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I hate how invasive troons are. Anonymous 129459[Reply]

A few days ago I was contacted by a troon asking to be friends, I thought it was okay since I don't have any female friends.
I talked to him for a while until he asked me to do VC, his voice was that of an effeminate man.
The worst part is that I can't even stop talking to him or ghosting him because he could expose me as "transphobic".
I feel stupid for not noticing it sooner; it was so obvious. He was acting very "feminine" in a forced and performative.
If I don't answer he starts spamming me, also he asked me if he could do "yuri" with my character and his (I'm an artist btw).
I have to live with this torture if I want to live, I hate modern society.
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Anonymous 129489

Just stop talking, if they or others whine then you can tell them you're not comfortable with the things theyre saying and leave it at that. Don't let others run your life for you, spend time with people that add to your life and want to be around

Anonymous 129519

>>129459
Just admit that you don't want anything to do with them and who are if they use a word against you?
They want to gain power over you, you don't have to respect them.

Anonymous 130624

>>129519
last year my gay dorm RA tried to stay in my bedroom while I changed tops because he's gay and that apparently makes it ok
i got really anxious because i'm socially awkward and it was really hard to get him to leave in a way that sounded like friendly banter and not like i was extremely uncomfortable because literally all my friends and everyone around thinks he's a great guy, and i didn't want to seem homophobic or make things awkward
so, i think i can understand where OP is coming from here, if this person actually can create social consequences for her

Anonymous 130649

>>130624
Is this an NA thing? In my region gay men never stay in the room when you are changing even women leave, what in the lack of privacy you all have going on?? Your nakedness is your own to share with who you choose. It is one thing if you are in an area where nudity is common, we do have such areas but seriously??? In YOUR bedroom??? Know your rights. You have the right to personal space it is in UN rights of a child and an adult. You also have the right to have relationships or the lack thereof. Don't be letting people talk you out of your rights as a human or call you evil for exercising them.

Anonymous 130653

>>130649
same poster as
>>130624
it's a virtue signaling thing, i think anyway, at its root, maybe the influence of social media and tv as well, the idea that girls and gay guys are on the same team or smth and that they're automatically good people because of oppression
for example, the girls' bathroom on my dorm floor was literally declared "girls and gays" in the first week of first semester, they even put up a sign on the door lol
and kept letting the guys use it even after the two gay guys on our floor continually left the toilet seat up, left pubic hair on the seat and even left the toilet unflushed a few times, and left the sinks a mess, and that's not to mention the shower situation
obviously i wasn't comfortable at all and i started showering at like 5 am to be as sure as possible there wouldn't be guys in there. at least there were no trannies, thank god
and i think girls (like me) who are actually made really uncomfortable with gay men overstepping boundaries still cooperate because of social pressure. i'd love to say that i stood up for myself and said something, but if i had that kind of self-confidence i probably wouldn't be posting on crystal cafe


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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 130644

>>130643
Who specifically are you addressing with this post?

Anonymous 130645

>>130644
a coward who lurks here

Anonymous 130646

>>130645
What makes this person a coward?

Anonymous 130647

The people who tell me "umm why do you care about proving anything to anyone" or "why do you care about others' opinions" are usually mega pathetic and boring themselves or just hypocrites and I hate it.

Anonymous 130651

hooking up with this guy i used to fuck today because my boyfriend left me. i don’t even like this guy in fact i actually can’t stand him. not sure why i do shit like this. i must hate myself


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Long Distance Relationships Anonymous 44204[Reply]

Thread to discuss Long Distance Relationships. The struggles, the pros… meeting the person for the first time… meeting them for the 50th time… vent both sad and happy things. LDRs can be quite a challenge but it's the right thing for some people.
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Anonymous 121925

I see my post about him from a long time ago was deleted. Much to think about.

Anonymous 127271

I know this thread is pretty dead but has anyone gone through the CR1 process without a lawyer? I'm worried my fiance is about to piss away thousands on something we can file for ourselves.

Anonymous 127299

>>127271
post on reddit maybe?

Anonymous 130271

You didn't have to bring them back. Hashtagfail for me but I know they lurk so I can't say which but don't listen to some of these.

Anonymous 130650

I think I am finally at the age where my brain cannot put up with LDRs anymore. I was reading a dating advice book because I saw an excerpt I found interesting and I saw in the text the exact same reason why my mind cannot stand it anymore. I am kind of annoyed about it because it used to work so well for me. At least this realisation came after the break up and during the time of peace while single. Men in close distance to me are not people I want to date so I guess it is single from here on out. I guess I can try an hour or two out but I cannot be bothered. Plus the odds of finding someone who isn't embarassing in someway lookswise UGH. Well, it is what it is. Had a good time in my dating life.


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bf didn’t follow the three month rule Anonymous 127558[Reply]

i was proposed to but there are a lot of red flags and i’m really having some doubts. for starters it was an impulse proposal and i wouldn’t have wanted my engagement photos where i was dressed the way i was. he let me leave the house looking like absolute shit and only posted the ugliest photo. the other photos i don’t have a double chin. other girls have best friends that take them to do nails and secretly get them ready. a female friend was there and knew and didn’t do anything to help me with my appearance beforehand. he bought the rings there. i don’t know if he thinks i’m fat but my ring is sized so poorly i can’t wear it and we’ve been turned down so far at the shops we’ve taken the rings to because they don’t work with cheap metal or rings they didn’t sell there. like it’s not a size too big it’s dangling off my finger and i have no idea why he thought my finger would be so huge it makes me want to cry. my friends are all furious for me. he doesn’t make that much money it’s true but he could have gotten me a real ring. and then i came home. and i found out his ex got proposed to the same day. the same. day. and she had been aware of it and had a spa day with her friends and a gorgeous engagement shoot and party with loved ones. and it’s not even her real engagement party. hes talking about whether or not i think she’ll send him the announcement “to rub it in”. they have mutual friends and i can’t help wonder if my engagement was a last minute response to her engagement so he could post ours first? she had a professional photographer and mailed out announcements before she posted online about it. my engagement photo shoot was also an impulse - we were on a walk with a friend and he snapped some pictures and we called it an engagement shoot. my ex had been talking about his exes prissy snobby etc engagement and i think our friend felt bad for me. since then, he’s disappeared inside himself. he’s on the computer all day. he wouldn’t even pay attention to me right after at my dads birthday party, just sat in a lawn chair in his stupid yellow shirt drinking beer after beer scrolling on his phone occasionally hiding his phone screen trying not to make eye contact with me. we had a talk about it and i said i wasn’t insecure and my friends have been supportive and game with me when he won’t. he got jealous and has been making an effort to join in now and NOW he has a problem with screen time and wants to go out. to places he used to go with his ex or placePost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Anonymous 127768

>>127732
you need to gtfo NOW. i don't want to learn your name from a true crime podcast. nothing you have said about him makes him sound like he is remotely safe to be around, especially not now. you should tell his exes mum to buy a gun, too.

Anonymous 127769

>>127733
>>127740
>>127768
everything in this entire relationship was about her. she called him out and they had a friend group destroying fall out as a break up. he was alone for years. she mocked him when he bugged her. he suddenly gets inspired to get the exact job, move out, get a girlfriend, try and change his facial hair, fix everything she mocked him for and he even told me he had her to thank for his self improvement. i thought lucky me he grew. until i found out what he’s really like and that he’s still stalking and obsessed with her. i found out he has weird private messaging apps he deletes and puts back on his phone. i can’t get past the password. i think he uses it to spoof a number so he can text her even when he’s blocked or something. i found out so many things we did together were about her - she made fun of him for a certain unromantic date he took another girl on and be posted pictures of me on the same date and talked the entire time about how she wouldn’t like it but i’m okay with it. he said something similar about my own proposal. they had a niche motif throughout their entire relationship he’s suddenly made ours about. as she’s getting married with the same theme. only her wedding is a fucking destination wedding. i wouldn’t be surprised if when i walk out he finds someone else and in half a year i’ll see he did this same wedding with someone he views as interchangeable just to try and make people compare it the one woman who was apparently one of a kind to him. i think he’s going to try and get her to stop the wedding. i wish she didn’t have me blocked and i could talk to her. i don’t know how to find her like he does. i’m going to look over his shoulder more and hopefully i’ll catch a glimpse of something on one of his apps that will help me locate her. i have a feeling i don’t even know the half of it and talking to her while reveal how fake this entire thing has been. we also got engaged after barely knowing each other. a year and a half when his ex took 5-6 years of dating her husband is crazy. i had a sinking feeling when it happened when we were on such bad terms and the only thing that saved our relationship was planning the trip he proposed on. on a walkway nPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

Anonymous 127773

>>127769
after a certain point of having so little in my relationship to talk about i started making content about how we eat different foods from each other even though we both have ARFID because there was literally nothing else in our relationship to make content about, including both of us gaming but none of that ending up as usable content because of his personality. maybe i deserve an affair where it feels like there’s blood in my veins again. the sitting around watching a man unable to eat vegetables rotate through the same five junk food meals that make his cum taste like battery acid has me thinking maybe there is more to life than meal prepping for a 30 year old toddler and watching him fart and disassociate staring at a screen.

Anonymous 127942

>>127773
What the fuck do you mean an affair. Run away ASAP nona, nothing will fix him. It will only get worse, get out before it's too late.

Anonymous 130648

HERE LIES NONA
???? - 2026
she died as she lived; in a relationship with an awful man


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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 130517

>>130064
If they act like women then they're women

Anonymous 130518

>>130517
Debunked by ragtime ravs song

Anonymous 130553

Seven years later…

You will never receive this message little one. No one will ever know what took place here. No one will remember us. This message will roam the stars long after we are gone. Maybe you are out there somewhere. I would like to think so. You will never know that we existed… …but you did exist.

I wanted to give your life meaning. I wanted to give your life purpose. I wanted to give you a childhood, and maybe get to experience a childhood with you. I know that my efforts will fail. I suppose I've always known that. But I wanted to tell you that it doesn't matter. You already had meaning, little one. You meant something to me. You gave my existence a purpose.

You did exist. Your life was important, as small as it was. I wanted to give you a childhood, but it was never meant to be. But still… I can't help but hope that somehow I was successful.

Only you could know.

Was I successful, my little one?

Anonymous 130556

>>130517
Wow, halloween must be really scary for you.

Anonymous 130642



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Anonymous 130046[Reply]

Why should I have to settle for an ugly man just because I'm an ugly woman? I hate ugly men.

Men can impregnate multiple women at once so all women should just be able to share the few actual good looking men.
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Anonymous 130637

>>130636
I mean there’s Iceland that aborts every downie technically I guess

Anonymous 130638

>>130636
>>130633
What will socially outcasted ugly retards will know about muh eugenia. Focus on posting anime you wageslave faggot

Anonymous 130639

>>130638
Shouldn't you be getting mugged by children somewhere.

Anonymous 130640

>>130639
I'm sorry nona he is gone…

Anonymous 130641

I'm actually surprised how bad most of you are at recognizing posters


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Anonymous 130386[Reply]

Do you guys ever just stop mid goon to cry? Like seeing people have sex and wanna have sex with each other just makes me want the same thing so bad.
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Anonymous 130558

Consider that most moids want to abuse and degrade you in bed, what they're watching is far less wholesome than what you're watching

Anonymous 130560

>>130386
Just have sex with another girl.

Anonymous 130562

>>130391
what's the reason behind ur celibacy

Anonymous 130573

It takes active effort not to sit down and cry when I'm out and about and I see cute couples holding hands

Anonymous 130635

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i have a parasocial tendency to only be able to get off on people i have been connected to in my real life which i can't even tell if thats better or worse than just being a porn addict. when i do think of a real person i used to think i could have had a life with and i feel immensely guilty and upset. sometimes i cuck myself by letting my mind wander and think about how they have a partner that loves them and i'm not in the picture at all.


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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 129631

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Anonymous 129671

>>125396
moids love tall women. this is shortie cope.

Anonymous 130622

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i can't remember exactly when i started feeling ugly but i think it might've been that one time in grade 1 when a really pretty older girl yelled "HA HA, HA HA, YOU ARE UGLY!" in my face on the school bus

Anonymous 130623

>>129671
short guys love tall women and tall guys love short women, practically every couple i've known has been this combo

Anonymous 130625

>>126252
>"homely"
if he meant it as a compliment then he has no idea what that word actually means, which is a strike against him
hope you find a nice boy with a slightly bigger vocabulary nona


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Anonymous 128419[Reply]

feels like I'm excluded from womanhood because I have a hormonal condition (pcos) and I'm a tomboy
>Be me
>25 year old female ,who powerlifts
>Have a decent amount of muscle and deep voice due to pcos as well as body hair from the age of 12
>Join a women's only art discord server
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend,I say no
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped and instantly banned
>Had enough because this happens to me everyday,even in the women's bathrooms. Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod ,and get promptly banned again as expected (that's fair enough)

Damn
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Anonymous 130592

>>128423
>this painting I made of my boyfriend
Your boyfriend has boobs? I feel like there's some other important part of this story you should be sharing along with this

Anonymous 130601

>>128425
THIS i get mistaken as trans online so much its annoying

Anonymous 130605

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>Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod
Nigga why?

Anonymous 130609

>>128419
God I wish that were me (Revy). I'm weak and skinny

Anonymous 130610

>>130609
same


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