It's fun. I like it. I like the wilderness as well, and visit upstate when I want to experience it. I'm not one note fuckhead like some of you ppl here, I can like both things and see the issues with both things. Nothing is black and white, the city is fun, lively, and enjoyable, it's the thing bolstering ur goddamn economy, so maybe thank it once in a while next time you say shit. thx.



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Anonymous 128788[Reply]

i feel like ill never find true love as a woman partially because men are shit and partially because im also an emotionally unavailable woman who wants very specific things out of a man. im just mad every man ill ever be around is a shithead and men make me feel so mad and evil

Anonymous 128789

What are your standards for a man?

Anonymous 128835

alive and maybe has a job



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i h8 my life Anonymous 128690[Reply]

im a fat 18f girl, ive never had a boyfriend and ive been a fucking loner my whole life, people avoid me girls i know are fake and spread retarded rumours about me for no reason other then they just dont like me. i wanna get so skinny and pretty they regret or i can just die.

who tf would wanna be around and ugly disgusting girl like me, i tried to get better but it never lasts, going to the psych ward twice messed it up i wish theyd just let me die. stupid anti psychotics made me gain weight as soon as i was near my goal weight. atleast im off it now i faked adhd symptoms to get on adderall it suppresses my appetite and i lost 5kg in a week. i dont even take the reccomended dose it does nothing if its under 40mg tbh, its great i never feel hungry. i hope i get skinny enough that these stupid people can see im a person too under all the disgusting fat. if i dont lose the weight this year its over lollll
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Anonymous 128737

run everyday
hit the gym everyday
only eat whole foods
the only sugar you get is from fruits (1 per meal) (AND AN ACTUAL FRUIT LIKE A WHOLE BANANA NOT FAKE BULLSHIT)


win

Anonymous 128757

don't demoralize yourself at all, you can lose weight, get a bf pretty quickly (if you want, you should first love yourself, then get a bf, trust me if you take care of yourself and be happy love will come soon enough) and at 18 you are very young still. It doesn't take that long to revitalize yourself, sometimes even less than a month.

Anonymous 128765

>>128757
i second this. i'm 18 too, you're probably either freshly out of hs or about to graduate. get a part-time job that pays well. go to the gym (or do home workouts if you're self-conscious, calisthenics are great) eat in a deficit, and eat well. you spend money on food only for it to be eaten in ten minutes and later digested into shit, so might as well make that food work for you as much as possible. fiber helps. remember that people who make fun of you (either irl or behind a screen) are the same as you and me, they shit, they fart, and if they're hating on you they probably hate themselves too.

find whatever it takes to get you through the day, even if it's retarded, if it keeps you alive and happy that's all that matters.

Anonymous 128823

fasting is good idea but then also eating zero calorie stuff and not stretching your stomach is

Anonymous 128830

I'm with you, I just graduated high school at 18 and I feel so lost and existentially empty. I dealt with some bullying for my weight and thinking I was ugly no matter what, I still get scared if my shirts are too low cut because I'm that self conscious



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i wish i was cute Anonymous 128827[Reply]

f19 and ive been bored recently and want to make an online presents with my face tied to it, im not gonna lie im pretty ugly, fat, and retarded LOL im abt 190 lbs and 5'9 so im gonna become a lolcow if i tried anything now but anyways does any one have advice, im already working out i know i need to stay consisent but its hard to stay motivated when i have such a slow metabolism

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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128805

i really do love you. i don't understand how you went from loving me to being disinterested at best within a day. my selfish hope is to prove myself to you. i want to marry you one day. you're the only person who has ever even claimed to love me.

Anonymous 128806

remember when i made that chainsawman drawing for you on the wall at the bonfire? remember kissing me for the first time in the cold? it feels like you already forgot but i think of it every day

Anonymous 128807

and i hope that one day my limbs stretch to their limits, my body cracking open with rage, he sees me and is afraid.

Anonymous 128808

This dumb bitch is too much of a wilting violet crybaby to call the bank. Just do it you fucking weakling you'll only be talking to a chatbot anyway. This is why I can't take your suicide threats seriously, your risk-aversion is so pathological you can't even bring yourself to make a phone call. I don't think you'd even kill yourself if you had a button right in front of you that would give you a painless instant death if you pressed it.

Anonymous 128822

look, no one is saying you arent allowed to schizo post in the unsent letters thread, but PLEASE can you keep it all in one post? im so fucking tired of the 45 posts all clearly written by the same person during a manic episode.



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Boyfriend has no sense of style Anonymous 128785[Reply]

My boyfriend's sense of style is so ugly. He can do whatever he wants, but dear God the outfits he comes up with in her head sound like some shit my yeemo friends in middle school would wear. On one hand I don't care. Some of it is acceptable. A T-shirt with some skulls on it or merch with jeans is bearable. Hoodies and sketchers all the time is fine too. He's a man. What do I care? But he's trying to explore his taste in fashion more which is fine but he's coming up with outfits that make me pity him. I will love him regardless but my god he can't dress to save his life.

Anonymous 128787

Burn every bit of clothing he has, and force him to go and get wearable stuff. Or idk, wash the most crappy stuff “accidentally” with bleach and take him shopping as a date.

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So I have good news and bad news. The good news is he's trying to learn about clothing already, so he's already on the right path. The bad news is >>128787 has given you terrible advice, because using trickery, subterfuge and ultimatums to influence your loved ones is a very silly idea. He'll only resent you for forcing him out of his comfort zone.

You could try finding some mensware bloggers, writers, YouTubers, etc. so he can educate himself further. Also it's worth remembering that the men's section of any highstreet clothes retailer is full of badly fitted, uninspiring, and either way-too-on-trend or years behind items. This is why today you can see public wonders, like 40 year old men wearing skinny jeans, or whatever the hell pic related is. He has probably never had any guidence on how to not dress like a 16 year old, and if he tried bringing it up around other men, there's a high chance they'd just call him gay. He's basically learning Chinese without ever having so much as overheard a Chinese person actually speak the language, so it's going to take him a while before he doesn't look like Chris Chan at a disco.

Finally, this sounds really dumb, and I am both that and tired, but watch some earlier Michael Mann films with him. Every man in those films is very well dressed*, and even though the clothes are 30-40 years old, any man wearing them would only look out of place today because his contemporaries are wearing polo shirts with low-rise drain pipe trousers. You could actually employ some trickery here and casually comment on how well dressed the likes of Will Graham are.

*This doesn't apply to The Last of the Mohicans or The Keep, fyi.



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Insufferably passive and weak people Anonymous 128809[Reply]

I might just be an asshole but at a certain point you can be so spineless that you're just a completely useless human being. Trying to get them to do anything (or convince them to make any decision by themselves) is like trying to walk on water or containing sand in a sieve. Some people will not stand up for themselves or take any independent action, ever.
How do you guys deal with people like this? Preferably "not at all", but when you actually have to work with them to get things done, how?

Anonymous 128810

>How do you guys deal with people like this?
make them lend me couple bucks and promise ill pay them back though i never will and keep asking them for more and more favors aswell. basically make these fuck niggas my bitches

Anonymous 128811

>I might just be an asshole but
You 100% are. What have you done that's so rebellious and interesting that makes you have a spine compared to these people? You're posting on a loser femcel site. This post is just you sucking your own dick.

Anonymous 128812

>>128811
Oh I'm also not very smart or accomplished, I'm just angry with this one particular idiot.



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lonely post graduation Anonymous 128773[Reply]

18 yrs and graduated last year, all my friends got bfs and now dont talk to me anymore. And the one male friend I have who played video games with me sold his body to the army so now im all alone and posting on reddit to find friends. I genuinely do nothing all day besides play video games that I dont even enjoy to pass the time. I wish i could go back to highschool so bad even tho i was bullied lol just so i could have some human interaction outside of my cat and my mom
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Anonymous 128777

>>128775
Nowhere in OP was it specified what country's army he joined.

Anonymous 128782

>>128777
doesn’t change anything

Anonymous 128798

>>128775
>>128777

lol he did join the us army, most people from my town do cuz theres nothing better for them here. Also 'muh free college'

Anonymous 128799

You got two options.

Either get neet bucks from your parents and get on that unemployment lifestyle…. or at least get a part time job to fund your interests and get out of your small town. You could also get a full time gig or go to college, but baby steps are better. The last thing you need is to circle through a bunch of degrees because you're trying to find yourself or worse- get a degree only to find out nobody hires people with your degree OR EVEN WORSE THAN THAT you gotta sink money into a masters degree to be taken seriously in the field you choose.

Best of luck adulting Nona!

Anonymous 128803

>>128782
Many countries mandatory conscription for all moids. They'll die either way if war breaks out



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