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Is it normal to not have friends at 20 years old? Anonymous 129695[Reply]

I feel like the last time I had genuine friends was during middle school, if that even counts.

I am always overlooked, specially by other girls and not due to lack of social skills or initiative. It wasn't until my 16s that I decided to take the first step in making friends, since no one ever approaches me, and yet I still feel unchosen.

>meet girl

>ask for contact after cool interaction
>never invites me to do anything, never texts me, never show initiative to actually be my friend.

I feel a bit pathetic and specially lonely today, I have one friend in person and he's a moid that is already starting to distance from me.

Anonymous 129699

You might be suffering from pretty privilege tbh. Sounds counter intuitive until you see how lonely prettu people are because their communities isolate them due to a perceived notion of "oh, they have it easy, they don't need my company." Also people are afraid of initiating with a pretty person.

If its not that, then maybe its your personality?

I dont know you, so take this with a grain of salt



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I want a man to save me from poverty Anonymous 129637[Reply]

I know this is extremely pathetic but I don't care anymore. I'm a worthless neet with no life skills, and I don't want to work so I might be homeless soon. I wish everyday someone would save me from my shit life, I know I can't save myself. I mean I've tried but i've been met with humiliation and embarrassment. I feel like I'm on the verge of death everyday because of how worthless I am. I feel like I'm too retarded to be alive on my own.
If I don't find a husbando by the time I'm 23 I'm just going to be a homeless crack fein trying not to sell my ass on tha street for $5 (I mean i still deserve dignity). By then I hope some psycho just stabs me repeatedly and fucks my dying body so I won't die a virgin at least lol. But let's hope I find a European boyfie before then, one that will save me from this life @_@ sigh
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Anonymous 129684

>>129683
Unless you're an Adriana Lima lookalike no one is giving you half the house

Anonymous 129687

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GET A JOB, FEMINISTS HAVE FOUGHT HARD SO YOU COULD LEARN AND WORK WITHOUT RELYING ON A MAN.

Nona, I really don't like yelling at you, but stop acting stupid. Just get a part time wagie job and learn to take pride in the solitude. If you rely on a man, that just gives you higher chances to be abused and humiliated. Don't take that chance. Just do you.

Anonymous 129693

>>129670
I appreciate advice but I don't want to be a prostitute doe. It's against my morals since I'm a feminist and catholic. I'm aslo sex repulsed unless it's with someone I really love yuck
>>129687
Yeah, I'm aware im being retarded but working while being disabled is so tiring. I know I'm going to have to man up and just deal with it but I'm starting to get really desperate to escape this life
>>129653
The government doesn't recognize me as retarded enough for neetbux surprisingly, but I've thought about just getting myself committed into a mental hospital so I can just leech off there. I mean no worries or rent seems comfy

Anonymous 129694

>>129643
I get but im too lazy for all this. Hopefully I can be some mentally ill mans neet wife and he'll let me sleep under his bed or in his closet or something (I love small enclosures). he can bring me food occasionally and throw away my piss bottles
>>129660
Moids on 4chan are psychotic idk
>>129665
kek it is true
>>129664
I mean honest im not aiming that high I just want someone that will let me leech and buy me shit off steam. thats all I want

Anonymous 129698

>>129660
If you have to go to 4chan, if you REALLY have to, then please do not pick a catch-all board like /r9k/ l, /b/ or /soc/, these are the worst places to ask in, instead pick a board with a dedicated interest like /v/, /g/, /sci/, /lit/, …etc



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Am I just being too stubborn? Anonymous 129697[Reply]

Idk if I'm being stubborn about feeling this way but I genuinely don't want to have more than one sexual partner in my life. I already did it to someone I regret about doing with since we keep doing this rigamarole of breaking up and getting together. We're both young and in our twenties yeah and while I'm the slightly older one and should know better, I keep folding for him until this past week. We broke up again and I'm not even upset this time, but I'm still committed to my outlook because sex genuinely hasn't brought me much good in my life. I dealt with one miscarriage from our relationship and I just genuinely can't picture myself doing it again with another person.

My ex says I'll grow out of it but, he's not the one who dealt with losing a pregnancy or being a woman in a culture that values us based on our purity. We're both from a similar background so it's not like he isn't aware. Sometimes I regret putting it out for him, I wasn't forced by any means but if I could go back in time; I would've said no. I miss being a 'virgin' but what's done is done, I rather just not be intimate with a male ever again. Am I being too stubborn? Be brutally honest.


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my bfs porn addiction makes me want to cheat Anonymous 129689[Reply]

my boyfriend’s porn addiction is making me lose my mind. I first found out about it in early August but I keep finding out things he’s lying about. At first he framed it as just watching a random video then closing. Then, I found out he used to pay for OF while we were together. after this, I found out that he was doing this shit the entire time before I found out and he had a twitter account for OF egirls + bought an anime porn game. He first blamed his problem on our relationship issues before I found out he was doing it the whole time.
He said that what I sent him wasn’t “enough to look at” compared to porn despite him literally being overweight with a receding hairline (quickly apologized but still).

After I found out about the OF stuff, I started cheating on him online. I was a very popular cosplayer and used to make lots of money off of my looks, so it feels weird and makes me feel resentful because I feel like he doesn’t admire my looks like this. Flirting with girls/guys online feels like an escape from feeling like I’m ugly + feels like a gotcha. It makes me want to show off my body and for a while I even thought of doing gravure work when I move back to Japan. I feel horrible for doing this. I used to hate male attention, but I feel relief when a cute moid hits on me. it’s like a “atleast someone appreciates my looks”.

He’s been a great partner and has been treating me amazingly since but I still feel this way sometimes and I feel like a horrible person. What should I do? Am I a bad person?

Anonymous 129690

>>129689
You're degenerates.

Anonymous 129691

>>129690
I’m aware I’m a degen, that’s why I wanna stop. I wasn’t really like this until recently and it makes me feel terrible

Anonymous 129696

"He’s been a great partner and has been treating me amazingly" does not fit a porn addict profile, and you're not any better. Leave him and become a nun, you might be able to redeem yourself.



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gooners ruining hobby spaces Anonymous 129634[Reply]

>recently join the vocaloid discord because i love music and want to make friends
>click on the profile of the head mod
>rabbit hole miku
>uh oh
>click his X
>his pinned post is a petite miku sex doll face down on his bed
>wtf
>he has 5 more sex dolls he photographs
>the rest is RTs of miku hentai, at least 20 from the past 24 hours
>wtf

I don't even want to talk in the server anymore. It grosses me out so much. Why is everyone else in that server okay with porn being linked at the top of the server? Why are they fine with the server being run by a chronic exhibitionist gooner? I hate how normalized it is, it feels so weird to be in the same space as those perverts, especially when it's borderline CP. I don't really know what to do anymore or where to go. I wish it didn't bother me so much so I could enjoy the server, but I can't change I know it's gross and wrong. Any advice?
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Anonymous 129680

>>129679
>Onlyfans phenomenon debunked the feminist myth that women are victims of the porn industry and were forced into it.

A lot of women genuinely want to become strippers, sex workers, escorts, etc. Some of them are victims, a lot of them aren't. They choose to do it for money and/or validation

Anonymous 129682

>>129679
No, it just proved that you can groom girls from a very young age to think doing sex work is good and profitable and get away with it

Anonymous 129685

>>129682
Feminists did that by inventing terms like "sex work" and promoting indiscriminate acceptance. In consequence society stopped shaming WHORES as it used to and young girls are getting the impression that prostitution is legit work and not a downward spiral to ruin.

Anonymous 129686

>>129651
They were always zombies. There is no soul behind those eyes.
>>129678
Things were never good.

>>129679
Feminism's biggest myth is that men are redeemable and could be socialized out of their sexuality with some sort of culture change, and that this would be deeper than merely conditioning them to be less open about their sexuality. That one was debunked almost out of the gate. Football team members might do the most rape per capita in colleges but you wouldn't want to be locked in an elevator with an antiporn but heterosexual male feminist either. But everywhere you look you see people clinging to the myth of male 'socialization' making them the way they are. Nobody is going to walk away from a myth just because it was completely debunked.

>>129679
No. Onlyfans rose on the promise that it is NOT conventional porn and NOTHING comparable to prostitution since she would be at most being physical with her physically present significant other, with no direct interaction with any other save through anonymized text through which she would be directly compensated. Onlyfans phenomenon proves that women are sufficiently vain as to be willing to do almost-porn and not-prostitution for money, which were already known in this sphere by virtue of cosplay scandals.

>>129682
I do not subscribe to the mind control theory of advertisement anymore. Ads do not target women due to some special vulnerability of women. Men are not immune to propaganda and women do not fold after seeing a single attractive woman enjoying a product. It is just that women are in the social position and suffer the social expectation of shopping, and in recent cultural memory even had the social expectation of mall-as-girls-hangout, which hangout millennial women are visibly nostalgic over. I also no longer subscribe to 'dumb slut' stereotypes. Bonnie Blue is probably smarter than many other equally financially successful entrepreneurs in the field of exploiting young boys' sexuality. Certainly smarter thanPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

Anonymous 129692

>>129686
I still believe there is potential for men to be good but it has only been accessed by a few like Mr. rogers, Steve Irwin, and Bob Ross. I wish this was the norm but it’s not even close. The vast majority of men I would agree are garbage



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Unsent Single-Sentence Messages Anonymous 129271[Reply]

This thread is for short, unsent thoughts (1–3 sentences max). Use this space to post standalone unsent emotional messages that don’t need to be a full letter.

Please do not use this thread for conversation, replies, or back-and-forth exchanges. Each post should stand on its own.
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Anonymous 129609

I want to kiss you but i don't want to fuck up both our lives

Anonymous 129617

It's like Stockholm syndrome how badly I miss you sometimes, and I hate how much I don't want to

Anonymous 129619

I just don't want to hurt your feelings

Anonymous 129627

Please just come back one more time, but see me in person this time, please please please

Anonymous 129688

i want you but i am too shy to tell you i wish you didn't leave



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Does this make anyone else mad Anonymous 129315[Reply]

This ugly swede made a YouTube video whining and e-begging about how he couldn't get a gf, and ended up marrying a 7/10 woman that saw his videos and fell in love with him. Imagine if it was an ugly woman that made a video like that. She probably wouldn't have gotten as popular as he did and definitely wouldn't have got a cute bf to wanting to marry. I fucking hate moids. They have the easiest lives ever
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Anonymous 129467

>>129444
If faggots like you got treated like a woman for a few days 95% of you would end your lives

Anonymous 129488

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My personal tinfoil but I genuinely believe that his channel was an incel psy-op astroturfed by YouTube to get more sympathy for incels in the world. Even when he uploaded his stupid wedding video the official YouTube headquarters channel commented saying "Congratulations!
Oh and let's not forget he even managed to get another girlfriend, a blonde American girl named Luna, before he met the current 7/10 wife that he's with. He uploaded some videos of Luna before he deleted them all and I guess the current wife came into the picture.

Anonymous 129655

>>129315
No it would've been rip her dms you hate incels but keep gender reversing their talking points

Anonymous 129663

>>129315
I'm not mad because I'm not bitter.

Anonymous 129677

>>129655
>rip her dms
yeah her dms would be full of ugly faggots with horrible personalities with zero redeeming qualities. she would not magically score a cutie like this guy did.



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i'm a virgin. i've completely given up on the idea of meaningful intimacy Anonymous 129598[Reply]

i've been a radical feminist my whole life, and i'm also quite unappealing physically. i thought i was a lesbian for a long time before i accepted that i'm bisexual and do want to have a moid to have sex with. i feel so conflicted with my sexual urges towards moids and also the fact that i wish they would all die and disappear off of the face of the earth. they are all disgusting scum, all unable to have a modicum of emotional intelligence, genuine kindness or humanity inside of them.

my ex was my dream guy physically and sexually, but i never got to dominate him and get what i wanted out of him. he haunts my dreams at night, and i hate him so much for being so appealing to me, physically.

i wish i didn't feel physical attraction to males, as it's impossible that a moid could ever fulfill my needs emotionally. i've accepted the fact that the way i could ever get what i wanted (sexually) is through casual sex or a fwb arrangement.

do any of you thnk this way? have you given up on romantic love too? how do you cope?
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Anonymous 129600

>>129599
i'm a real person lol my perspective is probably shared by most of the women on this website, so it's not hard to understand that i'm one among many

i'm just looking for community ig

Anonymous 129667

>>129598
>i'm a virgin
stopped reading

Anonymous 129669

>>129598
You seem like a lost cause.

Anonymous 129672

>>129598
I'm bisexual as well with a heavy preference for men/masculine people. I personally avoid 'dating' cishet men as they tend to be the worst breed imo.

Anonymous 129673

>>129598
I'm bisexual as well with a heavy preference for men/masculine people. I personally avoid 'dating' cishet men as they tend to be the worst breed imo.



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 127939

>>127744
It’s like what people say about grief. You don’t get over it, you just learn to live with it. Just give it time is what I am saying, live life.

Anonymous 128040

i constantly wear a full face of makeup and always have my hair done while only keeping heavily angle and lighting frauded photos in an attempt to delude myself into thinking i am prettier than i am. ofcourse, it doesnt work and leaves me with intense feelings of guilt due to being a catfish. I also try comfort myself with the idea that in the future ill get all these surgeries to fix what ive got going on, but in this economy i wont. being a 4/10 lanky, socially inept teen was a traumatic experience.

Anonymous 129629

no matter what, I never seem to look put together ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ Worst part about having shit genetics

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Anonymous 129671

>>125396
moids love tall women. this is shortie cope.



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