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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 128814

I hate when people ask me why I like living in a small town. Like it genuinely bothers me. Why is the city the standard for modern happiness?
>I go to the vet to get an arthritis shot for my dog. They don’t charge me to see a vet tech. They only charge me for the medication.
> couldn’t pay for medication when I was really sick once. A stranger paid for it.
> flyers all around town for a taxi service that’s free you just tip what you can
> food pantry boxes everywhere
> the one time there was a homeless person in town. An old lady took them in so they wouldn’t be homeless.
> during Thanksgiving some of the more wealthy people in town made sure people in town had food to feed their families for Thanksgiving. Since Trump cut food stamps that month.
> there’s a family in town that makes Thanksgiving meals for people who don’t have families
Why the fuck do you wanna live in cities? To be treated like you’re not human?

Anonymous 128815

>>128814
Congratulations you've found Eden! Seems nice, I suppose, but where I live around this are of the U S of A, small towns are for the rich, ppl who inherit them over generations, and ppl who will give you a nasty I for being an "outsider." My equivalent of a small town is a suburban neighborhood and those are isolating as hell anyhow, everything's the same and everyone wants to escape the other. The cities are nicer, the people are nice where they help when they need to and mind their businesses when they need to. It isn't perfect and its expensive, but for the access to the arts, culture, historical artifacts, and access to groups I like, the city is peak. Even the batshit crazy stuff is funnier than it is alarming or worrying.

Anonymous 128816

>>128815
I’m gonna stop you right there and call you an idiot. Most small towns that are in the Midwest are made up of middle class Americans, who usually work labor jobs or elderly people who are on Social Security.

Anonymous 128817

>>128815
A suburb is not the equivalent of a small town. In any way shape or form. I live in the mountain region of America. My town is an oil town.. you have people who have worked hard for generations on the oil field. Literally the richest parts of America are California and New York and areas are around there. Like statistically. Like no offense, but what you said is genuinely very out of touch. If you enjoy cities, you can visit them, but living in them is dehumanizing. Humans are not meant to live that far from nature. The Industrial Revolution was a mistake. There’s like a whole study with rats that if you push them in a tight enough space, they’ll start fighting each other and eating each other and humans happen to be the same way which is why there’s higher crime rates in more densely populated areas.

Anonymous 128818

>>128815
The pollution is worse in cities so the air is dirtier. The atmosphere is also just genuinely dirtier. There’s homeless people everywhere. Water isn’t as clean. Light pollution so you can’t see the stars. Rape statics are higher. This is like literally city propaganda and exactly what I fucking hate.


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Insufferably passive and weak people Anonymous 128809[Reply]

I might just be an asshole but at a certain point you can be so spineless that you're just a completely useless human being. Trying to get them to do anything (or convince them to make any decision by themselves) is like trying to walk on water or containing sand in a sieve. Some people will not stand up for themselves or take any independent action, ever.
How do you guys deal with people like this? Preferably "not at all", but when you actually have to work with them to get things done, how?

Anonymous 128810

>How do you guys deal with people like this?
make them lend me couple bucks and promise ill pay them back though i never will and keep asking them for more and more favors aswell. basically make these fuck niggas my bitches

Anonymous 128811

>I might just be an asshole but
You 100% are. What have you done that's so rebellious and interesting that makes you have a spine compared to these people? You're posting on a loser femcel site. This post is just you sucking your own dick.

Anonymous 128812

>>128811
Oh I'm also not very smart or accomplished, I'm just angry with this one particular idiot.


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128797

i can’t like who CHOOSES to become autistic about star wars of all things.

Anonymous 128805

i really do love you. i don't understand how you went from loving me to being disinterested at best within a day. my selfish hope is to prove myself to you. i want to marry you one day. you're the only person who has ever even claimed to love me.

Anonymous 128806

remember when i made that chainsawman drawing for you on the wall at the bonfire? remember kissing me for the first time in the cold? it feels like you already forgot but i think of it every day

Anonymous 128807

and i hope that one day my limbs stretch to their limits, my body cracking open with rage, he sees me and is afraid.

Anonymous 128808

This dumb bitch is too much of a wilting violet crybaby to call the bank. Just do it you fucking weakling you'll only be talking to a chatbot anyway. This is why I can't take your suicide threats seriously, your risk-aversion is so pathological you can't even bring yourself to make a phone call. I don't think you'd even kill yourself if you had a button right in front of you that would give you a painless instant death if you pressed it.


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lonely post graduation Anonymous 128773[Reply]

18 yrs and graduated last year, all my friends got bfs and now dont talk to me anymore. And the one male friend I have who played video games with me sold his body to the army so now im all alone and posting on reddit to find friends. I genuinely do nothing all day besides play video games that I dont even enjoy to pass the time. I wish i could go back to highschool so bad even tho i was bullied lol just so i could have some human interaction outside of my cat and my mom
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Anonymous 128777

>>128775
Nowhere in OP was it specified what country's army he joined.

Anonymous 128782

>>128777
doesn’t change anything

Anonymous 128798

>>128775
>>128777

lol he did join the us army, most people from my town do cuz theres nothing better for them here. Also 'muh free college'

Anonymous 128799

You got two options.

Either get neet bucks from your parents and get on that unemployment lifestyle…. or at least get a part time job to fund your interests and get out of your small town. You could also get a full time gig or go to college, but baby steps are better. The last thing you need is to circle through a bunch of degrees because you're trying to find yourself or worse- get a degree only to find out nobody hires people with your degree OR EVEN WORSE THAN THAT you gotta sink money into a masters degree to be taken seriously in the field you choose.

Best of luck adulting Nona!

Anonymous 128803

>>128782
Many countries mandatory conscription for all moids. They'll die either way if war breaks out


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Anonymous 128788[Reply]

i feel like ill never find true love as a woman partially because men are shit and partially because im also an emotionally unavailable woman who wants very specific things out of a man. im just mad every man ill ever be around is a shithead and men make me feel so mad and evil

Anonymous 128789

What are your standards for a man?


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Boyfriend has no sense of style Anonymous 128785[Reply]

My boyfriend's sense of style is so ugly. He can do whatever he wants, but dear God the outfits he comes up with in her head sound like some shit my yeemo friends in middle school would wear. On one hand I don't care. Some of it is acceptable. A T-shirt with some skulls on it or merch with jeans is bearable. Hoodies and sketchers all the time is fine too. He's a man. What do I care? But he's trying to explore his taste in fashion more which is fine but he's coming up with outfits that make me pity him. I will love him regardless but my god he can't dress to save his life.

Anonymous 128787

Burn every bit of clothing he has, and force him to go and get wearable stuff. Or idk, wash the most crappy stuff “accidentally” with bleach and take him shopping as a date.


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Anonymous 128766[Reply]

Are toxic female friendships common? What are they really like?

As a 25F with literally no friends, I always wondered how bad other women can be.

Anonymous 128772

As a 28 F who recently had to become friendless after being backstabbed and bullied out of a friend group, I can tell you firsthand just how toxic female friend groups can be. Being in one feels like being stuck in a vacuum with others who are narcissistic, Cluster B, male centered, delusional, cry-bully fake inconsiderate pieces of shit where the only fulfillment they can ever really get out of each other is to make enemies and fake alliances within the group on a rotational weekly basis. One minute one girl in the group hates another girl and needs you as their "safe friend", the next day she and that girl are total soul mates and now you are their number one public enemy that they'll snicker at and constantly talk shit about behind your back. I used to consider myself a Proud TERF and Radfem, but now I can only consider myself gender critical at this point because I don't even want the feminist label, women's behavior has disgusted me so much I don't even want to be associated with a movement that uplifts other women anymore. I've even seen the most religiously radfem and TERF discord servers totally crumple to ashes over the most juvenile puerile woman to woman bickering that boils down to nothing more than schoolyard insults the likes of what teenage girls would think of. All of this to say women have a long way to go in terms of social improvement and we don't do anything to help ourselves being this completely fucking stupid and bitchy towards one another. How are we gonna ever expect moids to respect us when we can't even respect one another without some childish bullshit?

Anonymous 128778

>>128772
Once a feminist - always a feminist, you can try to hide it, but people will find out and you will carry that stigma for the rest of your life.

Anonymous 128781

25F and also currently have no friends, but it's mostly because I refuse to get close to people after toxic friendships, especially with women. My last female friend literally left me because I tried to kill myself after being sexually assaulted. She was always pretty weird about the assault to begin with, weird about the grooming of one of her other friends too. Generally speaking, women will side with moids, and this chick was even gay. I woke up to her not wanting to be my friend on the hospital bed. I shit you not. I was looking out the window kind of hopeful, looking at the sun and the feeling of hope faded in me so fucking fast like you wouldn't believe. Sometimes you really are better off alone. I am truly happier without friends like this.

Anonymous 128783

>>128772
This is the reason why so many women who others deem a 'pick me' befriend men over women. I can say from my personal experience nearly every female friend i've had has treated me like i'm profoundly retarded, or like i had some kind of disease. Like i wasn't even human to these girls. Men aren't the greatest but at least they'll be honest with you if they think you're fat, ugly, retarded, etc.

Anonymous 128784

My ex's best friend tried to hit on me, a classic female move


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Moid's using women's attention to stroke their own egos and throwing them aside once it's all done Anonymous 128758[Reply]

I am actually embarrassed with myself and if I could, I would have went back into the past and stopepd myself. But admittedly, I found myself crushing on some moid. He liked metal and I liked metal music; I won't even lie about that. I don't know many people with the same interests as me, and if anything, I just wanted to talk about things I liked for once in my life and honestly, for the two days we were speaking, I truly thought our discussion was pretty decent, we spoke back and forth. Although, I already knew that he rarely asked me any questions about myself in return, a habit it see amongst many moids. Women will ask you questions and go back and forth on interests, but moids only like to talk about themselves or explain shit to you. Anyway, he got onto the part where he wanted to show off his shitty anime art, whatever, I like art and so I asked to see it. He had no issue sending me picture on picture of his supposed talent, and I complimented him like a decent fucking person. Of course, none of my interests ever mattered to be asked about, but sure…I moved on and continued to talk. Unsurprisingly, once his art came off of the discussion table so did our conversation. It went back to the same old shit, until finally he completely stopped messaging me and my final message which was literally a question was only blessed with a fucking heart emoji and after a while of pondering the whole situation, I realized that my role was to fangirl over the freak, I wasn't even seen as a friend, but some novel thing for him to stroke his ego by. I am done. Completely done. If it weren't for women have of these dweebs wouldn't have shit to stand on. Maybe it's just me, but the whole situation was fucking disrespectful and rude, but I don't know why I expected better decorum than a fucking mutt.

Anonymous 128759

>>128758
You're weird.

Anonymous 128760

>>128759 Realistically, probably.

Anonymous 128774

Honestly he sounds like an annoying pos. And really boring too. I wouldn't think too much about it since he doesn't deserve much thought. Just find someone actually interesting and worthy of conversation

Anonymous 128780

>>128774
Thx for actual good advice, I won't think too hard at all.


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I am the most disgusting woman alive Anonymous 128747[Reply]

Everything about me is wrong and it's making me seriously consider suicide. For context, I was born disabled, mentally and physically. And it shows on my face especially, I look 40 years old at only 19, my back is crooked, my teeth are disgusting and I have deep eye bags to the point where people think I am on meth. I am a 6th grade drop out due to my intellectual disability and I might be homeless soon. I might be kicked out since I am unable to work and I have piles of trash in my room that I am too tired to clean and I piss myself since my bladder is fucked up. I really want to fix my life but I am ashamed to even leave the house because of my condition and I am scared of how people might react to me. I am confused on where to even start.
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Anonymous 128751

>>128749
and btw if it takes you five years to do of those things, you still won’t even be 25. i switched majors at that age and no one at school could even tell. you are a literal baby. your life has not even begun. you have been legally responsible for yourself for ONE YEAR. you are a TEENAGER. i love you. this isn’t your fault and it’s not hopeless. it’s going to be okay and there are going to be people like me who want to help you because you deserve to know what kindness feels like. i’m angry and hurt for you. i hope you know that i’m not judging you and at least one person is truly
rooting for you.

Anonymous 128752

and btw i know the most disgusting woman in the world personally and she isn’t like you. she’s like the people who neglected you as a child and gaslit you into believing you, their victim, was at fault. the top two positions for worst women ever are already taken.

Anonymous 128753

i’d say ghislaine maxwell and what’s-her-name (the wife of the guy who kidnapped the girl in the box) are worse though

Anonymous 128754

at least take solace that you are a person of moral character.

Anonymous 128779

>>128749
>>128751
Thank you for the advice. I am definitely trying to get my HS diploma so I can have a better chance at getting a job so I can finally have some type of independence. I live in an area with a lot of resources for that so I just have to gain the courage to actually go out which I am working on. Reading this made me feel really seen so thanks for taking the time to write this, I appreciate it.
>>128750
I've actually been wanting to read more so I will look into this. Thanks for the recommendation


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