Is hybristophilia common? Anonymous 166895[Reply]
So many incels claim that girls only like "bad boys", criminals, drug dealers, bastards… those kind of people. I believe most girls simply try to avoid being targeted by male violence, so they comply with their abusive mindset, but many girls wouldn't like such moids otherwise. Those who would are probably toxic theirselves, so no surprise they stay around like-minded people.31 posts and 8 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.
Personally I don't want a toxic relationship with a "thug". I would prefer a cute guy who wouldn't kill me (nor anyone else) overnight. You know, someone who cares about me. But moids can't be genuinely nice. Maybe someone, but they are hard to find. And surely they are not glorifying school shooters.
Take picrel as an example. He is Nikolas Cruz, that psychopathic moid who did Parkland shooting, self-proclaimed incel who said that "Eliott Rodger won't be forgotten". This sounds exactly like something an entitled incel would say. Yeah sure like, he withholds the power to choose whether people will forget or not someone and their actions. That's so stupid. This moid had a girlfriend, and he screw it up because he was a paranoic psychopath, although she did her "misdeeds" too (she posted his nudes on internet, and this is wrong). But no, he was an incel because women are evil and like to make men suffer. Maybe being such a psycho wasn't totally his fault, but it is quite normal that people will go away from him. His biological sister too isn't mentally stable and went in jail. And they didn't even grow up together.
Btw, I saw a thread on 4chan /pol/ and among the usual nazis there were homosexual guys lusting over him! And they were saying he is "based" and weird shit, and should be set free. Wtf. So now remind me how it's the girls who lust over criminals?? Maybe he is kinda cute, but he is an incel who killed innocent people. They complain girls only like bad boys and then they shoot people for "justice". Is it so hard to see the incoherence and the hypocrisy here?
>Incels are deeply dumb in the head and hypocritical. And they are bad boys unironically. How do you feel about this?
I used to obsess over dead murderers because they felt like characters, or celebrities, that you could project adoration onto guilt-free (I am an obsessive but I would feel guilty if I felt that way or obsessed over someone irl.) It’s different from encountering violent people personally, which removes the fantasy aspect of it. There are levels to it. People like me would be unhappy if we met the people we fantasize about, but there are hardcore hybristophiles like Karla Homolka who have attractions to dangerous men they meet and feel a desire to commit crimes with them, which is very different from having a juvenile crush on a handsome face in a newspaper or documentary.
I wouldn't call myself a (I don't even want to say the term because the female version sounds gross to me), but I'm avoidant, very disagreeable, into lifting and combat sports. I've noticed that the people who would be the most harmed by my disagreeableness and avoidance, are the most interested, because they hope to be special enough that I'll suddenly change or make an exception. The more I warn, the more they seem to become more interested, even though I can already imagine all the ways I'd unintentionally trigger their abandonment issues. With women you can clearly see the interest comes from wanting to repeat previous patterns and hoping that suddenly the cycle will be broken. Which is why I reject them, I don't want to be used as a form of self harm. I know I shouldn't be making decisions for other women and maybe it's internalized misogyny and I'm treating those types too much like a fragile teacup, but I don't like the feeling it gives me.
Scrotes on the other hand see me as a feral cat in need of taming and despite being a butch lesbian, they won't leave me alone. Then they're surprised I get violent towards them.
I don’t think Karla was a genuine hybristophile. She was just dating a guy who was a bit physically out of her league and who she was desperate to hold onto. If you read about her in depth you find she was into very corny fluffy lovey dovey type stuff. I think she was just absolutely enamoured with Paul and willing to do anything for him, it became a long drawn out sex game that eventually got out of control. Paul was also incredibly physically abusive to her (we’ve all seen the pictures of her with the two black eyes after Paul beat her with a flashlight) and I think she was so gaslighted and brainwashed into thinking it was normal and okay to behave like this because of how sure Paul was about himself and his immorality. I’m not defending or excusing her, but it’s clear she was willing to die for Paul, until she finally fell out of love with him and reported him to the authorities. I think Karla may have had NPD and Paul was just full on ASPD.
Karla and Paul are very interesting to me because of how wholesome and sweet they seemed on the outside but how evil and perverted they would be privately. The aesthetic of that era makes me nostalgic too, the mixture of cutesy hallmark Disney 90s wholesome suburban family life mixed with such evil depraved murders is so addictive and uncanny.
>>167324>she was just dating a guy who was a bit physically out of her league
Oh no you did not just say potato-face Paul is prettier than Karla. Anyways, if you listen to some of the tapes where they are discussing what they’ll do to their eventual victims, you’ll find that she very much wanted those crimes to be committed and in some cases initiated them. She picked up a girl, unprompted, for her oaf husband to molest. And she only turned against him after it became clear that they would be caught for the crimes because she got a plea bargain out of it.