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Anonymous 128359[Reply]

I feel so fat and ugly all the time, someone help me fix it…give me a workout routine or a better diet routine…im so tired
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Anonymous 128364

>>128363
I am like 166 LBS or 75 KG
I have a double chin,hip dips, leg and belly fat to the point it creates a round spot in front of my pants like a pudgy belly…I hate it so much…I’ll take this advice and try a couple things…my biggest issue is being hungry all the time and not having motivation to work out…I’ve started doing squats or wall sits when I’m not doing anything…I just want to be happy with my body

Anonymous 128369

>>128364
"Hip dips" sounds like some terminally online shit. Do you use Tiktok/Instagram a lot? If so you should consider cutting them out entirely, there is almost no benefit to using them aside from if you need it for social connection sparingly. They will make you hate yourself for no reason.

I also used to be fat af. What is your current diet like? You won't be able to reduce your calorie intake sustainably if you're hungry all the time.

Doing diet/exercise will make you happier with your body as long as you're not doing it as a way of dealing with some other major life stressor/self hatred/negative self beliefs, which you probably have considering you're using this website. I used to be fat af and lost a lot of weight and I wasn't able to do shit about it until I started working through past trauma.

You'll be fine, ily

Anonymous 128384

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>>128359
Put down the fork fatty.

Anonymous 128410

>>128384
Lmao I don’t even eat that much, I just don’t work out, and when I do I’m just walking around my work

Anonymous 128509

>>128410
>I don’t even eat that much
But everyone says that



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128486

i think you know looking at that picture of your friends wedding you participated in that that is not up to your standards and i think you know you have fewer people and even less than those people did. it will be worse. please stop embarrassing yourself. hard restart. stop listening to these fucked up incels and the woman sad enough to cater to like three at once in front of you. it’s so desperate.

Anonymous 128487

it’s shocking seeing you at a rock bottom this low. i didn’t think you could go lower and now i see you’re in free fall. your life is like an episode of hoarders or my strange addiction. it is terrifying what she has led you to. the absolute degenerate way you are living where you’ll end up on the streets together is horrifying. you have no future like this. you look like you’re fifty. you’ve aged decades in the year you’ve been in that relationship.

Anonymous 128488

this is the lowest you’ve ever been and i’m terrified for you.

Anonymous 128492

three more days and i think that we could actually both be okay if you what you said to me before was true. i think we could meet somewhere in the middle and bury the hatchet. i don’t want you to die. i don’t want your entire life to be so depressing and awful.

Anonymous 128493

I'm bleeding because of you, my life hasn't been the same since I met you, I can't even live a normal life anymore

Coping with life while trying to deal with incontinence is almost too much, maybe if you got raped by a silverback you'd understand my feelings



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It's so hard to be an ugly woman Anonymous 128426[Reply]

I'm not talking about any surface level looksmaxxing shit here like acne or needing a better haircut, I'm talking about genuine sub-3 ugliness. Facial asymmetries, recessed jaw, stuff that would require frankenstein shit to fix it. It's fine, some people are just ugly. It should be ALLOWED to be ugly with the face you're born with

Aside from the obvious - getting mistreated mostly by moids every step of the way… not being ignored, but outright aggression and insults.
Insults disguised as advice, insults disguised as concern, insults disguised as compliments (The other day I got a "You look amazing today you should wear this more often" from a really catty and mean gay coworker when I wore a sweatshirt with a high collar and hid the lower half of my face in it)

You can't even be yourself online because unless you face reveal, people won't believe how ugly you are. Not unless you prove it, which I obviously don't want to do…

I mostly just move on and try to ignore it but it got to me today, because I realised that in most online spaces I'm basically railroaded into LARPing as someone pretty.

"I bet you're cute/pretty/whatever"
If you say "I'm actually ugly enough that strange men approach me in the street to tell me this regularly" the other person sees this as you seeking compliments
"Nooo you're so hot queen"
"No way you're that bad looking"
"I'm sure you're beautiful"

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Anonymous 128497

>>128495
have you ever had an abusive partner? that’s how they are. it doesn’t mean date them or it’s normal. they’re maladjusted freaks but yeah they like you. they ignore ugly girls not obsess over them.

Anonymous 128501

>>128491
Wow what a barbarian culture UK is

Anonymous 128505

>>128497
Oh I see, you're doing a bit

Anonymous 128506

>>128505
abusers will call beautiful women ugly to abuse them and make them stay

Anonymous 128507

>>128506
That is clearly not the situation I'm describing



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 128416

I slept 11 hours and then took a 2.5 hour nap and I'm still so tired. Stress exhaustion is real. Coffee only helps a little.

Anonymous 128435

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Other women (dumb) love me, men (dumb) hate me.
Other women (smart) hate me or just kinda generally stay away, men (smart) love me.

Anonymous 128441

i truly have no one. i’m so painfully sad.

Anonymous 128462

I gave myself a hangover.

Anonymous 128504

I hate myself tbh kinda



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I am so tired of the modern dating world Anonymous 127745[Reply]

I really don't understand. I'm about to cry actually. I am trying my absolute best all the time, I am dating all the time, trying to talk to guys, I meet so many nice and sweet and interesting ones but they are never taking me out on any dates. I always initiate. Is it really that hard. Like I am actually very cute, 6'0, long hair, I take very good care of my looks, clothes, I have an apartment, job, I own property, my mental is semi ok, except I'm clingy, I have a very nice body. I have lots of hobbies and I am well read sort of, I don't spend time on social media. I have everything going for me and even that's not enough. I can't even get a movie date. All I want is to be taken to the movies and to be given some flowers. That's all I want. I think it happened once but only when I suggested to the guy to do that. Why do none of them want to do that with me? Are they really all that lazy and stupid? I have truly lost all hope in men, especially modern men, they have absolutely no idea how to treat people nice. Or maybe I'm too crazy. I hate men so much. I am literally like this against my own will. Female incel. Unlovable
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Anonymous 128460

>>128443
Treading carefully in a reasonable response but I think he should learn to princess carry you

Anonymous 128471

>>128443
is it really that bad? i have a crush on a guy 4 inches shorter than me and this is my worst fear

Anonymous 128473

>>128471
it was BRUTAL in high school and college people my bff was 5’11 and she would get ghosted and have the boy she dated pretend he didn’t know her when his friends started taunting him about the height difference. idk how it is with adults. i will say she said the same thing about being even a little larger than the man sucked for cuddling and she wasn’t big enough he could be a good little spoon so it just sucked overall. she likes dating much taller men now.

Anonymous 128475

>>128473
>idk how it is with adults
Adults are just older highschoolers these days.

Anonymous 128498

>>128475
yeah in hs a lot less people would have cared over stuff that like. go into work with a shorter bf and every old lady is gonna mock him to your face once he leaves



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Anonymous 128476[Reply]

How can I tell if I’m an impressionable person?

Anonymous 128477

u probably are cause most ppl are impressionable so just assume ur impressionable and then you can not be as impressionable as most ppl



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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 128440

OP again, embarrassed that I'm still posting here. Things have been crazy. I'm heading to a manga cafe tonight and meeting with my welfare manager tomorrow. I hope she can help me make a plan. I'm suddenly feeling really scared about everything.

Anonymous 128450

>>128440
I cant even believe this thread is still here…..but four years later here we are.

Anonymous 128467

OP here. I'm going to a shelter. I feel weirdly calm about it.

Anonymous 128468

OP again. I started second-guessing myself. Husband keeps calling and threatening to call the police (what?) and show up at my workplace (I'm not there). Suddenly I'm worried the shelter won't take me. I don't know what the shelter will be like, which worries me. I don't know how I'll find another job.

But at least I won't be abused any more.

Anonymous 128474

On my way to the shelter. My husband showed up at my workplace so they're filing a police report.



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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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Anonymous 127493

>>127480
>anger issues as a child that were never resolved
>very bad reputation on campus
>our college had to move us into seperate houses
Clearly they are seeing something you are blinding yourself to. Please be safe nona.

Anonymous 127571

>>127492
hell no never

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>>127480
>marxist
>philosophy student (me too)

Anonymous 128466

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Pros
> very sweet and kind, he plans cutes dates for us and is always nice…
> very cute, extremely out of my league
> smartie pants
> puzzle master
> lets me drag him along because he always gets lost otherwise
> has sex witb me on my period
> good taste in films/kino
> very good kisser
> sensible political views for the most part
> not a big whore
> always nice to talk to, very compatible in that way
> really really funny
> gets really sweaty but in a cyte way during sex

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Anonymous 128470

>>128469
>ctrl + f hot
>photo
>hotdog
>photography
>shots
>hot tempered
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Anonymous 128419[Reply]

feels like I'm excluded from womanhood because I have a hormonal condition (pcos) and I'm a tomboy
>Be me
>25 year old female ,who powerlifts
>Have a decent amount of muscle and deep voice due to pcos as well as body hair from the age of 12
>Join a women's only art discord server
>Women think my art is made by my boyfriend,I say no
>I join the VC , get told for my face to be stomped and instantly banned
>Had enough because this happens to me everyday,even in the women's bathrooms. Decide to join again and send my pussy and tits to the mod ,and get promptly banned again as expected (that's fair enough)

Damn

Anonymous 128422

lol what, I think it’s just them being permanently online. Is there anything that makes your art look masc in particular? Seems like a very odd comment from them

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>>128422
I'm not really sure ,I posted this photo of this painting I made of my boyfriend and they thought he made it. Even tho I explicitly said I did. They banned me because of my voice ,which I have a deep voice especially now since I'm going through premature menopause ( due to the pcos )

Anonymous 128424

This gotta be fake nobody's this retarded
Then again… i have been wrong before
If true they knew (and were just being malicious)

Anonymous 128425

>>128424
I wish it was ,but it's not. I'm very lonely and wish I had some female art friends. But women hate me because they think I'm trans

Anonymous 128461

>>128423
Is your boyfriend Jasper?



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