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Anonymous 127725[Reply]

I cannot stand the political climate that exists today. As a leftist, I’m told to hate Republicans. I live in a very Republican area and these people are not bad people. I have a very bad cold and I can’t really breathe and I had to go pick up medication and it was like $100. I didn’t have enough money and I had to call somebody to ask to borrow some money and while I was calling, this old lady overheard and paid $100 for my pills. How can I hate these people when I know that they’re good at heart?
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Anonymous 128210

>>128208
This good isn’t always universal though

Anonymous 128218

>>128208
No it's just men power tripping

Anonymous 128232

>>127725
I hate how everyone is supposed to pick sides and if you disagree with them on one thing suddenly you're on the opposite political spectrum. People are way too invested in politics and [current thing] that barely affects them outside of their online echo chambers and it's exhausting.
I just avoid trying to mention anything because my beliefs are all over the place and I don't feel like explaining myself to friends who are otherwise fine outside of insane politics.

Anonymous 128233

>>128232
Proceed forth, get a personal code, limit yourself, feeling stronger after letting off a few maggots in your life. Fuck people. The end. I say fuck people, and then I have 8 billion against the universe.

Anonymous 128253

>old lady
That answers it. Republican women can be good. Democrat women can be good. It’s men who are the problem.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 128234

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>go through hell when not taking meds
>get called crazy
>start to gaslight myself into thinking I'm crazy
>go back on meds
>start going through hell again
>shit keeps happening
>realize I wasn't crazy
>nobody will ever believe me
>try to move on and yet always caught back in the never ending loop
>how do I move on

Anonymous 128237

>>128223
>>128223
i would do anything just to see my schizophrenic father again

Anonymous 128241

I don't want to go home. But I don't have the money not to.

Anonymous 128248

Most trolling on 4shit an expression of mental illness
The “trolling” part is the pretense one

Anonymous 128252

I've had the same best friend for 9 years and I've been in love with him on and off the whole time. We talk every day, do stuff together, he has gotten me expensive thoughtful gifts, we talk about everything. I knew he'd sometimes use apps and go on a few dates but nothing was ever serious, he was mostly focused on his work. I thought of confessing my feelings a few times but I genuinely can't imagine my life without his friendship and decided against it every time in case that could ruin it. He randomly started dating someone like two months ago and only started to notice a difference in his behavior towards me during the last month. Talks a bit less, takes longer to reply (he'd always do it immediately). He has told me about her, which is weird since I never really heard from any of the other girls before. She's ugly (he's attractive), sounds uninteresting, larping as the same religion as us, doesn't share any interests with him… I feel so hurt and sad and like I've lost him. I don't know if it would hurt less if she seemed like a better option for him, but I guess he really likes her for whatever reason. I want him to be happy but we always said we'd be friends no matter what and I'm starting to panic. I know when we first meet someone we get extra excited and this might change for him eventually, but seeing how things that were a given to me change is so painful.



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Is it bad to be skinny fat? Anonymous 127971[Reply]

Boyfriend keeps calling me fat and disgusting even though I'm only 28 pounds overweight. Picrel accurately describes what my body currently looks like right now. I'm basically skinny fat but because he's a short skinny manlet he thinks he can talk any type of way to me and calls me fat and disgusting and it only makes me feel more depressed and want to eat even more. The truth is, before I started dating my current BF this year, I got broken up with this really hot skinny guy that I was seeing and he was like the guy of my dreams. I only settled for my current BF now because the previous guy broke my heart real bad. If I really gave a fuck I could be a skinny sexy bombshell Stacy if I wanted to. I've always been pretty and I already used to be underweight in my early 20's, but I simply stopped giving a fuck about my appearance because even when I was a skinny healthy Stacy I still attracted the most disgusting human sludge ugly male bastards known to existence. It was truly a black pill and made me realize that no matter how pretty and skinny I was, I still attract ugly bastards meanwhile other Stacies could attract actual Chads here simply because they're whiter than I am. It's because my hometown is shit and only ugly weirdos want to come to me with my darker skin color and appearance. I'm just glad that I'm not as far gone as my other friend who looks almost like me, she ended up becoming morbidly obese and trooning out on top of that. I keep telling my boyfriend (we're long distance) that eating my feelings is not as bad as how my other friends turned out but he still doesn't listen to me and only accuses me of being fat and disgusting and stealing away his chance of getting with actual "Stacy me". Well sucks for him because the more he talks shit to me like this the more I'm just gonna eat my feelings. Oh well.
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Anonymous 128227

>>128212
Try water fasting. Guarenteed results.

Anonymous 128246

OP please don’t do some stupid shit like water fasting because some people told you to on an image board for a random moid. You might not notice the physical consequences for this now, but you’re going to blow up and get thinner if you keep doing this and you’re going to wind up with loose skin or worse. As you continue to deprive your body it will do all it can to regain weight the second you return to any kind of normalcy.

If you really want to lose weight for yourself get a hobby like Pilates, or cycling or something rather than developing an eating disorder and live-blogging it for us. Also as you lose weight you will realize nobody really gives a shit you’re “skinny fat” unless you’re in an appearance based career. 30 pounds overweight seriously isn’t a lot. Moids hate women and your ugly discord bf is going to find some other insecurity to hurt you with, especially because he knows it works. You seem to have some real image issues and I hope you get help for this in a healthy way. Genuinely ask yourself why you are so willing to change yourself to the point of depriving yourself of basic nutrients for male approval. If you want to get fit for yourself that’s great, and I suggest it, but it really doesn’t seem that way.

Anonymous 128247

>>128246
not to mention, fasting can lead to iron deficiency

Anonymous 128250

>>128048
Nursing definitely sounds like a good option. Not for me, but I volunteered at a hospital at some point and I liked it.
Find something that suits you.

>>128212
Ugh. doesn't sound like a good method for me, I would recommend a healthy diet and regular exercise, otherwise you'd just be bullying your body.

Anonymous 128251

>>128247
u cant water fast out of nowhere
the day before a water fast theres gotta be iron and potassium rich foods like bananas and spinach before u try it. think the first day of a water fast is easy, the second is hard, the third gets easier again but i myself havent gone beyond a fourth (ate on the fourth)
dont think water fasting is THE way but its A way just bit radical. trying alone cant hurt just dont be afraid to quit if its getting too much. but dont overwork urself during it tho!



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Positivity. Anonymous 116556[Reply]

Share any positive feelings or positive things.

Garden your soul garden.
Every focus is infinite multiverses.
Keep watering the ideas/plants that make you feel the loveliest love


Here’s a thing that has made me feel so good and is important to me:
Thousands of Polska girls and Belarus girls are covering my NorthAmerican city with graffiti. They’ve somehow clearly gotten the idea to all become collectively like a splatoon. It has changed the energy immensely and really improved the omnipresent feminism quality~level vibe. These girls have religions about ancient euro queens and it really shows, lots of ethereal stuff.. I see so many soulful girls are more comfortable loitering around and making anywhere a party! That’s SO important! Sovl
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Anonymous 128213

A coworker gave me coconut crackers today!

Anonymous 128214

I have been feeling more confident recently!

Anonymous 128238

I didn't drink last night and I went to bed early.

Anonymous 128249

Ate good food and had sex. Now I'm going to listen to music. Life is good.



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128240

just call me already brian. i’m sick of these games.

Anonymous 128242

You’re wishing death upon me like a year later over me standing up to you acting like retard? Damn

Anonymous 128243

my days of relying on you are over. you’ll miss how deeply i cared. you will look back and realize you’ll never find someone who loves you the way i have. i gave you everything and you treat me like a joke. i’m giving myself back to me.

Anonymous 128244

I still care about you RB. I really do. And maybe my actions dont tell you that. But if we were going by actions alone what would your actions up to this point say? That you're a confused and selfish narcissist? I dont want to believe that but you've left me no other choice.

I made it 14 years without knowing you existed in my life and i can do it again. Im older now. Wiser. My body is now one that you've never touched. And i hope it stays that way until you decide to put a ring on it. My standards are higher now…. you cant get away with just barely responding anymore.

I still dont want to see you. But, a part of me does wants to see you again…. for shits and giggles i guess. You traumatized me and unfortunately i fawned over it. But i want to see you to see how much i can traumatize you back. I know you're afraid of me, but thats besides the point. I wanna see myself suplexing the FUCK outta you in public. Maybe you'll finally call the cops on me. Maybe I'll get some kind of closure that way, some concrete evidence of how you feel about me. I guess in a way youve given me ambition and drive, something worthwhile to motivate myself into doing something different in my life. But maybe thats romanticizing a connection that never took off in the first place.

Im going to live my life now, with or without you in it. And the greatest tragicomedy is the fact that you dont get to be a part of it the way i wanted you to be.



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i feel so ugly Anonymous 127948[Reply]

i feel like the ugliest person ever. every single time i see my face in the mirror, i start crying because of how ugly i feel. i’ve been insecure my whole life, struggling with an eating disorder since i was eight, and with my appearance in general. i’ve always known i wasn’t conventionally attractive, but over the summer i was talking to a guy i really liked, and he started talking about looksmaxxing and things like that. i began looking into it, and ever since then my insecurities have gotten so much worse.
then in october, i found out he was dating another girl and had been talking to her at the same time as me. that made everything even worse. i hate it so much. for the past few months, i’ve only gone outside at night because i don’t want anyone to see how ugly i am. i hate going to school so much. it’s horrible. half the time i end up skipping my classes because i don’t want anyone to see me.
i only have one friend, and i don’t know what i would do without her. i’ve told her how ugly i feel, and she always tells me that i’m not, but that’s what everyone would say in that situation. she’s one of the prettiest people i’ve ever seen in my life, and i know she’s my best friend and i shouldn’t be jealous of her but i am.
i don’t know what to do anymore. i honestly feel like there’s no hope and i should just slime myself out. i also think i just need to deal with it for now and hope it gets better once i’m older cause i’m only 15. i obviously want to get a good amount of plastic surgery when i’m older but i don’t think i’ll ever be able to afford it.
idk if anyone is actually going to see this let alone read all of it but if you have any advice on being less insecure or any tips on being less chopped i would really appreciate it

Anonymous 128171

>>127948
Depends, what exactly are your flaws? Is it due to genetics or bad habits? If so, then it could be reversed as is for my case.

Anonymous 128174

You might not look genetically lucky but you can always look richer and more hygienic
But that’s not really the problem I think. You feel bad because you feel others have rejected you and you assume it’s because of the looks. There’s way more to relationships for most people and you probably shouldn’t hang out with mentally ill people obsessed with looks (looksmaxxers) because they frame reality in a way that makes looks the only thing that matters

Anonymous 128236

>>127948
I think I'm hideous but clothing and jewelry has helped me mask my self hatred a little better. If you accessorize, have a nice purse, find and coordinate nice clothes, it'll elevate you potentially.



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i am getting more autistic as i age Anonymous 121894[Reply]

22yo autistic girl diagnosed at 16. up until last year i never thought anything of it. that it was just some stupid label given by the doctors to label me as difficult and stuck up.
but now it seems my autism diagnosis wasn't actually a lie. i never had friends that i could get along with like other kids since i was 5 until now. people talking hurts my ears. i didn't really like any of my peers, they were always too outgoing and bright for me. they always did unsoliticed physical contact that made me so uncomfortable i ended up not leaving the house for the next few days. for some reason i cannot handle theatre audio systems anymore. i have to wear ear plugs just so i can watch movies on a big screen in film quality. everything sounds too sharp, like nails on a chalkboard. i cannot maintain eye contact with my psychiatrist and my therapist while talking. i talk staring at my hands while i fold and unfold the paper with my queue number on it (i bought a fidget cube so i can stare at my hands doing useless shit for as long as i need, paper degrades too easy). making exaggerated facial expressions like other people has gotten impossible. (people have gotten worried because my face is unmoving while i interact with them)
i feel like myself in high school where i hated everyone because i couldnt understand them for being so excited and so loud. now im in college and i can understand them more due to reading more philosophical/psychological topics on the human mind. but no matter how much i fucking "nerd out" i can never be truly human and day by day i feel more and more detached with humanity.

i'm turning into a sociopath. the more i have to make myself acceptable to society the more i feel like i am disappearing. this sucks. what if i really disappear and when i do have a chance to be a mother to a daughter, my rhetorical daughter will hate me for being so emotionally flat/empty/dead inside?

say that my dreams of raising a daughter better than my parents raised me will never come to anything. it'll hurt and i'll cope with that but, there are some days i feel so detached and not myself i have this slight unease if i murder family. i already hate my parents so i feel like they'll be the victims foremost if i do lose myself. but what i'm scared of is being so far gone. i commit murder in catatonia and get assessed in court in a catatonic state. no longer human, no different than an animal.

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Anonymous 125426

is that james spader

Anonymous 128096

>>121894
I am 30 and my autism symptoms got worse I got diagnosed at 30. I always knew but it was never official, and I also have ADHD.
I feel like I did get more sensitive, but I know these conditions don't "get worse". Instead, I think we just get better at understanding our limits. Which you are, too. I don't ever leave my house without ear plugs, and have done so for only 2+ years as I thought I just need to deal with that.

I had a bisalp since I don't ever want to raise kids or spread autism and ADHD; consider if you can raise a disabled kid by yourself. If you have doubts, it's a NO.

Anonymous 128105

You're not turning into a sociopath. In terms of personality disorders the symptom you seem to be experiencing the most is not dissociality but rather detachment.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ICD-11_classification_of_personality_disorders
But there's a less concerning explanation for what you're going through, it's called autistic masking and I also experience it. What helps is to have some autistic friends and have a place /activity where you feel comfortable taking time to yourself. Having these moments with other autistics and having alone time to be yourself are extremely helpful in terms of not feeling like you're losing your mind about it, it also helps with depression and the like.

Anonymous 128198

>>121894
loop engage earplugs help me so much in loud environments

Anonymous 128235

Find socially competent, masking autists if you can to keep you from struggling with normie interaction. They do exist. You'd be better off finding other autistic women who understand your issues. Just find a legit autist and not one of those self diagnosed qwirky TikTok diagnosed ones



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i have a phobia of female role in sex which makes me dysphoric as fuck and sex repulsed Anonymous 126444[Reply]

anyone else??? i just find the role submissive and humuliating, i dont wanna post it on nsfw board bc i dont wanna see anons talk about wanting to do humiliating sex acts i have a phobia of
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Anonymous 128220

thats why you have it with people you love

Anonymous 128221

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>>126444
It's called pegging, then you're equal. And you can pull ahead by insisting on being on top when it's his turn to penetrate.

Option two is to just have sex with other women if you don't like men period.

Becoming trans or declaring yourself NB won't actually help with this.

Anonymous 128229

>>128221
Yea but then I don't feel anything, and the dude gets to enjoy everything. Man bottoms can be greedy asf when it comes to their own pleasure.

Anonymous 128230

>>128221
found the tranny

Anonymous 128231

>>128229
Get vibrating feeldos.



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Anonymous 106726[Reply]

post yr ideal partner
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Anonymous 127372

>Tall
>Similar culture to me (mediterranean)
>Charismatic and social but also has nihce interests/takes an interest in my hobbies
>Family oriented
>Quiet/more laid back than me
>Goal oriented and driven
>Likes to always touch and cuddle
>High sex drive to match me
>Big thick dick most importantly

Anonymous 127380

>>127372
having a nice one is honestly so important.

Anonymous 128222

Corpse-like in nature and dead like on arrival. Barely there, barely breathing, all mine.

Anonymous 128224

>6'1 and above (I am tall)
>Intelligent, has goals
>Treats me like a princess (not with materialistic things, but in how he takes care of me)
>Similar music tastes (to go to shows together)
>Enjoys art (so I can paint for him)
>Likes nature walks
>Likes small boobs
>Kind of mean
>Will wash my hair in the bath
>Possessive

Anonymous 128228

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>>128224
>>Treats me like a princess
>>Kind of mean



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