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Discord Friend Anonymous 130426[Reply]

I want to share our unfiltered thoughts and feelings. Someone I can open my heart to who will stay by my side through ups and downs on the rollercoaster that is life. So no matter what we're going through we at least have each other.
Tell me what's going on in your world and I will do the same. I am seeking a better life and am happy to support you on whatever kind of journey you are on as well.
My discord is sunshine036286

Anonymous 130427

You sound like a guy

Anonymous 130429

>>130426
Discord ask for my phone number and free burners aren't accepted anymore. There is no reason for them to ask for this unless they want to datamine me. That's not going to happen.

Tattoos usually look dirty but this one is glorious.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 130362

>>130302
same feels bad

Anonymous 130371

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I'm literally too busy being sad to properly be transphobic today. I saw this and just thought "omg a light purple ipod"

Anonymous 130382

>>130304
Similar thing happened with me. Here’s what I eventually realized. It’s pointless to waste effort and brainpower on a man who won’t do the same for you. You won’t be happy if you put his wants above your own.

Anonymous 130425

A few years ago I was casually seeing this guy. So one day we’re hanging out and he decides to put on the movie Donnie Darko. Half way through the movie he looks at me and tells me that I’m literally fucking Donnie fucking Darko. He called me a fucking incel. Anyways good movie <3

Anonymous 130428

>>130302
If it's possible, try to stand up for yourself, I know it's hard and I don't know your situation, but trying is at least something. Maybe talk to your boss and find someone in the same field that can help



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Anonymous 130386[Reply]

Do you guys ever just stop mid goon to cry? Like seeing people have sex and wanna have sex with each other just makes me want the same thing so bad.

Anonymous 130391

No but I have stopped gooning and cried before because I want a genuine human connection and love but modern men are incapable of doing that

Anonymous 130423

>>130391
Well that too, sex is apart of connecting with someone

Anonymous 130424

>>130391
don't give up, you'll met the one someday



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Anonymous 130046[Reply]

Why should I have to settle for an ugly man just because I'm an ugly woman? I hate ugly men.

Men can impregnate multiple women at once so all women should just be able to share the few actual good looking men.
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Anonymous 130408

>>130406
Men I like don't want a woman like that. I still don't know how to approach men so you just wasted my time

Anonymous 130410

>>130409
Where will I find these men then

Anonymous 130413

>>130411
That's dangerous though. I also need to know what the guy looks like and what personality he has. I have stuff I do and I will never become feminine housewife or business women, I wanna be rich and make more art

Anonymous 130418

>>130417
Whatever if your samefagging is over I want to hear about others opinions, you're clearly mentally ill and delusional

Anonymous 130422

There's something so comforting about violence. To know underneath all the haughty ideals and carefully constructed masks we all wear is a bloodthirsty primal rage is reassuring. A world of nonstop violence…one can only dream of such pleasures.



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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 130064

you will never be a woman

cuz a woman has a womb, not a man

you can never be a woman

that's tough for some folks to understand

you will never be a woman

try as you might you look like cher not snow white

and while they take our rights away

you're up at night deciding if you're queer, bi or gay
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Anonymous 130165

If you're so funny
Then why are you on your own tonight?
And if you're so clever
Then why are you on your own tonight?
If you're so very entertaining
Then why are you on your own tonight?
If you're so very good looking
Why do you sleep alone tonight?
I know
'Cause tonight is just like any other night
That's why you're on your own tonight
With your triumphs and your charms
While they're in each other's arms

Anonymous 130258

If things are gonna get better tell me a 'when' and a 'where'.
Sitting and staring in the mirror, nobody's there,
That I know, feeling so alone and I'm scared that nobody cares.
My nights consist of so many prayers.
I once had so many dreams, I once was going somewhere.

Anonymous 130295

Elwynn Forest… Home…

Anonymous 130297

Unknown, Little Scarlet.



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Anonymous 130074[Reply]

I am a schizoid woman. I spend most of my time thinking about nebulous stuff in my head and doing solitary activities such as diy stuff, tinkering with computers, trying to make various stuff and all. I do not enjoy talking to other people unless they’re invested in my interests. Usually if I speak with someone I just wait for the conversation to end and for them to go away. I have little clue as to why other people are entertained by what they are. I prefer interactions where I don’t need to adapt to the other persons sense of normal. That’s why I dislike groups and often end up antagonistic towards them unless I have a big presence. I don’t have strong attachments.

That is just who I am.
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Anonymous 130307

I remember I was trying to mess around in Danmakufu. Like shaders, you also have to use math here a lot.

Here's an old video of mine.

Anonymous 130310

>SELECT shit FROM code WHERE software = vichan
cool seething rant from someone who maintained gurochan (which runs on vichan, like CC)

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I have an rss feed now too just like all the cool kids
Needs some improvement though

Anonymous 130329

>>130328
I mostly did that cuz I am sure a certain someone else on this site has an rss feed for discord. I don’t want to fall behind them technologically.

Anonymous 130330

I do check cc manually too much also



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Anonymous 130353[Reply]

What was the hardest part of growing up for you?

Anonymous 130354

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For me I was just constantly confused, unhappy, and lonely. My youth was a rather unfortunate time of my life, I am much happier now.

Anonymous 130359

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always feeling different to other children, people constantly misunderstanding me, my emotional needs rarely being met and feeling so out of place and alienated.

Anonymous 130363

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Feeling misunderstood by my family, never outgrowing my middle school awkwardness, not being very good at picking myself up again after big disappointments and rejection, having difficulty imagining a good future for myself that wasn't an impossible fantasy where I was as beautiful as I wanted to be and as loved as I wished I'd been



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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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>>128738
No he's getting an x-ray under anesthesia. Also rude

Anonymous 129531

Im a neet for like 10months now because i had one too many mental breakdowns working with my dad. I mostly try to help around the house and take care of myself. I cook, clean, talk with friends on discord game, make art, read, but ive been going out on walks to get some exercise and fresh air. I gotta get my resume updated and start applying but im afraid to.

Anonymous 129532

fuck around on the pc, browse my phone, smoke pot, harass my cats. I do occasionally go out for walks at the park and I definitely plan on being more active in the summer

Anonymous 130256

I'm a NEET and I currently larp like I'm attending a uni studying certain subjects. Meaning, I just study something on a schedule for 1.5 hours with breaks inbetween and sometimes I try to plan what I will do. So far it made me feel better because I accomplish something every day.
Really a lot of these "subjects" are just my hobbies, but structured. Structure improves everything A LOT, it's way easier to manage your existing activities and introduce changes into your life this way. Always having planned downtime is good too.
I'll see how long this lasts.

Anonymous 130355

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>What do you do all day?
eat, jog, smoke cigarettes, read books (no young adult or "dark romance" slop), draw pictures, I mostly just draw pictures. My whole life Ive been creating characters and stories with them nonstop, its that maladaptive daydreaming bullshit I guess. I draw my characters, when Im bored of it Ill make collages for my characters, and when that gets boring too Ill write about them, listen to music that reminds me of them, or just simply fantasize about their interactions and their world. My creaions are the only topic that I am truly invested in and if I could I only would ever talk about them, but thats autistic as fuck and I am self aware enough to know that most people dont give a fuck. Most conversations with others feel like a drag, I dont care about their lives or problems and Im just looking for an appropriate moment to talk about my art



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my bfs porn addiction makes me want to cheat Anonymous 129689[Reply]

my boyfriend’s porn addiction is making me lose my mind. I first found out about it in early August but I keep finding out things he’s lying about. At first he framed it as just watching a random video then closing. Then, I found out he used to pay for OF while we were together. after this, I found out that he was doing this shit the entire time before I found out and he had a twitter account for OF egirls + bought an anime porn game. He first blamed his problem on our relationship issues before I found out he was doing it the whole time.
He said that what I sent him wasn’t “enough to look at” compared to porn despite him literally being overweight with a receding hairline (quickly apologized but still).

After I found out about the OF stuff, I started cheating on him online. I was a very popular cosplayer and used to make lots of money off of my looks, so it feels weird and makes me feel resentful because I feel like he doesn’t admire my looks like this. Flirting with girls/guys online feels like an escape from feeling like I’m ugly + feels like a gotcha. It makes me want to show off my body and for a while I even thought of doing gravure work when I move back to Japan. I feel horrible for doing this. I used to hate male attention, but I feel relief when a cute moid hits on me. it’s like a “atleast someone appreciates my looks”.

He’s been a great partner and has been treating me amazingly since but I still feel this way sometimes and I feel like a horrible person. What should I do? Am I a bad person?
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strawman^strawman type thread

Anonymous 129971

>>129689
men will never give up porn. no matter which moid u get they will always want porn so if youre not ok with it you will never have a moid.

Anonymous 130011

Go to therapy?
Porn addiction is an addiction, you can't stop it by wishful thinking and just saying "no stop that".
Think of it like training a dog, if a dog shits on your carpet or steal food from the kitchen you can yell all you want or even be abusive to the dog… but that's not how you make the dog stop, it needs conditioning and training.
Just talk with him, make him admit he has a problem and look for practical ways to end this addiction, maybe through therapy, taking part in some programs, joining some groups and whatever, he'll be extremely embarrassed but accountability can help dealing with this shit by using this embarrassment as a way to stop doing it.

The real question is if you actually love him or not, because dealing with an addict of any kind is an ordeal.

Anonymous 130140

>>130011
porn addiction is not considered a real addiction medically speaking. it's not in any real diagnostic manual because what porn consumption is considered "healthy" is extremely subjective. A behavioral approach is sometimes taken if its really, really severe and the person in question sees it as a problem/is bringing them distress. OP can have whatever boundary they wish to set but a therapist isn't going to treat them for paying for a few OF accounts and having a porn twitter like its a serious problem unless they're a wacko fake christian therapist. sorry. if their boyfriend doesn't see it as a problem, which he almost certainly doesn't, it just won't be treated as one. i know people on here are extremely antiporn, but moral opinions aside, at the end of the day it's just not the same as being a crackhead lbr and won't be treated as such.

regardless i think OP should leave because they're bf is fucking bald and ugly. hello???

Anonymous 130360

He doesn't deserve you. Leave him before you cheat on him or he cheats on you.
Or worse, he asks you to do something he saw in porn



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