U sound annoying as hell kek

oh lord please stop centering your entire existence off of men like this and get a fucking grip.

Have you been diagnosed with any personality disorders

Date someone who actually respects and communicates with you instead

>>128074
op is probs self diagnosed w atleast 15 of them kek

Sorry about what you're going through, Nona. It doesn't seem easy at all. It's hard with anxiety. It can feel so intense and so horrifying, like every part is screaming at you, all at once. It's totally normal and you are definitely not alone with it.

Does your local supermarket have delivery by chance?

I won't pretend like I know how it feels to have a cyst, but it seems absolutely dreadful and incredibly painful. I can only say to take it day by day, you are still here, you are still doing okay, we're here for you

You have to persist and heal…. you're in the unfortunate circumstance of a catch 22. If you come out with your story he'll probably use whatever resources are at his disposal to dismiss and call you crazy, but you'll have a chance to give him a criminal record and maybe even put him on the sex offender registry. If you dont come out he'll continue to live his life but you will suffer in multitude of ways-your opportunities seem to already been shot due to this asshole. Unfortunately the entertainment industry is fillled with Moids who abuse those they deem lower then them. I know, I used to rub elbows with a prominent musician in the local music scene in nyc before he sexually coerced me into having sex with him.

I dont think my way of going about healing will help you. It might get you in more hot water actually…. but theres a saying that "haters make you famous." If you're willingly to be annoying and persistent on knocking this guy down a couple of pegs, then you should file title IX and file a police report. But thats going to require you to be able to stand your ground and refuse to become "blacklisted" cause some rich kid asshole wants to paint you as the villain. If you dont come out, you're going to live a life that you initially didnt choose for yourself because you were afraid of what might happen if you did. I believe you. I honestly do. But you gotta be prepared of people with internalized misogyny dismissing your trauma because of bulllshit.

Whatever you choose to do is entirely up to you. I didnt go to the police with my assault. But i did end up harrassing my assaulter in subtle ways cause i was a teenager and very, very stupid but persistent. However, I'm in therapy now and im continuously facing my trauma head on doing so. And! The man who coerced me is no longer in the music scene (as of right now. And it better stay like that ^_^)

I highly recommend therapy. I'll link some different types of therapy in the reply to this so youll have a more informed opinion when you choose to seek it.

>>128076
>I really thought he was going to be able to work on and uplift my work before he left.
loool

>>128061
bf advice thread = stealth nonas own personality/mentality issues thread
Because relationship issues are often a proxy of one’s immaturity lack of wisdom and lack of internal self esteem
I think many of them just latch onto the first subhuman that lets them feel normal.

>>128063
yes definitely. I feel like a majority of relationship issues could be fixed by just communicating maturely if both are already respectful to eachother.
However moids don't actually respect women , they might say they do but the girl is always below them

>>128061
Honestly what about a megathread for relationship problems? this forum isn't suuper active already unfortunately and i'm dissapointed every time i open /feels/ and its about a moid 'boyfie' …

>>128053
why would we want to engage in yet another misogynistic male fantasy? it’s best to just ignore them that causes REAL male pain and suffering.

>>128069
lol true

>>128069
no problem. more for me to beat on. they are all evil but not immune to being emotionally crushed. brb while i text my 7 boyfies ^_^

>>128011
You can't account for everything in a relationship. The best course of action here is to assume good faith or go with him to meet her so you can decide for yourself if they seem romantically attached onesided or otherwise.

My question is why even be with a moid who’s asexual? What even is the point?

>>128037
Because I love him and he loves me? There's much more to relationships to sex, which we will in fact eventually end up having by the way. I just want to wait till marriage. All I have to say is at least by dating a guy that doesn't need sex I don't have to worry about pleasing him all the time.

>>128016
He has expressed an interest in me sexually, and we have experimented in a few ways, but we have never gone so far as to have penetrative sex or oral. He almost ate me out but I changed my mind before he could actually get to that part. He does feel arousal but if I had to explain, for him it's rare and when it happens it either takes a long time or it comes from something simple yet not sexual in nature.

>>128014
We've been together a few months, not that long though. I don't really want to bring it up because I don't feel like it's necessary really. I have been more open to asking what he's been up to.

Social media makes me feel so lonely. I'm not even talking about the typical FOMO from Instagram pictures or whatever because I don't use that, but Twitter. I'm in a community for a game I love and I feel so alone within it. I'm not even someone who wishes for friends because I enjoy my own company, but the moment I log onto my main account I find myself becoming someone desperate for friendship, acknowledgement, etc. It's gross and I hate it

>>125754
apartments are apart-ments not one big room with all your neighbours. what propaganda are you smoking ma'am.

>>128031
I used to feel that way too. It's the avatars, usernames and the overall UI that makes you feel like this. Now I only browse the dedicated forums for my games, like fenoxo.

I hate my job and I don’t want to go back in 5 days. I can’t do this. I only need to keep it for 6 more months but it all feels like such a long stretch of time looking at it now. I hate this town and I hate this job. Fuck my life.

Online dating is fucking awful

>They poorly introduce themselves
>They try "flirting"
>They call you angel, babe, barbie (if blonde), beautiful, "cute", goddess
>They offer you money to fund your next purchases
>Dick pics
>Randomly bring up their fetishes
>Ghosting
>They can't start a normal conversation without them pivoting towards sex
>Randomly start telling you that they have no confidence in themselves and want to reach out for your pity to coddle them
>The start commenting on a woman's appearance despite themselves being fat or balding
>A "coffee date" where they start bringing up sexual topics
>He talked about himself the entire time
>They randomly give you advice you didn't ask for or don't even need or want
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Depends on the source of the issues
It’s normal to be a bit anxious when you’re young imo and it gets fixed by more exposure
If the anxiety is very debilitating and doesn’t leave easily it could be trauma based
Also sometimes the person just keeps objectively fucking up these situations which causes feelings of inferiority , maybe a cognitive or health issue, maybe something else, at that point you need a different solution

But at any of these points what helps is having more social support, always

For me it was just exposure therapy. I needed money so I got a job and it was actual hell at first but over time you're forced to experience the socialization over and over again until you get a bit better at dealing with it.