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I hate how invasive troons are. Anonymous 129459[Reply]

A few days ago I was contacted by a troon asking to be friends, I thought it was okay since I don't have any female friends.
I talked to him for a while until he asked me to do VC, his voice was that of an effeminate man.
The worst part is that I can't even stop talking to him or ghosting him because he could expose me as "transphobic".
I feel stupid for not noticing it sooner; it was so obvious. He was acting very "feminine" in a forced and performative.
If I don't answer he starts spamming me, also he asked me if he could do "yuri" with my character and his (I'm an artist btw).
I have to live with this torture if I want to live, I hate modern society.

Anonymous 129462

Getting exposed as not being transphobic is worse.



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Started SSRIs and feel like shit Anonymous 129440[Reply]

I just started 10mg Lexapro around a week ago. I would say I was generally functional before albeit quite miserable.

Now I sleep 15+ hours a day and still can't stay awake during classes. Too tired to get work done plus my chest is constantly tight from anxiety. In fact I feel like my anxiety and despair has actually gotten worse.

I'm starting to regret starting on meds and it's getting harder to justify waiting it out.

Anonymous 129442

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>>129440
SSRIs are mental castration. gen modern day lobotomies, shit is turning us into cattle Its not too late to get off fren

Anonymous 129445

to be fair, you've only been on the medication for a week. it's generally advised to wait it out until around the 4th week, MAYBE 6th if you can handle it. I do agree that it's practically a modern day lobotomy but frankly it's better than being suicidal

Anonymous 129455

Stop taking that shit right now and dump it in the trash. Don't listen to anyone saying you need to reduce the dose gradually or whatever. Quit now. Drink a lot of water and eat a lot of food and exercise over the next few months afterwards to really get it out of your system.

Anonymous 129457

>>129455

quitting cold turkey can be incredibly damaging and do more harm than good. don't quit cold turkey when it comes to SSRIs. tapering is important to prevent major withdrawals. please stop telling people to just "quit", this is terrible advice.

op, I'd just talk to your doctor (or get another opinion if that's an option for you). definitely do research into these medications and side effects.

Anonymous 129461

>>129455
Throwing stuff like that in trash or flushing it down the drain poisons the environment, most water purification systems aren't designed to deal with such elements. It would be best to find an apothecary that accepts expired medications for utilization.



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 129384

>>129275
me when my enemy makes a spelling mistake

Anonymous 129393

if you were going to tell me to kms you
probably should have hidden your offline status and not needed to aggressively kill stuff in a game afterward for the first time in a week. i meant that shit i said to you. i’m going to outlive you.

Anonymous 129452

Please answer my email. You were right about everything. Please just reply to me.
- NP

Anonymous 129456

I’m online now please just email me back. -NP

Anonymous 129458

I am sorry and want to talk to you again before I make a post apologizing publicly. Please stop ignoring me. - NP



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pros/cons of your bf Anonymous 105405[Reply]

can we please start a pros/cons list of the bf you are dating.

i am sick of seeing bf brag threads, we need a counterbalance with the crappy things your bf does on top of the good things. can be as little as pet peeves!
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Anonymous 128470

>>128469
>ctrl + f hot
>photo
>hotdog
>photography
>shots
>hot tempered
….

Anonymous 128898

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pros:

>helps me with everything I need, I never have to lift a finger if I need information or if I need something done

>he calls me sweet things like sweetheart, baby, etc
>he's beautiful, he has crystal blue eyes and the most beautiful eye shape
>he's okay with me liking childish things like sanrio, LPS, stuff like that
>he has the softest lips, his hugs are so warm and nice and he smells so good
>his kisses are amazing
>he holds hands with me when we're out together
>he lets me talk about my special interests freely
>we could talk for hours everyday and never get bored
>he's super smart and funny and nice
>very nerdy but in a cute sexy way
>looks at my pictures when he's doing stuff to himself
>is okay with my fetishes
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Anonymous 128901

>>128898
Keep him.

Anonymous 129422

>>128898
>we're both virgins, I really want to try sex, he doesn't want to yet
How is this a con? Also if he didnt say ily back at least hes not just just using you for sex.

Anonymous 129454

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pros:

>taller and older than me

>has a steady income and can support me
>not bad looking, he's fat but losing weight
>has the cutest kitty (picrel)
>treats me like a princess
>I actually vibe with him very well
>not cishet

cons:
>will probably get tired of me eventually
>has a shit kink (but doesn't force me to indulge in it ofc)
>wants kids in the future, I don't
>makes comments after sex that… should not be said right after sex
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I am a moid! Anonymous 129449[Reply]

I am male!

Anonymous 129453

same, how you doing bro



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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Anonymous 129419

>>129417
In some ways it might be but I find never being able to do anything you love ever again and not reuniting with any of your loved ones again to be ungodly depressing

Plus if scientific materialism were false time may work differently than just out current perception of it being "it just keeps going and going"

Anonymous 129437

>>129389
I feel you. Sometimes when i have nothiing to distract me and my mind goes there, I start having an anxiety attack. there was one timeI spiraled so badly I had to get up from my bed and find somethiing to distract me asap so I just ran to my cat for comfort

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>>129437
I've been in a crisis about this for almost 3 years straight. It's just the fact that when you die it's forever and it just keeps on going and going. My only real cope is that if there's nothing I won't know if it's been a trillion years or just like 200 years. Sometimes I think about how big numbers can get and I start spiraling thinking of how inconceivably vast eternity is

Anonymous 129450

Other women are so mean, I want to öike them but they're literally horrible to me



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Does this make anyone else mad Anonymous 129315[Reply]

This ugly swede made a YouTube video whining and e-begging about how he couldn't get a gf, and ended up marrying a 7/10 woman that saw his videos and fell in love with him. Imagine if it was an ugly woman that made a video like that. She probably wouldn't have gotten as popular as he did and definitely wouldn't have got a cute bf to wanting to marry. I fucking hate moids. They have the easiest lives ever
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Anonymous 129436

>>129435
If it was an ugl woman she'd get one side bullying her because female loneliness doesn't exist and the other side offering her horrible sex in guise of relationship

Anonymous 129443

>>129436
yup this simple truth kek

Anonymous 129444

>>129436
You are the one bullying the guy for being ugly right now, retard.

Anonymous 129446

>>129444
Go back, moid

Anonymous 129448

>>129444
no where in that comment is anon bullying him. in fact no one in this thread is ridiculing him for his looks. you seem a sensitive.

if this was a male thread and the woman was ugly, there would be comments
>calling her a whore
>describing how she deserves to die
>threating to rape her
>ridiculing her race
>with shitty edits of her in humiliation porn
>ridiculing her partner as a cuck
>detailing how they cyberstalked her sm to harass her
this thread is tame so far.



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i hate dating so much Anonymous 129407[Reply]

i hate these freaking guys who follow only fans twitch streamers or whatever it makes me sick when im talking to a guy and i find out he follows them. Or when a man tells me he has like 15 bodies it just feels like so is that what I am to you? am i another one? what did the other 5 girlfriends do so wrong by you? I know its 90% cause of just my own insecurity but I literally cant stop it. I decided to try and be normal and date but i have never hated myself more. i want to retreat into my body and never face anyone again. I'm so sick of being the pursuer too like just once it would be nice to be pursued. never date nerd guys they all fucking suck. all guys fucking suck. It doesnt help that im not pretty and i have to consciously make the effort to cope and push it to the back of my mind. when im talking to or dating a guy the thought of him looking at another girl makes me physcially sick. I literally feel insane. I feel like im one of those crazy obsssessive ppl. which to be honest i lowkey am. I had a better time single and just watching edits on instagram. its crazy cause ive always been the avoidant type
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Anonymous 129410

>>129408
it doesn’t sound like op hates men at all lol.

Anonymous 129411

>>129407
>I decided to try and be normal
I think you did the opposite. You tried conforming to the abnormality in this world. Couldn't handle the loneliness, got swayed by temptations.

Anonymous 129412

>the thought of him looking at another girl makes me physcially sick
same.

I use OF and streamers as a litmus test for men, because it's very telling about their online behaviour and relationship to women. Having multiple favourite streamers he religiously watches full streams of is obviously massively unhealthy, and if it's softcore porn or political slop reaction content, then all the worse. Paying any kind of subscription to a woman media personality is instantly a red flag and can't really be excused in the vast majority of circumstances. It's just admitting he sees sex as a transaction: he pays her money which gives him explicit approval, consent if you will, to use her for his pleasure, and allows him to make a claim to some small part of her body and life. There's a reason he's not just jerking off to free internet porn.

>I decided to try and be normal

You can still date while being weird, but it sounds like you're overcompensating by trying to date "normal" men, who are in fact degenerates that trawl dating apps and will take a shot at any woman, or vaguely woman-shaped thing, that lets them get close enough.

Anonymous 129413

>>129407
there’s absolutely no reason your boyfriend needs to be following girls who stream on twitch for any reason. like ever… loser behavior. most women who stream on twitch are goon farming for simps. & i don’t really blame them cause men are pathetic enough to actually engage in this kinda stuff.. but yeah don’t ever let him try to convince you he’s not just following/engaging with these girls cause he finds them hot. cause that’s exactly what he’s doing.

Anonymous 129439

You're not crazy for not wanting your boyfriend to have a digital harem
They will claim it's just goonslop to have a quick release but in reality they can't even stay hard during real sex because they trained to find a screen with tits in it more arousing than a real woman in front of them
I found that after porn became a global phenomena male sexuality became less distinctive and grounded as hetero/gay/bi, and more about dopamine chasing from increasingly taboo content or increasing amount of porn they expose themselves to.
After knowing that you might have a dissonance why some man who watches juggling black midget clown orgy porn still decides to date a straight woman. It's because they need an emotional pacifier and there's no better emotional pacifier than a straight woman.
Once you realize men are just slaves to quick hits of dopamine and use relationships for status and emotional labor from your part it all clicks and makes it so simple. it's really not because you're not goon material or your tits aren't big enough, it's just that your role in their life is mommying them and pacifying them and making them feel like they're not horrible people.
It doesn't make dating any less depressing though. We all still want to care and be cared for, while all men can offer is trauma



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Is your type rare? Anonymous 129374[Reply]

I feel like my type is so rare…like men that I like are only on Pinterest or are dead musicians. I look around and there is no one there that looks like someone I would spend the rest of my life with. It's so annoying, but I am hopeful that if I just think really, really hard, he might just show up. POOF!
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Anonymous 129385

i accepted being forever alone

Anonymous 129391

Yeh, my type is rare where I live. I like tall high IQ autists with soft dark brown hair and cute jew noses specifically but there are no guys like this in my fucked up city. I will probably die alone sadly

Anonymous 129394

my type is eastern european girls or asians but alot of the girls in my area are morbidly obese or lack a good personality
where i am my type is also quite rare, im too busy sleeping to talk to girls though

Anonymous 129402

i don't have a type. finding a decent person is hard though

Anonymous 129433

my type has mainly been fabricated by the amount of japanese media ive consumed my whole life, especially on my late teens. i have a liking for a type that nowadays only dresses up like that to either get girls or get internet famous. most of the moids who wants to replicate that style are hideous, but are somehow treated as a hot anime bishie despite their facial hair being visible…i think theres only one that i know of that manages to pull it off, but he comes off as an obnoxious faggot fuckboy. grim, i should stop fantasizing about this type of guy, cause he only ever existed during japan in the early 00s. and even at that time they were either whores or payed whores. not fair, too bad they look super cute…basically, my appearance type for guys is a tall skinny guy my age, who looks good with either hosuto or gyaruo hairstyles. i am a fan of mj from arashi, so a guy who resembles his looks from before he got old are very good to me as well…im also of course not just a yellow fevered otak, cause i like the skinny tall emo type too…something like shirota yu or those guys you would find in the earlier years of myspace. i mainly like asian or european men tho…however to find one like the ones ive described is pretty much impossible irl. for personality type, i would say i like a guy who would be the opposite of my personality type. like an outgoing guy, who is a extrovert. just being kind and caring is all he needs. a playful personality, just overall teasing is so hot…i have a liking for shy and more reserved guys too. i find a guy who is very emotional, quiet, and dependent just too cute. i like guys who wear glasses too. also school nurses and teachers…id say police men too but i would be afraid of him getting hurt. honestly it all just depends on what otome game im playing or bishie anime im watching to make me more into their tropes kek. my dream guy would be fitting for a yandere type, though irl that would translate badly obviously (yes i am autistic, no i am not underage) and be also a virgin. if he isnt a vigirn, then he is a whore and i obviously dont want that. too bad irl guys are all used up and walled. even their sperm is expired, probably. i want for my boyfriend to be my first in everything, so i will be his first for everything as well. i think both of us being inexperienced could make it even better…maybe thats why im into the childhood friend trope. in the end i know that this is all just a fad, no one is like that irl. also im not that Post too long. Click here to view the full text.



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