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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 128371

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[Chorus]
She's a naughty girl with a bad habit
Bad habit for drugs
She's a party girl with a bad habit
Bad habit for drugs

[Post-Chorus]
Ecstasy, ecstasy e-e-e-e-ecstasy
Ecstasy, ecstasy e-e-e-e-ecstasy

Anonymous 128532

So, it's Halloween
And you feel like dancin'
And you feel like shinin'
And you feel like letting loose
But what ya gonna be?
Babe, you better know
And you better plan
Better plan all day

Better plan all week
Better plan all month
Better plan all year

You're dressed up like a clown
Putting on your act
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Anonymous 128628

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I ain't got no panties on
Ain't got no panties on
I ain't got no panties on
On the dancefloor

Anonymous 128636

It took so long to remember just what happened
I was so young and vestal then
You know it hurt me
But I'm breathing so I guess I'm still alive
Even if signs seem to tell me otherwise
Got my hands bound
And my head down and my eyes closed
My throat's wide open

Do unto you now what has been done to me
Do unto you now what has been done

Tool- Prison sex. The latter half of the songs explains how abuse comes full circle, the abused become the abuser. Abuse like this leaves a hole in you that only seems to be filled when you hurt others. But you never truly get your power back.

Anonymous 129754

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Yo, listen up, here's a story
About a little guy that lives in a reddit world
And all day and all night
And everything he sees is just reddit
Like him inside and outside
Reddit his house
With a reddit little window
And a reddit Corvette
And everything is reddit for him
And himself and everybody around
'Cause he ain't got nobody to listen (to listen)



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Does this make anyone else mad Anonymous 129315[Reply]

This ugly swede made a YouTube video whining and e-begging about how he couldn't get a gf, and ended up marrying a 7/10 woman that saw his videos and fell in love with him. Imagine if it was an ugly woman that made a video like that. She probably wouldn't have gotten as popular as he did and definitely wouldn't have got a cute bf to wanting to marry. I fucking hate moids. They have the easiest lives ever
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Anonymous 129655

>>129315
No it would've been rip her dms you hate incels but keep gender reversing their talking points

Anonymous 129663

>>129315
I'm not mad because I'm not bitter.

Anonymous 129677

>>129655
>rip her dms
yeah her dms would be full of ugly faggots with horrible personalities with zero redeeming qualities. she would not magically score a cutie like this guy did.

Anonymous 129745

You're not alone. Ugly man psyop is fucking real. Men love seeing women suffer.

Anonymous 129753

>>129745
If you have an ugly man all the others wil look at you and you get all the attention and you are the more attractive of the two in the couple



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worried Anonymous 129702[Reply]

ive never really posted on here before, mostly just lurking but i don’t really have anywhere else i can vent about this stuff. i’m going to be an adult really soon and it honestly worries me because i feel liek im losing my youth and guys won’t want me anymore. i try not to center myself around men but it seems like men where most interested in me when i was a pre teen and early teen. in my later teen years it kinda just feels like im not young enough for most guys anymore even if thats really gross.

thinking about this really upsets me, but for some reason pedophilia is everywhere now and i don’t know why. i feel like i can’t do anything about it , i hate them so much and im scared i’ll end up with one. the majority of the guys I’ve talked to (even the ones who seemed super cool and normal) have some kind of weird fucked up opinion about pedophilia, or they’re “indifferent” to it. im so scared for the future because i want kids, but idk what to do anymore. is this a normal experience for you guys too?
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Anonymous 129726

>>129710
I think it was the same before porn. In any case, as years passes men get less interested by your body.

Anonymous 129737

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>i feel like im losing my youth and guys won’t want me anymore.
they find women in their early 20s (18-25) to be the most physically attractive. desirability peaks at age 21, then declines 'significantly' after 31. you're not missing out on their concentrated attention by turning into a new adult, so you can safely shove off that anxiety for now.
besides, the ones you're talking about that hit on you during your younger years are hebephiles. predators. so there's no need to miss their interest, because it was always going to expire. they are not the kind of men you can rely on for proper relationships/family-rearing (if there are any at all.)

pedophilia feels everywhere because epstein bomb residue is all over the place. the normalisation of teen-fetishisation was far worse years ago, believe me. songs fully included predatory lines, and 'jokes' flew by without serious scrutiny. we're at a loss now since we're finally taking it seriously, and are disgusted to know that it's ALWAYS been this bad. we're noticing more - same phenomenon is happening with disease & sickness. detection is better. but of course the internet is making it easier for people to accept the commodification and fetishism of youth, and to abuse images and icons of desirability, aka to slip into fetishes/mentalities they'd otherwise avoid. all people after-all, regardless of sex, show a preference for youthful features.

but you'd be unlucky to marry and have children with an actual pedophile or minor-focused predator. unfortunately, they're charming and deceptive; not exactly easy to filter out. the best you can do is pick someone from a country that doesn't normalise child abuse, and learn how to quietly check his devices for cp before you have kids together.
if you can't cope with the risks, nor the idea of him losing attraction to you as you age, then don't bother at all. it's inevitable. and mutual. he'll get flabbier, balder, smellier, droopier. you need to think about losing interest in him as he gets older.

Anonymous 129738

easy. have like a dozen children, collect child care, actually raise ur children and after they reach certain ages theyll be easy to look after if not basically looking after themselves and ur gucci

Anonymous 129741

>>129702
Read yaoi and mock how ugly they are as a group in return. Its the only solution to their trash existence. They are hideous compared to women and have insufferable personalities and honestly deserve to be in the basement. We are supposed to give a shit about their hideous masculinity why? Can someone seriously explain why we don't turn them all into goon material since thats all they deserve to be? Thats what they do to us. Porn has obliterated gender relations. Use it against them and goon to young bishies only. <3

Anonymous 129752

I'm 36 and my dating experience has only improved over time. I'm in a long-term committed relationship with a decent man, meanwhile in my 20s and earlier it was much harder to find someone who doesn't have brain worms. Don't let moids and crab-bucketing other women fool you into overvaluing your youth.



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my bfs porn addiction makes me want to cheat Anonymous 129689[Reply]

my boyfriend’s porn addiction is making me lose my mind. I first found out about it in early August but I keep finding out things he’s lying about. At first he framed it as just watching a random video then closing. Then, I found out he used to pay for OF while we were together. after this, I found out that he was doing this shit the entire time before I found out and he had a twitter account for OF egirls + bought an anime porn game. He first blamed his problem on our relationship issues before I found out he was doing it the whole time.
He said that what I sent him wasn’t “enough to look at” compared to porn despite him literally being overweight with a receding hairline (quickly apologized but still).

After I found out about the OF stuff, I started cheating on him online. I was a very popular cosplayer and used to make lots of money off of my looks, so it feels weird and makes me feel resentful because I feel like he doesn’t admire my looks like this. Flirting with girls/guys online feels like an escape from feeling like I’m ugly + feels like a gotcha. It makes me want to show off my body and for a while I even thought of doing gravure work when I move back to Japan. I feel horrible for doing this. I used to hate male attention, but I feel relief when a cute moid hits on me. it’s like a “atleast someone appreciates my looks”.

He’s been a great partner and has been treating me amazingly since but I still feel this way sometimes and I feel like a horrible person. What should I do? Am I a bad person?
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Anonymous 129696

"He’s been a great partner and has been treating me amazingly" does not fit a porn addict profile, and you're not any better. Leave him and become a nun, you might be able to redeem yourself.

Anonymous 129708

holy fuck you're a mess lmao

Anonymous 129711

>>129708
yeah this is what shitty boyfriends and having BDD/former anachan does to u lol

Anonymous 129742

>>129689
advice to you or anybody that has problems with their bf that they feel they couldn't resolve.
Break up.
Simple.
Never ever ever cheat, you immediately lose your argument if you do. Why cheat and stay in a relationship anyway if you don't like him anymore? Break up and finish it.

Anonymous 129749

>>129689
they’re all booing but im clapping. you don’t ever gotta feel bad about cheating on cheaters.



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Anonymous 128629[Reply]

How do people, especially women, have casual sex and one night stands?

I cant have sex without catching feelings. i think this is true for a lot of guys that dont have sex frequently. every time feels important and special.
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Anonymous 129544

>>129537
If you like sex, casual sex isnt for you. You need to get to know each others bodies first, likes and dislikes etc.

Anonymous 129548

I have personal circumstances that prevent me from being able to have a long term relationship but I still want affection. Its not the healthiest but I can squash my feelings easily because I remind myself of the circumstances I’m in and other things that make me unworthy of a relationship. I also don’t have friends and only really interact with people for sex yet I’ve met interesting people this way.

Anonymous 129581

>>128629
I've genuinely never met anyone who enjoys casual sex other than straight men, gay men and some butches who just covet masculinity to hide their own pain. This whole thing that everyone loves casual sex is a LARP.

Anonymous 129614

>>128629
You think I'd be interested in casual sex because I'm a bippie but I've been assaulted, stalked and borderline raped that almost nothing excites me about men anymore and I haven't tried casual sex with women either so… it's not worth it. I have a surprisingly low sex drive I just blame my trauma for it

Anonymous 129747

I'm a 99% straight woman. I sleep peacefully knowing I will never have ONS with moids. Its one of the most demonic shit sold to women.
But I want to try it with a woman so bad.. Just like how it should be anyways.



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Is it normal to not have friends at 20 years old? Anonymous 129695[Reply]

I feel like the last time I had genuine friends was during middle school, if that even counts.

I am always overlooked, specially by other girls and not due to lack of social skills or initiative. It wasn't until my 16s that I decided to take the first step in making friends, since no one ever approaches me, and yet I still feel unchosen.

>meet girl

>ask for contact after cool interaction
>never invites me to do anything, never texts me, never show initiative to actually be my friend.

I feel a bit pathetic and specially lonely today, I have one friend in person and he's a moid that is already starting to distance from me.
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Anonymous 129705

The thing with making friends is that most people already have friends, so you'll come across a lot of people who already have as many friends as they are satisfied with. Look for fellow loners. Although lonely x lonely does come with its own troubles.

Anonymous 129717

>>129699
I never thought of it that way, specially because I'm quite insecure even though I have always been told I'm attractive.

I'm not perfect just like everyone but I like to think that I'm good at understanding people and getting along with them, I'm kind and entertaining, I am pretty sensitive though so maybe I value friendship more than what the average people do.

Anonymous 129718

>>129705
Yes, I struggle with this big time. I have tried this as well, I was hanging out with a girl who I thought was in the same situation as me. It was extremely one-sided, I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt (maybe she's shy/maybe she needs some time to feel comfortable with me). There weren't any signs of her not being interested besides never taking initiative. Turns out she had a bunch of friends that I never knew about.

Anonymous 129719

I feel you anon. All friends I had in school I fell out of contact with after a while (mainly because of us being put in different classes) and now I don't have any friends left from school. My only current friends are online friends but I know even those friendships are very shaky and could collapse at any time

Anonymous 129746

I'm 22 and I have no friends.



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gooners ruining hobby spaces Anonymous 129634[Reply]

>recently join the vocaloid discord because i love music and want to make friends
>click on the profile of the head mod
>rabbit hole miku
>uh oh
>click his X
>his pinned post is a petite miku sex doll face down on his bed
>wtf
>he has 5 more sex dolls he photographs
>the rest is RTs of miku hentai, at least 20 from the past 24 hours
>wtf

I don't even want to talk in the server anymore. It grosses me out so much. Why is everyone else in that server okay with porn being linked at the top of the server? Why are they fine with the server being run by a chronic exhibitionist gooner? I hate how normalized it is, it feels so weird to be in the same space as those perverts, especially when it's borderline CP. I don't really know what to do anymore or where to go. I wish it didn't bother me so much so I could enjoy the server, but I can't change I know it's gross and wrong. Any advice?
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Anonymous 129715

>>129700
Two different strains of feminism that despise each other to the death, anon. You haven't picked that up yet?

Anonymous 129727

>>129715
In that case, I can be an activist for any cause and says that it's feminism. A movement need a general direction.

Anonymous 129728

>>129727
>I can be an activist for any cause and says that it's feminism
That's pretty much what happens

Anonymous 129729

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>>129700
Men need to have their sexuality controlled, women don't. Men should not have easy access to women's bodies through porn, prostitutes, social norms, etc. etc. but it's fine if people have easy access to men's body. These things need to be regulated for men, not women. The ONLY time a man should see a woman naked is if she decided to let him.

Anonymous 129736

The amount of fandom spaces I've been in that got infested with child groomers and other sexpests is insane so I feel your pain nona. Seems like almost every online group is full of these types of insane people



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I want to be with a girl Anonymous 129722[Reply]

I'm bisexual but I always had experience with men, I want to feel loved and desired by a woman romantically, preferably someone with a more dominant personality since I'm kinda shy

Anonymous 129734

>>129722
Me too, I've only been with a woman once online and I'm terrified of men at this point. I find it hard to click which women are bi / gay that I'm embarrassed to ask and pursue irl. If anyone who's dated girls has tips please send them



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Am I just being too stubborn? Anonymous 129697[Reply]

Idk if I'm being stubborn about feeling this way but I genuinely don't want to have more than one sexual partner in my life. I already did it to someone I regret about doing with since we keep doing this rigamarole of breaking up and getting together. We're both young and in our twenties yeah and while I'm the slightly older one and should know better, I keep folding for him until this past week. We broke up again and I'm not even upset this time, but I'm still committed to my outlook because sex genuinely hasn't brought me much good in my life. I dealt with one miscarriage from our relationship and I just genuinely can't picture myself doing it again with another person.

My ex says I'll grow out of it but, he's not the one who dealt with losing a pregnancy or being a woman in a culture that values us based on our purity. We're both from a similar background so it's not like he isn't aware. Sometimes I regret putting it out for him, I wasn't forced by any means but if I could go back in time; I would've said no. I miss being a 'virgin' but what's done is done, I rather just not be intimate with a male ever again. Am I being too stubborn? Be brutally honest.

Anonymous 129707

you're not

Anonymous 129709

There’s nothing wrong about your decision and embracing the single life.

Anonymous 129721

You're not being too stubborn at all, I think you are noble, and I'm sorry about your miscarriage nona

Anonymous 129725

>My ex says I'll grow out of it but,

Babe, that's not true. He either has no empathy or doesn't understand. You don't just grow out of something like that. It's your child. Even if it was a miscarriage, it is still your child.

It's always okay to feel how you feel, and your feelings don't suddenly go away or change, it's still you despite everything. You don't magically grow out of yourself.

If you've already broken up once, then he's an ex, and exes are exes for a reason. Clearly not compatible and not on the same wave length. It has nothing to do with age either. The cycle of breaking up and getting back together happens with teenagers, those in their 20s, those in their 30s, those in their 40s, etc. It's just a clear sign that they aren't the right person for you.

Sex isn't love either. Love is genuinely caring, being compassionate, having empathy, supporting, and being able to relate to how you feel without dismissing it as "Bro just grow out of it"

>sex genuinely hasn't brought me much good in my life


Sex isn't for everyone. For many people (both men and women) it's just entertainment. Men use women to entertain themselves. Women use men to entertain themselves.

Some women like to cater to those men and talk dirty ("my pussy is sooooo wet", "And I would really look forward to you fucking my boobs fast and hard with your dick until you explode all over them", "Which position do you want to try anal in first?" or "I’d also really enjoy if you lick both of my holes from behind while I’m on all fours mmm" etc), talk about various sex acts such as blowjobs, different positions, anal sex. It's all about catering to him and validation or they want to feel 'desired' and 'wanted' as if they are only useful for entertaining him sexually. The "PICK ME" women. The women who feel like they're not attractive enough so they have to go far and harder to appeal to men sexually.
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