cowards. don’t submit to them, become the abuser. beat on failmailes, manipulate moids, use them

Who the fuck says boyfie

so based idk why they even come on this forum of all places to cocksuck their moids even more as if it's not the biggest embarrassment a woman could put herself through

>>128054
LMFAO another thread, i think they're mentioning
>>128041

>>128054
boyfiend

>>128057
Funny

Interacting with phone is an easy dopamine hit.
Interacting with a human is more complicated and harder source of dopamine.

The way the human brain works is that we need to spend a bit of tiime every day not using our brain but engaging our fine motor skills somehow. And phones exploit that so well that it can completely fry our brains if we can't stop ourselves. That's why children are so easily addicted to phones and taking it away creates an intense withdrawal

>>128028
ur scrolling ur phone right now

try dating an avoidant they will ignore you for 10+ hours if not ghost you completely

Sorry about your situation but mines different, my bf always tells me if hes going to bed or cant text me and ik his university schedule and he had the whole day off

U sound annoying as hell kek

I would love to be a mom but I just know I'd end up being toxic or abusive like my mother was to me and her mother was to her. I want to be a mom but know I wouldn't make a good mother. Also I do not trust men enough to procreate with one so it would be adopted.

no i’m not suffering through child birth just to have a kid in this economy. no thanks. i like the idea of never experiencing a vaginal tear.

>>125730

I want to, with the right person… and after I get to have a life full of child free activities. Like traveling, going to concerts and shows, going to college, maybe clubbing???? But I dunno how all that's going to be possible unless I get my bread up somehow. And im already close to thirty so it's like….. I'll be ok with just being a crazy cat lady loooool

>>125730
Pregnancy would genuinely drive me into psychosis I think so noooo thank u. If I ever got pregnant i'd murder the fuck out of that baby or whatever conservatards say abortion is

>>127987

You gotta get your bread up Nona. You should want better for yourself and your progeny

>>127997
Okay well how do you go about doing that? No one is telling me how, that's the problem. How is it my fault that only ugly bastards want to approach me and my darker skin while all my whiter friends are getting Chads while barely lifting a finger? I've tried everything, even tried presenting myself as more white and still worthless low value men are the only ones ever to approach me. So at this point I just stay a NEET and inside of my house away from people

>>128002
Try moving to a slavic country, you'll get plenty of white men. Warning, they're all disgusting faggots

>>128002

Ok you got me there but here's what I think you should do-

Learn to pick up a book and go into a stem field. Preferably IT Work cause you can just get certifications to get into the field but whatever sings to your soul. You seem like a young twenty something Nona so you should have no problem getting scholarships or grants that want poc women into the field. Learn how to do research. You might also have to consider going into college. You said it yourself, no Chad is going to save you. You have to be the one to save yourself… you and that beautiful brain of yours can go places. Places that don't have you relying on men to wash your ass for you. Ya just gotta believe in yourself

>>128002
>>128047

Idk if it counts as a stem field but nursing is also a good job to get into. It does require you to have empathy for others and you gotta be on your feet for long periods of times so if both of those seem off-putting to you, don't even bother with that industry.

That's just my two cents though, any Nonas with high paying jobs online rn? Help me fine tune this shit….

And I stg none of you better say onlyfans

There aren’t many methods of coping posted here which is very depressing. Is it possible to not care about this, even temporarily, without convincing yourself that you’re pretty? I find myself being upset about this every waking minute, even when I’m completely alone where it shouldn’t matter.

I hate having a wide face, I can’t even tie my hair back or put it behind my ears because I look like the moon emoji and charlie kirk. picrel

>>127744
> Is it possible to not care about this, even temporarily, without convincing yourself that you’re pretty?
Dear nona, I have some insights for you, do with them as you please. I want you to look back to yourself, as a child. Do you have any pictures to look at, or can you picture yourself in your mind? When you look at her, I hope, you probably think she's quite cute, still happy. I hope, you wouldn't say such harsh things about her, as what you may tell yourself now.

You might think how that's way different. You're older now! And you're right. What was the age you started becoming self conscious? For me it was pre-teen, I think this is similar for everyone, perhaps teen years. While we grow up, and our brains develop, we can process our life experiences and become aware of certain expectations. This is my insight: Unfortunately all suffering and misery can be led back to other people, and the pressure of the expectations they hold. I'm not necessarily talking about a certain person in your life, but how all people basically act and think due to how our society is set up. (and remember: women are, still, always at a disadvantage!!)

So When you feel sad/or are picking yourself apart, think about why? It isn't even making you happy! So why are you doing it? try to remember when you learned to see that aspect of yourself as negative, or even 'important' to think about. A nose is made for breathing for example, why do we care if it small or big? You will find out it will always be due to ideas from other people (either direct or indirect), and even though you can't do anything about this, it does redirect the 'fault' from you, to, well, others. This has made me at least feel better, because I, nor you, don't have any inherent faults or uglyness. It is always a result of societal pressures.

And social media doesn't help this at all. unfortunately the majority of people you see online are -in terms of beauty- exceptional. You don't see these people in regular life, but online it's become 'normalized'. It is a bit cliche, but recently I have completely deleted all social media (even messaging apps) , and I cannot begin to describe the benefits it has brought me. Aside from my immensely improved focus, not having something/someone to compare myself to (sub consciously even) has also incredibly helped my sPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>127744
It’s like what people say about grief. You don’t get over it, you just learn to live with it. Just give it time is what I am saying, live life.

i constantly wear a full face of makeup and always have my hair done while only keeping heavily angle and lighting frauded photos in an attempt to delude myself into thinking i am prettier than i am. ofcourse, it doesnt work and leaves me with intense feelings of guilt due to being a catfish. I also try comfort myself with the idea that in the future ill get all these surgeries to fix what ive got going on, but in this economy i wont. being a 4/10 lanky, socially inept teen was a traumatic experience.

>>127980
nobody lucks out when their partner is into anime. anime is fucking retarded.

>>128009
Beautifully said. I am engraving this on my tombstone

>>128009
insert salieri gif

>>127962
No, he isn't gay, stop acting like a TIF and trying to dictate how much of a man he is. Or are you an undercover TIM posting here? If you are going to be crying about him not being some himbo, a monolith, a cardboard cutout instead of an individual then just leave him. He probably has a hentai addiction anyway.

every tranime-loving male friend ive had was bisexual

>i thought you were a dumb normie
>i didn't like you before
very interesting messages to receive from 2 people independently

Social media makes me feel so lonely. I'm not even talking about the typical FOMO from Instagram pictures or whatever because I don't use that, but Twitter. I'm in a community for a game I love and I feel so alone within it. I'm not even someone who wishes for friends because I enjoy my own company, but the moment I log onto my main account I find myself becoming someone desperate for friendship, acknowledgement, etc. It's gross and I hate it

>>125754
apartments are apart-ments not one big room with all your neighbours. what propaganda are you smoking ma'am.

>>128031
I used to feel that way too. It's the avatars, usernames and the overall UI that makes you feel like this. Now I only browse the dedicated forums for my games, like fenoxo.

I hate my job and I don’t want to go back in 5 days. I can’t do this. I only need to keep it for 6 more months but it all feels like such a long stretch of time looking at it now. I hate this town and I hate this job. Fuck my life.